We had two boys before giving birth to the twins. Thought having experience as a parent would be enough, and boyyyyy was I wrong. I’ve never felt so unprepared, mentally, physically, or even cognitively lol.
I’ve been sleep deprived for the entire month, but not from not sleeping (though I haven’t been sleeping). I’m sleep deprived from not even having an opportunity to take a nap to make up for the lost sleep. It’s just not possible with twins. They almost feel constantly attached, almost literally 24/7. One sleeps the other cries, this other sleeps the first one cries, and so on.
Last night I got 4 hrs of sleep I think, I don’t even remember anymore. I even forgot what day it was just now.
Anyways, I love these boys, they’re awesome and I feel lucky to have them and I’m optimistic there will be light at the end of the tunnel. Just have to make it through this year I guess.
PSA to all new twin parents out there. If you’ve had experience before, don’t rely on it, there’s levels and this is way above the experience of just one child. To all new twin parents, buckle up, your life will absolutely change overnight (you just probably won’t be able to tell the difference between night and day).
We got this. God speed!!!