I’ll make this quick because I’m overdo on a certain errand I’ve been putting off. I got banned, stone cold, in the flesh. I intend to be adopted here and call it my new home, a place I can seek refuge in from the monstrosity which is the MBTI subreddit.

This will be like when a cat has its litter and there’s a duckling that doesn’t quite fit in but she loves it anyway and the duckling is happier with her. I’ll be honest, ESFP women can get a tad bit on the “get out of my bubble” side but we’ll work things through as the time goes by.

Look forward to spending time with my new Reddit family,

-throwaway owl

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Edit: if you are truly an ESFP you'll understand this otherwise get your fucking posing ass out of here

that's kinda the negative side of what I've been reading about ESFPs. Is that they are needy and stuff.

I'm an ESFP male 26 y/o. And I can be a bit needy sometimes when I get bored.

I think I'm a 7w8.

I don't usually SEEK out validation or approval. Like wtf? lol

If someone doesn't approve of me, I usually let them have their own opinion.

I don't need anyone to validate my worth! I know I'm awesome. I don't need anyone to tell me that.

I like to show off and stuff. I like to flex. But not because I need others to be impressed. But because I like to make myself happy. You know how some females like to dress slutty to get attention?

I like to get attention. And I like to show niggas and bitches that I'm the fucking shit.

I am annoying. Which I don't give a fuck about. So how the fuck am I approval seeking?

but if I have been mistaken about my own interpretation of myself. And if it's true that ESFPs are needy and stuff.

How do we manage that or cure that negative aspect of ourselves?

in order to be MORE attractive lol

or when you are "using" it.

Sup. Looking for ESFP black online friends. If you see this please hit me up!! I’ll give you my instagram if you DM me. That’s it, byeee!

I’m wondering if, like careers and interests, sexual fantasies are related to personality traits in anyway. And it could also generate great discussion.

1. What sexual fantasies always work for you/ enjoy?

2. What sexual fantasies do not work?

3. Are there any fantasies you try to avoid, if so, why?

TIA

I'm INFP and I have an ESFP friend. She's really spontaneous, a thrill-seeker, loves seeking out a good time. I love driving around with her in town and we have a great time going on little detours and adventures for lack of better words. But sometimes when I try to connect with her on a deeper emotional level, it falls so short.I feel like certain social ques go over her head and she doesn't think to engage them.

When I have a conversation with people, they'll ask me questions and I'll ask them questions which leads to more topics and discussion. But sometimes I'll mention absurb things just to start an engaging conversation with her, or thought provoking things, and she doesn't think to go any further. It doesn't even have to be deep-- it could just be something humorous and light, but she doesn't reciprocate conversations. No questions, no "what did you mean by that?" It's like she's constantly on this surface-level state. Maybe she mentally incapable of meaningful conversation. It makes me feel like I can't get any further with her in our friendship or closer, and it's a bit upsetting. I used to have an INFJ friend and it was incredible talking to him. It felt genuine. With my friend it's just not there. We’ve been friends for close to a year now and hang out all the time.

Is this a common ESFP thing to do? Or is it just her?

Edit: people were upset at my wording. That it sounded rude. I agree so I edited it because that wasn’t my intent. I think I was trying to make it clear how I felt. Also yeah the title is nuts. I think after a year+ of this I was irritated and showed in the title, so I was wrong for that and apologize. Overall though, I just wanted to get some insight as to if this is just MBTi (so what to expect) or something that’s just my friend.

This is not a stereotype I’m not saying they all do it it’s just a pattern I’ve seen on Matan’s podcast. ESFPs (men and women) made weird jokes with Matan. But he’s like 17 so it’s weird. I’ve also experienced this irl around an ESFP. How in the world would an ESFP justify this. Any other Fi type would be uncomfortable with that I think.

I guess not kids but like teens. Also I’ve seen an INTJ be similar online and it makes me wonder how they justify this.

Hi I'm Luis, an intj visitor looking for love in the hopefully (right) wrong places. 😂

Here's some of my stats:

INTJ 28y/o Male 170cm 98kg Stock Engine Southern Californian Mexican-American Spiritual/Catholic

Interests: Running Yoga Swimming Kickboxing Mediation Weight Lifting Tennis Golf Reading Wikipedia rabbit holes Wine

Vegan during the week Trauma Informed Armchair therapist

Just kinda putting myself out there.. If any of you wonderful ladies are interested in knowing more please send a DM ✅

All the esfps out there!! Tell me about yourself, where do you live, what are your hobbies , your favourite things and yoyr weird habits and much more !!

So to be fair/honest we were never super close friends, but we were friends on track last yr (like spring 2020 before COVID) and in summer 2020 he added me on Snapchat, I followed him on Instagram in like the early portion of this yr and he followed me back, liked the picture I posted after I posted it. We don’t really talk

He’s in college, I’m in high school

I know that he does have a girlfriend now, a steady one Marcella who he seems to be happy with. I also know that he has a job and is in community college (unless he dropped out or smthn.)

I did text him like maybe in June a bit after summer had started asking him if he wanted to hang out over summer, he said he tends to “be on vacation” during summer. But he posted like two social media photos in the past two days where he’s in the city or close to it lmao

So what’s going on?

Hey there ESFP's! I have a question for you! I'm a male INFP and i had a thing with a female ESFP. She was in a relationship that's why called it a "thing", but it was more than just a fling or her cheating, we not only had sex but we also made other stuff together, we talked a lot and went out. As an introvert being with her was a blessing because i became really confident of myself. But that's really it, i asked her many times to leave her actual partner to stay with me, until i bursted and said i was done. That happened 2 times and for a reason or another we started dating again, and now 7 month ago a third time for real. We haven't seen each other since then.

Now, as an INFP of course I tendo to overanalyze things and i still am thinking about her. The question is: is she thinking about me or is she really done? At the start of january i went to my old workplace (where she works) to wish all of my ex-colleagues a happy new year, unfortunately she was also there. Of course i gave her my best wishes like i did with everyone else. 40 min later she wrote me and wanted to chat. WHY? I mean i'm giving my everything to forget her she writing me gives me hope (and i don't think that is a good thing). February was my birthday, she wrote me happy birthday and i thanked her. She wrote again trying to start a conversation. WHYYYY?

Can you ESPF guys and gals tell me what the hell is going on in her mind? Does she want to be friends or is she just trying to keep me hooked in the case that she Leaves her bf or something else? what is her plan? is there any plan or is she just trying to be nice ?

Sorry for the long post! have a nice one !

Can unhealthy ESTPs act like ESFPs (or any feely type)? It's important to note that I don't know my exact type yet. However, someone suggested I could be an ESFP so naturally I turned towards the superior option of ESTP. It seems like I'm a mix of both types. Like an ESFP, I tend to be close minded, sensitive, easily offended, and cares a lot about what other people think. However, like an ESTP, I'm confrontational, non-conflict avoidant, likes to do cool things and stand out, and a weird blend of impulsive and strategic when it comes to carrying out endeavors.

I could totally be an ESFP, and in fact, that's probably more likely, but I would like to consider this option first.

Let’s see where this goes.

for example : I was walking my pet, sexually

I personally am an esfp and have studied personality types for quite some time now. Ask away, about esfp's or other types.

Hey guys I feel extremely confused right now cause I cant really figure out my type. I feel like Im a mix of ENFJ and ENFP.

I love spending time with others and help them, like an enfj, but at the same time i need my own time alone to pursue my goals and enjoy my own company. 

But still, I am extremely organized, I always do tasks in advance, i am always punctual, im obsessed with to do lists and cant stand disorder, unlike enfps. 

At school im the person that always talks to anyone and doesnt want anyone to feel left out so i always ask lots of questions about people and im always extremely passionate about finding new life perspectives from others. i sometimes change myself to make people like me, like an enfj, but at the same time i dont really help people so much as i am more interested in my own goals, leaving only the rest of the time to help others. 

I always prioritize my feelings and if i feel off i take a break and spend some to understand what i have to do to improve myself and my life, and thats one of my main obsessions, to always be better and to receive support and approval from others. otherwise i get frustrated if people dont praise me or tell me something nice after doing significant work for my success.

I am really positive and energetic, some people may call me delusional because I am not afraid of almost anything and I always see the best in everything. I am not that messy like an enfp and i always function by a schedule and a fix routine so i can get my goals. i love adventures and travelling. i tend to go outside for a walk alone daily at 6am with my earphones and just vibe with myself. i keep a lot of secrets and no one trully knows me except my best friend. i am extremely diplomatic and i always tell people what they want to hear. that leads me to having a lot of people that consider me their bestfriend while i actually dont. i dont do that in a mean way, im just extremely sociable and kind with everyone i like.

Like maybe not directly but if you saw screenshots of them saying something bad about you, and were hurt to a point where you felt the need to confront them abt it. Would you continue following them on social media if you had to work w them for a club

He is a senior in high school. In his freshman year, he dated an INTJ girl, who was popular at the time. They had sex and she said she didn’t want to do it again. He broke up w her because of it/that’s why they broke up

The ESFP is rich

Three yrs later, he still calls her nicknames and brings her up unprovoked (he has a class with her, English, and does this a lot/a fair amount.) The INTJ dislikes him and has noticeable disdain toward him

His friends bet him to have sex w her younger sister, and he pays a guy who is cute but has a bad reputation (after some convincing from someone, though to take out the INTJ who he dated, as their dad said the little sister can’t start dating until the INTJ starts dating. He pays the guy a lot of money to take her out, seemingly wanting to take out her little sister

He flirts w the INTJ a bit at a party while he is still paying the guy even though she recently smashed her car into his (which damaged it, he called her a bitch but flirts at the party) and cheers her on/hypes her up when she does a table dance in spite of the car thing (he sort of teases her for it the next day?)

Thanos is an ESTP because of his pragmatic, action-oriented approach to situations. As an ESTP, he is quick to act, takes calculated risks, and is focused on achieving immediate goals, particularly survival. His decisiveness and ability to handle tense situations with practical problem-solving align with the ESTP's strengths in being bold, strategic, and extraverted. Unlike an ESFP, who would prioritize emotional experiences and enjoy the moment, Thanos is more concerned with efficiency and control, often making calculated moves to ensure his advantage in the dangerous environment of the games.