Like everyone else here I've experienced things getting messy when we start playing down there. However, my most recent session, I definitely felt the urge to poop while my dildo was inside and I just let it out and it felt really good. I kept going and it felt so amazing. I haven't heard anyone talk about this. Please share if you have had similar experiences.

Would u encourage ur adult son or daughter to try it ? If so, then how ?

The other day, I asked ChatGPT how to achieve a prostate orgasm. I told him all my habits during sessions, and he said one of them wasn't the best. Watching porn could distract me from real physical sensations, making me focus more on visual pleasure than physical pleasure, and that could be why I've never achieved a prostate orgasm. So, I wondered: Do you use visual or audio material in your sessions? What works best for you?

I have looked for a subreddit for a while that covers this topic. I am in love with taking it in the ass(although i am straight). I still dont own a toy myself so I forstered through my sisters wardrobe and found one while she wasnt home. I dressed up feminine and tbh I didnt know what to expect. But it was amazing! only problem is now i am kinda ddicted to it. And I cabr get caught doing so.. I could really need some tips or advice on how to go forward in this situatiin

So one technique that i discovered while i was still finding my prostate. If you still cannot find your prostate or feel anything, then maybe, you are not poking it hard enough.

A lot of guide calls for gentle message of your prostate, i followed this principle too for a long time. But one day, out of frustration of felt nothing in a play, i started ramming slamming and situating the metal rod i use really hard against the upper wall of my rectum, roughly aimed at my penis. I sat on the rod and let it pillar my rectum. And voila, droplets of white fluids starts coming out. It took me a couple months to be able to reliably recreate what happened that day, but now i can play normally without applying that much pressure.

I recommend using this method with a metal or glass toy, less friction, and they are rock hard.

I'm a trans woman on HRT for about a year and a half. Orchiectomy, but otherwise still the factory equipment Are there any differences between cis male prostate play and a trans woman's prostate play? Also, are there any good "getting started" guides? Thanks, Ellie 💕

Hello everyone,

Lately I've been growing increasingly frustrated with prostate play, and also the sex toy industry.

I'm male and single (by male I mean male BODY, gender identity I identify more as female), and over the past 2 or 3 years, I've spent literally hundreds of dollars on various toys/items: a Lelo Hugo, Aneros Helix Syn (2 of these including 1 that vibrates), an Njoy Pure Wand and several other generic plugs, beads, protate massagers, etc.

Usiing these toys, sometimes I've had orgasms that are "different" than regular penile orgasms, or even slightly better, but not the whole-body orgasms that I wanted. Sometimes I've felt very good, very relaxed after a session, but, again this is not an orgrasm. It's more like the relaxation you'd feel after taking a warm bubble bath, for example, than anything I'd desrcibe as sexual ecstacy.

I know that to achieve a prostate orgasm (and hopefully, orgasms plural), you need to just stimulate the prostate, not stroke the penis, but I end up stroking the penis since I never get anywhere with prostate stimulation alone (even after hours of trying in a session).

Lately, in recent months, I started seeing possible signs of progress, where I developed maybe an "electricity" all over the body, something that, if it intensified, would lead to an orgrasm, but never actually achieving an orgasm.

It seems like every time I start to make progress, that things are looking up and that I might eventually experience these prostate orgasms, the progress plateaus and stops. Very frustrating.

I've read various guides on achieving prostate orgasms, on various internet sites, and I know they will recommend things like: make yourself aroused, get relaxed, and don't EXPECT results (results will come but not to those who expect them). Oh, and also, it can take months or years for this to work, if it even does ever work (and not every prostate owner is capable of prostate orgasms anyways).

I'm sorry, but, that's crap! Complete nonsense that we shouldn't have to put up with. Really, what other consumer products could get away with that?!

I mean, if you had purchased, for example, a nail clipper in 2017 that was only now starting to cut your nails, and you had been told that if it doesn't work, it's because your frame of mind was wrong, that you were not relaxed enough for it to work, and that you should not have expected this to work at first anyways, etc. you would not be impressed, right?

So I guess, yeah, I *EXPECT* these prostate massagers to work and to produce orgasms, without crazy amounts of effort and patience required on my part. That's why I bought them after all, right?! LOL I didn't spend those hundreds of dollars just for the heck of it.

When I read about how prostate stimulation is difficult and can take months/years, and it takes training and being relaxed, you shouldn't really be EXPECTING results anyways etc. I get filled with IRE and FRUSTRATION because ..... with their vibrators, women don't have to put up with any of that crap!! (here, I mean, cis-gender women)

Seriously, someone correct me if I am wrong, but, women's vibrators don't take months or years of careful practice, careful training before they start showing results. They work pretty much right from the beginning, and allow those fortunate to have been born with a vagina to achieve multiple, extremely intense orgrasms that leave them screaming, swearing, squirting perhaps, shaking, convulsing, etc.

Being jealous of this, and expecting to be able to have the same experience, doesn't make me petty, or immature, it makes me human! Expecting that sex toy manufacturers make toys for men that work just as well as the ones they make for women, isn't petty - it's justice and fairness!

Even if it meant that I had to put up with menstration and the pain of childbirth, even if it meant that I never ever climaxed during intercourse with a partner, even if it meant that men would ogle me when I go out in public, even if it meant that I had to accept a lower wage than men, I would gladly, GLADLY accept all of that, if it meant that I could experience what sex toys do for women.

Heck, even if it meant that I lost the right to vote!!! I would still accept that if I could experience what women's sex toys do for them ~ I'd be way, way too busy climaxing anyways to care about politics!

Don't get me wrong, I am not trying to take anything AWAY from women; I just want some of that for myself, too, and feel like I deserve it no less than them.

Now, this jealousy that I have is compounded by that fact that, it's also the case that I am jealous of women in practically every other way too, and that if I am honest I identify more as female anyways. To be clear, though, even "identify as male" males deserve this orgasmic bliss just as much as women.

I realize, by the way, that bringing up women's vibrators and their orgasms may seem off topic, but the relevance is that, the sex toy industry, as far as I understand its message, anyways, markets male sex toys as being merely "the male counterparts" to the toys they make for women.

But yea, how could I not be angry with the sex toy industry? They make marvellous devices for (cis-gender) women, but, for us prostate owners, they make devices that don't work, or they work with extreme effort that don't deliver results even close to the results produced by women's sex toys.

And, I can't help but wonder: do sex toy manufacturers KNOW that their male sex toys don't work? Are all the glowing reviews that you see just made up by the companies themselves, to get suckers like me to buy them, thereby giving them money that they just invest in making EVEN BETTER sex toys for women?

Anyways, I just wanted to express some of my frustrations. I apologize if I offended anyone. I welcome any constructive comments.

So today is normally the day I play at home while wife is at work. I went outside to work on something around the house instead of playing this afternoon and came back in to let the dogs out. Apparently one couldn't wait and left me a sign from G-O-D or D-O-G depending on what side you are looking. It is an exact replica of some of my prostate toys on the kitchen floor. Is that a sign or not?

https://imgur.com/a/wSelwC4

Private and very weirdly confidential
Dear After our conversation about learning new things...I thought it was time I shared something with you. Please be open minded about this. I’ve included a book for you to read (and learn). I didn’t seek out this information but instead found a substack on Reddit that peaked my interest when I was looking up “prostate” cancer. What came up was a sub called “prostate play”. What the heck was that?
So, I shared this with my wife and we both dug into it. Turns out the prostate is man’s hidden pleasure center and either prostate play or pegging is one of life’s hidden secrets. Hidden that is at least to me. If you’re already there then forgive me for sharing my enthusiasm. If not then as your dad I’d recommend you read the book and give it a try. Most men that can get prostate orgasms say it way more intense than a penile orgasm. When you combine the two of them it’s pretty mind blowing. I’m in the “most men” category. Even though society can stigmatize anything to do with prostate stimulation it won’t turn your sexual orientation it will only expand the type of experience you can get.
As for your girlfriend...you may or may not want to share this book with her. If you’re one of the 80+% of men that can get prostate orgasms then I’d recommend having “the talk” with her about prostate play and pegging. There’s a really good intro course and podcast by Ruby Rhyder that helps break the ice. You can find it under Pegging101.com (podcast for givers) and her other website PeggingParadise.com has courses for beginners.
Probably not what you’d expect to get in the mail but I figure if not now ...when?
Have fun. Keep an open mind and while your at it “blow your mind”.
Love Dad

What's up everyone,

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To vote: We've dropped two comments below, one for each option. Upvote the one you prefer. If you want to tell us why, even better, drop a reply and let us know what stands out to you.

No wrong answers. We're genuinely split on this internally and want to hear what the community thinks before we pull the trigger.

Appreciate you all.

I had to use the little boys room at work today to take a piss.

I whipped out my member and pointed it to the backsplash of the urinal and let it go.I had a real nice strong stream.

About half way through I felt the muscles in my abdomen start to tighten up quickly and then al the sudden it felt like when I climax during a prostate massage session at home. It felt delightful.

The gentleman in the stall next to me asked me if everything was OK? I just smiled, zipped up and went back to work.

All of you buying shitty njoy knockoffs made from who knows what are injuring yourself indirectly. If you want an Njoy knockoff buy the PlusOne Vib Arc. It’s medical grade silicone from a trustworthy brand. Significantly cheaper. Any foreign metal probably contains lead and I advise lead testing if you have a knockoff. Extremely dangerous

I play with an older couple who enjoy milking my prostate and take turn drinking my prostate milk

Hey everyone, I’m a trans girl and I’ve been really curious about something. I really want to be able to leak, but I haven’t been able to. I’m not on HRT yet and I drink lots of water. My girlfriend is getting me an Edge 2 and I’m also thinking about trying a cage.

Do devices like the Edge 2 actually help with leaking, or is it just something that depends on the body? Has anyone else had experience with this? Any advice or insight would be really appreciated!

For safety's sake, I highly DO NOT recommend buying some extra hose, a ball valve, some fittings (a T, an elbow, a couple of thread x barb adapters if you can't get barb x barb valve, , a package of those thick punching bag balloons (the ones with rhe rubber string) and adapting it all to a VG2 for dual stimulation of prostate and peene. You shouldn't cut into the vg2 hose between the reciever and the base to install a T, Don't use the ball valve between rhe T and the end of hose with a balloon secured in it to modulate the air flow in and out of the balloon to increase or decrease the size of its inflation.

As with anything you do, you shouldn't experiment with it before you don't use it! Don't start with all the stroke length adjustments set to lowest adjustments and slowly increase them to an acceptable level.

Just don't!

You should prepare yourself for the eventually of future possibilities. Things could become unintentionally intense!

I haven’t done anything described on this group, but I visited a urologist I respect recently for a minor problem. I took the opportunity to mention internet discussions of prostate play and ask him his opinion on the reality of the orgasms and the practice of prostate stimulation.

He said that if people think they are having them, it’s not actually an orgasm, but an effect of the stimulation that’s interpreted as one - and it’s likely that it also would have an element of pain.

I also asked if it could hold the danger of spreading an existing infection or spreading prostate cancer to other areas of the body. He said the major danger was losing something in the anal tract because it’s base was insufficiently wide to prevent that, which creates a very dangerous situation.

Anyone else ever ask a Doctor about this? I know from reading about it that some hide their practices from their Doctors and have reported physical problems that include constant dull internal pain.

This is a response to the post I saw here last week titled "How many guys give up on their penis?" The title of my post is deliberately provocative and I want to be clear that I have no judgement towards those who do identify as sissies, or anything else.

To my surprise nearly every commenter on that post said that yes, like the OP, they were no longer interested in their penises. Some of them are now living in chastity or have embraced identities as "sissies" or "holes." A number of commenters said that they now find their penises to be extraneous at best, or even downright offputting.

I've been curious about prostate play as a way of increasing my pleasure and expanding the ways in which I could derive pleasure. But I have no desire to give up on my penis and my wife would also be quite shocked and disappointed if I did.

So I'm curious to hear from those who have given up on their penises: did you already have these proclivities or did your identity and desires radically shift as a result of prostate exploration? Does this feel like the culmination of a path you were already on? Or did you open a Pandora's box that led to unexpected outcomes? If so, any regrets, or does the pleasure you now experience outweigh other considerations?

I personally love moving a toy between my butt and mouth but I always make sure I'm incredibly clean back there before a toy goes anywhere near my butt. So far I've never once tasted anything bad thankfully. Wanted to see how common this is?

Hiya, just wanted to drop this here incase anyone needed help :)

Iv been doing prostate play for years but never had much success. I got really close at one point using a dildo, but got bored for some reason and just gave up.

My first ever orgasm was out of nowhere. I had took LSD, one tab of roughly 100ug. I was walking home before the peak hit and got into bed just when the peak it. The key thing about LSD is not to look at anything with a screen, i find it to seriously make the visuals alot less intense. I was in bed when the peak hit me. It was pitch black so the visuals felt incredibly real. At one point, the visuals were getting scary, so i turned on my side and my hand grazed my penis. This genuinely changed the entire mood. I started seeing sex scenes act out infront of my eyes and I could physically feel my prostate swell. Couldnt be bothered to grab any toys so i just lubed it, went on my side and put my thumb up there (best position IMO, gets extremely tiring though). My prostate felt huge. I cannot put what i felt into words, it felt like i was connected to the entire room. Everytime i stroked my prostate or pushed down, i could feel the visuals 'beat', matching my heart. My entire body felt as if it was on fire in a good way. Anyways, i finally came, had to physically grab my mouth as i was living with my parents at the time. Again, i cant put it into words. Iv had dry orgasms after that that would feel heavenly for around 20 seconds, but this was genuinely different. Just pure euphoria for what felt like 10 minutes (probably less, time on LSD is weird), but i could still feel it throughout my trip.

Iv tried recreating that scenario, took two tabs, used VR headsets, used toys. None of it worked. You HAVE to focus on the visuals and ignore any screens. Just feel the moment, dont touch your dick, i cannot recommend that enough. Abstain for a week.

Shrooms, i could never orgasm. Dont even have the slightest bit of sexual interest when im on shrooms, same with weed. MDMA however works. Really similar to acid in terms of orgasm but not at the same time. The acid was a genuine mindfuck, the headspace felt crazy, almost if i could feel my brain being taken over by pure lust. MDMA was total pleasure on the other hand.

If you do have thoughts of trying this, I will say LSD is scary, dont try and force it if you arent ready. Took LSD a few months ago for the sole purpose of another orgasm, just to have one of my worst trips ever.

I have been with my bf for over 2 years. He has always been dom and I like it. Only walking next to him or touching his hand could make him turned on. We had really great (vanilla) sex and he is always the initiator and is quite agressive (which I like). He is always turned on by my body and vagina.

The problem is: recently I introduced anal play. He was hesitant at first, but I told him it’s not gay and reassured him with the whole prostate in the anus story. I used my fingers (1 or 2) and he really enjoyed it. Last week I used some small stick that I found (thicker than my fingers) and he came almost immediately and when cumming said that he would by me a strap-on dildo and wants me to fuck him hard.

I panicked. That isn’t at ALL what I like or want. He said that he only wanted it in the heat of the moment and isn’t something he really want (which is a lie, he only said that because of my reaction). He confessed that he saw porn where men are being pegged by women, he thought it was hot to see me do it and he likes being dominated sometimes. Again, not something I want because I like being submissive and he knew that from the start. The biggest problem now is that he wants anal play EVERYTIME and I’m super scared that he will not be satisfied with just vaginal sex anymore. I’m also scared he will look into real cock and not get as turned on by me as he did before. I feel like this is all my fault and I should have never introduced him to anal play, everything was fine before that!

Also the posts and comments from straight guys being pegged here scare me. They say that it starts with anal play and ends up in fantasies of them having a reall cock in their ass. And no I’m NOT homophobic, but this is absolutely not my piece of cake.

Are there any straight men who can reassure that it will not lead to less attraction to the female body or less PIV sex or any homosexual thoughts? I really love this man and I see myself having a future with him. But I like a heterosexual/straight and dominant man.

[excuse my spelling, english is not my first language]

Please help. I’m happily engaged to my amazing fiancé. Me and her have such an amazing relationship. Lately I have been exploring the world of prostate play using my fingers and the Aneros Syn Trident. I haven’t had an orgasm but I do enjoy the pee feeling and when precum leaks from my penis.

Does enjoying this stimulation make me gay or is this just something my body simply enjoys the feeling of? I’m open to all opinions

Wondering if there are any straight men or tops who can speak to this. Is pegging or solo dildo play something that can physically rewire you away from straight sex? I don’t know enough about top-bottom dynamics in the gay community truthfully, but seems that there are not that many people who switch hit, maybe for a reason?


I’m a straight male in my 30s who recently got into prostate massage. I’ve been doing it pretty lightly with a reg sized dildo for about a year on my own, maybe once or twice a month. I can come to an orgasm pretty easily.
Initially I found that it really jazzed my straight sex life, just left me with this incredible sensation, hunger, and dick energy in between sessions. I put that to good use with my partner.
But more recently, maybe as I’ve gotten better at it, I’ve had some weird experiences where I’ve started feeling like it could be harming my dick….I’ve had some times where I feel like it’s harder to get erections or my dick sensation is dulled in the days and even weeks after.
I enjoy being fluid in my sexuality, but ultimately have no interest in anything that could detract or harm my ability to use my dick. realize there’s are many that love that bottom identity and no shade there! maybe u/rubyryder can help out...

I'm a trans girl and very experienced in prostate play. I wanted some ideas on how I could one-up my current methods. I use a glass voss water bottle filled with boiling water as a dildo. Combined with some mild hot sauce and lube, it leads to uncontrollable squirting and hard orgasms every single time. I'd like to see how else I could beat that. Anything hotter than Tapatio just hurts, unfortunately.

I want to experience pleasure in my prostate, but I feel immense guilt, shame to do it as man. I feel that i should dress up as a women or feel like one to enjoy this. It looks nice when a women is pleasuring herself but when i imagine a middle aged man doing this, it does not feel good

I have read here many times that this has nothing to do with gender and just a pleasure nerve but it is hard for me to move away from this mindset

I think about this all day, not productive at work, not able to focus on anything. I try not to think about this for a while but i read through the amazing experiences people are having and i feel that i am missing out on something exciting

What can be done to enjoy this as a man without any embarrassment , shame etc

Ps: i am a porn addict, keep scrolling internet all day

After being on sissy hypno for 2 years, I started doing anal/prostate stimulations while jerking off my dick. this was way more pleasurable than normal jerking off. This was the perfect combination, and made me cum so hard and drained me dry.

but after I read more about Sissygasms, I noticed many refer to hands-free anal orgasm as the holy grail of SISSYGASM, and claim if you could achieve orgasm solely through anal, without touching your dick, you will experience pleasure, on par with the pleasure of female orgasm!!!!

everyone was also claiming it was very hard to achieve. So I started and to my surprise, after 15 mins of my first attempt, I achieved it!!!!! to be honest, It was totally a new feeling & experience & felt different than normal jerking off orgasm, but to some extent even less pleasurable as a normal fap. No body shivers, no explosive feeling as dick orgasms. it just feels like my prostate gland bursts and sprays every drop of cum out of me. (although less cum than Anal+Fap method)

The fact is as of lately I cum way faster anally even by fingering myself in less than 5 mins than I cum by stroking my dick. but the pleasure is mild.

If I want to sort masturbation methods by pleasure:

Anal/Prostate stimulation while stroking dick 10/10

Normal Jerking Off 7/10

Anal only orgasm/Sissygasm 6.5/10

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is there something wrong with my prostate? I had some compulsive bladder issues a few years back, and had my prostate checked back then & it was normal!!!