This is a throwaway. I'm a woman with a man in his early 30s with probably a smaller than average penis. He's probably 4-4.5" hard, and flaccid, well he likes to compare it to the statue of David, which I guess is pretty accurate in all honesty being maybe only 2.5 inches flaccid. (These are all guesses, I've never measured his penis)

When we met I had immediate attraction to him. I found him to be quite handsome and he was so interesting to me. I knew him about a year before we began dating. From there, It took about a month of dating before we had sex. I noticed his dick wasn't huge but in all honesty it was the furthest thing from my mind. During our first time together, the only thing I wanted was him, it was hard for me to care about anything else besides how sexy I found him to be.

Almost immediately, it was apparent he had a lot of insecurities about his size. When we were first dating, he wouldn't like me to see him naked unless he was hard, and he often would make comments about his dick size. I was actually frustrated by this. I really did not care how big he was... like at all. I honestly wouldn't have even thought much about it if it wasn't for the fact that he was clearly insecure. So instead I've just worked on showing him that it doesn't matter to me, because I truly am so turned on by everything about him, and just love this man so much. It doesn't take much to show him either, he makes me moan so much in bed, it's clear I'm enjoying myself. I always tell him how good he feels inside me during sex, and how much I love his cock. Which it's true. I give him plenty of blow jobs, and honestly my favorite thing is giving him one before he's hard, and feeling him grow in my mouth.

He's a near perfect lover for me. And the sex is honestly a plus. Sure there are a couple positions that don't feel that great for me, or that don't work very well, but we genuinely have amazing sex.

He recently told me that no ones ever made him so comfortable sexually and that made me really proud honestly, because that's all I've ever tried to do for him. He's long since gotten over me seeing him naked, and he still makes jokes about his dick size, but I always reassure him about how little it matters to me. Honestly, I like being able to deep throat a guy for the first time haha.

But honestly I get it. I get why so many men are uncomfortable with their sizes. I hear so many of my friends talk about the size of the men's penises that they have slept with etc. Hell, I've been guilty of it in the past when I was younger. So I'm not going to tell you size doesn't matter to many women. But it doesn't matter to the right ones. I promise. When you find a woman that you love, and that loves you unconditionally, I swear it won't matter nearly as much as you see it mattering now. Focus on finding Her. Don't worry about women that are so superficial to ridicule you weather it's to your face or behind your back.

You are worthy, and deserving of love regardless of your body. I know saying to be more confident isnt easy, and straightforward, but I promise you can find a woman that loves you so unconditionally. Be yourself, and love her just as unconditionally, and things will fall into place. I'm sorry you guys deal with this. I promise it's never as bad as you might imagine it to be.

I'm not a lurker, I'm just trying to see something

Brothers, 

I am familiar with the pain that many of you currently feel. Life has given you a terrible hand of cards to play with and all I can do is offer my condolences and pass on what I have learned. I gave up on the pursuit of sex 50 odd years ago. I came to peace with that fact when I turned 30. My 20s were filled with much anxiety, depression and suicidal thoughts. I had tied my value to this body that I inhabit and it was only when I severed that tie that I became free. 

You may feel that your value as a man partly comes from your ability to satisfy a woman. Some of you have been deluded by the illusion that life is about finding a lover, settling down, starting a family…

I am here to promise that there is more to this world, and I can wholly imagine the scepticism and perhaps even anger that that statement might elicit. 

In my 30s I had a profound psychedelic experience that separated myself from my identity; also known as my ego. During this out of body experience I was able to analyse our current universe from non-bias eyes. All the societal norms, all the anxieties I had about my body dissipated as if they were nothing more than a ridiculous inconvenience. 

Since that experience of ego death, I have lived my life purely in the moment. This world is fascinating you know and there is much to explore and experience. Sex is one experience, a family is one experience, and yes it does hurt if you have to forego that particular level in this game of existence. But it is not the only level in the game. 

I am an old man now and the story of my life has been filled with both heartbreak and love, happiness and pain. It has been a fascinating life; full of adventure and I was able to have it and enjoy it because I was able to completely give up on all my attachments to this world. I have spent the last four decades not being driven by my career, by sex or by power. Instead, I simply allowed myself to exist and took life as it was gifted to me.

You can have a fulfilling existence. You can be happy. You are all worth more than you think you are. 

P.S I won’t be replying to any comments on this post. I’m not really a fan of any social media. I just wanted to share a small part of my story. Be strong my brothers.

Gordon

Three weeks ago, I was looking for a tinder hookup and found this pretty cool chick. I went to her place; we were watching a movie and things started getting heated. I have never been this dumbfounded and humiliated in my life, but when she took my pants and boxers, she just started laughing. It took me by surprise and I couldn't react for a minute. She was cool enough to apologize but I was out the door.

My self-esteem took a huge hit for a while. I started thinking negative thoughts like how I'm never gonna fill a woman (or a man) up. How I'm never gonna satisfy my partner no matter how hard I try; they're always going to yearn those big dicks. How when it comes to small penises, it is small dick humiliation or cuckold. But when it comes to large ones, it's big dick worship. Then I started thinking about all the porn I've watched; these guys are like 2x or 3x bigger than me. I could hear all these pornstars screaming at the top of their lungs.

Then I realize I've made my partners scream at the top of their lungs before too. I could pound and go to town on them as hard as I want and nobody have ever told me to "stop" or that "it hurts". I can have sex for like 3 hours at night, and still able to get frisky in the morning, because she's not sore. I've been able to give penetrative orgasms just fine, like 80% of the time. If that doesn't happen, my oral and foreplay game is strong, because obviously I've been told I'm disadvantaged by all these movies, locker room talks (sigh!). <--- Not to mention, I love it too! I listen to my partners too; what they want and what I could be doing better. Communication is key!

My past partners have told me they enjoy sex with me, because I can go balls deep and either my pelvis area or my balls would hit their clitoris repeatedly. I know all the angles and movements that would give the best sensation for both of us. I've been told that blowjobs are super easy, and I've had my partner go down on me for hours. Even deep-throating is easier, and at certain angles I could make them gag (if that's what they like). I'm a very dominant lover, and yes, rough sex is as good as it sounds. Over the years, I've realized that being dominant is not equal to hurting your partner with your big ginormous dick like in porn. My sex life is awesome! My boy Pablo is awesome! I wouldn't change anything at all!

I get it! There are some disadvantages to having a small penis. You'll have some doubts about yourself and some scars. You don't have to develop a thick skin; just ignore the haters. If you have any questions, ask away.

It feels like this mega expectation that you just can't and will never reach. When I watch porn almost every video has some variation of the title "big black dude with huge cock pounds girl" and I'm sitting here thinking hello wheres my long dong. I see the stereotype all across the internet and it kills me because its like sometimes I'm not black. It's sort of invalidating. I keep seeing this sorta 6 foot ripped 6 pack chest black dude and all i see when I look in the mirror all I see is this 5 foot something tub of lard with a small dick.

I am 20, 5ft 4 and around 100-110 pounds with a Micro penis [3inch by 3.75inch] nearly invisible when flaccid. I have always been small even though having 6ft tall father and 5ft 7 mother. At 19 I ended up getting blood test and had extremely low testosterone levels and growth hormone deficiency. What luck. That’s is just a little back ground about me.

So I lost my virginity at 18, this was my freshman year of college, me and all the same friends from highschool ended up going to the same state college. I was known as the virgin of the friend group everyone knew but they never really bothered me about until college. They would tease me and the fucking time. Even when we hung out with girls they would be like “he is a virgin you know” or some shit like that. I could of just said I wasn’t a virgin but it was a mental barrier for me to lie about what I thought was such a big deal in society. It’s not like I never tried with girls but they never notice me and I’m pretty good looking face wise I think. For some reason I felt like girls had X-ray vision and could seem micropenis or something.

Fast forward to the nearing the end of my freshman year. There was a joke that stuck with me in the back of my head for a while, “why don’t you get fucked by a dude since no girls like you.” I would replay this in my head many times.

One day I decided to sign up to Grindr make a profile and see what would happen. I was hesitant to check after a couple of days but when I did I was flooded with dms. I looked up precautions before losing ur virginity like cleaning and stuff and went through with it. I ended up meeting with a guy who ended up being well above average. Then we did the deed. It hurt so bad and I didn’t get to pleasure my self. I sucked him and he fucked me but after he finished he just left. At one point during the ordeal he compared himself to my size what a fucking asshole. I deleted the app and sat in the bed for at least 3 hours crying my eyes out filled with anger. I was contemplating suicide right then and there. How stupid was I. I never had attraction to a man so why would I do that.

The virgin jokes still continued and ended up leaving that friend group. But this moment still haunts me to this day, almost 2 years later. I’m not gay I want a wife and I want a family. If it wasn’t for the shit hand I was dealt none of the this would of happened.

Hi friends. I’m a small duck guy with just 4 inches hard but I’m dating a girl who loves it and she commented that my size just fit her perfectly . As big cocks caused her only pain and mine just pleasure. And yesterday for the first time in my life and while doing missionary I went all way in balls deep (it’s not an issue for all of us hahaha) I felt her cervix in my glans! Her pussy is really tight and it seems that also about the length of my little friend. Have you ever had a this experience? For us small cock guys this is just a miracle!

This girl was telling a story to the group, how her friend made a bad sexual joke then she insulted him by telling his pp size is small. Everyone in the group laughed.

I told her in front of everyone that you both are toxic and abusive people to shame each other's body. Everyone got quiet. But this other girl first tried to gaslight me that small size was not an insult. I told her to take a poll. Then she asked me if I have a small one. Due to experience I was ready for this.

I told her yes with a straight face, and said if I didn't have a small one, I wouldn't be eligible to call out body shaming, right? It's 2021, and body shaming is not cool.

In the end, they both got embarrassed. I'm happy I did it. I just don't care anymore to feel shameful about me if everyone knew or not.

Edit: I want to share my thought process, which has changed after reading some of the helpful advice posts on this sub. Yes, I am small and it comes with negative results for me. I know it, and I have accepted it. But I don't feel shameful about it anymore.

In many instances, girl I was having sex commented how small I was, but after being unapologetic about it I carried on. I was too busy with sex to give any reaction. I understood that most of the girls were just commenting on it as an observation like they haven't seen a small one like me, they weren't commenting on me to make me feel bad. I may also come across a bitch, but I don't care it's her choice not to be with me.

I am a private person, so I don't talk about my size in public. But if someone tries to discredit me by asking if I'm small, I always say, "so what if I am" that doesn't mean you can body-shame.

I understand being in high school or teenager might be difficult. But I'm not teenager anymore and it took me lot of time to accept it and be at peace with it.

I’ll start this off by saying I am small. 4.5 and skinny. Trust me lol, I’m not one of these guys that comes in here with an average size and just THINKS he’s small. Back to the info.

My senior year in hs i hooked up with a size queen. She is what people consider a “pawg.” Big butt, boobs, and fairly thick overall, but not fat- A good thick. One of my good friends (who is still like a brother to me after all these years) would occasionally mess around with her. The thing is, he’s very open about having a big one. Ever since high school he bragged about only fitting magnums, and would walk around the locker room letting his thing swang. To each his own, but as members of the small crowd, we know we would die before walking around a locker room showing our package. The point of me bringing him up is.. she clearly likes big d*cks.

We ended up exchanging numbers one day I forget how, but she was always really flirty with me. When we started texting it was clear she was DTF. This intimidated the sht outta me. Knowing she smashed my bd friend on multiple occasions had me in shambles lol. And to top it off she would openly say sht like “Big d*cks are always fun.” Also very intimidating. So she invites me over one Friday and says her parents are outta town. It’s about to go down. At this point it was like Wednesday, and i had a decision to make.

They say less endowed men should be better at oral blah blah we’ve heard this forever. So I started researching how to eat a girl out (embarrassingly funny to think about) and I came across a lesbian article that went into detail on what to do. Basically said to start from the top (neck and boobs) and work your way down. Don’t rush it, and tease them before eating it. So like kiss her thighs and graze over it before actually going in. She should be wanting to shove your face in it before you actually do. So i took all this info and locked it in.

Friday comes around and this girl wasn’t playing games. Waited for me, and took me in her car! She was ready Lol. We get there and I’m sweating bullets on the inside. I’m like fck, the whole world is about to find out I have a small dck. Anyways, we start drinking whatever alcohol her parents had in the bar, smoking a lil weed and just vibing. Outta nowhere, boom, she’s like ok take your pants off now.

I took them off but left on the boxers, I was so nervous I wasn’t even hard yet. Side note, fellas we aren’t built to show off the package so only do so when completely necessary. Anyways, I took them off left in the boxers and laid her down. She was sexy af in her black panties and bra just laying there. I did what the article said haha started from the top and worked my way down. Started teasing her down there, kissing each thigh, not going to fast yadda yadda. She was going crazy. I realized she had never reached this level of arousal before. The 4 play was working wonders. After a while of fingering and eating it, I put it in. Within like 4 or 5 strokes she came. I don’t even think I did I was just happy that she did.

After the deed was done she would text me kind of cringey lovey dovey things and it was clear she liked me. I couldn’t believe it. And to top it off, she bragged about our time to her friends. My buddy even told me about it lol.

This experience shaped my future sexual interactions and gave me the confidence I need to live life how I do now. It can get hard being one of us, but there’s hope. I know we don’t want to hear it, but get that foreplay on lock. It can change your life.

Side note: I see a lot of horror stories on here about dudes just flashing their junk during a sexual encounter and the girl leaves or whatever. Don’t. I’m sure this girl woulda bailed if she saw mine in the moment. It’s just Wierd and unnecessary lol. Make them aroused to the point where she doesn’t care what your working with, she just wants you to put it in. Works every time

My ex was about 4 inches hard. We broke up recently and I miss fucking him every day. He was passionate and sexy and sensual. I loved riding him and grinding myself on him until I came.

He was small enough that we had anal pretty frequently and it didn’t hurt, it actually felt good and was the first time I’ve really enjoyed anal.

Anyway, for those of you that worry about your size, try not to obsess over it. My ex was brilliant and sexy and everything I wanted. His size was new for me but didn’t impede my satisfaction at all. If you’ve had bad experiences with women, keep looking. Good women won’t give a fuck.

6 inches isn’t a small dick. It’s above average. 5 inches isn’t even that small and many women would be fine with it. My dick is the size of a woman’s finger when hard. I’ve never measured it because it would fuck me up to see how small my penis is in indisputable measurements. My last relationship ended because she didn’t enjoy having sex with me. She tried. We tried every position in the book, but at the end of the day it was me having a small dick that ruined our relationship. Now I get to think about the woman I love getting fucked by other guys and liking it more than she ever liked being with me.

It makes me depressed as shit when I see a guy on here calling his dick small and then in the comments he says he’s 5.5 in. You know what I would do to have a 5 inch cock? That’s average! Some women may prefer more inches but there is a very real possibility you could sexually satisfy some woman. Me? No woman I’ve ever been with has enjoyed sex with me even if they were too polite to outwardly say it. It’s embarrassing to have women go down on me so much that I don’t like bjs. I don’t like hjs either. And to make matters worse I’m a tall guy with a stockier build. Women except me to be packing.

Appreciate your average sized penises. It could be a lot fucking worse.

I’m a 28m and during quarantine, I’ve been living with my parents. 17 years old step-bro walked in on me jerking off. My fault, I forgot to lock the door.

A few hours later he knocks at my door and says he wants to talk to me.

TLDR: he started crying saying everyone has a bigger dick than him, says im huge ( im average ) and that he feels really insecure about his small penis. I didn’t know what to say at the time, it caught me off guard so I just took him to dairy queen for ice cream.

Hes a good kid, funny, tall has a GF etc etc. He told me he has been dreading have sex with his gf because hes scared she’ll laugh at him.

I don’t know what to do or say. I did some research online about penis size etc etc

Idk what to do guys

wow really? you have only just realised how much the small dick insults affect us? you only just realise that every single comedy or media outlet makes fun and insults men with small dicks, never big?

The worst people in the world are associated with having a small dick, how do u think that makes us feel? 'Small dick energy', the hand pinch emoji, the constant humiliation, feeling worthless when a girl you like rejects u based on ur size.

So after all that, we get the generic advice 'be confident!!'. In what world can we be confident?

e.g you're at a bar, you start talking to a really nice girl, you know that you're small, she doesn't. In your head you know she'll either laugh or just walk out based on the past 10 experiences of the same thing happening, so you just tell her you're not interested.

That's our life.

Not a pity post. It just flies in the face of people who say "learn to use your fingers and mouth, and you're good"

I'm a dominant who practices BDSM, and has a smaller than average penis. Met a smoking lass over tinder with mutual interests. Grab a drink, invite her home, and she asks me to spank her. Have fun kinky moments with my clothes on. Finger her, she cums for a long time, squirts all over. Take a break. Ask her to kneel down and take my pants off. Everything was great until then.

Then that look of disappointment! Holy fuck, I've had my fair share of dick shaming, but these moments are so fucking painful. She sucks me off half heartedly. Is absolutely cold afterwards, almost like she's embarrassed for me. Cuddles for a minute, makes some excuse, and is off on her way. Me even making a fool of myself, ask her if she wants to hang out again. She texts me afterwards, that she had fun, but doesn't think we're a good match.

Guess you just have to accept the risk of embarrassing yourself as a below average guy looking for casual sex. I'm starting to question if the risk is even worth it...

We’ve had a healthy perfect relationship for years, most of the time. The past couple years she has made jokes, she was in a group message with her friends and I heard her say “what does bbc mean?” My heart already sank because when we met she was so innocent and sweet, And then she found out and I found that type of porn on her phone. Keep in mind our vibe/energy is the type you think we’d be together and this is the one. Something switched and she makes “cute” and “small” comments, for example laying in bed and she pulls it out she giggles and so on. I seen her messages and her slutty ass friend recommended her getting a dildo, keep in mind she never even thought twice of those things, I see the message and her friend recommends a giant dildo and she says “oh my gosh ok, I have to hide that big thing lmao”..about The past 13 months I’ve been depressed and she asks why I’m always down and angry at night and hurt and distant, thinking maybe she would get the hint, 2 months later and I thought those things went away since she stopped making comments, then the nail hit the coffin, I seen her message pop up when she was showering and it said “lol just tell him he’s to small and you need a huge one ever since your dildo”… I’m over it, I’m out, I’m so out. Done. As our parents are like wtf happened?? . Lol imagine saying the truth , I’d kill myself. It’s okay. I’m down feeling that pain. That’s all. (It’s all good, working on myself, making money and hitting the gym, just a shame that influence can just ruin things, and great things)

I have gotten to the point in my life where I feel I have no purpose on this planet; more particularly western contemporary society.

I am a black man. I am proud to be a black man. I will protest on the streets for whenever I see systematic racial injustice. I don’t agree with everything #BLM do but I damn well support their message. Anyway I didn’t come here to preach my politics.

I am here because I am a 19 y/o black man with a 3.5 inch dick. I used to not care much about my penis size but now I contemplate suicide on the regular cause of what social media and porn expect of my race. There was a good post here a few days ago about how the world views us as inferior subhumans for our lacking in size but I don’t think most of you realize how bad this shit is when your black.

It’s like the world expects all us to have huge cocks to fit the RACIST ‘BIG BLACK COCK’ stereotype. I goddamn hate it and the people that fetish over it. In recent years we’ve heard of such euphemisms like ‘snow bunnies’, ‘black bull domination’ and of course “once you go black, you never go back” - yeah, as long as you meet the unspoken criteria of having a large penis.

The rest of us are forever living in the shadows of our brothers that won the genetic lottery and were born with a large penis. But fuck you if you flaunt it around to pick up girls with this BBC fetish; you aren’t part of the problem, YOU ARE THE PROBLEM.

I am a virgin and the closest I came to intimacy with another girl was when I was 17 and I was texting a girl I was crushing on. We were sexting at one point and then she asked me to show her my big black dick. An assumption that tore all the confidence and dignity I had into pieces. Out of pressure I reluctantly sent her a dick pic from the most flattering angle possible and she didn’t respond.

I now have constant anxiety whenever the subject of sex is mentioned around me. I steer clear of any female contact for fear of further humiliation. I was feeling particularly shitty one day and was in the mood for some self-loathing so I had a browse on that small dick humiliation subreddit and seen posts saying: “your tiny cock will never get near my tight pussy, this pussy is BBC territory”.

What’s the point guys if we are shamed and humiliated constantly for the crime of existing. For real, once my mom passes I think I’m finna rope and leave this cruel world behind.

Any other brothers here with my same issue??

I thought I had finally found a woman who liked me and accepted me for who I am, but yesterday she shattered the little confidence I had left. During foreplay she jokingly said that she wanted to suck my "hen". I asked her what she meant and she explained that because I have a small penis it isn't a "cock", but a "hen".

It instantly ruined my mood, I left the house and now idk what to do. She's been ringing me since I left last night. She knew how insecure I was about it, yet she chose to ignore my feelings for a cheap laugh. All the suicidal thoughts I had are slowly coming back. I really don't feel like living anymore.

Edit: For those that are curious I did speak to my wife. She was unapologetic and said I was acting up, blowing things out of proportions. I've decided to spend some time away from her, i'll eventually file for a divorce. If she takes my kids i'll most likely kill myself and be done with this life.

Thank you so much to the ones who understood how humiliating something like this is. Those of you who are defending her behaviour and claim it's a "harmless joke", I assume the majority of you are women, so I didn't really expect any of you to understand this. I'm glad you've never had to deal with an insecurity like this before though.

So I met this guy over a year ago and ever since I've been crushing ridiculously hard. It's rare that I fall for someone and I haven't had a feeling this strong in almost a decade. He's literally my dream man in rl. At one point he asked me if size mattered to me and I told him that I care more about the person attached to the penis than size, and if I wanted a particular length or girth I could buy a toy.

I suspected he asked because he was insecure about his dick and started to read through this sub to get an understanding about ... what he might be going through. In the process I came to realize what society/porn/constructs of masculinity/... put people through. I learned that there are parallels between bodyshaming for women and men and hence I got an idea of what it might feel like to live in times where big dicks are fetishised.

Back to my guy. We managed to hang out again and it was perfect, as he is to me. He's been through a lot and still is kind and cute and able to get back on his feet. My assumption that he's "below average" was right. I adore everything about him and I think his size is perfect for me.

But. After reading in this sub I've learned that not everyone shares my opinion and how much something that is out of our control affects men. I don't want these constructs, unfunny jokes about size or anything else hurt him or make him feel bad about his body. Ever. Since he asked me about size I've been practicing kegels, because I don't want to feel loose to him (female insecurity) and because a strong pelvic floor gives me greater orgasms.

If he ever feels bad about his body, I know me saying "you're perfect to me" won't be enough. 1 bad thing outnumbers 100 good things. I wish I could be enough to make him feel good. I wish I could show him how I see and feel about him...

Only thing I can do is trying to express how much I'm into him and how good he makes me feel and how much I enjoy him and his body. I will stand by his side and value our intimacy. Thanks to all of you for teaching me how to dirty talk without sounding fake and letting me know how to compliment in a respectful way. I'll keep on secretly hate society and all these shitty things for doing this to the one I admire and crave like air.

If you have effective tips on how I can support men (and women) who are affected by bodyshaming, please let me know.

Tl;dr: fell madly in love with a guy and don't want him to feel self-conscious about his size, since he is perfect to me in every way.

There really is no female equivalent to our problem. Sure, a woman can have small breast and a small butt, but there are men out there who find that attractive, so that's a false equivalency. And if a woman wants a bigger ass they can try working out to build that muscle up or get surgery for a bigger ass and tits. They dont have the same sense of futility that we do.

The closest thing to our problem is vaginismus, but even then, there have been proven ways of correcting that condition. And if I was a normal sized man that truly cared for my partner, I think I would be able to look passed that. Yea, I wouldnt be able to have normal penetrative sex but I think I would still feel an attraction to her and find other ways to derive pleasure.

I think the main difference is that our problem is not only one of functionality, but also a visual one. A small dick is a visual turn off and there is so much underlying stuff that is tied to dick size, such as our manhood (manliness, leadership ability, confidence, etc.) These are all things a woman looks for in a man aside from just his ability to pleasure (eventhough that's a really important one, if not the most important.)

Anyway, I've realized there really wasnt a point to this post... just some random thoughts I've been having.

I guess my point would be that if you're a man born with a small dick, it's a wrap, you're shit out of luck when it comes to finding a partner and having a good sex life. Better luck in the next life, I hope.... peace

A large portion of my life I just accepted what happened to me and honestly never gave a shit. I didn't go after girls and porn scratched my itch. It wasn't until I came here because I wanted to so desperately hear how my life didn't have to be so lonely (this was after I finally gave a girl a chance) was when I started to get depressed. Like come home from work suicidal depressed.

I just had someone leave me because of my size, so guess what I'm doing at 4am at night - coming to sdp looking for any ounce of positivity about my issue. Once again I'm leaving even more depressed than I started rofl

This place is fucking suicide fuel and there is no doubt in my mind someone who never posted here read what I guess is just the truth for us and ended his life. There's 8 billion people in this world and I have no doubt 1 of them would be sick enough to act like he had a small dick and spread the most nasty, negative shit imaginable just to fuck with people. Seeing some of the shit you guys write is making me suspicious as hell whether or not that is going on here.

This place needs to be banned, or severely changed towards more positive discussion because for fucks sake this is probably the most depressing subreddit on fucking reddit.

even though I highly doubt you can be too big for women (obviously not including medical).

I'm too small for every woman I've met, my height just kills it off and results in disappointment. How on earth do I explain that I'm not even 4 inches but I'm 6ft3 tall?

Is there any point dating at all with a small dick? I can't see a single reason. "Oh you might get lucky and meet a unicorn that doesn't care about size!" ... yeah and I might win the lottery tomorrow. Not gonna happen.

drowning my problems with alcohol tonight, hopefully my organs fail.

I know way too many girls who get in relationships with black dudes only because they want to try out The bbc™. I cant imagine how anoying it must be to be expected to have a big penis simply because you are black.

I used to think it would be a problem before I met him (hypothetically) - thinking I would probably never be satisfied, and women who are must be able to cum really easily. I was naive, and I wrong. I was surprised just how wrong I was. We have a great sex life and I like him very much. There really are ways to get to mutual satisfaction guys, and it makes it more interesting anyway. He jokes about it every now and then but I assure him there’s absolutely no problem and he’s being silly, because there isn’t. I’d say utilise toys and getting to know each other really well. A lot of sensuality begins in the mind too, on your connection. Don’t live a miserable life fellas when you don’t need to. Be confident and choose your partners well 🤞🏽

"I had this abusive 9 inch boyfriend wich I stayed with because (ERROR 404: EXCUSE MISSING) and then I sleep with this -2 inch guy that was so wonderful in bed (because he doesn't asked me anything and overcompensated for hours with oral and toys) that I never slept with him again!

Now I'm with someone big but I swear you guys, size doesn't matter! teehee~"

(Now give me karma)

Seriously tho, why the small guy is always so amazing yet his always the ex? Don't you see the contradiction on the slightest?

And yes, there is some exceptions to this rule, but always happens with a girl over their 40s than don't value sex that much anyways.

Like, all those girls that supposedly like our size are just not available for us. What a shitty lie.