I've slept with 21 women so fairly decent sample size. I have an 8x6.25 dimension.

The amount of plenty of lube as a solution and foreplay I don't know where you guys are finding these women but of all the women I've been with one I've struggled to get in that lube would have been useful. Get a Hitachi wand bring it into the bedroom.

Step one just not be shit at kissing or get a good wall pin

Step two she licks it and it goes in. You overcomplicate alot

Of the women only three were bad at blowjobs. They learn to not give teeth it's not that rare.

Every post I read is blah blah it doesn't fit and holy shit the exact opposite is true. Granted I'm not a true 9 inch monster like some but most of you are fake.

So my girl was listening to Taylor Swift’s “Wood” and said, dead serious, “This one’s kinda about us.” I didn’t even know how to respond — just nodded like, “Yeah, sure… I see where you’re going with that.”

Now obviously, it’s not like women don’t already appreciate good proportions — they just don’t usually sing about it in stadiums. But hearing one of the most influential artists on the planet basically drop a track that celebrates, uh, ample craftsmanship… it kinda feels like a cultural turning point.

Like, are we about to see a wave of women out there proudly repping the Redwood lifestyle? Because if so, fellas… we might be entering a golden age. 🌲

Guys I'm concerned about my size.

I thought I had a respectable 12 inch long penis but me and my gf were walking along the street and we saw a giant penis drawn on the sidewalk with chalk, it must have been like 40 inches long and maybe 12 inches wide with crazy veins.

How will this change how she thinks of me? I don't come anywhere close to that. Should I consider getting a penis pump to compete with it? Should I accept defeat and just break up with her?

What do I do bros??

The title. That's all

Thanks for listening to my TED Talk.

I was in Tokyo and had a Japanese escort come to my hotel (very expensive for a foreigner, but the sheer depravity of it made it worthwhile). Anyway, I'm 6" BP and 5.5" girth mid-shaft. It took some 15 minutes of ultra slow warm-up until she could take me in completely. I had to advance a tiny bit at a time, hold for 10 seconds or so before pulling out and reinserting, all done with me suspended in missionary position. We then fucked properly for about 30 minutes, first in missionary then pronebone. I was constantly checking that she's feeling OK, and she seemed to find it pleasurable to be stretched and pounded, but she told me afterwards that towards the end fear sank in that she might get fissures. She was going to see 4 clients the following day.

I felt a bit sorry for her, but she's with an agency that accepts foreign clients (rare in Japan), and so I would've thought that 5.5" girth would be a reasonably frequent encounter for her. Apparently not so.

EDIT: I don't really get the negativity in the comments. After missionary, she asked me which position makes me cum the fastest because she wanted it to finish sooner. I'm aware that she could be faking it, but on this occasion I don't think she was. She also said that the same thing sometimes happens with other foreign clients. Personally, I've not once had any difficulty with white women.

Mandingo on his best days is 9.5” max, most likely a tad smaller, and most pornstars can’t take him balls deep, I think that’s the minimum size of a really “big dick problem” , of course would be some rare girls who can take it balls deep specially the ones that practice with huge dildos over years , but 10/10 women in real life would say it wasn’t that enjoyable.

I broke up with my bf recently mostly due to a bad sex life/his smaller size. I'm definitely interested in men like you guys after chatting with some cool people from here and other related subs.

As I've never actually had a big one I'm curious how your partners rate it compared to smaller ones they've had? For me I only currently know that I visually and conceptually prefer larger, and I'd imagine I would physically too lol.

Any advice/stories would be appreciated :)

I’m a trans woman and the estrogen I’m on has shrunk me by about an inch. But apparently that’s not enough. I may be too big for my partner.

I had one partner a cis woman from before high school till after college and neither of us had a reference besides porn. Though it would often hurt my ex we just assumed that’s how it be sometimes.

Next partner a cis woman and I were together for a few years an after that. She had more experience and would mention that I was big sometimes. Only in like a slow down or don’t hurt my jaw you are big way. She couldn’t get it in her mouth completely but again porn made me just assume that’s a thing. But I had crippling anxiety about my body in general and just took it that she was trying to boost my ego.

I didn’t have any partners for years there after. But one day I downloaded a bunch of dating apps including Grindr. I started to realize I was on the extreme when I started seeing more people.

The half dozen or so cis men I’ve been with have all been either huge or tiny. Strangely or not they were also all size kings looking for big dick.

Whereas the half a dozen or so Trans women I’ve been with have all been on the smaller side with no exception. Enough that they collectively have less mass than me.

So yeah I’m a lady with all the standard big dick problems. Whether that’s holding my dick up occasionally when the toilet water level is high and the weather warm. Or my tuck failing at every other moment. I ride my bike and if I tuck while doing that it’d be a nightmare.

Now that I wear stuff other than heavy thick denim and pay attention to my body and to men’s bodies I realize any fabric even a bit tight or thin always leaves prints and likely always has.

I used to get hit on by woman all the time and just assumed it was because I was attractive. But in retrospect. Some women have out right told me I looked hung. I would tell them I looked married/taken and brush it off.

Now I regret not transitioning as soon as I left high school and just doing porn. I like the whole voyeurism thing now that I’ve found a love for my body. I’m attractive not super model hot but had I done porn/web caming in either gender I’d not be a delivery courier right now.

EDIT: No one is getting pics. So if you’re shooting your shot in my messages know you’ll be getting nothing. I have enough sexual partners to keep me busy and no need to talk online with others. I was hoping some trans girlies might see this. Or partners of post op trans women. For advice.

Maybe one day I make content and have my body made available to the internet but that’s not today. So please no asking for anything.

Is it just a myth about BBC?

In my 20’s sex for me was always the same. Girl climbs in bed, discovers my huge cock, she starts gasping “holy shit you’re so huge!”. Starts dripping fluid down her legs. Decides she needs to blow job the huge dick. After that she climbs on me for cowboy. It was the same every time and I’m not complaining. The girl’s excessive dripping was a bonus I don’t think most men experience.

But as a result I never learned a good foreplay game. Pulling out the huge cock WAS foreplay for me. As I got older that wasn’t enough anymore. Women lose some libido with age which is normal. My dick is still huge but now I have to warm up the woman slowly like everyone else.

Has that really been the case for all of you?

I'm 7.5x5-5.2 so I'm not massive by any means... but honestly there is only one woman i struggled to make orgasm from PIV and it was 90% a mental thing and the other 10% was she was a tall black woman so she could take a lot!

And I'm quite sure they're not lying to me, they all do the same thing, move their ass up and down uncontrollably, to the point where I have to wait for them to stop cumming, I'll actually lose my nut sometimes because of it so I know it's real.

I tend to last a long time because I have a lot of reduced sensitivity so maybe it's the endurance, but idk man, making a girl cum has always been reasonably feasible

My roommates girlfriend walked in on my brushing my teeth naked in the bathroom this morning after showering. I was sporting a little morning wood, and after locking her eyes on it pretty quickly apologized and got out. Well I guess she'd been talking my unit up, because he's trying to make me wear undies now even when I'm in the bathroom and is really defensive about the situation. I'm gay so its not like I'm even interested in her. Sorry you're not packing buddy, hope you see this.

You can see my size in my flair.

In my life so far, I have slept with over 30 women. Not once has size been a problem. A few have asked me to do a bit of in and out, even with lube - but it has NEVER taken more than ten seconds. And that’s like 3 or 4 of them, only. Also, I have beeen in relationships with two partners who were around 5’ tall, and some other short ones. Never a problem. Btw, the one who wanted me to go slowest was almost 6’ tall.

Yet in posts and comments, so many guys here talk about it was painful for the woman, or they couldn’t even get in. But when I look, something like 80% of them are smaller than me. Often quite a bit.

So one of three things is happening:

1. they are just incredibly, incredibly bad at foreplay

2. the women they are with have a blockage at the entrance (but the guys think they’re just too giant)

3. most of those posts and comments are just made up for fun - probably to compensate for being a lot smaller than their flair.

Does anyone else see this?

I'm sick and tired of hearing this. Aren't you? The fact that "All penises are equally attractive" mantra is repeated over and over on Reddit and if a woman dares admit she likes bigger is downvoted to oblivion. It's stupid. And it's plain wrong.

I'm sick of the politically correct BS. It's a lie. It's time for us to tell it how it is.

The fact of the matter is that size matters. Of course it matters. In fact, it's pretty obvious. Let's take a look at the act of sex from a biological standpoint.

Female orgasms are more important than you think - it makes her body much more likely to accept the semen. It increases the chance of impregnation.

A larger penis provides greater penetration. Thus, it makes it more likely for the larger penis to impregnate the woman. So, it also makes much more biological sense that a larger penis has a greater chance of producing a female orgasm. Since friction causes a female orgasm, more friction can produce a bigger orgasm.

Would the female body prefer a penis that is short, or one that is long and girthy and has greater chances of impregnation?

Just go on Craigslist, or any other sex platform. Go on the Hotwife subreddit. Hell, go on Okcupid. Yes, there are penis size questions on OkCupid. I've been on there. The proof is in the pudding. There are always going to be outliers, but on average you are going to see a preference for larger penises.

Just like height, bigger is better until you reach the extremes. Size is apart of masculinity. Women on average like taller guys. On average they like big muscles. Did you ever see a skinny, flabby Chippendale man?

Is it fair? No, but life isn't fair. It is what it is. We all have a genetic lottery we play at birth. I don't enjoy making a post about this, but its something that needs to be said.

There are many, many other factors that affect how you pleasure a woman. That's why size goes down on the list when a woman is looking for a mate. But, when all things being equal, I'd prefer to be bigger.

I think there is also a reason why there is a subconscious concern among men on penis size. If it didn't matter we wouldnt be talking about it. The male enhancement industry would not be the billion dollar industry it is now.

So - I'm not sure this is has been said on this subreddit - be proud of your big dick. You're a lucky SOB if you have one.

EDIT: Oh yes Reddit so predictable. Personal attacks, "go spend some time with women", "you're angry", blah blah blah. The truth is posted, so that's what matters. Fuck your ultra-PC culture.

so it sounds cliche'd especially for this subreddit lol but i always thought i was small. a recent ex changed my understanding about my size but i still dont believe it. then i compare myself to like a gatorade water bottle or one of those degree spray deoderant cans, and i find myself to be almost if not the same size as them. and it blows my mind, seeing it sitting on my desk and knowing my man meat is pretty much the same size as it. it looks normal on my body but idk whats normal anymore lol

So I’m 19 and experimenting with non-binary as a label. I feel disconnected from masculinity and wouldn’t call myself a man. However, I am okay being perceived as masculine or as a guy/dude. Recently I’ve been thinking a lot about my penis and how it feels obnoxious or too much (7x6). Specifically, I mean it feels too much in a gender way. Kind of like “too much man” down there. Mostly my problem is with constantly being able to actively feel it. Usually I wear tight jorts or other shorts that are bad for concealing a bulge which is my own fault but I also don’t want to change what I wear. I just wish I had a setting where I could toggle penis on and off. I’d turn it on when I had to use the bathroom or have sex and then turn it off otherwise. I’m wondering if anyone can relate to this in specifically a gender or queer way?

Also yes i’m on the right sub, let me explain

for those that don’t know, she has a song called “Nonsense” which is about having a crush on a guy or something (as many songs are). Now it’s not the song that pisses me off, in fact I find it decent. The part that pisses me off is when she performs it live. At the end of every show, she performs this song, and the last bit is changed and tailored to the country she is performing in. However, she always manages to sneak in some questionable lyrics which is fine. The issue is that 90% of the ones she has performed are about large penises. for example, one was “When you go down under, do you miss me?/ He’s so big, I felt it in my kidney/ Screamed so loud they heard it here in Sydney!” she happens to go into great detail.

I feel like the worst part of this is this is played in the bloody Eras tour (including the one I referenced), which most likely has a large number of young children in the crowd.

I just don’t feel like it’s very ethical promoting such unhealthy standards to an audience which tend to follow after celebrities quite often and set this internal working model from a relatively young age. Normalising these kinds of standards is extremely unhealthy for both men and women, as we’ve seen with porn, and I’m shocked such a popular celebrity is still referencing such topics. again, we are glorifying such a unhealthy and unrealistic standard in such a positive and (I guess you could say) romantic way, which is horrible.

Edit:

Some other examples are:

Minneapolis, Minnesota, April 27, 2023 Boy, I hope you're bigger than the average Do you think I'm cute or were you catfished? Show me your twin cities Minneapolis

Indianapolis, Indiana, May 3, 2023 He said it was big, but it was mini I like it Fast and Furious like Vin D Indy is too perfect, someone pinch me

Detroit, Michigan, May 6, 2023 Bzzz is a bee's noise He's been fillin' more than just a deep void Do the boys have bigger D's in Detroit

Cleveland, Ohio, May 7, 2023 If it's small that's super inconvenient If he doesn't know this song you should leave him I wish that I could put the cleve in Cleveland

Newport, United Kingdom, June 16, 2023 I thought he was the one but it was too short BBC don't like my sense of humor Everybody's proper fit in Newport

Edit* I feel like people are fixated on the "energy" part aka this "confidence". Im not bragging about confidence, I'm trying to find a half-wink way to say "I have a big-ass- dick, who wants to fuck?" What's wrong with that? Especially in a subreddit about guys that have problems focused around their huge dicks.

About 10 years ago a very good friend and I started dating. We always clicked emotionally and personally but unfortunately sexually didn’t work. Oral was fine but her overly narrow French Fry Dip caused insurmountable problems at that age/stage of our lives [An unfortunate trend that’s been ongoing over the past few years]. We’ve always kept in touch and talked more or less once a month and saw eachother here and there (sometimes sexually sometimes not) Earlier this week, when chatting about Holiday Plans, she mentioned she’s getting married in the New Year - really caught me off guard since he’s never been mentioned before - and i am a bit suspicious about the timing of some of our more recent meet ups, but she assures there was no foul play.

Was the first gf that left me due to size and I don’t know but the news hit me weird.

Any way, big dicks are great until they’re not.

Hey everyone.
Genuine question for trans women (or anyone who’s been in a similar spot):
Does having a BD make you feel less womanly / less feminine? I’m curious how others experience this. whether it affects dysphoria, how you see yourself day-to-day, clothing, intimacy, or just the overall sense of being a woman.

asking bc one of my very good friends is a trans woman who said that she actually wishes hers was bigger lol but thinks that is not common

I'm so done omg I'm an 8 inch guy, to start. I've known my size for a while, but I thought I was a grower. I have sensibility issues so I wear sweatpants all the time and tie them so they don't fall. I was doing a musical in front of the whole school while wearing beige, thick sweatpants. I was stressed so I didn't notice my own bulge, but my friends in the audience told me, the day after (yesterday) that it was very visible. Today, I got sent a video from our choreographer. It's worse than I thought. The whole outline is entirely visible in the far back of the audience. I'm terrified of what'll happen to my social life, knowing I like to do all kinds of theater and impro

I did, i have a 7,8 inches dick and one time on the nude beach i saw a gay with ones like 9 inches flaccid

I humbly submit a request the members of this community re-think the purpose of the community.

There are an enumerable set of problems BDP members have, and if we only focus on those, things will, and do, get stale.

• help need condom, whut do?

• jelly people ' mirin in public / shower discrimination / inequality

• airport pat down molestation

• oops I broke my partner (bad)

• wow, I broke my partner (good)

• damn, I got rejected for my massiveness

• dem teeth hurt, how throat!?!? Jelly

• anal guidance, welcome to the naughty hole-lyland

• bro, try foreplay to warm up the engine first.. foreplay all day FTW

• edit: underwear strangling my junk, halo!

• editx2: knock knock, who's there, IUD, IUD Who? IUD KNOCK KNOCK

• how many layers of waterproof bed covers is the right number for squirters? (Hint, >1 < 4)

Unpopular opinion: BDP starts at 8" length and / or 6" girth. Below either one isn't really a problem, but more of an outlier.

Legit, having a dick 8" x 6" or bigger either way is gonna encounter some kinda drama. The only problems my 7.5 x 5.25 has is some hip pushing at first, and soreness (both ways) after -- when not accustomed to each other. But it's not like I'm smashing virgins at my ripe old age. Most of mine have had kids now, and no bad issues only good ones.

SO, this place needs to tilt more toward anecdotes, stories, humor, memes, and a general good time for everyone.

WHO FUCKING CARES IF OP LIES!?!?

If you take the time to make up an interesting or funny story, god bless ya. I'm here for fun, relaxation, banter, and community of people who get it.

ABSOLUTELY TIRED OF RESPONSES LIKE

• lies, didn't happen bc I haven't experienced it

• BD GuYs tHiNK TheY ArE gODs, tHeY'rE NOT SpongeBob.gif

• Literalist Antagonist Says: "This isn't actually a problem." Smug_look.jpg

• OP is just humble bragging

All y'all who don't want to have fun, are here to hate, or can't get over the word "problem" in the sub name just need to unsubscribe and leave. Take your negative energy elsewhere. Adios. Bye! You won't be missed.

For the rest of us, I appreciate you all! This place has stories like no other, that few can really get and commiserate with.. let's gooo!!

TLDR; negative energy fools, gtfo.. the rest, let's have fun.