r/bigdickproblems • • 14h ago

AskBDP Hung guys, have you ever wished you had a friend you could actually talk to about being hung? NSFW

43 Upvotes

I love subreddits like this because people are surprisingly open and honest about their size on here....but real life is obviously different. I get the sensrme there are not many people you can casually mention your size to without wondering if they will get uncomfortable, jealous, assume you are bragging, or suddenly start looking at you differently.

Given all the different topics discussed here, would you ever want a friend where it was just a completely normal subject. You could mention an awkward situation, laugh about something that happened, talk about dating or clothes or whatever, and your size would just be another thing you could talk about without it becoming weird? Maybe you have this already or would just prefer to keep this stuff private / online?


r/bigdickproblems • • 4h ago

Dick-scrimination Adult stores. Sigh NSFW

7 Upvotes

I'm 6 x 6 so I need wider condoms. Today I went to buy 64/69mm condoms at an adult store.

You can't get them even online in my country. Asked for them and the person looked at me as if I'm lying.

I'm skinny, not tall and have smallish hands and feet so I definitely don't fit the stereotype. They only had 69mm ones which are slightly too loose for my liking. I have to be rock hard to use them comfortably.

She tried to give me 53mm ones lol. I wanted a sex toy as well, but left with the condoms. Getting for my girth is difficult as you can't exactly test it.

Besides being outrageously expensive I didn't need that in my life. Not bragging about it. It's embarrassing for me to buy condoms even at an adult store.

Is this a common experience for others here?


r/bigdickproblems • • 6h ago

Positivity Positions where a longer penis is “required” NSFW

8 Upvotes

What positions sort of need a longer dick to feel good?


r/bigdickproblems • • 6m ago

AskBDP Buttplugs during PIV NSFW

2 Upvotes

My partner and I are interested in trying anal olay for the first time, we were thinking about (her) using a buttplug during PIV sex.

From what i heard a buttplug can make her feel tighter.

Im on the thicker side (17cm/6.7in), so i was wondering if that could be a problem.

Do you have any experience with that?

Thx.


r/bigdickproblems • • 18h ago

Sex Cervix NSFW

25 Upvotes

Can a penis thats 6.5 Inches long in length and 5.4 inches in girth reach the cervix or is it to small to?


r/bigdickproblems • • 13h ago

AskBDP Those of you who found out about your pp size later in life, did your attitude change a bit? NSFW

10 Upvotes

I don’t know if it’s just age or figuring out I’m packing heat but I haven’t gotten annoyed by anything since I found out.


r/bigdickproblems • • 19h ago

Clothing Underwear for bigger penises NSFW

24 Upvotes

Looking for recommendations for underwear for my son. Before you all freak out and say I’m a creep or something, I’m just trying to help my son be comfortable. He has come to me for advice about his penis and we’ve ended up here. He’s always saying that he doesn’t have enough space and feels cramped all day. He also has big balls.

He’s worn Calvin Klein mesh boxer briefs, saxx pouch ones, skims boxer briefs and he’s tried wildmanT boxer briefs, which he said gave his penis room but his balls were still slightly cramped, and the legs were too short for his liking.

His penis is anywhere from 4 to around 6 inches soft depending on the temperature and around 8.5 inches when it’s hard. Any help would be appreciated!


r/bigdickproblems • • 16h ago

Clothing For guys who also have big balls: do you wear boxers, boxer briefs, or briefs? And what brands? NSFW

11 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

Story Blowjobs NSFW

90 Upvotes

Weird experience, I’m 6.5” in girth and ever girl I’ve been with had been honestly pretty good with the blowjobs even though you’d except a nightmare.

I met this girl a while back who I’ve been with, she mentioned to me that she “doesn’t do it” and that her ex she broke up with she has never done it in 6 years? I was like woah, this ain’t gonna work.

We hang out the other night, and she absolutely sucked the soul out of me, and she said she loved it and never had the urge until she met me.

Idk could be lies, but there is hope out there, I may have converted her 😭


r/bigdickproblems • • 20h ago

Sex Desire to fuck roughly NSFW

11 Upvotes

I’m around 8x5.5” So, I’m big but not a total monster. However, my partner is not willing, let alone enthusiastic about having hard, to borderline rough sex. I love gentle sex, of course, but omg I sometimes want to let loose!


r/bigdickproblems • • 15h ago

AskBDP Stretched flaccid measurement is coming up as LESS than erect length? NSFW

4 Upvotes

How is this possible? Erect measurement is 21cm, maybe 20cm on a bad day. But tonight, my stretched flaccid length was 7.5” how can this be?

Has this ever happened to anyone else?


r/bigdickproblems • • 15h ago

Sex Does anyone have any tips for sex? NSFW

3 Upvotes

I've been with 10+ people and I don't think I'm doing well enough in the bedroom what would y'all recommend me doing to improve myself?


r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

AskBDP bi/gay guys, are you really that hung? NSFW

20 Upvotes

so, i am bi, and although i havent had many experiences yet, most men i have seen so far seem to be on the larger side, was curious if that is some kind of universal experience?

being the larger side does seem to me something queer men care more than woman, at least openly, so perhaps that could be a reason


r/bigdickproblems • • 22h ago

AskBDP does seeing the size ever lose its Wow factor? NSFW

8 Upvotes

Pretty much the title.

For us that have it, I guess we do become numb to our own little guy. But if you're that second person looking and feeling it, does it ever lose its wow factor? Do you always think it's a challenge or if you get it down there is always some amazement at how far it got in?


r/bigdickproblems • • 16h ago

AskBDP What exactly is bone press measurements compared to non bone press measurements? NSFW

2 Upvotes

r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

AskBDP Dirty Talk NSFW

12 Upvotes

So I'm well endowed but autistic and awkward.

I get praise all the time by people in my community and partners about how well hung I am.

And I say...

"Oh yeah?" Or "You like that?" Or "heh, thanks."

Im always trying to think about what to say to the praise, and i think im GOOD at dirty talk. Normally i just accept cringe as something that happens cause the blood isnt in my brains language centre during sex, yknow? And DURING its not so bad, cause you can refer to what happening instead of what could happen (ie. "Do you feel spoiled?" And "aww, that looks so difficult" and "I can feel you stretching.")

But like, before hand during foreplay, or when the reveal happens and they're pleasently suprised, I just dont know what to say in relation to my size. Like what sounds sexy and what sounds cringe.

In p0rn, when i see size praise, the guys are usually silent, or like me, kinda fall over their words.

Less cringy ideas ive had include just downplaying it like "is it?" Or like "if you say so." But that usually just leads to more praise (oh no!) And im back to where I started.

Anyway, what do you guys say when a partner is pleasantly surprised or u get a compliment at a beach or at a Dungeon rave or something?


r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

AskBDP How to have sex with a 6.5 inch girth? NSFW

18 Upvotes

Hey so I’m 22 and recently lost my virginity but it was a struggle to actually get it in (had to try about 5 separate times and do a lot of foreplay). This was a couple weeks ago and when we met up again last night I couldn’t even get it in at all (MAYBE part of the tip). I’m sure part of this is due to my lack of experience but does anyone have advice for how to overcome this issue? (For context I’m about 8.5 in length and 6.5 in girth)


r/bigdickproblems • • 5h ago

AskBDP Will 6.5 girth be an issue for sex? NSFW

0 Upvotes

Hard I am ~8.5 in length and just over 6.5 in girth, is it gonna be a problem during sex?


r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

AskBDP Another boring toilet question NSFW

5 Upvotes

HOW can I avoid touching the inside of the toilet, because simply covering it with tissue is not doing it for me.


r/bigdickproblems • • 22h ago

Toys too big for fleshlight NSFW

3 Upvotes

wondering if anyone else had this problem before. for some context, im about 8x5.3” and got a fleshlight for the first time. in specific the fleshlight go surge since i got it as a gift. i tried using it earlier today but found it pretty uncomfortable. the girth was a little tight but not too bad, but in terms of length i kept hitting the end with the cap. i also tried it without the cap on but found it pretty messy with the lube and that it didn’t feel as good with the suction with the cap on. im not sure if it has anything to do with the specific model or if its user error at all so any help at all would be appreciated


r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

AskBDP Has any big guy had luck with deepthroat? NSFW

8 Upvotes

I'm not the longest guy on this sub, but i've had a girl be able to really fit it in her mouth.

I'm 18cm(7in)long 17cm(6.7in)thick.

Have i just been unlucky or is this a common big d experience?


r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

AskBDP How often do you adjust, how conscious of it are you, and what actually prompts it? NSFW

5 Upvotes

As a guy on the small side that never has to do this I'm curious.


r/bigdickproblems • • 1d ago

Story I had my first “locker room”experience yesterday. NSFW

197 Upvotes

I go to the gym later at night to avoid the crowds and it’s usually very quiet when I go. There are regulars I see every day too. Anyway I finished up went to the locker room and had a shower, (these where cubicles) i came out of the shower still putting my towel around me and a guy from across the locker room loudly said” bro what the fuck is that cock?!? I looked up surprised and kinda did a nervous laugh. And he said “bro it’s fucking huge wtf”???
All I could say is “ohh yeah” and laugh it off.

This guy is a regular too that always goes at the same time as me… would you guys say this is normal behaviour?


r/bigdickproblems • • 20h ago

AskBDP Droop question NSFW

1 Upvotes

Lots of guys I notice hang from what seems to be a 90-92 degree angle before it droops straight down. Am I just seeing these guys in a semi erect state and when not at all aroused they droop almost straight down like me, or is the base orientation really that dramatic from one to another shaft?


r/bigdickproblems • • 21h ago

AskBDP Showers NSFW

0 Upvotes

I read that most penises grow only inch and a half. And that if it grows more you are a grower.

I was shocked. Do people really grow only an inch and a half?