Hi all,

I have found my prostate and I can get to the need to pee stage easily enough. I just can seem to go past it, i will pee, continue and i will continue to pee. Eventually the stuff doesnt even seem to be pee.

How do you guys get past that?

I've been experimenting with prostate play for several months now. I have tried both the Aneros Progasm and Helix Syn, as well as the NJoy Pure Wand. If I'm being honest, I've gotten a bit frustrated lately - it feels like I'm stuck at around milestone 22 (https://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Getting_Started#Milestones). There's always this hint of something better, and I'm trying hard to relax and not chase (which I understand are two contradictory ideas).

However, I recently read about Tension Relieving Exercises (TRE) and followed along with this youtube video: https://youtu.be/QoB9wpuO688?si=y0vxIXpNpTf8ldTj

It's very accessible, and you can complete the whole process in 20 minutes. To my surprise, I achieved the targeted effect immediately on the first try (very strong tremours and shaking). Last night, I then did a Helix Syn session, and holy moly. I didn't quite have an orgasm, but I had extremely strong P-waves in succession, for about an hour. Like 9-9.5/10, 10 being an actual orgasm. This was the single biggest step forward I've experienced after having plateaued for quite some time now.

Today, I did another TRE session (without a toy, unrelated to prostate play) and while the shaking occurred, I felt a small vibration in the prostate region, and hints of pleasure.

So my question is: I see a little bit of discussion about TRE on this forum, but have people really gotten into this, and have people found a relationship between TRE and sexual performance, particularly for prostate play?

So I am new to this thread. I just discovered it a couple of days ago. A prostate orgasm is something I have wanted to experience for a very long time. I have tried many ways, including toys, partners, fingering me, etc. I have never been able to achieve it. Or even get close. I’m sometimes wonder if my prostate is a little difficult to find maybe it doesn’t protrude enough, because I can’t even experience pleasure from the attempt. Not that it hurts me or anything like that I mean, I am a bottom after all. But I know typically when the prospect is just being stimulated, the sensation is different. I never experienced that either.
So I figured turning to this thread I might get some useful tips. Because I’ve tried everything I could think of, and everything I’ve read other places,

DO NOT try if you don't have experience with prostate play and especially don't have experience with psychedelics.

Abstained for 8 days, with a big session at the 5 day mark where I did mushrooms. I found that session to be mind blowing even if I didn't cum hands free (still had many dry o's as well as some milking) but I felt like I wanted a larger dose of mushrooms as I only did enough to have a nice body buzz and some high fidelity visuals (it looked like the futa porn I was watch was in hyper resolution). I read here that lsd is a more energetic high, so I decided why not get two birds stoned at the same time and have a bigger trip.

Got through my work week and decided to do a tab (125 u) of acid. Lemme tell you it was amazing. Rode the trip out to where I was semi functional and experiencing some high framerate and wispy visuals and hopped in the shower to clean out and ride my dildos on the wall. So much pleasure for the next several hours between the shower and my room, and by far the closest i've gotten to a hands free ejaculation. I ended up cumming traditionally because I was so worked up and needed to release 3 times the day after the session. I would stop and start my sessions over again because I'd either need a break, a snack, water or a bit of rest but each time the pleasure picked right back up where I left it.

I've reset and am aiming for another session in 5 days, bought myself a new toy and some more lube and i'll report back with my findings.

Again don't do drugs just for an outcome (pun intended) I wanted to have a spiritual experience and I definitely did. The amount of self love and acceptance I had was off the charts. Set an intention, flow and watch the magic happen.

Toys I used were a 5 inch colours dildo, progasm, a stainless steel wand and a 6 inch thicker dildo. My 5 inch colours is my favorite right now because I can easily ride it at any speed and really grind on it for long periods of time.

And how long did it take? It's taken several years of semi-consistent play for me, but I'm now at a point where my ass is pretty well trained for penetration. I mainly use prostate massagers and regular-sized to large-sized dildos (nothing bigger than a large human cock), and it's almost like my ass knows what it wants now without me even having to think about it. My hole is still tight, but it can loosen up so much more easily when I feel the urge. I swear when I get horny it's as if my butt has a mind of its own, and I can take toys with pretty much zero resistance.

The best part of this is that the pleasurable sensations that come with penetration and prostate stimulation seem to be a lot more hypersensitive and easier to access with my hole fully relaxed and "welcoming" it. There's no tension or resistance in my ass anymore—it gladly accepts, and I couldn't be happier about it. I feel like my butt has fully "graduated" to being a full-fledged sex organ at this point.

Want to give myself a PM with my toy tonight but always cum too soon! Any tips for stopping the urge to play with myself and really find the spot? Always get too worked up and all the prep for a few second.

As the title says what toys or other products are you all looking out for this shopping season? Personally im hoping a hismith goes on sale somewhere. But id love to hear what everyone else is hoping goes on sale.

I am looking at buying my first glass dildo.

My favourite toy so far has been Njoy Pure wand and now i am interested in trying my first glass product.

I have bought a few silicon products but none has come close to Njoy wand for me.

Have you any experience with similar glass products that i have found?

https://www.amazon.com/Crystal-Glass-Plump-Insert-Pleasure/dp/B017P2CY0Y/

https://www.amazon.com/Beads-Curved-Glass-Dildo-Double/dp/B0CY47488Y/

Yesterday I had an experience that genuinely surprised me.

I've been experimenting with prostate massage for a while and have had prostate-only orgasms before, but yesterday was something else.

I was using my glass dildo with the bulbous head, and I was also wearing a chastity cage, so there was no direct penile stimulation or stroking involved.

The orgasm came entirely from prostate stimulation, and it was honestly one of the most intense I've ever experienced.

What surprised me even more was that I ejaculated noticeably more than usual, despite having no direct penile stimulation.

I've had some incredible experiences with prostate massage before, but this one really stood out.

I'm curious whether other guys have experienced something similar.

Have you been able to orgasm and ejaculate entirely from prostate stimulation?

Have you noticed differences in intensity depending on the type or shape of toy you're using?

Have you experienced a noticeably larger ejaculation from prostate stimulation alone?

I'm 44, and apparently I'm still discovering new things about my body. 🤣

Never have alone time since she does not work. Decisions decisions. Not sure what toy or toys to use.

Stimulated my prostates 5 hours ago its was nice and i did came handsfree but since the. I m feeling low on energy and drowsy is it normal had a quick nap too of around 1 hr

Okay I’m so sorry for this rambling mess of an essay.

I’ve had a break from Aneros sessions in the last 4-ish months due to being in a relationship. Actually not a very nice relationship, not to put a downer on your day. But I guess it was abusive. Anyway, he wouldn’t let me use my aneros toys which I suppose is relevant. The relationship ended a couple of weeks back. I’ve been feeling down ever since. It was my 19th birthday last Sunday and I treated myself to the Eupho Syn V :)

This week I picked up my aneros sessions again. Monday was my first and it was alright. I had some p-waves and mini orgasms but nothing like my sessions used to be. I decided to save my new toy until I was ‘back’

Wednesday I had anal orgasms, yay! With lots more gentle pleasure in other parts of my body. Getting back. At one point of that session I could feel something sort of welling up in my chest. Sadness? An orgasm? Couldn’t really tell but I think I subconsciously suppressed it because I didn’t trust it.

Friday nights/last nights session was amazing. I started off with lots of nice anal orgasms from my tempo, switched to the maximus and was immediately thrust in to lots of dry orgasms and then a few prostate orgasms. It was amazing to feel my prostate like that again after so long.

This session was so peaceful and calm. I was having lots of orgasms now. Anal orgasms, dry orgasms, mini orgasms that just washed over my whole body gently. It was so blissful.

I decided to get my birthday present and swap over to that. I was soo excited to try it I was shaking with excitement just putting it in. It felt great once inserted and I could feel it nestle against my prostate so nicely.

After a few minutes I got involuntary contractions but not like I’ve had before. They were very quick, like machine gun fire. Almost like my hole was vibrating. There’s no way I could control my muscles like that. I started to get a nice warm tingling that started in my anal canal and spread out everywhere. It was as if someone had just gently lowered me in to a warm bath. I could feel my body pushing the toy whilst twitching. Eventually the contractions slowed and then stopped. I could feel my heart beat absolutely thumping all over my body.

Another contraction started, drawing the eupho back in all the way and against my prostate. It sent a massive wave of pleasure out from my prostate and in to my ass. Contractions started again but not the small rapid ones. This time the eupho was pounding in to and over my prostate over and over. It felt so so so good. It turned in to really big prostate orgasms. My anal canal, prostate, cock, balls, premium all absolutely on fire with pleasure. I remember thinking ‘oh shit this is serious’ and just submitted to what my body wanted. There were 3 or 4 *big* prostate orgasms and at times I wondered if the pleasure was too intense.

**The emotional part**

Once they stopped I felt so horny. A really really intense arousal. I then started to feel cold. Like chills over my body. I immediately grabbed my blanket but it didn’t really help. I checked and my room was at 23 degrees Celsius so I shouldn’t be cold. I started to shiver all over quite intensely and felt sensitive emotionally and physically. This went on for 5 minutes I would say but I’m not entirely sure.

The cold feeling subsided but I was still shivering. I felt that something was welling up in my chest again. I was curious this time and tried to coax is out by focusing on it and telling myself I’d be okay. I focussed on it with everything I had and noticed I could feel tears starting. That feeling you behind your eyes and in your throat before you cry. I knew it was okay if I cried but nothing happened.

More contractions started and it was exactly like before. Huge feelings of pleasure from my prostate. So so intense. My heart was racing now and I could feel my cock becoming so hard and throbbing in time with my contractions. There was a sudden ‘attack’ of pleasure on top of my prostate orgasm that was over my entire body and caused me to tense up. It was maybe half a second long but stopped my contractions and stopped my shivering. I laid there completely still and in pure silence. Little twitches of pleasure coming from my prostate.

I felt compelled to hug myself. I hugged tight. I moved the hug up and down my body. This was all involuntary. I didn’t decide to do any of this. I hugged and squeezed tight and smiled a lot. Then began touching my body, my stomach mainly and occasionally straying up to my nipples which would cause immediate pleasure in my cock and prostate. I stopped and let my arms sort of splay directly out away from my body. I laid there and marvelled at how relaxed and content I felt. It was soo lovely. Orgasms are amazing but this is also a feeling I really enjoy from aneros. Blissed out happy and totally relaxed. My cock was still incredibly hard which is different for me, usually my cock pretty much disappears with aneros play. I could feel precum leaking from the top too. Again, not normal for me.

I started to feel like I was falling backward. Faster and faster. I knew this meant I could be heading to a super o as it has always been a precursor for me in the past. I started to feel a surging pleasure rise up and knew this was definitely what I hoped it would be. But tried to just remain present. My prostate throbbed with pleasure and it went all the way up my cock and felt like it was exploding out of the top and then covering my whole body head to toe in the pleasure. So weird! So intense. My body was shaking and trembling with pleasure. My moans were so trembly and weak. The pleasure just continued to grow to insane levels. At one point I had like an orgasm on top of the super-o? It felt like pleasure was firing out of my ass, cock and nipples. My body was soooo sensitive every little touch against my blanket or the bed felt orgasmic. I touched my nipples and moaned so loudly I couldn’t take it.

No I couldn’t take it. I began to feel sad? I think. I was amazed at what I was feeling. It was so beautiful. I’m so lucky. And then my mouth opened wide - involuntarily. I stopped breathing but could feel my throat/tongue doing something weird. Moving back and forth rapidly at the back of my mouth. It felt far away. And then everything felt far away. I could see my body. I was looking up at it from far away. I had to calm myself down a bit. Still able to feel every inch of super-o. But I began to feel more too. Like the orgasm began to pulsate out from my body in the distance and fill the huge void between me and it. But I could feel the orgasm in the void too. And this is where the tears started streaming down my face. My body took a breath - finally. And I started to sob uncontrollably. I mean really sob. I was crying so hard and I felt so fucking sad but it was beautiful. It was amazing. There was such a big release from my body on top of the most amazing intense pleasure I’ve ever felt. It carried on for what felt like 15 minutes. I have no idea. It can’t have been that long. My body tensed up hard. It felt like my ass had contracted 100% and drew up the eupho as far as it could possibly go. It was lodged in there. And then it somehow went further and started twitching and contracting in my ass. I could feel a pleasure rise up from my prostate from my ass and I began to cum. I hadn’t had this before. My first hfwo! I felt cum flowing out of my cock and down between my thighs and balls, flowing all the way down to my eupho. I could hear the contractions now my cum had slithered all the way down to my hole. It turned me on so much. The orgasm just didn’t stop. It turned in to another super-o. I’ve never had back to back supers before!! My cock was still rock hard and I wondered if I had had an orgasm or not? Had I just imagined it? Why’s it still hard?

It eventually stopped and I felt exhausted. I was breathless and felt like I was going to pass out. I laid there for a few minutes til my heart rate dropped and then took out the eupho to avoid any more excitement and cleaned myself up. I noticed it was pretty much clear liquid with a little bit of cum in there. So maybe not a hfwo? I went to get some water and I sat down in the kitchen and started thinking about what just happened to me and laughed. Wow. My body began telling me I was **not** done though and i had to go back to bed.

I put the eupho back in and had more dry-os, prostate orgasms and even some nipple orgasms too before I could feel that falling feeling again. Another super orgasm! This time I was giggling and smiling uncontrollably, I felt intense happiness. There were more tears but no sobbing this time. So incredible.

When it subsided it left me feeling relaxed and intensely euphoric. I felt like I could cry again from how amazing it is. My skin was so incredibly sensitive that any slight touch just sent pleasure through my body. The feeling of the corner of my blanket against my balls was amazing. The feeling of my feet touching against each other was euphoric. I lightly dragged my finger tips over my body and up towards my nipples to tease them a bit. That triggered another prostate orgasm. Which triggered another super-o. More smiling and giggling, more crying. Sometimes they were back to back with each other.

At some point after this I took my toy out and immediately fell asleep cause I woke up with the tip against my hole at 1am. Obviously I had to lube up and reinsert for another ride :) no supers this time.

This morning I’ve woken up feeling incredible. Energised, happy. And the aftershocks from last night are so lovely. I’m sat here watching tv occasionally closing my eyes while pleasure waves and the occasional mini orgasm wash over me with no toy in. Wow. Wow. Wow.

I thought it would take me a long time to reach the super-o again, I had no idea I would get to experience multiple super orgasms in a session and experience back to back super-os.

Hi basically, I’ve been doing prostate play for about 2 years now and it’s come to the point where my prostate is so sensitive and i can finish very easily from playing with it within 15 mins or so, and in fact i come more often from prostate stimulation than penile stimulation. Yet I have not experienced the magical super-o.

For my sessions, I use my njoy pure wand. It really hits the spot when I ride it in reverse, where the back of the curve reaches my area. I follow the sensation, and if it improves, I increase speed until I reach a hfwo. Yet I still cannot achieve a hfdo. What might I be doing wrong? Should I stimulate more slowly, faster, or at a steadier pace? Any guidance would be appreciated, thanks

Lately, I’ve been trying to think about ways to take my prostate play to the next level, and I think I hit on something this week.

I’ve been doing some good things lately and one of my exciting practices has been massaging the exterior of my anus and my perineum while I’m in the shower. I think the more I massage my perineum the more pleasure I’m feeling from it. This has given me incremental progress and nice feelings, but it is still left me hoping for more.

I have a glass dildo much in the shape like the Njoy wand and I’ve been trying to figure out how to use it manually for better pleasure. On Thursday, I decided to use the dildo as a warmup to my session. I tried being in a standing position with one leg up on a chair and rocking the glass dildo up against my prostate. I did this for about 20 minutes and didn’t feel a lot of pleasure, but it did feel like my insides were loosening up and possibly activating a little bit. I thought this would be a good way to warm up my prostate for an Aneros session

When I was done with the dildo, I inserted my Helix Trident and laid on the floor with my legs up on the couch. I could immediately tell that the Helix was reaching deeper and producing more sensations than in the past. At the end of the session, I was leaking more precum than I ever had, and it was incredibly arousing. I feel like I have unlocked another door in this giant maze of a journey, and I really feel like orgasm is right around the corner.

I am finding myself getting more creative on this journey and experimenting with different positions, toys, and methods. I would encourage everyone out there to be more creative in your exploration, and try different things if you’re struggling. We are all different and sometimes getting stuck in a methodology that you have read on the forum can stall progress, if you’re not willing to change it up from time to time.

Hello everyone! As the title states, I recently got my first prostate massager, a WeVibe Vector+, and would like some advice on prostate play.

First, I should mention, im not new to anal play in general as ive used buttplugs and small dildos, just my first experience with a massager

The advice im seeking is positions that you have personally found to give you the best sensation and pleasure in the prostate, so I can explore these positions to see if they work for me as well.

Also, what sensations do I look for to know its hitting me in the sweet spot? And what will I feel when im approaching or having a prostate orgasm?

Any advice is appreciated, thanks!

I've recently started exploring prostate stimulation and have a few questions about my experiences.

I don't use any toys or special equipment, just my fingers. I start slowly and gently, experimenting with different movements and applying light pressure. After some time, I sometimes notice a small amount of precum being released, occasionally in intervals.

The experience feels pleasurable at first, but I've noticed that the sensation sometimes fades during a session and then returns after i take a short break, like +10s

I'm also experimenting with different positions.

My questions are:

1. Is it normal for the sensations to come and go like this?

2. Is this type of stimulation capable of producing a prostate orgasm?

3. Are there any general recommendations or things I should keep in mind when exploring this?

So, I recently started experimenting with prostate play. I don't have any toys or anything, so I'm just using my fingers.I start by warming up and doing some gentle thrusting, pressing, and making a "come here" motion. After a while, I notice that some precum starts coming out. There isn't much, and it seems to come in "waves."It feels good, but for some reason, after a while into my session, I stop feeling anything. Then, the sensation suddenly comes back. Whenever this happens, I usually stop, wait a bit, and then continue.I'm also experimenting with different positions.

My questions are: Am I doing anything wrong during my sessions? Can the way I'm doing this lead to a prostate orgasm? Do you guys have any tips on how I can improve my sessions?

Doing kegels that are stimulating and then touching nipples then I have muscle spasms. What’s going on?

So, I recently started experimenting with prostate play. I don't have any toys or anything, so I'm just using my fingers.

I start by warming up and doing some gentle thrusting, pressing, and making a "come here" motion. After a while, I notice that some precum starts coming out. There isn't much, and it seems to come in "waves."

It feels good, but for some reason, after a while into my session, I stop feeling anything. Then, the sensation suddenly comes back. Whenever this happens, I usually stop, wait a bit, and then continue.

I'm also experimenting with different positions.

My questions are: Am I doing anything wrong during my sessions? Can the way I'm doing this lead to a prostate orgasm? Do you guys have any tips on how I can improve my sessions?

Hi guys,

I'm a big fan of fleshlights as well as being bisexual, I like getting fucked in the ass with a dick or a dildo it doesn't matter however I feel that with dildos, it takes away from the pleasure of the fleshlight and I tend to lose my erections because of it.

What type of toy can I use that in a way, is going to give my prostate a run for its money without being TOO overwhelming. I'm experienced with bigger sized toys and do prefer big toys if im being honest so I'm looking for something girthy.

I was looking at the Aneros line and they did have a girthy prostate massager but I wanted to get your opinions/advice on this.

this week has been active to say the least. Starting last Friday, i had a 4 hr session, 3 hfo, 1 hfwo. Sunday, 2 hfo. Tuesday 5 hfo, 1 SUPER O, yesterday 1 hfwo. ... almost every moment i get, i am inserted with my MGX. .. i need a rest, but my body is craving more.

Ive been wanting a sex doll. Specifically the one down in the comments. But because of the material, Ive heard it was bad with certain lubes and having to clean up. Are there any similar to this or other toys yall can recommend?

I have this dildo from Amazon that I use semi often. Whenever I want anything bigger than the njoy, I use it. It's around 1.6-1.9 inches wide and like 10 inches long. It feels nice, and the stiffness helps keep it inside and makes it possible to use hands free. The issue is I'm not sure if it maybe doing too much on my hole. It's made out of a stiff rubber material but often the hole itself would feel kinda sore after almost every use.

I don't know if it has to do with the material of it, or maybe it's because the shape or the slight texture it has.

If I should get a new one, which would you recommend?

I know not everyone leaks, but for those who do, what are some of your methods for getting as much out as possible? I know being hydrated is a big one, and maintaining arousal is obviously key. In terms of the prostate and the tools to stimulate it, though, is there anything you find increases it? The angle of the toy? Type of toy? Pressure? I am finding that if I keep my hand on my prostate massager steadily so that it's fully inside at maximum depth (to the point where the lower part of the "L" on the toy is firmly against my taint), I seem to leak more than when not. I'm trying to find other ways to increase the volume of my precum because I really enjoy tasting it while I'm in the middle of a session.

I think my contractions are not very suitable when I use a "Helix ANERO" toy, any advice to improve this? Some tricks to get better results? (type of poses/position and ways to use them)