I see how Seddit gives people advice; i see how that advice translates to confidence when approaching women. But, every man, woman, and situation is unique, and deserving of real time breaks and shifts in communication in order to achieve synchronicity with other people.

When given certain social cues, the most genuine response would be innate and instantaneous. There is no time to search the brain for cheesy lines or other backwards strategies. The most important thing is to regularly approach women until you become comfortable with the way you interact. Not all women will like you. This is normal, because you shouldn't like all women.

Practice, find your own style, be unique and listen to your sexual instincts. If you are interested in what your saying, the woman you are speaking to most likely will be, also.

Don't mask the way you talk, don't deviate toward something you can't keep up with. Just talk to them. Get out there and fail miserably. Experience counts.

EDIT: the title of this post relates to the seducer's internal dialogue, and how it can spiral toward an unhelpful direction when frantically stimulated.

Browsing seddit, this writer is overwhelmed with pages of advice, and wants every one to know that seddit is not the open tabernacle of seduction advice, but rather a few guidelines that may mildly change the course of action while seducing. The bulk of a seducer's internal dialogue should read as follows: "I am worthy to talk to this girl, and I am completely capable of seducing her."

People may read this and think, "I KNOW THAT, YOU FUCKING IDIOT!" To those people i say congratulations, because you know something that took this writer about three years to figure out.

Recently did another round of OLD because I'm apparently gonna catch covid at work anyways so why not be a bit riskier off work too?

Was chatting with a new girl and fell into an old routine. Had flashbacks to the first time inused it. And realized it was 12 years ago, when I was 21 and doing my first experiments with "game "

The same lines still work.

The lesson is ; game is a life long skill. Invest now and you can use these skills for the rest of your life.

The hardest part is the first steps. Once you begin making progress itll be easy. Just dont quit. Keep going. Invest in yourself and your skills for your future.

EDIT: the point of the post is to motivate you to keep working on your game. It's hard at first. Its discouraging. But it pays off. Keep at it.

I go into my routines a bit in the comments but honestly there are tons of better posts and people to teach you the techniques. I just wanted to share my gratitude to those people. And say you can do it too. Game is for everyone. And all the resources are already out there for free. No hate, only love for yall.

NOTICE to the hysteric nay-sayers: you're just self-reporting as having

• always relied on getting yourself drunk during party nights

• never had a closing hour pull

• probably never even experienced a closing hour because you're a quitter

• no idea what closing hours are like (not a collection of alcohol zombies; people actually drink less as the morning inches closer; peak drunk hours are roughly 11pm - 2am)

• no idea that completely normal/good looking girls are part of closing hour crowds

• a total lack of understanding why nightclubs are attractive locations -- hint hint: they have a disproportionate amount of girls looking for hook-ups

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Let's say a decent night club near you closes at 6am. Your strat could be to stay on a normal sleep schedule, sleep from 8pm to 4am, get up, do a quick morning routine, hit the club at 5am, completely fresh, pick up left over (doesn't mean ugly) chicks.

Pros:

• doesn't fuck your sleep schedule like normal night game

• very time efficient

• healthy compared to night game

Cons:

• club vibe probably shit compared to peak hours

• girls exhausted

• fewer girls to choose from

• you must be quick, no time to warm yourself up

• probably hard to find a wingman for this

• girls you pulled will want to sleep in your bed, something they'll have to do alone since you already had your sleep

Anyone have experience in this field? What strategies did you use? How were your results compared to conventional game?

Hi Seddit, Hoping this little anecdote will help someone out there recover from rejection and/or risk of oneitis.

Quick back-story: Two weeks ago tonight, I took an HB9 to the movies. Did things the old fashioned way (Read: Failed at Kino, failed, failed failed, but...). I was sort of in the mood to be more of a gentleman for this particular girl, as I am getting a hankering for something more than a casual hookup. Needless to say, this got me zilch on my attempts to get to date #2. To be clear, despite being a gentleman on our date, I did not display any neediness beyond my calm expression of interest in date#2.

In the ensuing week, I sent two perfectly reasonable, brief texts, expressing my interest in said follow-up. There was no response. Whatever, I know what went wrong (just about everything with my game), and after brooding for a day or two, picked myself up out of the rut with exercise, diet, friends, work, activity. Fuck that. I got shit to do.

Fast forward to today: Helping a friend run a couple of errands, and she asks if I had seen this girl since. I say, "yeah - ran into her briefly on friday night. She was awkward, I was not". Now my friend knows that I am awesome at not being awkward, having witnessed my skills in this area first hand. She agrees that it's great if I can keep state, and if HB9 wants to act all weird about nothing, that's her problem. It's my opinion that not responding to my two texts does not count as her doing me any wrong; in the big picture, this whole thing is pretty insignificant. No hard feelings there, though politely declining would've been more respectable than the silent treatment. Bottom line: I'm not hurt.

But then it hit me: If she feels awkward about what I see as essentially nothing, then she must think it's something. In all likelihood, she thinks she's hurt me or she thinks that I feel wronged in some way. This, I think, is rather egotistical of her. Giving herself too much credit, imagining she has some power over me or assuming that I have put her on a pedestal.

Man, dass some ol' bullshit right there! I got me a girl who rejected me, and subsequently projected imaginary neediness onto me.

The conclusion: This girl saved me a metric fuckton of trouble by not responding to me. Not only has she not hurt me, she's actually done me an enormous favor: She has filtered her disillusioned self out of my life. I'll see her again (small town), and grin.

tl;dr: Girl rejects me, acts awkwardly, I do not. Revelation ensues. Namely, if a girl is awkward after rejecting you, it probably means she's too full of herself for you to give a fuck about anyway. NEEEEXT!

EDIT: Wow! Mad responses to this - some very good, succinct summaries of what I was trying to say, lots of hate. Started to reply to some but....too much. So, yeah, this whole thing may seem as if I actually AM a little (lot?) butthurt, and some call me out on just fucking up on it all and venting on a board. All true (and admitted above), to at least some extent. The hope was that the conclusion - someone's more worried about it than me, and can thus, eat a dick, whilst I get on with it - would give a lil' morale boost to someone in a similar situation, and it stands.

All those crazy bitches? The ones who don't believe nice guys when they're just trying to talk. The ones who sleep around with jerks. The ones who won't acknowledge you. They're afraid. They've been hurt, and they don't believe love exists in the world. You have to be cautious, and you have to be skillful--as with any form of communication--to ease your way into their hearts. It's not about being a pickup artist; it's about developing proper communications skills to deal with damaged people who are too afraid to trust.

And all you players who just fuck 'em and dump 'em: You're ruining it for the rest of us, those of us who genuinely want to meet someone.

The best con artist leaves his mark feeling happier and wealthier. If you're going to play the game, at least play it right. Just try to be a good person and success will come to you.

Due to the overwhelming negative feedback, I decided to delete this one.

Thanks to everyone who who gave me positive feedback and kind words.

This may hurt, offend and anger some of you, but it needs to be said.

99% of guys who don't get laid when they go out make this ONE mistake over and over again...

They

Don't

Elicit

Emotion

From

The

Fucking

Girl

I know you may think you do, but you don't.

Self amusing doesn't count.

Cracking a 'safe' joke doesn't count.

Teasing the girl ONCE while laughing at your own joke and saying "just kidding" DOES, NOT, COUNT.

You gotta be a little...dangerous.

You gotta make her feel actual deep emotions.

Happiness.

Sadness.

REAL fear of losing you.

Validation.

REAL lack of validation.

Anger.

Surprise.

Etc etc etc.

Almost every time I see someone from the community talk to a girl in a bar the conversation is either:

1. Boring

2. "Charming" but plain as FUCK.

There's no danger in there.

Tell the girl to go fuck herself.

Tell her she remind of your fucking grandma...who's dead.

Tell her she needs to stop hitting on you or you gonna have to call the security - WITHOUT making it super fucking obvious it's a fucking joke, it should feel like it's at least a LITTLE bit of truth to your joke.

Stop being so damn plain, safe and NICE.

One of the main things we always have to go over time and time again on program is how to stop joking in a way that makes the girl feel so god damned comfortable.

Yes, it's good to make her feel comfortable, in terms of safety and cringe-wise.

But she shouldn't feel like you're a 'plain' guy.

Sometimes I even teach guys some inteeeeense fucking teasing and dirty talking.

Like...

"I'm gonna drag you into the bathroom, bend you over the toiled and fuck you like a little whore".

And they manage to make THAT sound silly and 'cute'.

Like what in the actual fuck.

Man up.

Stop being so damn nice.

That would be all for today,

You may now be dismissed.

- P

P.S.
Do not be a psychopath. Don't make people feel UNSAFE and don't make girls scared. Back off and even apologize if you over step people's boundaries.

I shouldn't need to make that disclaimer...but, you know, common sense and stuff...

I mean, that's the way I treat women. Unfortunately, for some reason they prefer to have sex with men who treat them like equals. I think that just goes to show how naturally gullible they are.

I know some people may call me a misogynist, since one of the main goals of the feminist movement was to end attitudes like this, but real gentlemen don't care about women's opinions.

How would you feel if a woman in your family engaged in such shameful behavior as enjoying sex? Women hate sex, and will only do it if they are promised a lot in return, so if a man and a woman have casual sex, you can pretty much assume that the woman is being used.

Outside of lifting weights to get a better body and wearing clothes that are in style for your given setting/environment, there is really no "self-improvement" involved when getting hot girls. So many guys get it wrong and think they need to read nice books, become geniuses, earn that six figure salary, and be this renaissance man to get hot girls. They're wrong!

Think about your college days for a second, who was likely getting the hottest girls back then?

In most cases, if you went to college in America, it was football players, athletes, and fraternity brothers in select fraternities sleeping with the hottest girls. Most of these guys were not intelligent, they likely weren't hard working, and chances are that they didn't really have anything special or interesting about them. Many of the times, these guys weren't even that good looking.

You guys think the hot blonde you see walking into a bar is somehow amazed by your understanding of Aristotle or sexual dynamics, she isn't! So many of you have read countless books about seduction and human psychology, you're wasting your time.

The truth is, hot girls out there have slept with guys uglier, less educated, poorer, and less interesting than you. How?!

The difference between you and the guy that sleeps with hot girls is the fact that the guy who sleeps with hot girls either lucked into or made lifestyle choices that put him around a lot of hot girls. He rushed a certain fraternity and received a bid for one of the best houses on campus, that way he slept with the hottest girls on campus. The guy likely grew up in a wealthier neighborhood meaning that from day one, he was already around a lot of hot girls and interacting with them at an earlier age.

A lot of these guys have nothing special about them, there is literally nothing "interesting" or "mysterious" about guys that sleep with a lot of hot girls. The thing is, they were just good looking enough (not out of shape or too skinny, no facial deformities, and had style that was right for their environment).

"So you're saying game doesn't mean anything?"

No, you NEED some sort of game but just not all this over-complicated nonsense PUAs talk about such as "shifting your body at a certain angle" or "rubbing her legs in public in front of her friends because it is so KINOing bro!". Game is basically not acting like a socially retarded buffoon around hot girls, something most guys will do but the guys that get with hot girls don't. For the most part, game is the simple stuff such as: not being a nice guy, not becoming too attached, not texting her over and over again when she hasn't replied, and not pouring your emotions out to her.

So many of you guys think you need to read certain amounts of books and do certain kinds of approaches when the truth is, you should be working on making lifestyle choices that put you into contact with hot girls.

Most hot girls from my experience do not get with random creepy PUA type of guys that approach them in public.

At bars, I see these girls hide from creepy guys that approach the RSD nation style, that shit literally doesn't work.

I am sure most of you have been stuck in an anxiety spiral at some point in your life. Anxiety spiral is a word I made up, and it basically means when you are paralyzed and crippled by anxiety. Your brain is constantly attacking you with negative thoughts and you feel like you can't move or do anything. You are being pushed in a million different directions by different emotions, and your mind is racing with a million different thoughts, but none of them are "right." All you really want to do is blast off to outer space and end up on a different planet. Some of you may end up in an anxiety spiral when you think about approaching girls.

Here is some important news: girls are ALWAYS STUCK IN ANXIETY SPIRALS. You may think you feel insecure and/or anxious, but I guarantee girls feel way more insecure and anxious than you. No matter who it is. It has been scientifically proven that women feel about double the anxiety that mean do. And if you've ever heard a woman talk about her day when she is freaking out, you will see she is an anxiety spiral. Feminists and scientists disagree over whether women's higher anxiety is because of genetics or social factors, but they both agree it is true. You may freak out approaching girls, but women have so much anxiety they never approach men, EVER. Think about that. Think about all the hot guys women are attracted to that they never approach because they are just too afraid.

Part of the reason women are attracted to confident men is because men are less likely to have anxiety. Men are their emotional "rock" that can cure their anxiety. Women are repelled by insecure, anxious guys because women are trying to overcome that in themselves.

Imagine you are a normal, sober guy who has never had a drug problem and then you were invited to a party where a bunch of junkies were doing heroin. How would you feel? You would probably be annoyed or uncomfortable, but it wouldn't impact you too much. You might even hang around just to be nice. But let's say you were a recovering junkie yourself and you had only been sober for a few months and you were proud of yourself. You would be more disgusted at a junkie party because you would know that being around junkies would cause you to maybe want to do heroin again. You would run away from that junkie party! You would feel disgusted, afraid, ashamed, etc... That's how women feel around un-confident guys. They don't run away in disgust because they are better than you or becuase they themselves are paragons of confidence, but precisely because they themselves live in anxiety spirals and they are disgusted by that. Men are literally the only escape women can find from their own anxiety spirals.

This is why women are turned off by even the slightest indication that you aren't in total control. You can act confident all night but if you say one little thing that indicates anxiety or fear, women will pick up on that because that is what they themselves obsess about all day.

So how can you escape your anxiety spirals? Well, it takes a lot of work. You need to lift weights, dress better, make good friends, be clean, etc... If you have emotional/mental problems you need to see a therapist. You need to find fulfilling, fun hobbies and activities and do something productive and cool with your life.

But here is the thing: everybody has some anxiety. In fact, some of the most successful, powerful people in the world are riddled with anxiety. They are successful precisely because they are so self-critical and are constantly worried that they could have done a better job.

Most guys with the bulletproof confidence that women crave are arrogant douchebags who can't and haven't accomplished anything in their lives. I have a cousin who is a drug dealer and is amazing with girls because he is a narcissist who feels like he is God and acts that way. Problem is, he can't listen to any criticism or accept that he could do things in a different way because of his insane confidence. My cousin came to visit me at college one weekend and we went to a party where a really tough amateur boxer was drunk. This boxer is known for starting fights and beating random people up, and the boxer cut my cousin in line and stepped on his shoe. Now, my cousin can't fight worth shit, but his confidence is insane. He also didn't know the guy was a boxer. When the guy stepped on my cousin's shoe my cousin just looked at him calmly and said "step on my shoes I'll have you singing the blues." The boxer backed down. My cousin was so confident that he bluffed this boxer into thinking he was tough. Of course, cousin would have gotten his ass kicked if they had actually fought. But his confidence intimidated the guy.

So how do you project bulletproof confidence even though you still have some anxiety? Simple: fake it. When you around women, you have to play a character. This character is a godlike creature that lives on another realm that is perturbed by regular people problems. You have to forget all your previous embarassments, failures and insecurities. Pretend like you are Hugh Hefner, Brad Pitt and Jay-Z rolled into one. Remember, no matter how successful/awesome you become, you will never attain the bulletproof level of confidence that women are attracted to. You literally have to feel and act like you live on a different plane of consciousness. You can worry about your fears and shortcomings another time, but around women you have to be amazing.

The other night, I went out with a couple of guys here in Spain. We were doing some bar game - basically just chatting, laughing, talking to girls at around 10 or 11 pm. The vibe was light. We were in a playful, joking mood.

I approached a group of three girls while my two friends hung back, and I was just being silly - breaking the fourth wall, making jokes. At some point, I casually said, “Yeah, I do daygame. I like meeting women in real life. So I just go approach them on the street.” I said it in a fun way, with a smile, not taking myself too seriously.

One of the girls turned out to be bisexual, and also very into feminism - two things that, for a lot of guys, would instantly trigger a “uh-oh, this won’t go well” reaction. But guess what?

We had good banter. She was laughing, and she liked the idea of daygame when I explained it as, “Hey, instead of flirt on apps, I like to talk to girls in the real world. And after work I just go to a busy street, have my daily walk and when I see a girl that I like, I go talk to her”

Now, here’s where it gets interesting.

My acquaintance - one of the guys I was with - jumped in. He’s big on masculinity stuff, which is fine, but the way he phrased it was:

"Yeah, we’re basically bringing back masculinity.”

Immediately, the same girl responded with, “Ugh, that sounds kind of toxic.”

Now, here’s the thing: what he meant and what I meant were almost identical. He wasn’t trying to be aggressive or anything. He just meant, “Don’t be soft, don’t hide behind your phone, take charge of your life, talk to women in real life.” That’s essentially what I was saying too.

But because he used the frame of “masculinity” (a word that’s emotionally charged for a lot of women), it got shut down.

Meanwhile, my frame - “I’m a regular guy who likes women, and I prefer to flirt in real life instead of online” - got a completely different response.

Same core message. Totally different outcomes.

You can say two things that are basically the same, but depending on how you frame them, you’ll get completely different reactions.

This is why I’m very intentional about how I frame things in my posts. You’ll notice I don’t use typical “pickup” lingo. I don’t say stuff like “game” or “gaming girls” - not because I’m scared of the terms, but because they don’t frame things in a helpful or accurate way.

“Gaming someone” sounds manipulative. “Pickup” makes it sound like you’re trying to “win” something.

I’d rather say:

“I like to meet women. I enjoy flirting. Instead of doing it on dating apps, I do it in real life.”

Simple. Honest. Human.

That’s a frame people can understand - even respect.

So here’s the takeaway: When you’re talking about what you’re doing (especially with women), be mindful of your frame. You’re not hiding or sugar-coating anything - you’re just telling the truth in a way that reflects the full picture.

And it’s not only about how you frame these things to others but more importantly how you frame things in your own mind.

I was a club in Korea yesterday with couple of friends. If you didn't know, Korean girls are very hard to pick up, because breaking the ice is harder in the Korean society. They also tend to hang out in groups, so it's hard to pull one's attention out of the group. I had so much trouble trying to catch a girl's attention on the dance floor, that I would almost always end up leaving empty-handed.

But yesterday, my friend's friend did something incredibly simple but extremely effective to get the a girl's full attention. He isn't even attractive or tall, but this one technique helped him score many numbers: Casually tap the girl on the shoulder, and when she looks at you, just smile and wave.

9 out of 10 times, the girl who was tapped (no pun intended) would look up, meet eyes, smile, and wave back (or bow). That simple. Very harmless and casual, and shows you are friendly. If the girl doesn't wave you back, then you have really nothing to lose, because that means the girl is simply a b*tch from the start.

I was astonished how easy, yet effective this method was. I tried pulling this method as soon as I learned about it, and like a lie, I was able to score a couple of numbers from attractive girls (knowing how to speak to the girl on the dance floor is a different topic). I also enjoyed just dancing with the girls I waved at, since we did meet eyes and acknowledge each other.

Give it a try, even if you are shy. The more you get to wave, the more you will realize that most girls aren't emotionless beings. Girls appreciate when guys show interest in them in the gentlest way possible.

TL;DR: Tap a girl in the back, and just wave at the girl. If she smiles and waves you back, you are already 50% closer to her number.

EDIT: This method works best with people dancing in the middle of a loud, crowded dance floor, and want to catch her attention there.

TO clarify how I tap a girl on the shoulder, I don't straight up creep up behind her, feel her body while smiling like a rapist. I simply approach next or in front of her while dancing, and wave first. If she doesn't notice you waving, then you gently tap her shoulder/arm (just to get her attention) and wave again, and keep dancing with her this time.

I always see the people that are the most masculine and radiate a powerful masculine energy have an easy time attracting a woman they want. While more feminine guys, that have feminine traits get friendzoned.

This also happens to me right now, women not seeing me as a potential sexual partner, getting friendzoned and them actually thinking I am gay at the end of a date.

How do you increase this energy? How do you make yourself more masculine?

I am not a 10/10 male but I know that im attractive on a societal superficial level.

I'll jump straight to why it's bad to be attractive, and that reason is PEOPLE REMEBER YOU, no matter how short the interaction......no matter how awkward and bad it was, she will remember you. Maybe not for 3 years but she will remember your face for a good month after the approach, and even remember slight awkward details, your nervousness, the cringy line you used etc. You can't be invisible in the nightclub because every girl has already seen you, meaning they see you approaching girls.

even though I am attractive it doesn't mean I am naturally socially intelligent. I was actually quite socially isolated most of my life. I guess I can use re approaching to my advantage when I get better at "game" but at the moment being horrible at cold approach and "game" it's fucking difficult.

TBH i don't think getting girls/pussy is actually that hard... like literally if you focus on yourself (school, job, or business), build your social circle (hang out with friends), focus on your body (going to the gym working out, eating the right food), focus on dressing your best (getting some nice outfits, nice drip, nice shoes, nice coats, nice chains), focus on improving your living situation (nicer bed, nicer coach), focus on doing something you love and want to compete in such as football, hockey, basketball, volleyball.

assuming you do all that and you just smile and walk around and ask girls to come to you or you approach the girls yourself, you'll get more pussy than ever. i have had that experience before, 2 girls at my work were competing for my attention, but that's it.

that's what i see the guys who get pussy do. they literally are dressed sharpy, smiling, positive, they carry themselves with swagger, they appear to be calm even when their annoyed and that's it, they don't worry about shit they can't control, they have a big ego, they are selfish, cold, heartless and prioritize themselves over anyone else. they don't let pussy distract them. they don't let pussy ruin their lives. they don't give pussy more power than they want to give it. these guys wouldn't think twice of attending a hockey game over going to their girlfriends birthday party (as in they would rather play hockey over going to the BD party).

Happened twice now that I met an extremely horny girl at a party and she offers to have sex with me but I'm having a great time and don't want to go home yet and we promise to hook up after but she ends up feeling like shit towards the end and is no longer interested

I used to think attraction was completely random—you either had 'it' or you didn't. But after spending the last year breaking down the psychology behind high-level social interactions, I noticed a specific pattern that 'natural' charmers use without even realizing it. It’s not about pickup lines or faking a persona; it’s about signaling two conflicting traits simultaneously. I call this 'The Twin Method.' Most guys fail because they only project one side of the coin (either too nice or too aloof), but the magic happens in the middle. Here is the psychological breakdown of how it works and how you can apply it tonight.

There is a common misconception in modern dating that 'playing games' is toxic. But from a psychological standpoint, constant availability is often interpreted by the brain as low value. I wanted to write a guide on 'Unshakeable Composure' because I see so many men losing their cool the moment they get a little bit of interest. Real attraction isn't built on validation; it's built on tension. Below, I’m going to outline the science behind why we want what we can't quite grasp, and how to maintain your composure so you don't self-sabotage a promising connection.

The Body of the Post: "The Core Principles"

1. The Paradox of Presence (High Value vs. High Warmth) Most guys lean too hard into one side. You have "The Nice Guy" who is all warmth but no value (leading to the friend zone), or "The Hard to Get" guy who has value but no warmth (leading to being ignored). The Twin Method is about the simultaneous signal. You need to show you are high-status and capable of being "the prize," while maintaining enough warmth that you don't seem like an arrogant jerk. It’s the difference between being a "fan" and being a "peer."

2. Tactical Vulnerability (The "Composure" Anchor) One of the biggest concepts in the book is "Unshakeable Composure." This doesn't mean being a robot. It means that your emotional state is not dependent on her reaction. When you share a small, controlled piece of vulnerability—like a self-deprecating joke or a minor struggle—while maintaining a relaxed, confident posture, it creates a "Relatability Bridge." It proves you are confident enough to be imperfect.

3. The Tension Loop (Creating "Desire") Desire isn't built when you’re talking; it’s built in the pauses. The Science of Desire relies on the "Push-Pull" dynamic. You give a genuine compliment (the Pull), and then you immediately pivot the conversation to a challenging topic or a playful disagreement (the Push). This creates a psychological "Tension Loop" where the other person feels the need to re-engage with you to resolve that tension.

This is just the tip of the iceberg, but I've found that just applying the 'Tension Loop' alone changes the energy of a conversation within minutes. I actually put together a 50-page deep dive on these specific psychological triggers called 'The Twin Method' where I go into the looks-maxing and high-level body language stuff too.

I don't want to spam the link here, but if you're interested in the full system, its on my website! . Otherwise, I'm happy to answer any questions about these 3 points in the comments!

Girls like to poke fun about height I wanna know some good witty and flirty replies or comebacks for such situations?

So I know the title sounds cocky and I don't mean it to. I'm just stating my truth. I have been going really hard since the day I discovered cold approach pick up in 2012 and it took roughly two years or so but I am now at a point where I pull new girls very regularly.

I have learned a lot of technique and theory over the years, worked on myself socially, and spent a lot of time in the field and the biggest difference that I can see plain as day from the outside between me and my wings/guys I meet that don't pull is this...

I try REALLY fucking hard when I get turned on.

I know it probably sounds pretty common sense or maybe even like "bad game" and someone might say "don't be so try hard!" but the truth is that nightgame is complete madness and you have to be crazy to think a girl is going to come home with you, a stranger.

They have a ton of reasons not to do it, and only one reason to do it, and that's to get fucked.

They will come at you with all of the objections about they aren't coming home with you and by justifying them with an answer, you give them weight. Don't even address the objections, tease them.

"I'm going home with my friends." They aren't your friends they talk shit about you when you aren't around. "I don't even know you." That's the fuckin problem you need to know me right now let's go. "I have to be up early in the morning." You're a basic whitegirl, I know you've heard of Starbucks.

Just some examples.

This is a nightgame infield of me making out with a hot black girl a couple nights ago as her friends literally try and rip her away from me. I just give no fucks: https://youtu.be/eNluVx4DMlg