I think they all could be potential predators. I watch them in public because I see them harassing or staring at young adults and children. They disgust me so much

My sister has did one of the worst things I have ever had done to me.

I put my dirty clothes in the laundry room and then her and her friend went in there and started looking at my panties and started making gagging noises when there was nothing on them and their other friends was there and nobody bothered to stand up for me. She’s TWENTY FOUR years old and acting like this and this isn’t the first time she did something like this. Keep in mind that I’m 16.

I didn't got molested in that case but i Just can't stop thinking about it and i can't sleep. Basically a professor asked to me if i wanted to be his friend and he said that i could meet him in front of the bathroom during the recess,and probably you think that this Is not and appropriate porposal to a 12 year old. I didn't went there but not because i noticed that this was not normal but just because i was spending the recess with my friends and i even felt kinda gulity because i tought that i was leaving him alone while i was having fun with my friends. I feel so lucky for not going there because probably i would have regretted that but i know that he is still a professor and he migth have done something to Someone else and i don't know if i should go to the Police.

I joined kik today because I'm really lonely and need friends. I was using the random friend finder thing and met this guy on there. He was over double my age and we were talking okay. After a while, he asked if I ever roleplayed or did 'text stuff' and I said no. Then he asked if I'd like to try and I was confused so I said sure. Then he started describing sexual acts, stuff he wants to do with me. Told me to say the same. I was really turned on tbh but was he molesting me? I'm so confused.

As the title says. This is not a community to turn horrible abuse into kinks or kink baiting thru posts. Ive been seeing so many posts that get upvoted discussing how they enjoyed their CSA and engage in harmful self destructive kinks because it feels "cathartic". Your free to do what you want and there are communities for rape kinks and other stuff here on reddit; but keep this kind of stuff out of this community. CSA and molestation will not be taken lightly, romanticized, fetishized and especially not used as BAIT FOR CREEPS LURKING HERE. The mods have to constantly clean up garbage posts that are obvious for what they are. Take your shit elsewhere. This community is for healing and processing traumatic shit. I cant believe I even have to make a post about this. Seriously this community and most of its users have gone downhill.

I was travelling in crowded bus, crowd was so much that I couldn't even adjust my backpack. I was standing and there was lady infront of me. I couldn't move behind because the crowd was too much. As I was standing I was touching this lady (not intentional) I felt so bad that I couldn't make her feel safe. While accelerating she kept leaning on me, whereas, even while harsh braking I managed to stand still without pushing her. I feel so bad this happened. I might have come up like a creep to her, even though I am not a creep. I hate that this happens. If you are girl in India, I suggest don't take crowded bus

I am in the US. Has anyone else here been as triggered as I am by all of the talk about the Epstein victims? It is really making me unhinged. I cry at the drop of a hat. I am obsessed with their stories, I hate all white men except for my husband,I’m very angry, and I just look at the world differently now. I don’t trust anybody, even worse than before. Is anyone else experience experiencing this?

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Multiple times I’ve seen men alone with their daughters and I freak out everytime it’s not completely obvious ( my dad isn’t my abuser).

It’s like I see a young girl and as soon as an older man is around her I feel so anxious and panicky I even start to question the old guy and try and suss out the situation. I often get embarrassed because it does end up being their daughter. But I am terrified that that girl is going through vile shit behind doors with the man she is with.

Hello, redditors; names Michael, i am 22 at the time of happening. My sister (f) 14 got molested by my best friend and close family member. Did not put dates or time stamps.

story

It was like any weekend, i worked an average of 60 to 75 hours a week as a structural welder. so the weekends are the only time i really see family or friends on top of having a relationship right? average life shit. well one weekend out of June would change my life.

That Thursday before the up coming weekend i had asked my cousin if he could come up and hangout. background note he was the one person that i had during my child hood. he is 5 ish years younger than me but other than that we grew up with each other. so our bound is beyond brothers. when i tell you, i would have died for that mother fucker. i mean like no questions asked. HOW MANY PEOPLE YOU KNOW WHO WOULD DO THAT VERY THING FOR YOU?

anyways me and my girlfriend at the time now fiancé picked up my cousin. made him feel comfortable. you know listened to what he like, ate where he wanted to and do what he wanted. which happened to be playing games we grew up on, such as halo or call of duty. mostly what we did, kinda like what you might've done with your best friend just fill in the blank. i think you get the gist at what I'm getting at.

details on my room to my sister's room. we both sleep up stairs, and this is how it goes from the top of the steps straight is bathroom then me and then my sister then spare room. me and my cousin and fiancée were in our room with his xobx hooked up and me and him were playing halo 3 that one ice map with the turrets, can't think of the name. but he basically saw my sister wearing leggings and a hoodie and called that "provocative" he took her being dressed like that to follow her from my room into her room and tried to lock and shut the door. she assumed before he tried anything that he wanted to hangout with her. all this was happening while he told me he was going to use the bathroom. so after he locked or attempted to lock the door he proceeded to touch on my sister. forcing her to touch him. when she had enough and was to emotional she ran to the guest room later sighting "i was afraid you would be mad at me because, he is your best friend" so when she go into the spare bedroom she was trying to calm down so he ran after her to idk i assume attack again, but i think came to his head. she later told my dad and about 35 minutes i was waiting for him to come back in. he came back in so causally, i even joked around with him... and about 10 minutes after he came back in my father come up angry. you know fear ful angry. so angry you are shit what did i do! you know the fucking 10 out of 10 experience. he comes in grasps my cousin and yells "did you touch my daughter.... the truth... truth... the truth" me not knowing anything thought. oh great he hit my sister and hurt her. not raped her! fucking prick.

now i have to deal with the fact my best friend attempted to rape my sister, and now i am afraid i have failed her beyond what i can fix.

This guy https://www.threads.com/@toms_1325 is on Threads and thinks it's totally okay for a 38-year-old to sleep with 14-year-olds. I don't know what I can do about it, so I'm hoping Reddit and its strong community can help.

So I made a frnd few months ago. We grew really close with time. We started having sleepovers. So let me tell you a little about them. They are born male but use pronouns they/them/she. I am a female,straight. We were sleeping one day they started doing the thumb rub thing to me when we were sleeping. I told them to stop doing it cuz i said it's ticklish. For me i do that only with my romantic partners not frnds but I thought they are just trying to good friends. This one day again i woke up with their hand in my pants I asked what the fuck are you doing(confused) they said "what?" I repeated again they said what again at this point I am pretty sure they heard me then I got confused but I slept again. For a few sleepovers they were normal nothing happened. But after a few days, It happens once again this time they had their hands on my chest with my cloths on. I thought they accidentally did it. But I asked again they replied the same that same night they slipped their hands under my pants this time they literally went under my underwear from the sides until I stopped. I gave the same reaction and said that it is not funny. After all this I thought even if they want to be more than friends I made sure they knew that I am straight. However, last night we had a sleepover again they did the same thing again. I woke up I asked "what were you doing"? They said" what"? I guess I knew from the start that they are pretty shy but god damn where is all that shyness. I didn't text them. I feel violated and I thought they were pretty gay but I don't know anymore. We have this great friendship but I don't know what to do next? Cuz I am pretty sure they are gonna act like nothing happened. Any advices, suggestions? What do you think is happening?

so my friend just...molested me..? i feel like im in disbelief. I feel like i have no one to tell this too. I don't...know??? He was my ex and my best friend. Despite our messy break up we recently reconnected and due to circumstances he ended up sleeping at my house. I trusted he wont do anything stupid. I have a boyfriend now. I know he thought this was sketchy but understood the situation and was mature about it. But...when it seemed like I was asleep he started..doing stuff. I can't believe this. I don't want to believe this. I feel like i cheated. I feel horrible. I promised my boyfriend he could trust me. I promise him he could trust my friend. I feel...gross and stupid. Even though I was awake most of the time, I didn't..stop him. I was waiting for him to stop. I have to nudge him and shift my position to get him to stop from...going to far. I feel like an idiot. I feel like i should have done something. But I wanted to see the best in him. I thought I could trust him after all the shit that happened with us. I dont wanna tell anyone about this. I feel like theyd think I'm an idiot. I feel so stupid. I feel so stupid and I don't know who to turn to. I don't want to tell my boyfriend or my friends or my family. I painted my friend as a good dude going through character development. So... I'll look like a stupid dumb idiot!! When I tell them that he did that!!! Nnnnn I dont know what to do now. So I would really appreciate some advice or something. I just want someone I can talk to about this.

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This is a very stupid question, but i never experienced consensual intimacy. My only experiences with sexuality in general were abuse as a child and now as an adult im scared of sex (and relationships, any closeness in general, im an avoidant weirdo).

My experience with abuse was confusing.. it didn’t feel like a continuous thing, it felt like casual touching that only pleasured the other person and sometimes it gave me pain. It also felt very gross and i have a hard time imagining “real” sex can be any different considering the fluids and the fact the other person sees me as a lustfull piece of meat while they are aroused.

my molester manipulated and emotionally blackmailed me into letting her kiss me. she was 18 and i just turned 13. she made me think she was going to rape me. she kept asking do you think i will rape you? and told me a story of two lesbians having sex in the place where the other girl got raped. but i think im overreacting… my head keeps telling me it was just a kiss but i want her to suffer the consequences. she ruined my life and i think its only fair but im not sure if i should.

I only ask because I'm in a similar situation, but I'm scared it could be abuse.

as an 18-year-old often older men come to me when I am walking in the street, it doesn't matter if it's day or night. they are very persistent and won't stop talking and asking you inappropriate things and it takes a lot to get them to leave you alone. although I live in a small city many people come and go so this has happened with many different men, sometimes with the same over and over and something they keep asking is if they can take a picture of/with me. sometimes they don't even ask and try to do it without my consent (it doesn't matter what I am wearing, today I had a hoodie on and they did it anyway), and it happened to the majority of my friends.

so, in your opinion, why do molesters want to take pics with random girls in the street?

One time when I was 4 or 5 I went to the doctor. Everything was normal until she pulled down my pants and just touched me down there. It took me by surprise. I was really confused. Later I told my older sister about it and we were both laughing because we were super young. I never thought of it as molestation because I just didn't understand why she did it. My dad didn't really say anything about it, so I kinda just forgot about it and moved on. Nowadays, I'm scared of doctors. I get super nervous when I have to go in. I haven't let a doctor see me down there for a while now because I'm just too nervous. I'm not sure why I feel the way I do. I've been scared of doctors for a while now, but just recently started connecting it to that doctor's visit I mentioned earlier. It could be because I'm insecure about my weight, but I'm still not entirely sure

THE TITLE IS NOT TO THIS SUB OR ANYONE HERE They know what they did. I see them. I know them. But we were all kids. Or maybe it started cause of one of the adults in my neighborhood? Because nearly everyone from there has stories about stuff with everyone. I was sadly just the epicenter of everything. I can count at least 6 different kids that were around my age at the time now. I wish I had been able to talk about it when it first happened, after all one of the events sent me in tears.

Fuck the internet too. There's been multiple times through my teens where I almost was settling it out. And then bam I found myself in a community of people like me. And they just pulled me in. I hate it. Fuck roblox specifically. That shits the most toxic thing and all of yall parents should kick your kids off of that asap, cause that site don't care.

I'm anxious almost 24/7 now. My last relationship (also a victim of SA) I got out of because we were opposite ends of sexual needs from out trauma. It hurt me, it hurt her. Were still friends though. Shes really nice and will lend a shoulder. But I want love, intimate love. I want to love, intimately. I wanna bury myself into someone. But all I do is neglect myself and become some fucking gooner. Therapy is hit or mess cause the area I'm in sucks for in person and I just can't stand online anymore.

I was about 4-6/7 during all of these. My oldest sister would tickle me without my consent, it made me feel uncomfortable and in pain, she would do it for weeks. I remember when I was about 6 or 7 my second to oldest sister tried to take a picture of my b*tt, I was so uncomfortable but at least she didn’t take the picture because I told my mom

I'll be reposting this once a month as long as the mods allow.

The tldr is the post title.

Please everyone be very very careful sharing personal details of your stories online. I know many of you come online seeking help and support, but please know that there are many ingenuine people who use the details of your stories for personal grarification. It's abominable and disgusting, but it is really happening regularly.

Be careful how much you share in your posts and how much you share even with other users in dm's because it is very easy to make fake accounts online and to lie and act genuine or to lie and act like they are your age or to lie and act like they relate to your stories and are just using you and your stories to get personal gratification. Please be careful what you share and who you share with.

And please be careful of looking for advice from people online. There are also many people online giving advice who have no business giving advice to people. There is a minor in this very sub who has posted about their abuse who has been being molested by their father since they were 6 years old. Someone on here was telling them that it's ok and that minor thinks it's ok now because they are listening to depraved or broken people online giving them bad advice. It is NOT OK if anyone is being molested. It is NOT OK for a parent to be sexual with their own child. No matter how good it feels, there is no parent who truly loves their child who uses their child for sexual gratification. There is a reason why it has to be kept in the dark and secret and why it cannot be shared openly with other adults around who really care about you. That's because there is something deeply disgusting and wrong about it and if you spoke about it openly, people would be appalled that it was happening and would do what they could to stop it. Please don't let anyone lie and tell you that it's ok for a parent to be a pedophile and molest their child nor any other children.

Please, especially you minors, if you have made it this far. be careful about talking to people and seeking help online. There are so many predators around who are looking for and trying to manipulate you. Sadly it is much more likely that you will run across predators who want to manipulate and use you rather than genuine people who want to help you in these subs and in online interactions. Please, you all have to be really careful. There was a young girl groomed online by someone who lied and told her that he was her age and ended up kidnapping her and doing terrible things to her and thankfully she escaped and she shares her story warning other children about interacting online. It is super easy to make fake profiles and to lie and act like a person is your age or to act like they can relate to your story, but their intentions are deeply evil. You don't really know who is behind these screens. I recommend not interacting at all online if you are minor, but if you are going to please be aware of this and be careful sharing personal details of your story or life with people online. There are a lot more people online that mean you harm than good, and sadly that is the honest truth that some have found out the hard way. Please don't let that be you too.

I hope you all meet genuine and real people especially in real life who really care about you and can be of support to you in your trauma. There is real love, care, and support in the world. It isn't easy to find, but it does exist and it is possible to heal from and to overcome whatever evil this world can bring against you. Please everyone keep yourselves safe in your journey healing and moving forward.

I always found it so strange and just angry when they call all trans or gays are the ones doing the abuse? In our little group it was all married couples..no gays and only one couple had a trans partner.

When chatting with others privately about your experiences, does anyone else occasionally get asked to chat on messaging apps instead here on Reddit? That’s usually a red flag for me. I used to just brush it off, but since most, if not all of those who have asked for that have ended getting creepy on me, now it makes me wary of them. It’s like they just want to cover themselves and chat somewhere that will be a safe space for them because they know they can’t get away with their predatory behavior here.

I like to be anonymous on this account and even if other messaging apps do allow for the same anonymity, I’m not interested in going out of my way to download some app just to chat with one person about my experiences when it can just as easily be done here. I’ll give anyone who asks me to chat elsewhere the benefit of the doubt, but I always make it clear that if us chatting on Reddit is going to be a problem, then good day to them.

I personally think other survivors should watch out for requests to chat on messaging apps. Especially if the apps they suggest have a bad rep with online predators.

If you were at the gynecologist and you were getting a breast exam and daddy don’t hurt me popped in your head and you shut your legs like a reflex. Would you think that meant your father sexually abused you?