I first read the books/saw the movies when I was in college (a decade ago now) and I remember thinking that Katniss was asexual and aromantic; definitely more so in the books than in the movies, but I could still see it there too. So I was really disappointed when the trilogy ended with her and Peeta together. But I also always assumed that other book/movie fans felt the same way which is why I was surprised a few days ago to learn that Peeta/Katniss is like, the most popular canon THG ship. I can't find a single person who feels the same way as me so I'm just gonna put it out there now:
Maybe it's the fault of Suzanne Collins as a writer, or Jennifer Lawrence as an actress, but I never bought into the whole love story between them. I never even really got the impression that she loved Gale like that, but in any case idk. I reread the books and rewatch the movies every few years and right now I'm on my rewatch, so I can't speak as accurately to the books since it's been a while. But in the movies the script tells us that Katniss loves Peeta. Jennifer Lawrence says the lines. The characters kiss. Katniss does a lot of stuff to ensure Peeta's safety. And the whole time I'm thinking, why? In the first movie it's clear she has zero romantic feelings for this kid and is only acting because she knows it'll get her out of the Games. At no point do I see proof that that changed, so it's always really off-putting to me in both CF and Mockingjay pts. 1 & 2 when she goes to such lengths to keep him alive. I kind of wonder if it's almost a misplaced savior complex that came about because Rue died? Because on this rewatch I did notice that she started trying to save Peeta after Rue's death, which coincidentally was when Seneca announced the two victors rule.
In the books, I see it even less, because like I said she's always read as ace/aro to me. In THG when Haymitch sends her that second thing (can't remember what?) after she kisses Peeta with more... oomph, I guess, and his little note with it says "that's more like it, sweetheart" that shit has lived rent-free in my brain for 10 years, honestly. It's all an act. And again, maybe it's Suzanne Collins' fault for not being able to portray a romantic relationship growing? But that would be weird since the books are insanely well-written otherwise; some of my favorite YA dystopian literature. Though I guess every writer has their weaknesses and strengths...
But in any case, I just don't see it. So none of Katniss' decisions make sense to me, but I'm willing to go along with all of it under the assumption that she was doing it to stay alive in the first book, and then at least for part of CF (since at first she thinks they're going to have to do the victory tours and get married, etc.), and then in Mockingjay she's just... so caught up in it she can't untangle herself, and then ofc Prim dies so it probably would feed even more into her savior complex from Rue's death... idk. I just wanted to say my opinion. Hopefully someone agrees, but if not, that's cool too. It is what it is, lmao.
Also marking as spoilers just in case; idk if this counts since it's about the original trilogy but better to be safe.