So, as a gay guy, sex is very easy.I've had sex with about 500 men, but between the sex parties, bathhouses, orgies, etc; I've definitely seen 1000+ dicks from soft to hard.

Now, I know most of you are not gay, but I thought I'd offer you some universal truisms from my experience

Average Size

The stats are right. Average size is about 5 inches. I Will however say most guys are either bigger or smaller i.e, many less than five; large amount 6+. That perfect 5 inch cock is rare

Race

Irrealvant to dick size. Largest dick I ever played with was estimate 10x7. Was a white fireman. Came across a black guy with about the same. And a latino. Never an Asian that big, but I've rarely come across Asians that are into black guys like me. I will say, black guys are on average larger, but there are many below average as well. White guys range a lot. From micro, to horse. Latinos are the same.

Dick Quality>Dick size

All of this being said, the main takeaway is your size is a factor, but your dick quality is so much more. Take an inventory of your dick. Maybe not big but:

How hard is it? In my experience, a super hard 3 inch dick pushing against me feels much hotter, and turns me on much more than a limp 8 inch

How do you show it? Ok so you have this rock hard dick, not big but that's fine. Showing off your dick, with confidence, regardless of the size is a huge turn on.

How do you move it? Use your hips and thighs when fucking; don't focus on the in and out. just use the muscles in your hips and ass and that will get that cock to feel good, even if you are smaller than 4 inches

Yes, a nice shaped cock is hot. I've seen a lot of smaller guys taking offense to their dick being called cute, or nice shaped. But for me personally, a cute dick is nice proportioned dick, and usually smaller/average is perfectly proportioned. You straights wouldn't understand but a penis that has a nice flared head and proportional shaft is so hot. As I said, smaller guys usually have this perfect shape; unlike bigger guys where it starts to not be that ideal perfect cock shape.

Lastly....CUM: Do you cum a lot? Does it shoot out? That's one of the things I love about small cocks. They shoot, not dribble like big guys.

Finally, again I know most of you are straight. But trust me, when women say size isn't everything, the stuff I mentioned is what they don't tell you because women don't know how to communicate this stuff (I've also fucked women, which is why I became full time gay). I know "be confident" sucks but try to be. It will take you further than not being. A confident dick is a hot dick, regardless of size.

Guys, I know it's tough out there. Whenever you see references to dick, you see giant dicks in porn, giant dicks in people's flairs, people talking about giant dicks in social media or jokes and innuendo in pop media. Based on these personal observations and anecdotes, coupled with intense insecurity brought about by social stigmatization over size, it's natural for people to assume like 90% of men have giant dicks, and that anything less than giant makes you some sort of emasculated loser.

IT'S. NOT. TRUE.

If you only went by your personal observations, you'd also probably think the Earth was flat. Hell, before the advent of science all of humanity believed the Earth was flat. But with science, we have proven without a rational doubt that the Earth is indeed round, and any rational person can see this as the truth.

Don't give in to your insecurities and biases and allow yourself to become the equivalent of a flat Earther. Because spreading dick misinformation is like spreading flat Earth misinformation, and it makes you look totally irrational.

Edit: For ease of reference, I'm adding a link to this subreddit's FAQ science-based dick size chart:

https://www.reddit.com/r/averagedickproblems/comments/aq1ndh/faq_what_is_the_average_penis_size_chart/

I recently slept with 5 new girls. Been working hard on my self development to get to a point where some women would consider me worthy of a hook up / casual sex.

*I am making this post for those of you who are of a similar or larger size and are battling your insecurities around this matter.
I know how crippling it can be and I wanted to share my positive experiences with you.
I avoided sleeping with new girls for many, many years due to this insecurity.
I would get one girl, and cling onto her even if she was not right for me, solely to avoid going onto the dating market and dealing with these insecurities.

My penis size is:

• 4.5 inch length, 5 inch girth NON BONE-PRESSED (NBPL)

• 5.4 inch length, 5 inch girth BONE PRESSED (BPL)

• On good days, it seems the length can go up to 5.5 inches BONE PRESSED (BPL)

I used to be madly insecure about my penis size because it looks very small on me. In fact, I still am insecure. It contributed to my performance anxiety, which caused me erection issues with new partners, and a whole lot of angst around sex in general. It was an area of my life that was very stressful.

What happened after sleeping with five new girls:

• The first girl, who is extremely sexually experienced, is now a regular friends with benefits with me. I know that she has likely experienced many guys that are a LOT bigger than me. I now see her once per week for sex and she's always enthusiastic to see me. She's also very attractive so I am very proud to be in this position. It's extremely validating as I once believed that I was not worthy of such experiences, due to my penis size.

• The second girl was only 4'8 tall. She was very tight and I would say that my penis was a bit too big for her. This really surprised me as I never knew my penis would make any girl feel like that, ever. I'm guessing she has a tight and shallow vagina. She would often say "Too deep" when I would fuck her and we had to take a lot of breaks. It was actually not that enjoyable. I can only imagine how challenging it could be for guys who are larger in size that meet their ideal partner only to discover that they are not sexually compatible due to this reason.

• The third girl seemed quite experienced and I was delighted that when I was having sex with her in the missionary position (holding her ankles up in the air), her legs started shaking/quivering. This happened twice. It seemed to indicate that she was close to climaxing, or at least experiencing immense pleasure, as when I looked at her face she looked like she was in a state of bliss. Unfortunately, I couldn't get her to climax as I would get physically tired and had to stop. After the sex, I asked her if she wanted me to help her orgasm. She said not tonight. She said it always takes her a really, really, really long time to orgasm and it becomes this whole ordeal. She also invited me back to see her again, but I haven't seen her yet.

• The fourth girl, it felt like my size was absolutely perfect for her. She was very tight. I have not had the chance to sleep with her again, but we caught up for a date yesterday and she is definitely very interested in me. I would say there's a 99% chance I will sleep with her again.

• The fifth girl, she was very attractive and I could hardly maintain composure so I came pretty quickly. What's funny is that she doesn't even seem to care and she still wants to see me again. I would say there's about a 50% chance I will see her again, as she's going away for a holiday next week. So if I don't sleep with her before then, I would say the probabilities reduce. But she is still in regular SMS contact with me and is saying she wants to catch up in two days, so we will see how it goes.

To my surprise, my size has hardly even been an issue so far.

This is something that I beat myself up with mentally for over 13 years (since I was a teenager).

I'm a little confused as to why I made this such a big deal for such a long time. I think porn has contributed to this anxiety greatly, as I used to watch it everyday. Now I no longer watch such content.

I hope this provides some confidence and inspiration to some of you out there. One fellow redditor really encouraged me to get out there and start having sex a few months ago and I greatly appreciated his valuable insights at the time. You are more than welcome to message me for a chat if this is an insecurity that you are currently working through. Best of luck everyone.

It's obvious that men who have bigger penises are more comfortable with themselves. I hate that I have to do some mental gymnastics or bother my gf for validation, just to make myself a feel a bit better. But it never lasts, at some point I go back to being insecure. I can fake it till I make it but that would just make me even worse, like the fact that I have to do that is sad for me.

I'm just average, nothing special. I can't help but feel dissappointed with myself.

I am constantly comparing myself to any phallic shaped objects. Cucumbers, screwdrivers, tv remote, etc. I do this so much that I have gotten very good at guessing the length of things. I don't even notice that I do this anymore. I pick up something and the first thing that comes to my mind is "this is about 3 inches bigger than my dick" or "it would be nice if I am this big". I'm only human after all, comparing is natural.

I always wonder if my gf would feel better if I was bigger.

Sometimes I get anxious of me and my gf breaking up. I start wondering that if it ever does happen, there is a chance she will be with a guy more well endowed, and that she realizes that she only liked my size because it was the first she ever had.

I wish my dick was big so I can stop being anxious, so that I can stop thinking about this, so that I can feel good about myself, so that I can stop bothering my gf about this. I wish my dick was big so that I am not insecure.

Hey all - as the title suggests, I wanted to share my thoughts on penis size. Please know that none of it is scientific, it’s simply anecdotal based on one women’s experience, albeit, a lot of experience. None of my thoughts are meant to go against science, your experience or size, another women or mans experience or size. I can’t speak for them, but I can speak for me. Take it or leave it.

• The length of my hand is 6.5”, the breadth is 3”. That gives me the opportunity to pretty decidedly measure a 3”, 6”, 6.5”, 9”, and 9.5” penis. Other sizes (say, 5” and 7.5” are a little more tricky, but the room for error isn’t huge based on my hand size).

• As many have pointed out, average is likely more a range than an exact number. I doubt I’ve have many exact 5.2” penises, but I’ve had a lot of 4.5” and 6”.

• My range is between 5-7”. If I was forced to choose one single number, I’d say my personal average has been 6”.

• If 6 men all have the same exact skill set but penis sizes of 3”, 4”, 5”, 6”, 7”, 8”, 9”, I am going to pick between 5-7 every time.

• If I’m choosing between a highly skilled 5” or a non-skilled 8”, I’m choosing the 5”.

• If I’m choosing between a non-skilled 5” and non-skilled 8”, I’m choosing the 8”.

• If I’m choosing between a highly skilled 5” and a highly skilled 8”, I’m choosing a threesome.

• The biggest difference in penis size is visual. I love all penises, but there’s definitely something about the way a large one looks that I just can’t deny.

• That’s one advantage to a large penis - the anticipation. If I see a large one before it enters me, there’s a sense of anticipation that’s different with smaller.

• Of course, there IS a difference in feeling, but it’s less noticeable except for extremes. For example, I’m not really going to notice the difference between a 4” and 6” length. Or a 6” and 7”. I will notice the difference between 4” and 8”, but I also would notice the difference between 7” and 8”. Once you get to a certain size, you notice. But within the averages, or even a little below or above, it’s really not a major difference.

• So, size really truly only matters when you’re outside the norm. For me, that would be below 4 and above 7.5.

• There are some positions that feel amazing regardless of penis size. There are some that feel amazing with a big penis but don’t really work with a smaller. There are some that feel amazing with a smaller penis but don’t really work with a large.

• I DO think the averages are likely correct, and I DO think the reason we see more larger penises is due to confidence. The men who pick me up tend to be larger than the men I pick up. This isn’t scientific, of course, but just my experience.

That is it. That is all. Just wanted to share some thoughts.

There’s nothing wrong with you, and 90% of (emotionally mature) women prefer your average dick.

As a cis woman AND an owner of a large vagina, I’ve been researching the subject for years, trying to figure out why sex usually does not feel good for me (or for my former partners).

Here is the reality. Vaginas, just like penises, come in all shapes and sizes. Some are big, some are small. Some are straight, some are curved. Some sit higher or lower on the perineum, just like penises do.

The vast majority, at least 90%, are average. 3.8 inches is the commonly accepted average length, I believe. Same for penises- the average length is 5.2”. If you are close to that average number, the majority of the world’s population of the opposite sex are mostly compatible with you. Let that sink in. THE MAJORITY OF THE WORLD’S FEMALE POPULATION prefers an average size penis because most women are compatible with it!

I say “mostly” because there are always slight variations in shapes and sizes, which are easy to work with… unless you are well outside of this average spectrum.

SO, if a penis (or a vagina) is MUCH smaller or MUCH larger than average, now you have a much smaller percentage of women (or men) that you are anatomically compatible with.

Here’s the rub (pun intended): societally, the burden of providing sexual pleasure has fallen on men. So if a man has a perfectly average penis, and the woman happens to be one of the few who have a large vagina, and she’s not feeling pleasure, it’s the considered to be the men’s “fault”.

Which, in my opinion, is complete bullshit. It has caused baseless, needless insecurities for men whose penises are perfectly fine and compatible with most women’s vaginas. It’s caused men to focus on something completely inconsequential for most women, like the size of their penis, and forgo the development of stuff that really matters – their character. In worst cases, it’s caused men to become angry and even violent towards the world around them - and especially towards women- because of the ridiculous cult of a “large dick”.

Women should admit and own the fact that some vaginas are larger, and in some cases, MUCH larger than average. So the lack of pleasure isn’t anyone’s fault, but rather a case of anatomical incompatibility.

Myself, at almost double the average vaginal length, I am an anatomical oddity. Which eliminates at least 95% of men in terms of anatomical compatibility. It is what it is. It’s not men’s fault. And there is nothing fundamentally wrong with the 95%. It’s just how I am built – I’m outside of the average spectrum. And I’m the one to carry this burden, not the 95% (or whatever the number is) of men who are average and perfectly fine for most other women.

I wish we as a society could just accept the biological differences between all humans, instead of propagating insecurities by creating baseless, cultlike worship of certain penise lengths, heights, body types, etc.

Now, men who are much smaller than average have to accept that, again, there’s nothing wrong with them. And they just have to look for women - who do exist albeit in smaller numbers compared to the average sized ones - who have a smaller than average vagina.

And also, if a woman says she is a “size queen” without having a plausible reason for being one (like having a much larger than average vagina), or if she judges men by their penis size, or if she makes derogatory comments about them based on their genitalia size, she’s not a representation of the female cohort but rather is a reflection of that specific person’s shallowness and immaturity.

Edit: I’m glad the post helped.

There are some comments highlighting folks’ experience where women have a preference for larger size. I would refer you to the last paragraph in my post.

To expand on that: yes, there is absolutely social conditioning that’s touting a large size in anything - genitalia, height, wallet size, etc. as a preferable trait for men. It’s one of the most dysfunctional aspects of our society. And there are certainly a few women’s who subscribe to those beliefs. They’re a minority but a loud one. Again, those women are emotionally immature. Most of them grow out of it, as they inevitably get hurt by some asshole whom they picked based on those superficial traits. Some will carry it on with them for the rest of their life. But it is not a representation of the majority of women. If you do a simple search on penis size preferences here on Reddit, you’ll see that the vast majority of women prefer average. They’re not lying (what would be the point of that on an anonymous platform?). They indeed prefer average, because sex with much larger than average actually hurts for most of them! Also, it’s a rare exception for a woman to enjoy her cervix being stimulated. Most find it unbearably uncomfortable.

Edit 2: since there seems to be much interest in the subject, I can talk more about averages.

For most women, the g-spot is located 1-2 inches from vaginal opening (That stat alone should theoretically destroy the cult of the big dick!)

On girth: most women’s vaginal width in an unstretched state equals to “about” 1.5 average male fingers’ circumference. Read that again: 1.5 - not inches - but fingers! That’s a lot less most men think the “preferred” girth is. Can it stretch? Yes, but not infinitely. There is a limited amount of stretch, and most women would have a really hard time (excuse the pun) taking in a much girthier than average penis. It would be an uncomfortable experience for most women.

On average, for most women, the nerve endings are located towards the first (closer to the opening) part of the vaginal canal. Like I said before - very, VERY few women (single digit percentile) enjoy their cervix being stimulated. Most will find it painful.

Speaking of stretching, lengthwise it can elongate when aroused but it’s nothing significant. I’d say 10 percent or so of baseline. If baseline is 3.8”, then it might go to 4.1”. Some stretch, some don’t.

When you see porn actresses taking in big cocks, they are either on major painkillers and it’s an uncomfortable experience for them, or are one of the few naturally long ones.

Some might ask: can a vagina stretch a lot and take in something that’s, for instance, 4” wide? Yep - it’s called childbirth, and is NOT synonymous with pleasure.

Many young men and teens watch porn and get the idea that they are abnormally small because the guys In porn are big and I feel this contributes to anxiety about penis size. I know this was the case for me lol I’m like 5 3/4 bpel and for awhile I was paranoid that I was small because I watched a lot of porn. When I found out I had a healthy and normal sized dick i gained a bit of confidence. Does anyone else agree with my assessment?

Your penis size isn’t the problem. It never was. If some random ass girl that you hardly even know says something about it, it doesn’t matter. If someone has a horse cock and you don’t, it doesn’t matter. If you can’t land a partner and you don’t have a micropenis, it’s probably not your penis that’s keeping you from having a partner. Hell, it could be your obsession with your penis that’s doing that. You don’t need penis solidarity, you need therapy. You don’t need PE, you need therapy. You don’t need to lose weight to make it look bigger, you need therapy. You don’t need a bigger penis, you need therapy. This isn’t just penis insecurity that most of you present, it’s straight up BDD. Stop blaming society, stop blaming women, stop blaming yourself. Get help. It’s the only thing that’s actually gonna help. You guys are obsessed.

I’m re-reading the series and noticed Hermione say this in the final book:

“Oh, it’s all nonsense. Wands are only as powerful as the wizards who use them. Some wizards just like to boast that theirs are bigger and better than other people’s.”

How would you describe your wand? Here’s mine: Six inches. Hard but pliable. Curved white wood with a cream core. Unyielding.

About this chart

This chart is based on the data sets from the calcSD average for bone-pressed erect penis sizes and tall.life height percentiles in the USA. The size ranges are given based on standard deviations from the statistical mean. Please remember, practically speaking, size is often a very subjective notion, and it can depend on things like body proportions and personal perceptions. What seems "small" to one person, may seem "big" to another, and vice versa. While you may be of one objective size classification based on standard deviations, your perceptual size may be different, and may be different to different people in different situations.

This is not a value judgement chart.

Being bigger or smaller than other people does not make you inherently better or worse in terms of desirability or sexual ability. Everyone has different preferences, and despite what social convention would have you believe, there are many people who like or prefer average and smaller penises.

This is also not a height correlation chart.

The height column is merely giving a better perspective about how common or rare different erect bone-pressed sizes are by relating them to how common or rare different heights are. Since we don't get to see erect penises out and about every day unlike people's heights, this is meant to help you get a better understanding of typical sizes outside of what you see in pornography (both amateur and professional), which has a very high selection bias towards larger penises due to current social stigmas.

Don't believe the scientific data? You may have penis-size dysmorphia.

This effect is explained in a little more detail in this post: On penis size dysmorphia - the NBA analogy.

Breaking your subconscious, irrational "beliefs"

Understanding things on a rational level is one thing, but sometimes it's hard to break the subconscious irrational thoughts we have without experiencing something more visually and on a consistent basis to make it more real. To get a better visual perspective, I recommend people spend some time on subs like r/averagepenis (18+ only, NSFW), r/tinydick (18+ only, NSFW), and r/normalnudes (18+ only, NSFW) to get a better visual representation of what the common erect penis really looks like. These subreddits are also well-moderated and positive communities that show that penises of all sizes are seen as attractive and appreciated by many.

This chart is based on BONE-PRESSED (BP) measurements

FAQ: Differences between Bone-Pressed (BP) and not Non-Bone-Pressed (NBP)

So my dick is 5.5 inches bone pressed and roughly 4.5 inches girth I'm probably going to get a lot of hate for being dramatic but I need to rant. It's hard being black and having a average dick because girls expect you to pull a 7-10 inches which is unreal and the whole BBC trend and Twitter, Porn and sometimes Tiktok don't help with girls thirsting over big dicks and shaming small ones. I'm still a virgin at 18 and probably will be for a few years due to the pressure of being big enough and being able to satisfy her. And yes I know that I'm average but it's nothing special nothing to be proud of or show off.

Idk why I wrote this I had to rant and get this off my chest it's been on my mind lately more than usual but I don't know I just don't see the point in doing anything anymore. It also doesn't help that I'm short 5'7 just goes to show that life is unfair and that some people are given a genetic advantage while others are genetically disadvantaged.

I'm 21 years old, I didn't even plan on losing my virginity but it happened pretty naturally. If anyone here is scared or nervous they're inadequate let me just say this. This girl really likes me, and I like her. The moment she undid my pants I think it could've been 3 inches or 7 and she wouldn't have cared. I was so obsessed with size for so long( I'm 21 btw) but it all comes down to this, if she loves you she won't care, if it's a random hookup she might. We had sex in her car for about 10 minutes with plenty of foreplay. It was easier to get a rhythm going than I thought which might sound odd but it wasn't awkward and she was making a lot of noise, everything just worked out well. She didn't have an orgasm but she told me it's ok and it's harder for her to cum that way, which I understand. I'm 6.2" with low body fat and I'm in decent shape so it might look bigger.

I'm writing this because I think a lot of guys here (especially virgins) care too much about it but I do understand why. Focus on your confidence as a person and alternative ways to pleasure someone as well so you're prepared.

She didn't say I'm big or anything, the only compliment I got was she said I'm good at fingering, which is ok by me.

If a girl doesn't accept you and your size, drop her, anyone that shallow isn't worth it. I feel much better about myself after all that.

So today after amazing sex with my FWB. We got in an interesting convo about dildos and what size she has/had(seen a post here about it) she responded, "with the dildo I had was 8 inches." I was like why that size though? Her dead ass response was, "it was the 1st one that popped up." We both laughed and she was like she enjoyed it, but one her exes made her get rid of it because he didn't measure up. So now she uses a vibrator, which she says is alot better. I then asked so how big she thought my dick is. Her response was 7.5. I started laughing and was like oh girl inches are real and she was like what. I told her my dick is 6.25-6.5 and she literally thought I was lying. Like her eyes were in disbelief. So most girls really don't have a perception of dick size.

Check my profile for reference

I always thought my penis was “ehhh” and had insecurity issues. Recently, I haven’t really been caring and just trying to enjoy myself.

The other night I was hanging out with two female friends of mine. They confessed they were attracted to me. Next thing I know I’m having sex with both of them. My penis was NOT a problem. I can now die in peace.

Keep your head ups folks, we tell ourselves it’s not good enough, but let’s let the women decide that.

Length: 6 Girth; 4.5ish

So in the interests of experimentation I discovered the existence of cock Sleeves. I read the reviews, discussed with my wife who was up for the experiment but stating that she is happy with mine (6x5). Over a 3 or 4 month period I took delivery of three separate cock Sleeves and been delighted and also disappointed to find that bigger (fake obviously) did nothing for my wife. No shuddering orgasms, no massive groans as I enter etc. Took the time to try it and get used to it but basically wanted it off and just me. They are going to the bin and I'll concentrate on what I knew already.... Foreplay, toys, clit play, her cum first, have fun and just enjoy being with each other is actually all that is needed..... I suspect I'm the right size for her and she is right size for me.... It's not that relevant :)

Hopefully I can now move my head away from the nonsense that had built up in my head.

That said. . Plenty of folk love them so do your own research :) Must be working for plenty as there are many out there :)

This post is to address some common questions and misconceptions that often arise surrounding the ways to measure the length of a penis. First, some definitions:

Bone-Pressed (BP) Measurement

This is when you push the ruler or measuring instrument into the fat or skin all the way to the pubic bone. It is basically your maximum erection length, regardless of how fat or skinny you are, and is the standard by which you should use for comparison against other bone-pressed size studies. This is also usually pretty close to the same as "usable" length during sex, as you can compress much of your fat when actually having sex.

Non-Bone-Pressed (NBP) Measurement

This is the visible length of your penis, and is measured by resting the measuring instrument where your penis meets pubic skin without pushing it in at all. This measurement is not good for statistical comparison because it fluctuates depending on your body fat levels and potentially other factors. It can be useful, however, for understanding the visual and aesthetic proportions of your penis compared with your body.

Common Questions

Q: Isn't using a bone-pressed measurement kind of like cheating and just deluding yourself into thinking you are bigger than you actually are?

A: No. The main reason it is used is to have a constant measurement method which shows one's maximum erection length. When you measure your height, you stand fully upright and at your maximum, flat-footed height. This is like your bone-pressed penis length measurement, it is your maximum. If everyone measured their height while slouching or including their hair, the measurement would be very inconsistent and could change a lot depending on many factors. A slouching height measurment is like a non-bone-pressed penis length measurement. It is very inconsistent and does not tell you what your actual maximum is. Measuring bone-pressed isn't about inflating your ego, it's just about having a clear and consistent method of knowing what your actual maximum is and for having a standard method for statistical comparison.

Q: Is a non-bone-pressed measurement completely useless?

A: No. Non-bone-pressed measurements can be useful for helping you understand your penis size visually and in relation to the size of your body. It's like knowing what your height is when you are slouching, so if you stop slouching you know how much taller you could look if put the effort in to do so. While a 7" bone-pressed penis is statistically very large (biggest 5%), if an individual is very overweight and has a 2" fat pad their 5" non-bone-pressed measurement would very different from a visual perspective. Size is also a very relative concept, and the same 5" non-bone-pressed penis could look bigger on a short, skinny person whereas it would look smaller on a tall, bulky person.

Q: Which measurement should I use in my flair?

A: You can use whichever you'd like, although it would probably be best to state clearly if its bone-pressed (BP) or non-bone-pressed (NBP) to avoid confusion or misunderstanding. People have different preferences and values, so while some might care more about their bone-pressed size (statistical relevance or "useable" length) others might care more about their non-bone-pressed size (visual aesthetics).

Q: Can I increase my penis size by losing weight?

A: Your natural maximum bone-pressed length and girth will not change, although you may have increased erection strength and quality due to better blood circulation and cardiovascular fitness. This means you will tend to hit your maximum more fully and consistently, and when you measure you might think you are "bigger", but really it's probably just you actually measuring at your true maximum. However, if you lose fat from your abdominal fat pad as well as slim down the rest of your body, your penis may look bigger relative to your body and your non-bone-pressed (visual) measurement can increase and get closer to your bone-pressed measurement.

Q: How much visible penis (non-bone-pressed) can I potentially "gain"?

A: The abdominal fat pad is one of the most efficient places on the body to store fat, so it is often one of the last places for fat to leave the body fully. It will decrease along with your overall bodyfat, but that last bit can hang around and be kind of stubborn until you get to very low body fat percentages. These are some very rough estimates of body fat percentage and fat pad size, so please keep in mind that everyone's body may be a little different:

I’m about 6.2 nbp and 6.6 bp

all studies say I’m in the higher end of average, some even say I’m 80th percentile

But it still looks tiny af to me. Anybody else feel this?

Being 19 now and with a 5 incher, Honestly I’ve never came across any negative experiences at all fr. Just so you’d know, I’m 5 inches on the dot, 4.9 on regular days and throughout the year I’ve grown confident in my size and accepted it. I’ve disclosed my size beforehand and made self deprecating jokes and not giving a flying fuck about what I have “down there” and still have a chill sex life. Sure no matter what, I will still wish I had a bigger schlong lol. I’m not here to brag which it probably sounds like due to the mention of my body count. But I just wanted to share my experience

I came here because like most of you I got insecurities about my size. BUT GOD DAMN you guys are all 6-7in length and like 5in+ of girth. For myself, I'm 4in with a fatpad and 5.5 if I press it all down. I also got 4.375in of girth (I know I should put 4.3 but still). Do I really belong here or should I go to /smalldickproblems?

I thought I could relate to the posts here but I really can't. From my point of view you're all insecure BUT endowed like pornstars. If 5.1 length and 4.5 girth is the average according to all the studies linked, where are theses guys at? Are you all exaggerating your measurements and I'm the only one honest here?

I mean if you guys are having problems with your sex life as in you get rejected by women and you doubt your performances, should I just give up? I really feel out of place. Am I THAT abnormal even among the average crowd?

Apparently Chris Hemsworth had to wear a fake penis in the film "Vacation", because his real one didn't stand out enough compared to the rest of his body:

First, they had to choose the right prosthetic. “It was definitely one of the more surreal aspects of preparing for this movie,” Goldstein admitted. “The morning we shot that sequence, we went into another room in the house we were shooting in, and Chris modeled the eight-inch and the ten-inch options for us,” said Daley. The eight-incher was quickly vetoed: “As big as it would seem, it did not look that big on him. I think it was just because Chris is such a big, hulking dude.” “He makes the normal-size penis look small,” Goldstein concurred.

It's quite telling how warped society's view of penis sizes has become when an enormous 8-inch penis is referred to as "normal", and then furthermore referred to as "small" when put in proportion to his body size. It required the use of a 10-inch semi-flaccid to make it stand out in relation to his body, which is just an absurd size. It also basically means that Chris Hemsworth's real dick probably looks proportionately "small" on him in comparison to porn and was unusable in the film for the intended scene, even though statistically it could be larger than average.

It's this kind of stuff that helps one see how easy it is to have penis size dysmorphia in present times.

Hey guys, longtime lurker here. I see a lot of posts and comments questioning if 7 inches (or near that size) is considered big or whatever. The answer is yes, huge even.

I recently walked in on my roommate plowing this girl we know. It was awkward to say the least, but for the first time maybe ever I saw another man’s erect dick in person. It looked HUGE, and pretty decently thick too. Since we’re pretty open about sex, I asked him out of curiosity the next day on what his honest size was,and he said 7 inches. “Bullshit, that’s like gotta be 8” I said, but he insisted he had measured more than once and he gets to about 7 inches.

My point is that many people (men and women) are bad at estimating size. Many assume that if you’re “only” 7 inches that you’re maybe just a bit above average but trust me, you’re way above average.

Hope this helps!

I had crippling insecurity over my size for years after an abusive ex used to tease me about it.

I’m 6.2 x 4.8 inches bone pressed.

Ive met a woman I make cum multiple times every time we have sex including PIV. Me and her are truly an amazing fit. I may not be the biggest, or the smallest, or whatever aspect of size, but I’ve realised I just don’t care any more. Sex this good can’t be ruined by an old insecurity that shouldn’t even exist.

Good luck everyone!