So I ended up having the house to myself while I was off work. I woke up, had a cold brew, played some video games, chilled. Halfway through my coffee, I got super horny. The coffee made me so horny that I couldn't focus on the game. So I decided to have a session.

I pulled out my aneros helix syn, grabbed my lube, and put on some ethical lesbian porn. I inserted it, felt nothing. Tried to relax, but couldn't. I decided to smoke some weed, and it helped a lot. The coffee and the weed made me so horny that I was getting sucked into the porn. The noises of the kissing and the beautiful skin on women made me feel like I was there. Each nipple suck, each time they kissed eachother, each time they caressed eachother, I could feel it. It's like I had laser sight focus and whenever I tuned in more I could feel my eyes start to water. You know the feeling when your about to cry, but the type of cry when you look at something you love. It felt like that times a million.

Then, I started to feel something down there. It wasn't long before I couldn't control my contractions. I felt like someone was fucking me, like someone was massaging my guts. I was feeling p-waves that I have never felt before. I couldn't control my body anymore. Each time I tried to relax, my body wouldn't let me. By this time, I almost couldn't control my moans. I finally was able to relax again, but it wasn't long before the pleasure was just too much and I started twitching again.

Each breath I took felt like I was breathing in some kind of magic dust you see on the movies. Like I was a fairy and the magic was flowing through me. At this point, I imagined myself as a women. I started playing with my nipples and it hit me like a firecracker. I was getting huge p-waves, the eyes rolled back into my head and I started moaning loud. For some reason, pretending I'm a girl while playing with my nipples makes me go over the edge.

About 10 minutes later, I had to pee. I have to drink water through my sessions to keep me hydrated. I kept my aneros in. When I started to pee, I felt a deep emotional sensation. Like I was about to wheep. Then I felt DEEP pleasure in my prostate. The best way I could explain it is I felt like my brain was my prostate. Like my prostate was my consciousness and I was in complete bliss. No orgasm, the sensation stopped after my restroom break

When I got back in bed, every sensation I had from 5 minutes ago multiplied immensely. I felt something huge coming and I was breathing so heavy, each time I let out a breath I moaned. Then, my girlfriend came home from work early.

I never told her I practiced prostate play, she was suprised, and started to laugh. She didn't really know what I was doing, so I had to explain it to her. She didn't know what to think of it, I was so embarrassed. Then she started to caress my body. Then gave me a look like she always does when she wants to fuck. I explained to her that I didn't want her to touch my dick, she understood. She got the concept of this type of pleasure pretty quickly.

It was like she knew exactly was to do, she started giving me a massage. Around 10 seconds in, I felt like a bell rung in my head. I didn't know what was happening, I told her that I think I'm about to have a super-o. She immediately started sucking on my nipples. I shit you not, as soon as her tongue landed on my nipple I felt an explosion in my pelvis region. I couldn't believe how fucking intense this pleasure felt. I couldn't have dreamed that anything could feel like good. I was in complete sexual bliss, I couldn't control my moans at this point. This lasted for 3 minutes.

Afterwards, me and my girlfriend just started laughing together. I laughed for a good minute, then I started to cry, then she cried. There was no cum, so it was a dry-o. She asked if I wanted to go again. I said yes.

She started to suck on my nipples again. It only took less than a minute before my next o. This one was twice as better as the last. I ended up having 10 in about 45 minutes. I was completed blown away.

Little did I know, these were only mini orgasms. This is when I asked her to sit on my face. I was eating her out while she was playing with my nipples. After about 5 minutes. I feel a wave of energy in my pelvic region, like I was being being fucked by an angel. I felt every single part of my body feel the love of my girlfriend. I felt like I was coming out of my body, and fucking the soul of her. I lost control of my body and had convulsions like I was having a seizure. I was moaning so loud to the point I was yelling and couldn't control it. This lasted for about 10 minutes until I just couldn't talk it anymore. No cum, still horny.

At this point, I was ready to make love to my girlfriend. I kept my anerosn in. We fucked for about 10 minutes until I had a wet orgasm. But wow. What an experience. This was the most intense experience of my life. I'm forever grateful for my girlfriends understanding and the people in this group. This will change the way I feel about everything when it comes to my sexuality, and the way I see love.

https://i.imgur.com/dZCQFR4.png

I made this infographic based on a few sources. I hope this explains clearly the stages you might experience during a prostate orgasm. Comments and feedback welcome!

PS. The mods have approved this picture-based post.

In my previous post I talked about how unbelievable my whole body nipple orgasm experience was and many of you asked for a tutorial how I reached it.

What is a nipple orgasm I experienced?

It was a full body orgasm, that made my nipples feel unreal and whole body was twitching in pleasure, I was trying to catch a breath, was shaking and felt unbelievable euphoria that lasted for minutes. To stop the orgasm, I had to stop playing with my nipples and without any refractionary period, I could immediately do it again as many times as I wanted. Also, I didn't ejaculate and there was no post-nut period, so After the whole play I felt like a feather with tingling nipples.

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Rewiring your brain

As many of you know this process, it's called rewiring. You have to somehow tell your brain that nipples are sexual and that they lead to pleasure. This in fact is pretty easy because you just have to play with your nipples throughout the day. I was doing it with my shirt on throughout the day and since my uni is online, I spent 5h a day playing with themon one hand. I was flicking them, rubbing them, and trying to concentrate on what I feel from them.

The first days were fun, but not as pleasurable, it was just a little exciting. But in the evenings, before sleep, I would do the same thing but with my eyes closed and trying to feel every single signal from my nipples. That made me hard every time, but I tried to ignore it and continue playing. By the 4th day playing with my nipples felt more like mild jacking off, I couldn't stop playing with them (I believe that's where they rewired). It might take longer for each person, the key element here is to actually spend a lot of time playing with them and feeling everything.

Don't jack off!! That messes up the whole rewiring process, your brain interprets that it was just a simple arousal and ignores your nippples.

Achieving the orgasm

It's not very easy to do so. You have to hava a very specific mindset that is not centered around reaching the orgasm. Forget what even an orgasm is if you've never reached full body one. Then, forget you have your original genitals, they ruin everything. And don't get stopped if you for a moment don't feel as much as you did few minutes before, because this nipple orgasm sneaks up on you. Don't even attempt it with the goal of orgasm or the goal of finishing because the whole session makes you high and you will be horny even after many orgasms.

Reaching the orgasm is the hardest but the most pleasurable. Set of a few hours of free time, lay down so it's comfortable. I recommend using a massage oil that doesn't easily dry out, because there will be a lot of rubbing going on. Play with your nipples with oil while massaging them, concentrating only on them, not thinking about anything else. You will have a pleasurable massage that will make you aroused if you properly rewired your nipples. Flick them, play with them, move them around. I also tried putting on a nipple pumps to make things more sensitive and then continued playing after taking them off.

Then, after a while, you will feel sexually tense in your chest, like the pleasure is being locked up. That's where you start taking deep breaths and try to "move" that "energy" around your body (it's a mental thing, you can read about tantric masturbation). Deep breathing makes a difference. Even though at times it may feel that your nipples don't give as much pleasure as they did a minute ago, the pleasure comes back, stronger every time. You will know it's working when you start to breathe even deeper, grasp for breath or feel twitching. A good indication is pleasure, but it may be hard to messure. In a few minutes of the immense pleasure you should reach a full body orgasm which makes you twitch, feel weightless, feel euphoria that will continue until you stop rubbing your nipples. It can extend into minutes of orgasmic pleasure. Then you can continue doing the same thing and reach more orgasms throughout your play.

If you're on the verge of reaching an orgasm and you get all pleasured but fully tensed up, don't give up! One thing that did help is a mindset to enjoy the moment, not caring about orgasm. Also, as I have mentioned don't get fooled by sensitivity of your nipples. They may feel less sensitive during an intense session, but they are tricksters and the immeasurable pleasure may sneak up on you, so don't stop playing!

Key things once again: • Don't jack off • Breathe deeply • Don't rush • Only concentrate on your nipples, ignore your penis • Use oil to lengthen the play • Don't think about reaching an orgasm • Don't let your nipples fool you • Don't give up

Good luck everyone! If you have any specific questions, write them in the comments or DMs, I will answer them all! I want everyone to feel what I felt yesterday and make nipples the new sex organ, like prostate became!

Anyone else tired of seeing this referred to as “sissygasms”? It’s just prostate play for fuck’s sake. It’s your body. Nothing sissy about that. Sorry about the rant.

I wanted to offer some words of encouragement for people new to prostate pleasure. I was in what I thought was the worst time of my life and things turned out ok. If I can do it, you can do it.

3 years ago this month I had septic shock from a flesh eating bacteria infection I got from a gross swimming lake. I'll spare the details not relevant to this, but needless to say my penis and testicles went necrotic and had to be removed. I thought I had reached the end or the road. 1 year in and I actually tried to end things, and I'm so glad I didn't go through with it all the way. Life is good. I got on male hormones and T and my life became more normal.

I started trying prostate play early on but I could never figure it out. I tried everything. What I was missing in all of that was just relaxing. It took me over a year to find the right spot. Yes a year! After that it took almost another year to gently focus on that spot and let the feelings grow. You CAN'T rush the process. Don't give up. Keep at it and accept many failures. What eventually got me there was an aneros combined with rubbing on my perineum.

I can now have full blown Os after 20 minutes of play and thinking about sexy things. As crazy as this sounds, the orgasm is stronger than anything I ever had with my penis. Would I want my penis and balls back? Yes in a heartbeat. But I don't need them back.

So anyway, don't give up people. Life is good and worth living. Relax and accept it will take some time. Good luck!

Hello Everyone,

This is my first time posting in this group. I wanted to share an extensive guide to some tips, tricks, and methods that have worked for me with prostate pleasure. I also apologize if any of this information is redundant to older posts in the thread, I did not do my due diligence to scour through historical posts before writing this. I will preface by saying that I have not experienced the infamous Super-O, but I have experienced intense prostate pleasure in several forms, and many sessions resulted in prostate quivering, shaking legs, leaking of prostate fluids, and a HFWO. I have tried several techniques over the last 2 years of my journey, including many of the most popular toys such as the Njoy Pure Wand, Aneros products, and the humble dildo (which this guide focuses on).

Like some other prostate enthusiasts, I have not had much luck with the Aneros products. I feel that I have too much ingrained desire for instant gratification to overcome the seemingly long journey that is mastering the Aneros technique. Though, my fear of giving up prematurely will keep me trying for years to come. I've tried the Helix Syn Trident model, and ordered a Progasm model. I feel the Progasm may provide the added pressure and depth needed to target my prostate more effectively, at the cost of a potentially higher learning curve. I will keep monitoring my progress on this.

I've also had several sessions with the Njoy Pure wand. My best experiences have produced leg shaking and some prostate fluid leaking. However, most of my experience was characterized by difficulty finding the right pressure, technique, and mental state. For me, the smaller end works better for stimulation without putting too much pressure on the prostate.

Those things considered, I have had FAR (FAR) more pleasurable sessions from using dildos, specifically the suction cup wall mounted variety. I've tired over 40 different dildos, both for anal pleasure and prostate pleasure. Surprisingly, the best experiences I have had resulted from using relatively inexpensive, firm silicone suction cup dildos. The firm density works well to provide the right pressure on my prostate while using the techniques I will outline later on. Some examples of the models that have worked very well for me are the following...

Ruse Shimmy - larger, longer, smooth texture

Colours Pleasures 5 - smaller, firmer, more textured (may be too textured for some)

Colours Pleasures 7 - same model, larger and longer.

King Cock Elite - softer, medium sized, smooth texture, dual density (may not be firm enough for some)

These are some great starting points for finding the right dildo for this technique. They all have great suction cups and have been very pleasurable for me, especially the ruse shimmy, which is the best dildo I have tried for prostate pleasure. The techniques and tips I use and recommend are as follows...

1.) The right lube is key for comfort, relaxation, maintaining focus, and preventing injury. I've "developed" a blend of lube that I absolutely love for use with silicone dildos. Take one part cold-pressed, organic, unrefined coconut oil with one part Sliquid Sassy water based lubricant and mix in a bowl until it turns to a creamy paste. This mixture is very long lasting, slimy, moisturizing, and leaves you smelling like coconuts!

2.) Preparation - I usually go at least 24-48 hours without traditional masturbation before a prostate session. Prior to the session, I will get very aroused, usually by watching porn for 15-20 minutes while masturbating and bringing myself close to orgasm several times. I believe this gets the prostate aroused and ready for stimulation.

3.) Locate a room in the house that has minimally textured walls and optionally, linoleum or tile floors; kitchen and bathroom work well. I have always had my best sessions when I know I am either alone or wont be interrupted. It is great if you have partner that wants to watch or participate in some way, and I have had great experiences with pegging, prostate massage, and mutual anal masturbation before. But for beginners, I often find that group play provides more of a distraction than productive arousal when you don't first understand your own body and pleasure triggers. For setup, I will have my bowl of premixed "coconut slime", a scented candle, a large standing mirror for added arousal, a towel and napkins, my suction cup dildo of choice, and several other didoes for warming up. I have a fun collection of artisanal dildos from Bad Dragon, Uberrime, etc, that I love. If you use a mirror, the idea is to set it up in a location where you can watch yourself play.

4.) Begin with warming yourself up with a dildo. Generally I like to start by riding some of my softer silicone dildos on the floor while watching myself in the mirror. Lube up a dildo of choice and go very slow. The goal here is not prostate stimulation, but to adequately stretch, lubricate all the right areas, build arousal, and provide light prostate stimulation via anal penetration to get blood flowing to the right spots. Usually, I will go for about 10-20 minutes to really get relaxed and aroused. My best sessions usually were preceded by heightened arousal at this stage (getting erect or heightened anticipatory feelings).

5.) We now move to direct prostate stimulation. Select your suction cup dildo of choice, find a spot on the wall that is clean and free of moisture. DO NOT get any lube on the wall or the bottom of the suction cup at this point. There is nothing worse for a session than a dildo sliding all around the wall, killing precious concentration and time. Fix the dry dildo to the dry wall at a height of somewhere between the hip bone and the pubic bone while you are standing up straight. I find the best height is one where I can stand on my toes slightly to be able and insert the dildo pointing perpendicular to the wall (3 <---0|). Next, you can lube up the dildo and slowly begin insertion. Usually a few rounds of lubing and re-inserting will help coat your butt adequately. There are several factors of this technique that will influence the resulting build of pleasure: Angle, Speed, Depth, and Anal Contractions.

Angle - For this method, angle of dildo entry of your thrusts is the most important factor for controlling prostate pleasure. In a standing position with a dildo on the wall, having the dildo angled up toward your belly button will provide more anal stimulation and light prostate stimulation (great for the first 5 minutes of thrusting). A straight pointed dildo (perpendicular to the wall) will provide moderate prostate stimulation and pressure. A dildo pointed down toward the base of your penis/balls will provide intense prostate pressure and stimulation. You will notice several feelings that will tell you if you are at too much of an angle, or hitting the right spot. If you feel poking or pain, you may be at too much of a downward pointing angle. Usually when I get the right spot, I feel a sense or pressure similar to having to pee, or the feeling of tingles and tightness right before you ejaculate. This feeling will radiate down through to the tip of your penis, often if you find the perfect spot. Experimenting with angles has been the largest learning curve for me.

Speed - Prostate play is different than penile stimulation. Faster is often not better in my experience. I usually start my sessions slow and work my way up to the beat of Staying Alive by the Bee Gees (however, I wouldn't recommend singing this while engaging in the throws of prostate stim, unless disco era is your kink).

Depth - Depth of your thrusts is another tricky thing to experiment with. For the first year of exploration, I always went pretty shallow with my thrusts because of all the information stating that prostates are usually only 2-3 inches inside the anal wall. However, it actually wasn't until I started thrusting deeper that I began dramatically improving my sessions. I find that the perfect depth for me is when my butt touches (claps) the wall behind the dildo on each thrust. I believe this allows the head of the dildo to go PAST the prostate slightly, and graze along its entire length on the outstroke. This is key for milking out prostate fluid as the session gets more heated.

Anal Contractions - I experimented with all of these these variables for many sessions. However, my sessions always were a mixed bag or good, great, or complete failures. It was not until I started incorporating anal contraction into my dildo thrusting that my sessions were more controlled, and consistently productive. As many know, contractions are the driving force behind the use of the Aneros products. Additionally, before traditional penile orgasm, contracting and tightening the anal and pelvic floor is one of the best way to sharply build arousal, and this happens involuntarily before cumming. My first 10 minutes of thrusting is always characterized by relaxing my anal muscles (not contracting). In other words, while you thrust, imagine you are pushing/squeezing the dildo OUT of your butt while you let it penetrate you. This technique is great for relaxing your butt and will help you take larger toys. Starting off while constantly pushing out also helps build a baseline stimulation of the prostate without overstimulation. Usually, within about 10 minutes of experimenting with thrusting, I will begin incorporating contractions into my thrusts. Contractions are the opposite (i.e., think squeezing your butt/tightening your anal canal to try and keep the dildo inside. Additionally, think trying to stop the flow of pee while peeing). Tightening of the anal wall allows your butt to tighten and increases pressure on the prostate with each thrust. Some of my favorite patterns for contractions are 1.) alternating 5 thrusts of contraction, 5 thrusts of pushing out; 2.) holding the contraction; 3.) contracting sharply at the deepest part of each thrust (when your butt touches the wall).

The Final Technique and Recommendations - My session a few days ago was the best session I have ever had. I used the Ruse Shimmy dildo as my primary suction cup weapon for the session. I followed everything outlined steps 1-5 outlined above at the beginning of my session. For the prostate pleasure stage, I started with thrusting slowly with the dildo pointed up towards my belly button for a while. This gave a a great warm up and allowed time to distribute lubricant. I switched angles to a perpendicular/straight pointing thrust while maintaining a "pushing out" anal relaxation. My strokes were slow, but gradually increased in depth. As I went deeper with each stroke, to where my butt started hitting the wall, I felt the head of the dildo firmly massaging and pressing my prostate. The pressure began to radiate down my shaft and tip of my penis. I also felt a tightness and warmth in my core and the tops of my legs as well. After about 10 minutes, the pleasure built to the point of my legs shaking a bit and some small amounts of cum leaking from my penis. If you are doing it right, your dick may/will also become stiff, but not quite traditionally erect (almost like the blood is being forced into it). This is the point where I began to engage my anal contractions and shifting the angle of my thrusts so the dildo pointed slightly down towards the base of my penis. I uses the 5 thrusts of contracting, 5 thrusts of pushing out method for about a minute. Almost instantly, my dick became noticeably erect and the feeling of "about to cum" spread sharply to the tip of my penis and down my shaft. Prostate fluid was shooting and leaking in large streams at this point and the pleasure was incredible. At this point, I had to stop and take a mini break because of the intensity, but the benefit is once you reach this stage you can easily jump right back in where you left off. However, it's generally best to keep going if you can and not break away from building the pleasure. I easily went for another 15 minutes of experimenting with angles and contractions at a consistent speed and deep depth, the whole time watching myself in the mirror to build arousal. The waves of pleasure felt like they were crashing over me. Before long, the arousal I was experiencing mounted in such intensity that I had built a full erection. The prostate pleasure changed at this point into a more blunt and focused feeling. I felt strong waves of pleasure radiating thorough my shaft seconds before I had my first HFWO and sprayed huge streams of cum all over the floor. It was the most incredible orgasm of my life! I took a breath and laid down on my towel in a daze and let my thoughts wonder through the endless spaces surrounding us all.

Best of Luck on your journey!

10/14/2022

EDIT based on new experience

Hello All,

Wanted to post an edit on this with some new insights and ideas to add. I will keep it concise.

Lube - My new favorite lube is X-Lube for all things anal and prostate play. It is far longer lasting than coconut oil or any other water based lube I have tried. In addition, I have noticed that the use of coconut oil on silicone toys tends to leave an invisible oily residue on the toy that leaves stains on toy storage compartments/objects that the toy rests against. Using X-Lube avoids this issue. One bottle also makes sooo much lube, overall tending to be much cheaper in the long run. I use one capful of powder in the provided cap to 2.5 cups of warm water and mix following the instructions on package. You can mix in a cyclist squeeze water bottle like the ones from camelbak. You can purchase X-Lube from Mr. S Leather online shop. There may be a few other sellers in the states as well.

Technique #1 - this method that works well for me now is finding a toy and movement that causes the toy to rub the prostate from back to front (deeper to shallower in terms of depth). There are certain toys Ive found that do this well (see the next section on toys). This technique effectively milks the prostate, causing prostate fluid to be squeezed out and leads to very intense pleasure rather quickly. Pushing out (like you are trying to pee) while thrusting helps squeeze the prostate fluid out and helps create that coveted slow drip from penis that is both a turn on visually and objectively pleasurable. Contracting your pelvic muscles (imagine stopping yourself from peeing) after a bit of pushing out can help stimulate very intense prostate pleasure waves and cause prostate fluid that has built up in your urethra to flow out forcefully.

Technique #2 - I have been experimenting with a new position that works great for prostate play with curved toys in particular. This one is actually a floor/seated position. I created some helpful diagrams using a 3d model (several images)

https://imgur.com/a/tgd9GWZ

The idea with this position is to use a toy that has a moderate curve and ride the toy with the curve pointing up towards your ceiling / bellybutton. Use your hands which are positioned behind you and your hips to ride the toy while allowing the tip or curve of the toy to rub across your prostate. As I mentioned before, I find that deeper thrusts allow the toy to go past the prostate and then rub across its entirety as you thrust the toy out and your hip up towards the ceiling. You can change the angle of the curve by leaning back towards your hands (less curve intensity) or more weight towards your knees (more curve intensity). Somewhere in here in this range of angle and thrust depth I begin to feel pressure/need-to-pee sensation signaling I am hitting the prostate well. I find that in this position, pushing the dildo out of your butt with your anal muscles (same technique as trying the use the bathroom), allows more stimulation of the prostate and really gets the prostate fluid dripping out of your dick. Continue pushing out for a while while you are thrusting, and throw in a few anal muscles “clenches” (like trying to stop yourself from peeing) as well to change up the stimulation. Sometimes after pushing out for a while, and then switching to clenching, all of the built up prostatic fluid that has built up in the urethra will get squeezed out in one shot, which feels amazing and is always visually arousing. The best toy I have found for this technique is a bad dragon Sleipnir (small size in medium density, or medium size in soft density) this toy also can be custom ordered with a suction cup for use with the wall mounting method.

Toys - I have experimented with lots of new toys since posting this, and also gained more experience with larger toys and toys of different shapes. I have amassed quite a collection of fantasy toys as well, many of which work amazing for prostate play and the technique above. Some of my new recommendations include (in order from most generally effective first)

Bad Dragon Sleipnir (medium or soft density) with suction cup

Bad Dragon Vector (medium density) with suction cup

Bad Dragon Chance Unflared (medium density)

Bad Dragon Habu (medium density) with suction cup

Bad Dragon Nova (medium density) with suction cup

The Sleipnir and vector/chance in particular are really amazing for the techniques described above. Their blunt heads can really rub the entire prostate and squeeze it from back to front with each thrust. Sometimes I can cum within 30 seconds using these toys with the above method. Happy to explain further, give advice, or elaborate on any techniques upon request. Thanks!

I love pegging my boyfriend and using toys to stimulate his prostate. Recently I’ve been wanting to level things up and completely blow his mind, so I started researching prostate orgasms. Thanks to all the advice and content on this sub, we were able to get there on the first try!

I didn’t want him to feel pressured, so I told him that I wanted to learn how to give him a prostate orgasm, but it can take a long time to figure out. I made it clear that the only goal was to learn his body make him feel good.

I used a njoy pure wand and took it really slow. With the big end inside him, I started side by side, holding him with one arm and using the other to reach down and hold the wand. I just focused on finding his prostate and getting the pressure right as first. We were getting somewhere before needing to apply a bit more lube, and that’s when he told me that it felt like he was getting kind of close, but then he stopped himself because he felt like he was going to pee. I told him that needing to pee was a good sign, and that I wanted him to follow that sensation and let it happen. When he expressed concern over pissing on my bed, I told him that’s what the water proof blanket is for lol. I asked him to trust me, and gave him a bunch of reassurance that even if he did pee on my bed, it was what I wanted him to do.

For round two, I sat on his chest and focused on keeping my wrists and arms completely ridged, while rocking my body back and forth in order to keep the rhythm and pressure as consistent as possible. This quickly got us back at the point where he felt like he had to pee. I talked him through it and told him to let go, and that’s when the first orgasm hit. I started slowing down but he told me to keep going. So I did, and that’s when the second orgasm hit. This time he started leaking what I think was prostate fluid (it was mostly clear and thicker than urine).

In the end, we were able to achieve 3 more rolling orgasms! It was absolutely incredible, and I’m so grateful for all the guidance on this sub. I’m also really honored that my boyfriend was able to relax and trust me enough in order to have this experience.

Some of our prep: I asked him to not orgasm for several days ahead of our time together. I used an anal dilator and plug on him ahead of time, so that the wand went in easier. I had him drink 16 oz of water right before we started. And finally, I put the toy in a heating pad before starting so that it was all warm for him.

My journey into prostate play started from the sneaky finger of my now ex girlfriend. In the middle of a heated night of crazy sex, she reached back and snuck a finger deep in right as I started to finish. To my delight and very much surprise, I did not hate that. Lol

That finger is what started the spark in me. I wanted to know more about this and why I enjoyed it so much. As I started digging through mountains of info online, I came across the Aneros. I read stories and was very much intrigued by the mountains of pleasure that men claimed to have from such a simple looking device.

So I ordered the MGX, a good starter one for newbies. I read the instructions, I read people’s stories of what to do. But to nothing seemed to really ever happen. So I threw it away. Then the itch would come back, “you need to try again.” I kept reading more examples of what to do, for some reason it just wasn’t clicking for me. I struggled and threw away and rebought an Aneros probably 8-10 times over the course of 7 years. I was struggling bad. Until one day….

I came across some chat forums where I was able to get much better feedback. I even had a mentor so to speak. Who would give me exercises and mindsets to achieve toward the goal of orgasm and eventually the so called Super-orgasm.

With his instructions I achieved a mild orgasm in about 2 days and I had a full blown super-o in about 2 weeks. I was very lucky that it finally all connected for me. I get the struggle that guys have…..it takes time. I toiled for 7 years…..so I was thrilled when it finally happened. Here is what I learned to make it all click and connect for me.

Mind set is extremely important, I kept having expectations, where I was chasing the orgasm as they say. With this mind set you will struggle very hard. Here are the key takeaways that worked for me.

*have no expectations *enjoy every feeling no matter how small *relax *slow deep breathing *don’t tense up *it’s ok if your body tenses from pleasure *you may not know what to do, but your body will, so let it.

So after taking in all my homework notes, this was my session in to the world of a hands free orgasm.

I got myself ready for a night of pleasure and passion. I took a nice warm shower, dried off, still naked, I dimmed the bedroom lights and laid down on the bed.

I took my Aneros and heavily lubed it up and inserted. I gently caressed my chest, nipples becoming aware of every sense and feeling on my body.

I began my sphincter contractions. I would squeeze and hold. I would count to 60 then relax, squeeze and hold for 80 and relax. I would in crease holding an extra 20 seconds. I would also visualize and see the Aneros pressing gently on my prostate which would arise me more.

After about 8-10 rounds of squeezes, I would squeeze and hold one last time. But this time I would slowly relax and as I did, my bodies muscles now fatigued would shake and quiver. This would make the Aneros dance on my prostate which felt amazing. I would hold the contractions once I felt this. Nice slow deep breaths.

Soon the pleasure began to grow. It would increase and get stronger. It kept getting more and more intense. Finally I couldn’t tell if I was squeezing any more. My body had taken control. I could feel waves of muscle contractions around my prostate. I started to talk out loud, like I was talking to my prostate.

“I can take this”. “I want this” “more”. And the flood gates opened. My hands began to shake, I felt a warmth and vibration grow outward from my prostate. My arms were no shaking as were my legs. A warm blanket felt like it was wrapping around me. I was leaking a ton of precum. I was having contractions in my penis, at my sphincter and around my prostate. I was in total bliss, with my eyes closed I began to see green and blue colors. It was so beautiful. I was also a little scared as it was so intense and I was not in control. But it was one of the most amazing experiences of my life.

I feel compelled to make another post about my recent discovery. The discovery of the elusive anal orgasm. It totally rocked my world. I feel like a 14 old girl that discovered masturbation for the first time. Penetrative sex in porn now turns me on much more and very differently.

On the 19th I could confidently say that I had my first. I wasn't sure until then. I though about nothing else for the last week. From the 21st to the 24th I spend my entire days and nights fucking myself into a stupor. Taking only breaks to catch my breath to find the energy to come again. I even forgot to eat. Every day I managed to come harder as the day before. I remember there was that eureka moment at the beginning. I understood now where to go so it was easy to walk the path. Also the pressure was off since I knew I could do it. Things moved quickly then. I learned how to orgasm without my fucking machine soon. Just laying on my side fucking my hole with a dildo manually I could easily and quickly come by using the correct technique and hitting the right spots. I also found that I wouldn't need drugs to orgasm anymore. An orgasm without cannabis is sharper and clearer in my opinion. I can edge between anal orgasms without that impeding my ability to come from my butt. Even immediately after ejaculation I'd hop on the machine and let it make me come. I'm now convinced that I could even be brought to orgasm against my will. If somebody would tie me to a bed and fuck me in the right way I would inevitably come. Instinctively.

The Feeling.

For the longest time I was desperately searching in my butt for the same kind of pleasure I felt when stroking my penis. I know now that this was the false path I was walking on. The pleasure is not as imminent, not as clear and obvious. Imagine the feeling of getting a deep massage or getting thoroughly tickled. At first it feels uncomfortable, it's tender, you feel vulnerable, your immediate response is to resist to make it stop but once you give in you can appreciate how satisfying it feels. That the closest analogy I can think of. Giving in, not being afraid but embracing that overwhelming feeling.

The orgasm is dry.

It's probably the fault of r/CumFromAnal that I thought an anal orgasm has to involve ejaculation. Maybe it is for some people. But I think on that subreddit you mostly see people having a conventional penile orgasm while staying soft and milking their prostate. Maybe stroking their cocks off camera. I could do that but it wouldn't feel that good. Kinda like a ruined orgasm.

The orgasm is wet.

It's embarrassingly wet for me. In a different way. During orgasm at first I tense up hard and precum starts to flow out. It doesn't leak but gets forcefully pumped out of me with every stroke of the dick penetrating me. Depending how hard I come and how deep I get fucked I start to piss myself. Not a little squirt, during the hardest orgasms I empty my bladder on the floor. I even put a little bowl down there to catch most of it. It's kinda hilarious. I don't want to, but at this point I've lost control of that part of my body.

The Technique.

It's difficult to say what the right technique is. This is one example that works for me. The machine is positioned at an height a little above my butt while in doggy position with the dildo pushing at a downward angle. The idea is to let the head of the dildo that is pointing at a steep angle towards your penis push all the way along your rectal wall from the very beginning of the anus over you prostate deep up to your bladder. Constant stimulation and pressure is key here. I had my biggest and longest orgasm with a very deep massage, I almost feel like my innards are getting rearranged. A high stroke length is critical for me. I read accounts that you don't need to push very deep. Not the case for me. I'll take the full 17cm of rubber cock and could take more. I really like it when I balls hit me and the full force of the motor pushes against my body. While being fucked like that I like to do a couple of things. Complexly relax my entire body. I lay belly down on my weightlifting bench. My arms loosely hanging down on each side. Being completely passive helps to concentrate on the sensation of getting fucked. I also spread my cheeks with my hands to help with that. The bench is also there so that the dildo can squeeze the prostate against it greatly intensifying the sensation. Or I work with the dildo opening and closing, pushing and contracting to guide the dildo the right way. Another thing is to push my chest with my arm of the bench and to arch my back even more. That way the angle of attack get steeper hitting my prostate at an angle closer to 90°.

BRACE! BRACE! BRACE!

When I finally feel it coming I really need to grab onto something. I grab on to my bench for dear life tense up all the muscles in my body to the max and don't let go until the orgasm passes through and out of me. I desperately push outwards. I push so hard that I think I could pass out. An orgasm can take quite a while. I recorded my orgasms and at one occasion I came for at least four and a half minutes. I might post it later if this gets enough interest. I think I came even longer. Sometimes it's hard to say where one orgasm ends and where the next begins. They build on each other. The longer you get fucked the harder and longer you come. In those moments you feel an exhilarating loss of control, you can't stop coming, can do nothing but coming. You come so hard it's painful but the pain is pleasure. When the waves finally die down I feel dazed and exhausted my body totally wet from sweat but most often still very horny. Only when my body is almost failing me I'll take a break. I'm a very athletic person. I run, I have a road bike, I row, I lift weights I even did a triathlon last summer. One can say I'm used to physical activity. Still the day after my muscle are sore and tender just like a day after training and I feel a burning tender sensation in my crotch. I very much like that feeling. It's so good.

Sorry I talked so much. Typing this made me really horny. I'm gonna get fucked now. Hope this is helpful to somebody.

TL;DR: I became an orgasm craving butt slut.

There are no proven health benefit to stopping masturbating. Numerous studies have shown this.

This subreddit is pro-masturbation. You are able to partake in No-Nut-November if you wish, just remember that you should NEVER force anyone else to quit or make them feel bad for not participating. This is not the subreddit for that sort of thing.

The core concept of NNN started as a way to spread the message that ejaculation and pornography are negatively affecting your health. It was greatly pushed by the NoFap subreddit.

There is absolutely no reliable evidence to prove there are any benefits aside from the fact that not ejaculating for a while can help "improve your sperm's quality" (lessen the mortality and deformations, etc) when you do finally do the deed. All these other "mental" and physical benefits are a load of nonsense. Total abstinence can lead to epididymal hypertension, which can cause discomfort. In fact, ejaculation has PROVEN benefits such as better sleep quality, better mental health, it reduces stress and can decrease risk of prostate cancer. Also, the same as all movements, there are some extremists out there that went as far as sending threats to porn sites as well as sex workers.

With all that said, this subreddit has ALWAYS been pro-masturbation. We send anyone who does not want to masturbate or talks about it being negative or unhealthy to /r/nofap.

What real research says

• Ejaculating more often is linked with lower prostate cancer risk. A large cohort study that followed nearly 32,000 men found those reporting more frequent ejaculation had a lower chance of being diagnosed with prostate cancer, especially low-risk disease. This is observational, so it does not prove cause and effect, but the association points the opposite way from blanket abstinence. Source: Rider et al., European Urology (2016).

• Masturbation is normal and can support well-being. Mainstream medical sources note benefits like stress relief, relaxation, pain relief, and sometimes better sleep. Source: Cleveland Clinic.

• There is real biology behind the “feel better” effect after orgasm. Reviews describe neurochemical changes during orgasm, including oxytocin and endogenous opioids, which help explain post-orgasm calm and closeness. Sources: Indian J Endocrinol Metab review on oxytocin, broader reviews on sexual expression and health.

• Sleep may improve after sexual activity, solo or partnered. Survey research suggests better sleep following orgasm, and a 2025 pilot with objective measures reported improved sleep efficiency and less time awake after sexual activity, including masturbation. Sources: Lastella et al. 2019 survey; Lastella et al. 2025 pilot.

• For women, regular sexual stimulation can help genital tissue health across menopause. Patient and clinical resources note that sexual activity, with a partner or via masturbation, increases blood flow and can help keep vaginal tissues more comfortable. Sources: Jean Hailes for Women’s Health; related menopause guidance.

• Safest sex there is. Solo sex carries no risk of pregnancy and no risk of STIs when you are alone. Mutual masturbation is lower risk than intercourse, and basic hygiene and barriers reduce risk even further. Sources: Planned Parenthood; NHS sexual health resources.

About the “day-7 testosterone spike” myth

People often cite a tiny 2003 paper to claim abstinence boosts testosterone. That paper was retracted in 2021 for overlapping with an earlier publication by the same authors. Even in that study, any change was brief, not a sustained performance-boosting increase. There is no strong evidence that long-term abstinence raises baseline testosterone in a meaningful way. Sources: Journal of Zhejiang University–SCIENCE A retraction note; PubMed record.

Bottom line

If someone wants to skip orgasms for a month for personal reasons, that is their call. Just do not dress it up as health advice. The balance of evidence says masturbation is normal, generally safe, and can come with benefits for mood, stress, sleep, sexual function, and maybe even prostate health.

Sources

Rider JR, Wilson KM, Sinnott JA, et al. Ejaculation Frequency and Risk of Prostate Cancer. European Urology (2016). https://www.europeanurology.com/article/S0302-2838(16)00377-8/fulltext PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27033442/

Cleveland Clinic. Masturbation: Facts & Benefits (2022). https://my.clevelandclinic.org/health/articles/24332-masturbation

Magon N, Kalra S. The orgasmic history of oxytocin: love, lust, and labor. Indian Journal of Endocrinology and Metabolism (2011). PMC: https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC3183515/

Gianotten WL, et al. The Health Benefits of Sexual Expression. International Journal of Impotence Research (2021). https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10903655/

Lastella M, et al. Perceptions of Sex as a Sleep-Promoting Behavior (survey study, 2019). PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/30886838/ PDF: https://researchnow-admin.flinders.edu.au/ws/files/33872443/Lastella_Sex_P2019.pdf

Lastella M, et al. A pilot study exploring the impact of sexual activity on sleep (objective measures, 2025). PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/40016080/ Article page: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352721824002614

Jean Hailes for Women’s Health. Vulvovaginal atrophy (patient resource, updated 2025). https://www.jeanhailes.org.au/health-a-z/vulva-vagina/vulval-vaginal-conditions/vaginal-atrophy

Planned Parenthood. Is Masturbation Healthy? https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/sex-pleasure-and-sexual-dysfunction/masturbation/masturbation-healthy

NHS resources on masturbation and safer sex: Sexual Health Sheffield NHS factsheet: https://www.sexualhealthsheffield.nhs.uk/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Masturbation-web.pdf Sexual Health Bromley NHS page: https://www.sexualhealthbromley.co.uk/sex-and-relationships/sex/masturbation

No Nut November background. Wikipedia: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/No_Nut_November

Jiang M, Xin J, Zou Q, Shen JW. A research on the relationship between ejaculation and serum testosterone level in men (2003) – Retracted. PubMed: https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12659241/ Retraction note (2021): https://link.springer.com/article/10.1631/jzus.2003.r236

It's actually very easy to have a coregasm, and it feels 100x more intense and better than a normal org**sm and lasts way longer. You also feel it throughout more of your body than just your d*k.

This guide is for men, but I'm assuming it works for women as well. Most on the internet talking about coregasms on the internet seem to be women, but nobody really talks about intentionally getting a coregasm. I'm very surprised that very few people know about this. Many seem to think that the coregasm is some unattainable fabled myth, but it is actually quite easy to achieve if you know how.

Step 1: Mast*bate normally until you know you are very close to org**sm. This is an extremely important step. You will not feel the coregasm build up if you don't do this first.

Step 2: Stop touching your dk and immediately begin doing an exercise (static works) that heavily involves the core and abs. There are different options here. Pull ups work really well and chin ups work even better. L-sit chin ups involve your core even more, so they will make you feel the coregasm buildup the fastest and most intense. However, if you are not strong enough for pull ups, an easier method is by sitting on a chair, and pushing yourself up with your hands and doing a static knee tuck hold. If you don't understand what I mean, take a look at this image. https://calisthenicsfamily.b-cdn.net/wp-content/uploads/2019/10/tuckedplanche.png You can also lie down and do leg raises.

Step 3: As you work your core, you will feel a very sexual pressure build up in your pelvic area. Edging like this feels way better than normal edging because it's more intense and you actually feel the pleasure build up inside you and it will you drive you insane. Remember, the ab-work here IS the edging. You will not need to touch your dk again once you have started the ab-work (though you can definitely combine the two if like). Abdominal pressure is caused as a result of the ab-work and this pressure somehow stimulates the groin extremely much. The feeling that you are feeling will build up. You can keep edging like this by pausing sometimes. Keep repeating this cycle until you decide you are ready to experience a full coregasm.

Step 4: Put something on so you don't have to clean up after. Do the ab work again but this time don't stop. Just keep holding it. For pull ups, just holding yourself at the top or halfway suffices if you lack strength. The pleasure will build up and past the point of no return and you will have the most earth-shattering, insanely pleasurable org**sm of your life (at least compared to normal ones, I have no idea what a prostate o feels like), which you will feel in your entire body. The coregasm really takes over maybe similar to how I've seen prostate org**sms described here. You will be tempted to let go and relieve the tension on your muscles and core, but keep holding it for maximum pleasure and as long a coregasm as possible. Your abs will be very sore after. It's probably the best abworkout there is.

If you feel so inclined, try this and report back here. It would be interesting to hear about your guys' experience with coregasms and hear a comparison to that other stuff you guys do here. Maybe you could attempt achieving a coregasm at the same time as a prostate orgasm. That sounds very promising and would be very interesting to hear about.

Hey,

The Idea stems from this thread:

https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/12twejb/how_i_have_success_in_every_session/

At first I was kinda doubtful at first but let me tell you: It blew my Njoy Wand sessions out of the water. From zero to ultimate milking and mindblowing prostate orgasms.

So insert the small end of the Njoy Wand right to the point where it feels kinda good (that's the location of your prostate) rotate the wand 180 degress and angle the handle in the general direction of your buttcrack. And that's it!

Even though it seems counterproductive at first and is kinda hard to imagine how the wand would stimulate the prostate that way (I attached an image to help you visualize how it's actually applying pressure to your prostate in this position), it actually stimulates a much bigger prostate area (now it not only uses the bulb but also a large portion of the handle for direct stimulation; its also a great way to stimulate the prostate for folks who can't seem to find their prostate), excerts more pressure and you'll have much more controll. As you can now lay on your side and move the wand by reaching to your back (also visualized in the image), it's much easier on your arms as well.

Now it's also possible to use it almost hands-free as the slightest movement of your hips will create a distinct come-hither motion. So it's possible to "fuck" the wand by holding the wand in place and moving your hips up and down.

Because it exerts pressure on such a big area, I had multiple prostate orgasms in a matter of seconds. I was also able, and that is a big one as this was a goal of mine, to "milk" myself. I was not only leaking precum, but actual cum. That never happened to me before with prostate play so I'm incredibly excited.

Edit: The best position is laying on your side.

The mentioned image: https://imgur.com/a/6C85yPH

Intro

Some time ago I wrote the post “My way of multiple Super Os” here on reddit where I described how I accidentally found out how to have multiple Super Os and how I learned to reproduce them. Since then I had a very sweet time enjoying this new skill and trying to understand it better.

The joy of these sessions were always different. I had very enjoyable sessions with pleasurable Super Os, some average to good sessions with no Super O but strong Pgasms and also some Sessions with only mild waves of pleasures.

So I started to analyze why there is such a gap in quality/intensity and tried lots of different things to understand if it makes a session better or worse. In this process I also experienced some very bad sessions with absolutely no pleasure which I ended prematurely. Don’t be disappointed if that happens. Try to learn from it. Ask yourself what was different this time?

In my first article I posted a huge list of todos which I thought were needed to have a good and intense session. But over time I learned that not all of these todos are actually needed and that some of them were much more important than others.

Once I realized that, I started thinking about what the key points are for an intense and satisfying session. So here is my new Approach:

Destination

It doesn't matter if you use coconut oil or standard oil, if you use an expensive or cheap sex toy, if it vibrates or not, if you have your left leg bent or your right leg bent. Actually, we already know what matters, don't we? Almost in every post here on Reddit you can read the following three words:

• Relaxation

• Arousal

• Focus (on feelings)

The problem with these words is that they don't give you any specific instructions for action. Most people would probably claim that they are relaxed and aroused during a session and focus on their feelings and still not succeed.

This is probably because these three words only describe the destination and not the way to get there.

Path to Destination
Here is what I learned during my Sessions. For example If I ignore only one of these points, my session will not be as good as I want it to be.

• be physically fit - helps to relax
  Pplay is very stressful and demanding for your body so make sure to be fit. You do not have to be a beach model or a muscle guy. The most important thing is to be in good condition. Exercise your Heart with smaller runs or other workouts. Also make sure your back is in good shape too for a good stabilization. Depending on your favorite position it is also helpful to have trained legs and abdominal muscles. You do not need a six pack but keep in mind relaxation is the key. So the fitter you are the easier it is to relax in these kinds of positions.

• be mentally free - helps to focus
  if you have an important work meeting the next day or something else is bothering you? Do not play! The reason is simple. For building waves and pleasures you have to be mentally free without any distraction or a bad conscience. I guess you would agree that it’s hard to get aroused when you have to think about your boss, colleagues, unsigned contracts, unpaid bills or other stuff. So it’s so important to have everything done when you start to play. You will make a huge step forward if you follow this advice. Btw a good pplay session is a perfect motivation to get things done before ;-)

• be horny / aroused - helps to feel more
  This is one of the most important things! Before a session, you should bring yourself close to orgasm at least 5-10 times. The more the better. This will make your prostate swell slightly and raise your arousal level to a good base. Perfect to start the session. Even more important than edging before is to be able to get aroused by your mind! At the beginning feelings will not be so intense that you will get aroused just by them. You need your mind during a Session to get aroused. This is not easy because your mind wanders sometimes and you lose focus. That’s totally okay. If you recognize that, put your focus back to arousal and you will see it’s always possible to get back to pleasure.In my opinion this is one of the biggest miss understandings when people talk about the “do nothing” approach. Doing nothing does not mean to just look at a white wall and wait for the pleasure. Do nothing refers only to the movements of your pelvic floor and not to your mind and thoughts. This is btw very comparable to penile stimulation! Have you ever tried to stay hard or even get close to orgasm while thinking about nothing or your boss? Correct… it is not possible. So learn to use your mind to stay aroused.The easiest way might be to look at images which meet your fetishes. For example if you are devot look at femdom girl images and imagine what she would say to you in this picture if you would be on your knees in front of her. Let your mind create erotic stories with that picture. What do you want her to say to you? Everything is possible. Explore your deepest fetish with your mind by just looking at that picture. You will see that thoughts raised by images can arouse you so much more than just watching films. If you recognize that some of these thoughts make you horny let your mind wander in this direction or repeat the same thought. Believe me this is so strong and can bring you over the edge. Follow the white rabbit ;-)

• get comfortable - helps to relax
  This one is easy. The more relaxed your position, the better you can relax. However, this does not mean that you should just lie flat on the bed. It is important that the genital area is relaxed. The focus should be on being able to stay in this position for as long as possible without it becoming exhausting. If you notice during the session that something is uncomfortable, change your position! Experiment with different positions. Some work better than others.

• breathe - increases arousal
  One of the most powerful techniques is breathing. Don’t hold your breath during a wave. Once you recognize pleasure or a build up your heart rate will go up. This is the moment where you should pay attention to your breathing. Don’t overdo it, listen to your body and follow the natural breathing Rhythm. Your will naturally breathe faster and deeper. This will at first lower your pleasure level a little bit but it tells your body that you can handle that pleasure and that you are ready for more. ;-)Because of the breathing your body starts accepting the level of pleasure as “normal” so that you are able to feel even more pleasure. It’s like you are telling your body “Okay I can handle this level of pleasure, so you can give me more of it”. I think this is one of the biggest problems when people say they are stuck or they can’t get over the point. This point is probably their current maximum level of pleasure they can handle or in other words the maximum level they report to their bodies/brains. So try to increase that maximum level by breathing. Breathing in this context doesn’t help to calm down, it will make you calm up ;-) (if that makes sense)

• patience / mindset - helps to relax
  Before a session you should urgently think about the right mindset. On the one hand, think about which thoughts will influence your session positively and which negatively. Especially patience is something you should think about before your session. If during the session you are thinking about whether or not you are feeling just enough, the session is actually already over. Impatience kills the session. Impatience is the opposite of relaxation. But you need the latter for a good session.

• enjoy every feeling - help to feel more
  You need to let go of the idea that you are constantly experiencing sexual satisfaction during a session. Think of a session as a kind of meditation and enjoy even the moments when you don't feel so much. In traditional masturbation, you don't feel the same level of arousal all the time either. Again, you have to help with the right mindset and fantasy.So be relaxed and enjoy every moment. Enjoy the current feeling. If you don't feel anything you have the wrong mindset! You have an object in your anus so you have to feel something! Remember you have thousands of nerve endings in your anus! Maybe it doesn't feel like sexual satisfaction directly, but it is a feeling. Follow this feeling and explore it. Be happy about this feeling, because this is what brings you closer to the pgasm.

• weed is the key - helps, helps, helpsThis will be the most controversial point. Because we are talking about a substance that is still classified as a drug in many parts of the world today (Dec. 2021). Therefore, I do not want to encourage people to consume cannabis. Nevertheless, if you look at the effects of cannabis on the human body and mind, you can see some synergies to the points described before. Increase Relaxation, stress reduction, euphoria, increased arousal. So yeah when it comes to prostate play cannabis seems to be made for it. For example without Cannabis my sessions aren’t even half as satisfying as without. I don’t like the fact but it is like it is. Maybe in some years it’s legal everywhere on the planet and we don’t have to have a bad conscience about it.

• make breaks - helps to increase arousal, helps to feel more
  Very important is, do not overdo it! Feelings have one thing in common, they wear off. If you overdo it, you and your body will get used to the pleasure and the quality of your sessions will decrease. Take breaks and get your body used to a low endorphin level. Then your sessions will be much more intense ;-)

Okay that’s it.Hope you guys like it.

I would love to read some feedback.

Regards

Yesterday it finally, unmistakably happend!

I had waves of building pleasure, that I've had before. But then, it started building even stronger, and I felt like I was going to ejaculate. But I only ejaculated a very tiny bit, and the feelings just kept building and building. I felt like I was cumming for about 5 minutes, then I had to stop because I was making too much noise, but I felt like I could just keep orgasm as long as I wanted. Amazing!

I want to share with you some random lessons I've learned in my journey. I hope it helps someone :)

Coconut oil is amazing. I always used to get cramps and the feeling of needing to poo after about half an hour, just when things were heating up. I then found out about glycerin that's in many lubes. I switched to coconut oil and I could go on how long as I wanted.

Getting a dildo helped. It took a while before I was ready to get over the shame and order a penis-shaped dildo. But for me the penis shape is just the best form of anal stimulation. It is flexible, so very comfortable, it is straight, so easy insertion. And since it's textured it also stimulates the sphincter. And, I have to admit, having something penis shaped inside me kind of turns me on. I have had different toys (aneros helix syn, nexus revo, njoy pure wand, etc) but the dildo does most for me.

Not masturbating before prostate play really helps. The time I had my prostate orgasm I didn't ejaculate in about 10 days before that and that really helps.

I got stuck because I was looking for this traditional peak-and-release feeling of a traditional ejaculatory orgasm. Like, a traditional orgasm is really a process that once it is set in motion it goes on on its own. Mentally I was looking for that, but once I learned to let go of that and make the switch in my mind that the pleasure I'm feeling -is- the reward (and not a buildup to the reward) I made a lot of progress.

To me, a prostate orgasm feels like just going beyond the point of no return of a traditional orgasm, but instead of the feeling then peeking and subsiding, it just keeps going. I made an image to explain.

If you want to know what a prostate orgasm feels like (at least for me), what you can try is to masturbate traditionally while stimulating your prostate. When you ejaculate, the prostate will swell, and then, at least for me, for a moment your prostate will have this warm pleasurable burning feeling when you stimulate it. A prostate orgasm is just that, but then it doesn't stop, because you don't ejaculate because you don't stimulate your penis.

When I had my prostate orgasm I meditated for about 10 minutes with my toys in front of me, not sure if it helped.

Take long for sessions and don't be afraid to stop-and-start. For me my pleasure kind of ebbs and flows. I used to worry when the pleasure was subsiding that I was 'losing it'. However, now I just take my toy out, wait for a minute, and then insert again. I do that about 5-10 times in a session. The new insertion always is more pleasureable than how it was before.

I found out that I need thicker toys with continous pressure on my prostate.

Hope it helps anyone as I've got a lot of help from this place on my journey :)

EDIT: Thanks for the gold :)

Intro/Guide

Alright, so I'm sick as fuck today and I'm running out of things to do on my phone so nows a great time to dedicate to pretty serious, lengthy post. I did one before that I'll probably link to in an edit on a now deleted account (I like this name more) that explains my process to get off. But honestly if you're trying to "get there" or well, get anywhere I'd read this first. This information's more important than my actual routine by miles anyway. I'm willing to answer any questions you might have and I'm going to try my best to provide as much knowledge as I can and dispel misconceptions on the way. I also have a few theories and concepts that I cannot prove but I will be sure to make it very clear when I am speculating versus speaking on fact or things I'm sure of. So if you're up for a long read hop on board, strap up and get ready.

Also I'm going to throw in a more "intermediate-advanced methods" paragraph at the bottom that I'd honestly recommend newer readers to just not read. This whole process is learned a lot easier step by step and trying to comprehend Calculus makes it much harder to learn to add.

Vocab

Quick vocab sheet before we start so things don't get confusing:

• Cumming - The act of ejaculating outta ya dickhole. Note the difference between this one and the next two.

• Orgasming - The cognitive (literally what your brain "thinks," so in your head) sensation experienced as the result of sexual stimuli, the majority to all of which comes from the prostate.

• Penile orgasming - The cognitive sensation experienced as a result of penile stimuli. The thing you feel, when you cum. (I'll always clarify a penile orgasm but I just call prostate orgasms, orgasms throughout this for simplicity's sake)

• MMO - Stands for Multiple Male Orgasms, any time I'm referring to chaining prostate orgasms.

• P-Waves - Stands for pleasure waves, the waves of sensation that prostate stimulation provides that feel amazing and eventually lead to orgasm. (This is the "stroking your dick" equivalent to prostate play as far as sensation, it feels AMAZING and lead to the big one's if you can get there. In fact, a lot of posts I read seem to be people mixing up the intensity and enjoy-ability of P-Waves for orgasms themselves, and even that thought process kind of holds some truth in a way)

• Super-O - Super orgasms, the holy grail and a fucking HUGE talking point. We're not gonna talk about them much.. because, well, they don't work like that. I know that sounds stupid and I honestly am so fucking sorry for that because it leads to a ton of confusion and frustration (I was experimenting with things in the back door for literally years and years before I had one, I promise I know how you feel right now). But I need you to trust that everyone that's had one gets why I'm saying that, and that the best thing you could possibly do is literally take that confusion and ignore it completely because, and I promise, the steps walking towards it are beyond what you think you can comprehend right now and you're going to learn how to love those just as much.

About Me + My Diet and Supplements + How I started

First a little about me (if you don't care, just skip this paragraph, I won't be offended). I'm 22 years old, male, I'm not exactly straight, but I have a very strong preference towards women. (I'll tell you right now that one of the worst things you can try to do is try to put things in neat little boxes and categories like "straight, bi or gay." Labeling things gets in the way and WILL restrict your perspective from things you may find amazing. In fact there's a paragraph in here where I talk about some of the differences I believe straight and gay men experience as a result of other kinds of associating) Sexually when it comes to women I prefer to be a very in control provider-type but I've experimented with a ton of different dynamics with the help of my loving fiance and I think there's something to say for just about every sexual dynamic you can come up with. When it comes to men I'm all about being in charge and the idea of a guy trying to be cute for me to take care of is about all I can get to turn me on, even though I've only been with my fiance sexually. (Cross dressing cosplayers please keep doing your thing) I'm 5'9", I bounce between 135-150lbs depending on my diet and such. I take l-arginine, horny goat weed (can't recommend this stuff enough to literally everyone, I know people doubt dick-supplements, this isn't a dick supplement), iron and zinc supplements daily. I'm 3" flaccid but almost 9" hard so with my smaller build I kind of need the daily supplements more than the average fella to get to full mast. I started experimenting with my prostate when I was 15. I've almost always been a pretty big fan of marijuana, I recommend it for every session that you feel like including it in, but do be responsible it IS pretty easy to get a little too hooked on this entire process so know your limits. I had heard a line in a movie along the lines of "you'd be amazed with what a well placed finger can do to a man." So as a horny stone and very comfortable with myself fella I decided to discover what a well placed finger could do, but only for the sake of enhancing my stoned late night teenager penile orgasms at the time. I first learned of the ability to orgasm as a dude when I was 18 and I bought my first prostate massager at 19 (I tried to make my own before that one, don't do that.. it'll hurt, like a lot). I started with the Aneros Helix Syn and my arsenal has grown to include a knockoff Njoy wand (no reason to buy the real one, cheeper ones on Amazon are identical and cost $20), the Aneros Vice, the Lelo Hugo and a 6" soft dildo coupled with a RodeOh harness that my fiance uses to peg me when we get the chance. Also I write in blocks of text, sorry, I'll do my best to format on mobile, but you've now been warned.

Why should you listen to anything I'm saying?

Alright! Now why should you listen to anything I'm saying? Well the longest orgasm I've had lasted about an hour and 30 minutes, although at a certain point reality just breaks and you find that you're just in a little private heaven for that time. I've found ways to manage to have prostate orgasms while stimulating my penis and I regularly use the sensations from a massager during sex to keep myself from cumming (yes fellas, if you get this down well enough, you can get the ability to go for about as long as you want. This is coming from a dude who used to be a two minute man) This also thereby leads to MMO's during sex, something I don't think I've seen others have much success with from my reading and research.

Sensation, Dynamics and the differences between them

So it makes sense to start by explaining what you're actually doing, physically when you stimulate the prostate. So you've probably heard someone say that scientifically we all start out as girls during pregnancy. This is half true, it's not until late during development in the womb that the body starts to create distinct genitalia based on genetic sex, however the nerve endings in your genitalia develop before this distinction is made. This is why for every male part, there's a respective female part (or vice versa depending on your perspective). The shaft of a penis is the homologous with the walls of a vagina, the head of a penis to a woman's clitoral head (the thing under the hood that everyone just calls the clit). And the big one is that a woman's g-spot is homologous with the male prostate. All of these 'parts' were once the same thing, they just became something else. Now what I believe you should take from this is really nothing more than WHERE to look for sensation. When you "feel" something you're likely imagining something of a big body map in your head, but feeling something internal is WAYYY hard to do. Especially if you've gone years and years jerking off and finding pleasure via stimulating your very external penis. A lot of guys find success in their hunt for sensation by really trying to get themselves in the mind of being a woman to see internal stimulation. This is why you'll find a lot of crossdressers/chastity practices in many prostate focused subs, however, stimulation and dynamic don't have to go together. Dynamic is a social construction that helps us know what to do and what role to play during sex. Sensation/stimulation is separate from dynamic, but you can see where they can correlate pretty easily. Let me give an example of how this does NOT always go the way you'd expect to better explain the difference. Sexually my fiance and I see me as the provider in the bedroom but we LOVE pegging. Sensationally, there's little that compares to the sliding/friction created by the thrusting she does that gets me off quite like it and I love the intimacy of it. Now pegging usually requires a pretty submissive guy, and physically you can probably imagine why. But sexually I struggle to get off like that. Instead we view pegging as an almost kind of "maintenance" she preforms on the machine that is me. That dynamic in mind for us helps me to stay the one in control, I still feel the like the provider I have to in order to get off, and I get the stimulation to be able to do so as well. It's all about finding a dynamic you enjoy, whether solo or with company, while simultaneously creating sensation.

This is just one example of course and everyone is not just different but different by the day or hour even. While it's somewhat the opposite of my go to, there have been a few times I've had amazing orgasms by just trying to be cute as hell for her to fuck my brains out. But over time I've found it requires me to be in a far less common and very specific mood to enjoy that dynamic. Point being, sexually everybody's different, and me two hours from now is different from me now or me two hours earlier, and your go-to's aren't the only dynamics you're going to find an ability to derive pleasure from. Pre-post-Edit: I also just realized I gave two example of dynamics and both relied on a partner despite 98% of prostate play (mine included) being solo. I didn't mean to do that, but it kind of works from the perspective that you're going to find more success in figuring out what dynamics you like and how you like seeing yourself by comparing them to other kinds of dynamics, and relational ones definitely provide the best "perspective" so to speak. I know that sounds confusing, but hopefully it makes at least some sense. If you think you get what I'm getting at, that's the thing I'm getting at.

Rewiring

So before I start here when I first started in on all of this I hadn't had the opportunity (either because I couldn't find them or they didn't exist yet) to research what many other people have written on rewiring. So these are the things I've come to conclude and the theories I've built up to explain away some of what I've come to feel. I don't have any hard evidence that this is exactly correct, but neither do any of the "rewiring" posts you'll see on here, so consider this a speculation warning for this paragraph. So here's my theory, every time since you were twelve (assuming you're straight and new to this) that you've gone and rubbed one out you're subconsciously associating pleasure with an action you have control over. When you stop moving, the pleasure stops. A makes B happen so over time your brain shortcuts to just go "particular action/penile stimulation (A) = sexual pleasure (B)" and the two begin to go together. You brain does this so effectively in fact, that before learning what I can hopefully manage to teach through an exercise below, when you think penile stimulation you likely imagine sexual pleasure as literally indistinguishable from one another. The thing about prostate play is that there is no pleasure derived from self created action, there is just sensational pleasure coming from something else. So when you jerk off, and especially when you cum, A does make B happen, BUT something else can make B happen in an entirely different way and it's completely on it's own. The "rewiring" process is realizing just how closed off through association sexual pleasure is and learning how to feel sexual pleasure in other ways.

However I don't mention this for no reason, because even if all of what I said in that paragraph is completely wrong, what I am sure of is that the biggest hurdle for most people is creating the distinction between action and pleasure, two things that for most men have ALWAYS gone together so much that they're hard to tear apart. When people talk about "rewiring" this is what they're referring to, it's just not explained very well because the word "rewiring" seems to fit the bill pretty well from the "post-rewired" brain's perspective; in the same way that "just do the algebra" is gonna be a sufficient answer from someone with a Phd, but it's not gonna help a second grader get to the next step at all. So let me try to speak second grader by walking you through an exercise that might help clear things up.

Lets do an exercise! Yes right now!

Don't worry! I'm not gonna ask you to get naked but I am gonna ask you to get either a water bottle cap, or a decently clean coin. Now rest your forearm on a surface in front of you. Take your coin (or cap) and put the side of it parallel to and against the top of your forearm and drag it up and down at the same speed you would if you were masturbating, being careful to keep the point of contact between the two bones that run down your forearm. Use some pressure and you'll probably feel a strange sensation along the tendons that control your fingers, that's good! Now stop, go ahead and flip your forearm back around hold it with your spare hand. Now place your thumb on top of the coin in the middle of your wrist, at whatever point is the highest off of your wrist, about two inches below your hand and just press down. Hold it there for maybe a minute, not too hard, with pressure with comfort-ability in mind. During this time focus on a few things in particular, and keep in mind you can repeat the process as much as you want, so if a sensation fleets away don't worry, it's not the last time you'll feel it.

Now try to imagine that instead of the weird sensation the coin creates, imagine it as a form of sexual pleasure. Not "jerking off" sexual pleasure though, that's what you felt in your tendons when dragging the coin on the other side. Now the first thing I'd like you to notice is that, despite not moving, what you feel after 20 seconds is likely different than what you felt a second after you were pressing, and it's likely less intense. The exact same thing tends to happen when you first pop something in the back door and your prostate gets "pressed" down. In fact, a lot of the time (for me especially when I started) that glimmer of pleasure at the beginning is what keeps people coming back to keep trying. Now that the coins has sat there for a moment I want you to try something for me, instead of focusing on how the coin feels against your skin, focus on the way that it makes those same tendons from earlier feel. If you can distinguish the difference between the way the coin feels on your skin and the pressure being applied underneath hone in on the pressure completely. The second thing I'd like you to notice, is just how easy it is to hone in completely on that sensation. Despite the coin probably being relatively small on your arm it can kind of "feel" bigger than the rest of your arm. Try to not feel anything but that pressure. Now go ahead and keep it pressed for about 20 more seconds before VERY gently releasing a small amount of pressure, and then VERY gently applying some. Now get a small rhythm to it. Notice how little change it takes to create a dramatic difference in that what that tendon "feels" when you're honed and focused on it. Go back and forth and if you lose focus on the pressure, (this is gonna happen a lot, don't worry, this is the learning process in action here) hold the coin steady, hone back in and start again.

What to Learn from it

This way of looking for sensation and stimulation parallels VERY well with how to go about looking for, and nurturing prostate stimulation into something huge. During your next session imagine your prostate similar to that tendon, perceiving, feeling and receiving stimuli from something else, even when it was not or barely moving. (Also remember, your hand can press too hard, your ass can too) What you can notice from the coin is just how crazily different the same "type" of sensation (in the prostate's case, sexual, in the coins case, I don't even know what to call that) can be "felt" in dramatically different ways. Now's your chance to start find what else matches the sensations you feel, start experimenting with dynamics in your head when you play. Find some different forms of stimulation too once you get comfortable. Some people prefer to only feel. They may find themselves using a blindfold and just holding motionless gets them off. Some people love visual stimulation. If you can manage to keep from jerking off, watch some porn if you like. Many (myself big time) love auditory stimulation, a lot of people find success with very rhythmic music. While I've found less success with it personally, many people will swear by binaural beats having a hard-wire to their prostate. Also another I personally haven't succeeded with too often but I know others find amazing is nipple stimulation. Anyway, the point here is to find the sensation and both try to build it itself up and also to build around it. Make it yours though, that's the best advice I can give.

A Brief Note and Thank You

Now, I'm going to start describing what's been the most successful for me going forward. You and I however, should understand that this may not work correctly for you and that's okay. I cannot thank you enough for even reading this to make it worth my typing. I genuinely have a love for this (as you'll be able to tell if you keep reading) and I hope I helped you to at least start to love it too because it's is so beyond worth sharing.

The Craft Approach

So once I had the sensation identified, it was time to turn it into something more. For me, sexual sensation became a craft, an art. Something imperfectable but only in that there was no skill ceiling. In the same way that no one will ever write a perfect song, there was always exist opportunity to create more of it or to refine it. You'll always find the ability to change it in some way, even if just for the sake of expression, for the sake of the art. To make it louder than it had ever been or smoother that it had ever felt. And an artist makes mistakes in the pursuit of perfection of a craft. An artist has to master the brush strokes, and an artist is gonna paint masterpieces and pieces that just fail along the way but it's okay! Because an artist learns how to love failure for what it provides in the future. Sometimes it takes 30 minutes before the sensation kicks in in the same way that sometimes it takes 30 minutes of staring into a white canvas before a brush ever touches paint. Sometimes you have to put the brushes down for a day too and come back when the inspiration is there. Sometimes you're painting for 5 minutes, then you stop painting and nothing's coming to you until 10 minutes later and it's all happening again. It's all about letting everything build naturally and flow from there. All of this still holds true for me today, years and years since this first began to blossom. Despite it having become so much more the method and practice are still the same. Just like the coin on your arm began to felt bigger than it was, the sensation created by the pressure on your prostate will likely start to feel like it is growing as well, but what makes your prostate different is that that sensation, you'll find, has ZERO BOUND. You can grow it and shape it in any way you can imagine and the things it will make your body experience as a result (yeah, now we're talking about super O's) are literally so intense that there is no way you have anything in your mind before that could compare in order to comprehend a thousandth of how it feels. But it all comes from the perfection of that tiny, oddly coin like sensation.

Going from Intermediate to Advanced Methods and Theory

Alright, last section! Lets talk about some intermediate-advanced methods! So you've managed to really truly fall in love with that sensation, but it's not quite crafted down to the point of making those Super-O's happen. First thing, and absolute most important in my opinion thing, to remember is that Super-O's come from crossing what I'd call a varying threshold. It's also a thing that you have no control of, it just kind of occurs (I think that's why there's so many post on here of people posting during their first orgasms, I think people are so shocked by the suddenness/seemingly randomness of it's occurrence that they freak the fuck out while their body is reacting to having crossed that point). Actually, that's the best way I think I could put it, it's the body's own independent reaction to having crossed this mystical threshold I've just described. Now I'm gonna try to put this into an if than statement to get this to make sense because it's literally the best way to describe this. If horninessTM x sensation (Everything describe above, the biggest factor in this) x dynamic alignment x bodily healthiness (basically stay hydrated) x room temperature (I know this is a weird one, huge one for me though I've discovered, I like it cold) > N, then Super-O, and the value of N can depend on the day. Ironically I think the best advice I can give beyond that is that, the value of N in this case can vary so much, especially when you're just starting, that Super-O's aren't worth hunting for. Don't get me wrong, I'd love to have a Super-O every time I have a session and they definitely come easier with time, but whether or not your body will be up for making it happen in that moment can vary so much that to not just focus on the craft of the sensation your prostate can produce would be a shame.

Really Advanced/Experimental Stuff

Now for those of you who've already got everything this down to this point, really just one thing I want to try to introduce you to. PLEASE DON'T EVEN READ FURTHER IF YOU DON'T HAVE EVERYTHING ELSE COMPLETELY DOWN BECAUSE I'M SO WORRIED TRYING TO DO THIS BEFORE YOU'RE READY WILL RUIN ALL OF THIS FOR YOU AND THAT WOULD MAKE ME SO SAD Now hear me out, I want to start to encourage some people to try to find ways to use penile edging as a way to encourage prostate stimulation. Now I'm more than well aware that the #1 rule for many many people on every single forum is that your dick is OFF LIMITS and I want to back up that rule myself for literally almost everyone. That said, if you read through everything I wrote up and went, "Yeah I've got all of that" I think it's time to try to find new ways to reincorporate penile stimulation to see what we can make happen. This is a relatively new thing for me to have been trying as well but let me try and walk through a bit of what I've felt and how it's gone for me. First, I find that going straight into penile + prostate has exactly the results you'd expect 98% of the time, it's very hard to get the prostatic sensations to actually accumulate to something bigger than the sensations produced by the penis if you don't give the prostate a decent amount of private time at the beginning of the session. So what I've found success with is taking time to focus on my prostate at the beginning of a session, no penile contact until I've found THAT sensation and I've nutured it into something that I'm at least able to move around with, without losing it and then some. My goal during this has been to try to get it to be just barely more than twice as intense in my head than I know it'll feel when I start to introduce penile stimulation into the mix. Then, very lightly and with absolutely ZERO intention of stimulating myself anywhere near the direction of a penile orgasm, I start to try to get myself hard, usually working around the base and searching for the dullest sensations I can find in that region, all while dedicating probably 90% of my focus on my prostate. Once I'm full mast however, I start to try to even things out a bit in my head, and this is where I've found some pretty crazy sensations, so I'm gonna try to draw a color coded picture, on what better than paint. https://imgur.com/PzUN9sg So in the picture provided what I try to do is balance the red (penile stimulation) about 40% to the black (prostate stimulation) 60% but while doing so I try to direct the red almost into the black as I move so to keep that 40-60ish ratio. It literally feels more and more as I go, like the back half of my dick is contributing towards that prostatic sensation in my behind. Now I've managed to get, well, I don't know what to call them to tell you the truth, but a very unique kind of orgasm through this method. It's more similar to a prostate orgasm than a penile one by a long shot, especially in the sense that the sensation recieved is more reactive than proactive, and that other than your normal prostatic fluid no ejaculation occurs. However, there's a "satisfying an itch" that comes with a penile orgasm that this kind of orgasm manages to come with as well that I definitely don't feel during a prostate orgasm. The prostatic sensation during this also only really peaks out at about a quarter of what a Super-O manages to get to though. What does occur however, is my dick gets fucking FULL. Now I'm normally just shy of 9" hard, but when I tell you that I swear that I'm almost pushing 10" at the height of one of these things I seriously mean it. During them I've found it feels best to actually use both hands around the very base of the shaft and to kind of stretch the skin at the bottom by pushing my dick outwards as it expands (which also makes it look even bigger, like it's shocking what this process manages to do and, no I am not covering my urethra during this preventing ejaculation, that was my first thought about what was happening as well) But the big kicker is that if there was ANY urge to ejaculate, once the orgasm (it averages like 40-50 seconds) is over that urge is gone, so by extension this method when applied outside of a solo scenario has made sex pretty amazing and I'm curious about what my other more experienced guys on here might be able to find. I've definitely got my best dick pictures this way.

Closing up

Alright, this was a great way to kill a few hours today, thanks to anyone who read anything at all! Anyway a link to my old post explaining my personal process is right here: https://www.reddit.com/r/ProstatePlay/comments/8kow7i/my_insane_routine_the_hour_long_orgasms_that_come/ Again, yeah I know, I deleted the account so I can't prove it's mine beyond knowing no one else will try to claim it's theirs, but if anyone wanted some insight on my step by step there ya go. I'm sure it's just as block texty as this one is. The only thing I've really changed much on is I've since bought a more ergonomic seat pillow with a little cutout that allows for me to lay down on my back with tons of moving room for the toys. https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B010TLSFA6/ref=ppx_yo_dt_b_asin_title_o02_s00?ie=UTF8&psc=1 Other than that my methods have stayed mostly the same, it really is much more about what goes on in your head though than it'll ever be about what you feel or set up for yourself so long as you're stimulating the prostate.

Also AMA! I love to answer questions and I promise I won't miss any.

Edit: Sorry, new Reddit tried to format my post weirdly.

Growing up I was always told if anything touches your ass you are gay, no question asked. Now I’m in my 40’s and holy shit putting stuff up my butt feels great. And I instantly do not find guys attractive. Normalize anal sex so is not taboo. So many wasted years.

Had my usual session yesterday. I had 7 hours alone, and planned for a great session with tons of HFDO's as usual.

Not sure how it happened, but even without anything in my ass, my prostate felt like it was going to explode. Sat on the edge of the bed, and started rocking on my prostate very gently. Anyway, after 10-15 minutes, these HFDO's acually turned into one continuous orgasm, which sounds fantastic, yeh ?

After riding this gorgeous orgasm for almost a fucking HOUR, I started to get concerned. I was cumming without doing anything. No movement, no toy, didnt even lube up my ass. It was so weird. Yes, i actually wanted it to stop, so I moved away from the bed, lay on my back - no change. Nothing. The orgasm continued, Uninterrupted and constant, I was actually thinking there was something wrong. I couldn't move. My body and mind was totally hooked on this orgasm. It was fucking heaven !! At one point, I was seriously considering calling an ambulance, it was SO intense, and didn't look like stopping. Yes, I was frightened. I was stuck in limbo !!

In total, I was in a totally blissful orgasmic state for almost FIVE HOURS !!!

Eventually, to my relief, it started to subside, and when it was physically possible, I jumped out of bed and took a cold shower.

I don't know if anyone has ever experienced anything like this, but I'm wondering what's going to happen next time😀

I'm a lurker. From time to time, I come here to read stuff.

I always read stuff like "my erections are not the same" "losing libido is normal?" "can prostate play mess with your normal hetero sex life?"

Brothers, this is serious, and I mean it: people who write this are developing pelvic floor dysfunction and this sub DEFINITELY doesn't talk enough about this

This happens most likely because they are contracting the muscles but not stretching. The symptoms of weaker erections, loss of libido, premature ejaculation, are all symptoms of pelvi floor dysfunction.

PLEASE STRETCH YOUR PELVIC FLOOR, manily your PC muscle. Do it regularly, 5 minutes before sleeping or whatever, but please do it. If you have one of those symptoms, start now.

So I went ahead and splashed a bit of money for fairly inexpensive fuck machine off amazon. It costed 250 euros, which is a bit cheaper than most of the well known brands like hismith or lovense. I was concerned if 72w would be enough for my hungry ass, as I read that most of the people recommend 100w machines.

Reality exceed all my expectations. After fidling around with the set up, speed etc, I finally put it in the place where it was stable, and reached my prostate the way I want it. Holy shit what an incredible ride it was. First of all, relentless feeling of a machine fucking my ass was just so overwhelming, that at a first try I struggled to come. Had to take a break and get my thoughts and emotions together before round two. On the second round I relaxed as much as I usually do when having my regular session, and in a few minutes the waves started rolling.

I cannot describe the intensity, the headspace, everything was 1000/10. I came for an hour!! The machine just doesnt stop and gives no rest. Orgasms were flowing one after another, it was just incredible! It doesnt stop and orgasms dont stop. I had to try really hard to finally finish the session. But overall, its easily in my top 3 sessions ever.

I highly recommend for anyone who has doubts whether to try fuck machine or not, to go ahead and get this magic device. It will be the best thing in your sex arsenal by miles

Intro

This isn’t for the faint of heart but I’m going to write up exactly what I’d do if I had to rewire again from 0 as FAST AS POSSIBLE. This is a no BS guide with no drugs.

For context I’ve been rewired for a couple years now and have read so many things and learned so many things.

Step 1: Preparation and Toys

Cutting to the chase you need to find a toy that works for you. If you have the money buy all 3 types and find out what works for you. The best for me is the Aneros Eupho (actually magical) and pure wand. Once rewired different toys give me different orgasms but they all work.

- Aneros Helix or Eupho

- Pure Wand or Knockoff wand

- Dildo (vixskin mustang or similar)

Get an enema bulb and psyllium husk capsules and take 2 daily and you’ll be clean every time which makes me enjoy play more and do it more often because it’s less effort.

I know it’s not possible for everyone but going anal only is the fastest way to unlock sensations. The name of the game is do it as often as possible.

If you think about it if you are learning something but never practice you’ll have to re-learn it. I apply the same to prostate play, frequency gains results as you build neural pathways and make them stronger through repetition.

We will be doing sessions every 2 or 3 days ideally while learning. We aren’t cumming after a failed session to maintain arousal and motivation.

Step 2: Sessions

To learn how to feel your prostate, listen to Shibby’s prostate waves audio file. This 26 minute file contains all the information you need to learn how to feel your prostate. You will listen to this every session.

https://shibbydex.com/file/9f23f819-45aa-4008-86e7-e67fc2f93d10

there’s a section towards the end where she gets you to HFWO but don’t worry if you don’t, you are just learning to listen to your prostate.

This unlocks the “do nothing method” so you don’t need to train kegals. There’s no point if you literally can’t feel your prostate you are just squeezing muscles for no reason. Kegals only become pleasurable and help you orgasm when you can actually feel your prostate.

All you need to do is follow her instructions and just relax your muscles. They will start contracting on their own when your prostate is ready.

After you finish the file, take another 30 minutes to just lay there, breathe and relax while trying to feel the glow. Lights off no distractions just pretend you can feel it and it will become real eventually.

After this relaxation period if you don’t feel anything that’s ok. Pack away your stuff and try again in 2 days. DO NOT MASTURBATE NORMALLY BETWEEN SESSIONS. If you really need to cum you can milk your prostate to relieve pressure with the njoy wand or a rigid dildo.

This releases pressure but maintains arousal and actually helps you physically locate where your prostate is.

Anyone can milk as it’s a physical reaction to firm upward up and down pressure 2 to 4 inches inside you. To let the cum flow relax like you are peeing and it will flow out. If it doesn’t try harder pressure but be careful you don’t bruise yourself.

Repeat the file and relaxation period until you start to feel the glow. Remember no cumming after sessions.

Step 3: Grow the glow

once you can feel the small glow of your prostate, every day try to feel it as much as possible without your toys inserted. Whenever you are about to sleep or sitting on the couch just take a moment to breathe into your prostate and feel it. This will strengthen the neural pathways and will make your next session better.

It’s like an engine being on idle, it’s ALWAYS on humming away and becomes louder if you rev it with your focus.

Eventually you’ll be able to feel so good you will reach the edge of orgasm. However there is no edge it just feels better and better and better as the glow turns into waves of pleasure that wash over your body. That’s what dry orgasms are.

Congrats you are now rewired, enjoy euphoric pleasure that improves every aspect of your life.

Quick fire tips to help you with this:

- Arousal helps a ton, find out what your kinks are and incorporate them into your sessions

- Get comfortable noise cancelling earbuds to listen to the training files

- Make your surroundings comfortable (temperature, lock the door etc)

- Feelings come and go, they always return if you let them. just be happy with what you feel.

- Don’t be discouraged, keep having sessions even if you dont feel anything. The glow is there you just need to find it.

EDIT: TLDR: Everyone is wired differently. If you've been trying "how to get an orgasm" advice and not feeling any pleasure, look instead for advice based around strengthening the ability for your prostate to feel pleasure, try several and find what works for you. It may take months of growth before you are ready to orgasm, but if you start making that progress now, you're more likely to get there. And rewiring should be fun, because the best way to train your prostate to feel pleasure is to do things that give your prostate pleasure.

I see a trend among posters asking for advice: roughly, "how do I get an orgasm, if when I do such and such I feel nothing". And that, I think, is the problem, feeling nothing. Much of the technique advice given to beginners is based around learning to orgasm. I think much of the perspective of people giving advice is centered on already having a sensitive prostate, which makes the advice less useful for someone who doesn't. I think once we have been orgasmic for a while, we forget what it was like to not be, and tell beginners to look for cues that simply aren't there, or ask them to perform maneuvers that don't make sense to them (like directing pleasure around my body, I had no idea what the fuck that meant a year ago but now it's easy).

This isn't meant to criticize anyone giving advice (nor generalize, I know there's a huge variety of advice being given), but I think there's a communication barrier caused by the ability gap. We're not inside each others' bodies so we can't identify when someone's problem is deeper than technique, especially from a single question post here on reddit. A novice may not know yet what it's like to have a sensitive prostate, and if not, they don't know that it's absent, and we don't know either unless we look deeper or ask more questions.

We're all wired differently. Some people have a prostate orgasm from a simple prostate exam, with no prior training. Others are naturally sensitive enough that a finger will enhance a blowjob. Some feel nothing, and for some it's actually a hindrance to pleasure at first. It would be ridiculous to think that each can get to orgasm with similar time and effort. So when you read someone's story about how they first learned to orgasm, manage your expectations: where they were before starting may have been totally different from where you are, and what's setting you back is possibly not a failing of technique, mindset, or motivation, but may simply be a statement on your rewiring progress.

"Rewiring" is mostly done through potentiating neural circuits that already exist. It's not something where you can just have an electrician come in and move some copper around and have the drywaller come patch it up the next day. There's no binary moment where new circuits are suddenly "hooked up". Rather, synapses that were already there, but very weak, have to be gradually strengthened via complex biochemical processes. Think of it like bodybuilding, because that's what you're doing, growing certain features of certain brain cells to be more sensitive and signal more strongly and more often. Or like weightlifting – sure, you need technique to pull off a heavy clean and jerk, but without building your strength enough, no technique will help you nail the lift.

When I first started trying prostate play, I got zero pleasure from it. I tried fingering and perineal stimulation and had practically no results. My first orgasm with a buttplug in was worse than a normal orgasm. A glass wand and a silicone dildo were non-pleasurable. So how did I get from there to here?

My primary training was jerking off with a buttplug in (sure, I tried prostate-specific things too, but they did little to nothing for me for a long time). At first it was to get used to it so that it wouldn't make orgasms worse (didn't take long). Then it was to associate the pleasure of orgasm with the feeling of anal and prostate stimulation. Then it was edging, and rocking my hips to shift the plug while on the edge because that was the only way I could reliably feel pleasure from my prostate. Eventually it was jerking off while fucking myself and trying to finish hands-free, or getting high and just rocking on a plug while listening to music. The goal gradually shifted from using penile pleasure to associate the prostate with pleasure, to using penile pleasure to get horny enough that my prostate was sensitive enough to generate its own pleasure, to increasing the portion of time spent on my prostate vs my penis, to having blended orgasms finished off by my prostate alone.

Note that the edging was just how I sensitized the prostate within a session – I did sometimes play with orgasm denial but I didn't notice it being helpful in my case, and orgasming at the end of a session wasn't contrary to my goals. In fact, it was very important early on, when I was trying to build the association between my prostate and orgasmic pleasure. The edging wasn't even required, it just prolonged the amount of time I could spend at that near-orgasm state where my prostate was actually sensitive.

While I was doing all this, I still constantly had doubts, like I wasn't on the right path or didn't have the right toys or wasn't waiting long enough between sessions or spending too much time on my penis or whatever. And progress was slow, slow enough that if I didn't step back and take stock, I could easily get frustrated by a perceived lack thereof. But I always kept in mind that any pleasure from the prostate would contribute to rewiring progress.

After all this, my prostate was much more sensitive, and could even be pleasurable with no penile play, but I still couldn't orgasm from it. That's where I needed re-learning – I had the new system wired up and needed to learn to use it, and teach it to orgasm. This is still rewiring, of course, but I finally at a point where technique would be more effective than strengthening – or perhaps I had hit a plateau in how much I could strengthen thise pathways without new techniques.

Mindgasm happens to be the thing that unlocked coregasms for me, which shortly led to prostate orgasms with a buttplug and nipple play. However, I have no reason to expect it would have worked had I tried it on the pleasure-bereft prostate I had at the start of my journey. By the time I tried mindgasm, I had already had months of pleasurable prostate edging sessions and had a few successful prostate-finished blended orgasms. This made it so that my prostate was a hotspot for all the pleasure generated by other activities, like the muscle contractions of mindgasm to gather and build. I only really got pleasure from my nipples after rewiring, so perhaps that's another thing that had a lesser chance of working before.

Hey everyone,

The Njoy Pure Wand is probably one of the most frequently mentioned toys here, and for good reason. I’ve put together a detailed guide to help others get the most out of it – especially if you're just starting out or still figuring things out.

One thing I struggled with when reading other posts was understanding the positioning people described. There’s a lot of great advice in this sub, but when it's only described in text, I often found it hard to visualize what people actually meant. That’s why as part of the guide, I created illustrations to show different positions that have worked well for me or are commonly recommended.

I've attached a description and the illustrations below. I’d love to hear your feedback – and if there are other positions you’d recommend. I might add them to the guide and create new illustrations for those as well.

Also, I’m thinking about creating a similar illustrated guide for Aneros toys, since they can be even trickier to get the hang of at first. So if that’s something you’d be interested in, let me know.

The Standard

Lie comfortably on your back with knees bent and legs apart. Insert the wand and gently move it. Rest your arm on your thigh to avoid fatigue, letting the wand's weight do the work.

The Ponytail

Lie on your stomach, bending one knee for comfort. Insert the wand and let the external part rest on the bed. The wand's weight applies pressure automatically; manual movement is optional—try moving your hips for subtle stimulation.

The Backbender

Lie on your side with your top knee slightly bent. Insert the wand and use your top arm to apply gentle movement, pressing the back of the wand against the prostate for targeted stimulation.

I finally realized the one thing that seperated orgasmic sessions, and non-orgasmic sessions.

So i always saw that it feels “like you have to pee” I didnt understand that that is EXACTLY how it feels. So i would always subconsciously clench my muscles because thats my reflex when it feels like I have to pee.

This is probably why there are audio trainers online on learning how to distinct between all the clench able muscles down there. Once i learned how to hold only the “pee” section of muscles i was comfortable enough to relax the rest when that sensation comes.

This time i used a towl so i could say “fuck it if i pee i pee” so when the urge to pee came i stayed as relaxed as i could be. After a while i kept falling deeper and deeper into that Pee sensation and it fell into an orgasm. similar in function and feeling to a penile one but with sensitivity intensified.Lasted about 20 seconds at its peak.

This was the first type of orgasm, the second was completely different. The second one came 20 seconds after the first finished.

It felt like I was a pinball machine, and there waa a dodge ball of pleasure stuffed into me going across the screen of my soul and bouncing around in me like the old DVD symbol when you dont have a disk in. This could also be described as the “waves of pleasure” ive seen people say that it starts at the prostate then moves across the whole body. but this isnt the best way to describe it. The waves originate from the prostate, but once the waves hit the edge of your body they deflect back into every direction like the waves in a pool.

Im happy. I can finally satisfy my curiosity and quell my obsession. These 2 years have been worth it.