Hello my first post so i hope you enjoy This happened today so me and my friend were walking home after school and we see a girl so i forced him to go ask her out he ended up just staring at her and he eventually said hi and her with the sas tone said hi and looked away i see this and yell rejection over 9000 we ended up talking about while still walking sorry if this is short but hoped you enjoyed

Background info:growing up I wasn’t the prettiest girl I was the “ugly duckling” I remember people will make remarks about my skin ,my face and my body. so there was this boy who would always make fun of me for being me I guess he would always say how I am ugly and how I am dumb that it will be hard for my “husband” not to cheat on me yea you know the basics

8yr later I tried to improve my looks and even became more fashionable I would say it worked out for me. I went to the basketball court on day and saw the same guy he came up to me

Bff:best bitch 4life B=bully Me= obviously me Here’s how the convo went

B: can I follow you home

Me:umm

B:because my parents always told me to follow my dreams

Me:sorry not interested

B:why??

My best friend who was playing basketball ball came up

Bff:because she has a boyfriend

I showed b picture of me 8yr ago

Me:maybe you shouldn’t have mess with her

Walks away holding my bff hand (we weren’t even in a relationship) I loved seeing b face when he remember he use to bully me

Me and my crush had mutual feelings for each other. She rejected me and got a boyfriend 2 months later. I was talking to a mutual friend of ares. She tells me she's telling are friends that I hate her and everything. I was mad I told her that I dont hate her and wished her nothing but the best. I even have the receipts to prove it. I didn't even show her anything. told my friend that I'm working on myself and wished her nothing but the best in her relationship and in life.

oth had feelings for each other. I ended up telling her how I felt. She said she doesn't feel like that no more. She than proceeded to tell me that she want to remain friends. I told her sure but than later on I told her that I couldn't do it because I still had felling for her. I ended up cutting all communication with her for my sanity. I ended up wishing her nothing but the best in her life. I felt depressed and like shit so I started to work on myself and put all of my attention on my work and myself.

I started to receive text messages say how come I don't talk to her no more and stuff. I would have to explain myself once again. I gave up and stopped replying all together. I would receive messages saying. That she felt uncomfortable at work because I didn't talk to her. Mine this we work in different departments. I calmed her down. Later on she would tell me if she quit the job will I still talk to her or not. She also ended bring up that its been 1 year since I confessed to her and when am I going to forgive her. I was confused and didn't give a flying fuck. I didn't even say anything thing.

I don't know but I wanted closure. So I ended up replying to one of her text We ended having a conversation were. She called me selfish and that I was flirting with all the girls and I had a girlfriend at the time. I stared to clear things up and told her she was crazy. She ended up saying we both fucked up. But I feel like I didn't fuck up because I Expressed myself and got rejected and moved on. Plus there's a lot of women in this world. She started say that she not good for me and stuff. So I told her instead of focusing on me she should focus on her boyfriend. She ended up getting mad that I brung her boyfriend in to this. At this point I told her. That her boyfriend is better than me and shit and that I'm just a normal guy out here. I ended the conversation and blocked the number.

Last month we have mutual friends she started talking to them and they would bring us up and say what happened to us. Her reply would be he hates me. Than they would confront me by saying why do you hate her and stuff. I told them I don't hate her and end of conversation. Later on that month she ended up telling me if my parents ask anything on why I dont talk to her play it off. I ended up with my parents and we were talking about things and my my mom brung up on why I don't talk to her. I dumbfounded. I told them I was busy. She had her chance.

At this point in my life I'm happy as shit I have a girlfriend who loves me. Ive been hitting the gym again and got a second job.

Am I crazy

Backstory: whoever has read some of my post, you’ve probably heard of my R\Crush post. It basically explains what I know/love about my crush according to our 2 years of friendship, seemingly normal post right? Well, sort of. And by ‘sort of’, I mean not really. Well it was normal at first, but I got rejected and friendzoned by him. That post I made was a while ago during the school holidays

During the holidays, after posting on R/crush So, I was at my friend’s house (not my friend/crush, my other friend.) and we were playing the Xbox. I asked her if she knows Reddit and she said she goes on Reddit from time to time. Despite being new, I posted a few things about myself here and there. I then showed her one of my post, and one of them was my R/crush post. I also showed her one of the R/Entitled kids. When she read one of the R/Entitled kids when she almost cried because it told the tale of 3 girls that bullied me because they thought my Mild Autism made me dumb but instead it made me realise that they had the Audacity to ask dumb ‘Questions’ (I don’t know if I should call them that) such as “Do you know what a Vagina looks like?” Or “Do you know what a Penis is?” After I showed her that, I showed her my R/Crush post.

At School So, the 2 week of school came (now) and me and my friends were sitting together eating during break 1. All of the sudden one of my crush’s friends who also happens to be a good friend of mine called me over. “Hey, [Crush’s name] needs to talk to you.” I then got up and saw my crush who had not an embarrassed look but more of a devastated look, I saw my crush standing next to him. “Come here.” He said. At first I was a little confused, so I then walk over to him and he takes me aside inside, then I heard the most gut wrenching words: “CJ please don’t take this personally, I know you have a crush on me, I found out. Your a really great friend but I’m really sorry because I’m dating [another girls name]” I was speechless. “It’s okay.” I said. “So we’re good?” He asked. “Yeah, we’re good.”

I’m not mad at him, I’m mad at myself. I know the real reason why he doesn’t like me back especially at this moment is becauseI didn’t come clean to him soon enough and what makes it worse is that he was my first “offical” crush since year 8. If he reads this one day, I hope he doesn’t take it seriously. I just want him to know it’s not his fault nor the person he’s currently with because she’s also a good friend. But there’s a reason that I never came clean to him soon enough. I am not a saint, during Primary school every crush I had I would rather not say anything to them because I thought they wouldn’t like me back, or every other crush I had during primary school also ended up saying rude things about me behind my back if my friends told them. I was also bullied by boys only during Primary school, and those boys were pretty immature especially being a primary school kids.

I told my best friend of 9 years I was in love with him today, all he said was “don’t fall in love with me” so I’m taking that as a hard no, it’s not necessarily what I expected but I guess I’ll take it.

Okey, maybe this could've been posted in r/niceguy but it doesn't really feel like a Nuce Guy story, in the end I did feel bad for him, even if I was angry too.

So this was about two years ago. I had a really close friend, I'd even call him one of my best friends, and he was bipolar and depressed. He had a crush on me, and while I had rejected him before, we were still very close friends, we had pizza tuesdays with harry potter movies going. Please note that I didn't reject him because his bipolar thing or his depression, it was just that I simply didn't hold that kind of feelings for him.

So.. The story, okey. One night, he texts me that he's just going to shut the whole world off, he doesn't need friends. However, he wants a girlfriend. He asks he again if I want to be his girlfriend, and when I apologize and again, explain that I don't hold that kind of emotion for him, he replies with saying that he doesn't care. He doesn't want the romantic feelings, he wants someone to have sex with him on a regular base, so either I can do that or I can drop him as a friend, it's my choice. Now, tbh, I've been through depression and isolation stages myself, and as a result, I've come to truly cherish my friends, with my mom and grandparents 12 hours away, they're the only sense I had of family in the years my father was non-present, so they're the most important thing in my life. However, one thing I DO NOT accept from even my closest of friends, is ultimatums, and I make that very clear.

I get angry with him, and I let him know of my disdain, I also tell him that there is no way I'm entering a kind of relationship where there is no emotion. I also say that if he didn't want to be my friend because of this, then that was on him, because I wasn't making that kind of choice. After that, he blocked me.

Then the next morning, I'm waiting for another friend of mine to pick me up for a road trip. Someone rings the bell and I think "yush, there he is" and open the door. Who I see, isn't who I expect, it's the guy I'm still mad at, but once I see him, I'm not mad anymore, instead, I'm worried. He has this look on his face, that just screams of nerves, he's shaved his head and clearly he hurt himself the night before. We sit down on the curb, and he starts crying, saying that he is so SO sorry, he doesn't want lose me, I'm his best and one of his only (3) friends. Then he takes off his bandaids and shows me the cuts he made on his arms. I can't stay mad at him after that, and take him back as a friend. I brought him on the roadtrip, and honestly I felt like I couldn't take my eyes off of him after that. This had some pretty unfortunate consequences for me later on, since I actually got scared of rejecting someone who might hurt themselves, but that's a story I might post somewhere else

I have plenty of Nice Guy stories, but this doesn't fully feel like a niceguy story

So yesterday night i was at my friends house me and her started talking alot more for like 2 months already but known each other for years and she would call me and text me daily and well she was the one always contacting me first and well i started to love her more than a friend. Well last night i brought out the courage to tell her that i loved her in person and she told me that ive given her soo much to think about. Well i get home and an hour later she calls me, so i answer and well she told me she didnt want to date me because she doesnt want to hurt me. Honestly i tore apart after that and she told me she could give me space or we cant be friends anymore. Hearing those words really cut deep inside of me. Atm im not sure what to do or how to get over her and well i personally dont let people through as much as i let her in my life because of the feeling of getting hurt and i wasnt expecting this to turn this way

So I went out to a club the other night with a few of my friends and their girlfriends. I was the only single one so of course I was trying my luck out on the dance floor.

In a room full of women would you guess who I hit it off with? The bloody bar tender. She was cute though I have to admit, In fact she was the one that asked for my Facebook..

We talked for a bit and I asked her what time she got off work and if she’d like to meet up somewhere more quiet. She told me 7.

I was pretty hammered so we decided to leave the club around 5am and walk home. We were only staying just down the road. 7am came around and I messaged her with the address I was staying at and my mobile number. Now, looking back on this with a sober mind I realised that would have come off really bad, perhaps like I was inviting her around for sex.. in actually I probably would’ve asked her out to breakfast.. facepalm

Long story short I haven’t heard from her and it’s been a few days. Should I message her to clear things up or just leave it? She seemed interested at the time so perhaps there’s still a shot?

Theres this girl in my class who ive had a crush on for nearly 2 years. My plan was to top the class so that i could get her attention and talk to her with pride. And thats exactly what I did. Here's the problem, back then, she was this smart, quirky, clever girl who i admired, but people changed, and so did she. She now hangs out with the toxic girls (the ones who couldnt care less about studying and just mess around). She did change, started wearing lipsticks, behaving like a child and stuffs like that, however, i still managed to see the good side of her and did attempt to convince her to change. She looked up to me, we started texting, I helped her with her study for a while, we were on good terms. One night, after one of my extra classes, all of a sudden i felt great and relieved, i texted her, asking what she would do if i asked her out, in a hypothetical situation (because i wanted to be careful, plus i hadnt decided where to take her to yet). Unfortunately, she started making up reasons such as "im busy" and "my parents wont allow me to" and the like, to which i did counter, reminding her that im no f*ckboy, im a diligent student who wants to know what she would say if i asked her out. After a while she gave in and said no. I took it hard, all my calculations and predictions were wrong. Then i thought to myself "if she isnt going out with me then theres no point in helping her anymore" and thats what i did, i just totally ignored her whenever she consulted me, i told her to get lost. She spiralled back to hanging out with her toxic friends and everything turned back to normal. I know that was very selfish of me for not helping her anymore just because she did not want to go out with me and im probably a jackass but i just cant stand doing anything for her anymore.

Hi guys! Just wanted to ask, have any of you tried out rejectiontherapy.com? Does it work?

So I've gotten stood up by this guy who I've been texting for weeks now. It's irritating as fuck. I have no shame in admitting my rejection but tell me this...why waste my time for weeks and ditch out on me

So I got rejected by my crush but for some reason I am happy? Like I felt as if I needed her but I told her, she said she didn't feel the same and for some reason I just feel happy again. Like I don't have any problems anymore even though I do. Anyone else get like this or just me?