r/recruitinghell • u/OrionExalted • 5h ago
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Aug 03 '26
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r/recruitinghell • u/reeeeeshu • 4h ago
My Offer got rescinded after an ex-employee wanted to return to the company
I got an offer, only for it to be rescinded cause an ex-employee reached out to them after I signed the offer letter. How is that fair? I had to give 2 assessments (cognitive and behavioral), 1 case study, and 1 video submission, and then go through 3 rounds of interviews (1 AI and 2 human). I signed the offer letter and confidentiality agreements. I was going through a background check and getting ready to go to my drug screening when I received this email from HR.
I'm so angry and confused. What should I do?
Edit: To everyone asking if I left my previous job or if Iāve given notice period - No, I havenāt. I graduated in May and am currently looking for new job opportunities and this was my first offer. I was supposed to start on November 30th.
r/recruitinghell • u/Stock-Mushroom5466 • 4h ago
Resentment towards tech industry after layoff
Itās been 2 years since Iāve gotten let go from
my six figure tech job I did tons of interviews and no offers Iām exhausted I already know QA is dead fuck the tech industry especially Accenture who laid me off in 2024 I still have resentment 2 years later imagine going from six figures to govt assistance jumping from one odd job to the next just to survive Iām almost 30 and my life went backwards I really hate my fucking life right now and donāt tell me to keep on applying because that will piss me off
r/recruitinghell • u/RareMeasurement2 • 52m ago
Historians will look back during this time period to study how PTWD started (post traumatic workday disorder)
r/recruitinghell • u/universaltruth_1 • 1h ago
Is LinkedIn the new dating app ?š
Lately, it feels like some people have completely forgotten what LinkedIn is meant for.
You connect with someone for professional networking, career opportunities or industry discussions, and suddenly the conversation turns into flirting, personal compliments and unnecessary advances.
āCan I ask you something?ā
āYouāre so cute.ā
āIāve wanted to tell you this since I saw your profile.ā
Seriously? š
If youāre looking for dates, there are plenty of dating apps available. LinkedIn is supposed to be a professional networking platform, not a place to test your flirting skills.
The funniest part? Some people use professional help as an excuse to initiate personal conversations.
Can we please keep professional networking professional?
Has anyone else noticed this growing trend, or am I the only one experiencing it?
r/recruitinghell • u/Chemical_Bat_5395 • 17h ago
I remember when I thought entry level meant entry level
I thought entry level just meant having a willingness to be molded, to be critiqued, to learn, to be open to anything. But no, the requirements are so much higher these days.
I had a decent entry level resume built with SWE/tech support internships, projects, certifications and a cs bachelor's. I graduated in May 2025. I graduated with almost 50k in loans. After graduation I could only get a job at a local big box store hauling heavy products around for $16/hour, working from 11pm to 7am. Meaning, my first job after college was making a deadend $33k a year in 2025. Now 2026. I got a 50 cent raise after a year. in a VHCOL. I'm unemployed now, though.
The classical advice to someone in my spot is "just go get another education". Will you be paying the bill??? I was making $16 an hour. My loans aren't even paid off.
r/recruitinghell • u/canecorso50 • 23h ago
Took a job at 40% of salary
Happy Holidays. Being trained with people 20 years younger.
r/recruitinghell • u/Ok-Transition-9615 • 13h ago
Got a job offer
Applied on Monday, had an interview on Wednesday, Friday i received the job offer..
Is it a red flag for a company to progress this fast?
r/recruitinghell • u/touchofrealism • 2h ago
Insane interview experience, read for a laugh lol
Iām 25 and have been unemployed for close to a year.
For context, I live in a country where employee rights are treated as a recommendation and most local companies are abusive as hell. So iāve basically been ājob hoppingā not by choice but because the companies i worked in would basically force us to work from 9 am well into the night VERY frequently (think till 11,12,1 am etc) because they refuse to hire more people and theres lots of work to be done so if u dont work late for the sake of meeting insane deadlines, youāre gonna be fired. Unpaid overtime work btw. same goes for weekends, replying to clients and team members and your manager at whatever time is also expected even if its 4 am.
Iāve also had managers who are just extremely unreasonable. A small example would be them asking me to make a document blue then when i do it theyād tell me why not red??? i wanted red. when i tell them that you asked for blue, theyād tell me but i changed my mind and you shouldāve known i wanted red now. this is just to give you an idea, obviously theres way more insane stuff but iāll keep it short.
So i was referred to a role at a company, and went in for the interview.
I was asked to fill out paper forms for the application, where they asked for references, previous salaries, and current salary expectation which is already an issue considering i donāt even know exactly what they want in this role. There was no job description, no specifics about the role, and was expected to fill out this form before even speaking to anyone. After a short conversation with the HR, she wanted to know my salary expectation and i gave her a mid range salary for what she said theyāre looking for; someone to basically BE the whole department. Not an unreasonable salary ask, just a small bump from my previous salaries, and a number recent interviewers have told me is their budget for similar roles.
I go in to interview with the CEO (same day, its a small company). He asks me if iām single, asks what my family members do for work, then starts ranting about Gen Z and how he thinks we are all lazy and donāt want to work and just want lavish lifestyles because we are so brainwashed by social media, says we want the reward without the hard work, Gen Z think they can just ask for extremely high salaries without having anything to offer and provide no value for businesses. He starts talking about how there are employees who have been there for 10 years and never gotten a raise because they donāt bring him revenue (he told me their salaries, heās basically paying them much less than liveable wages) and how he sees employees as an expense so whenever they dont bring revenue he sees them as the thousands of dollars he pays them each month.
Then he starts saying, that he thinks iām lost in life, because i changed jobs a lot, and that he thinks if i was any good these companies would not have let me leave. Started saying he thinks i left because i wanted a lavish salary and they didnāt give me that so i left.
Keep in mind heās on a monologue here and i havenāt gotten a word in iām just listening in shock lol
I told him very frankly why i left the previous companies. That I had the salaries i asked for, explained the context of why i left, and they werenāt happy about me leaving as i had been carrying a bulk of the work but they couldnāt stop me.
He told me wow that sounds terrible. Told me about a branch of the company they closed because the clients were so cheap and wouldnt increase the budget buy wanted so much out of scope work.
Then he started rambling about gen z being lazy, how they dont agree to work overtime (unpaid), and how they dont agree to do work that isnāt theirs, and have the nerve to ask for higher salaries. he gave me an example where he asked a gen Z HR employee to do cold calling sales work and she refused. Said he thinks she is lazy and unreasonable. said that gen z employees refuse to stay overtime saying they have plans and want to go gym and stuff.
He said, If the office cleaner didnāt come, I, as a CEO, will clean and do the dishes so the office doesnt stink. I need a joker who will do everything required. I asked him what exactly is required? cause i donāt do dishes lol. he said how about cleaning toilets? i said not that either lol
Honestly the ironyš
He kept rambling on about how just because the work day ended u donāt stop being a professional, like how ronaldo doesnt stop being a soccer player just because heās not in a game right now. Insane. as if ronaldo doesnt make millions each game, and its not like ronaldo is always walking around with the ball or living on the field lol.
He said, whats the problem if i had a great idea at 9 pm and texted u about it and then u open ur laptop and start working on it? i told him whats the problem if u write down the idea then discuss it with me the next day?
I told him honestly, i value my rest and downtime. i value being able to see friends, do sports and hobbies, relax, and do whatever after work. i need to refresh, and if i keep working 24/7 iām gonna be burnt out and basically be useless. Iām not gonna be the person who does everything for a company anymore.
He starts rambling about how europe is struggling because of Gen Z. said gen Z refuse to work and they cant find workers.
the interview lasted 2.5 hours. it was honestly an insane experience. the cherry on top was him having cameras in every single office, and had a tv directly next to him streaming the camera feed, and he was constantly checking it. it ended with him having to go to a meeting, and asked me if this really is my final salary range. i said yes.
he said theyāll be in touch. i hope not lol iād rather stay unemployed than work for him.
Share your insane interview storiesš
r/recruitinghell • u/LlewTom2003 • 16h ago
Sick to death of this
Had a brief conversation with the manager over the phone, they offered an interview invitation for next week which I accepted. Then I received this email not even 24 hours later.
Not the first time this has happened either.
r/recruitinghell • u/Professional-Ad8867 • 21h ago
I am tired.
Tired of being rejected after a good interview. Tired of people assuming that I am lazy and don't care about my current situation. Tired of being tired everyday as a result of the stress from the job hunt. Tired of seeing other people around me get offers while I am still unemployed. Did everything right, including getting good grades, referrals, and doing multiple summer internships. About to be 1.5 years post grad with not a single offer at all.
r/recruitinghell • u/Mochimimi21 • 1h ago
Told I was the top candidate, then a new hiring manager took over and I didn't get the offer
I just need to vent a little. I've been in a really long interview process for a role through a recruiting agency. I interviewed with the person who was supposed to be my manager, and he told me I was his favorite candidate and that they wouldn't be doing any more interviews. Then they scheduled me with the department leads, and they also said they liked me and were just waiting on approval.
The recruiter even told me the offer would probably come that Friday. Instead, I found out they'd changed the hiring manager for the position, and I had to do one more interview with the new manager. She started asking super specific, nitpicky questions, and honestly she wasn't very nice. It didn't feel great, and even the recruiter said the interviewer seemed really tough.
A few days later I found out the new manager decided not to move forward with me. I know this happens, but it's so frustrating to get that close after so many rounds and so much positive feedback, only for it to fall apart because of something completely out of my control.
Has anyone else been through something like this? How did you move on from it?
r/recruitinghell • u/afsanaagaria • 2h ago
I applied to 100+ jobs in one day and all I got was this lousy rejection email (and carpal tunnel) š
reddit.comr/recruitinghell • u/Snoo-90055 • 23h ago
Wife can't find a job
I am sure most people are in the same boat but doesn't make it any less frustrating. My wife has been looking for a job since she graduated college over the summer and it seems like she can't find anything. Every place just ghosts her despite having a degree in accounting and an internship she held for over a year doing accounting work. Does anyone have any advice? We're beginning to feel hopeless and feel the strain on our wallets.
Some crucial context: Savannah, GA area. Has 4 year degree in accounting
Edit: some have asked why has she not leveraged that internship? It was with the university we both attended however I joined the military and was moved to Georgia. She had many connections from there but since we moved here those connections were pretty much meaningless the moment we left the state. Yes we have tried to look on post, but no dice with any jobs. I've also tried asking coworkers and what not but either their spouses are in the same boat or work in unrelated workfields that make it more or less inconsequential in terms of connections. Resume has been looked at multiple times and is told is great. Working on getting certifications is hard as I am the sole provider currently and certifications needs money... something we don't have a lot of
r/recruitinghell • u/Sure-Plankton9032 • 1d ago
So tired of jumping through stupid hoops for nothing
Creating an account for each companyās ācareer portalā, filling out everything thatās in your rĆ©sumĆ© MULTIPLE TIMES, tailoring said resume to each specific job, completing multiple assessments, being asked to record a video of yourself answering questions, being asked to complete a virtual or video screening with a fucking AI.. Iām tired of wasting time and effort for the application to still get auto rejected or ghosted. Thereās no other way to apply no matter if itās an entry level job or a corporate one though, and people who havenāt had to apply to a job in the last few years just donāt get it. The process keeps getting worse. Connections or referrals wonāt help you either.
Donāt even get me started on the AI āchat here to applyā bullshit applications. Most of them are for shitty fast food and some retail chains, but it still sucks that itās the only way to apply for them. Most of those jobs probably donāt even exist anyway.
All this makes me wonder what recruiters actually do. You have to jump through their hoops but AI does the majority of their work for them. 90% of the time there isnāt any interaction with you and the company or recruiter regardless of where/ what the job is, so it feels like youāre repeatedly throwing your rĆ©sumĆ© out into a void of nothing. Even IF you make it to an interview, theyāll ghost you after, send a generic rejection email, or have you go through 2 to 3 more rounds of humiliation before you get rejected.
The only consistent things I get after applying are a bunch of spam phone calls and spam emails. It makes you wonder what any of this is for.
r/recruitinghell • u/Positive-Stand-6769 • 16h ago
Attention & focus assessment
Anyone encountered this type of assessment? These two example were still easy then for the next stages you will get overwhelmed by multiple backgrounds and you need to give answer within 1 min.
r/recruitinghell • u/knowledgedevil • 1h ago
calling for an update on my application
about a week ago on sunday, i got interviewed by chipotle and iād say it went really well. the woman interviewing me even acknowledged how prepared i came, and i donāt know if this is a sign or not but when i went to get a bowl on my way out (cause why not) the bowl was $8 even though i got both brisket & queso. maybe she gave me an employeeās discount as a way to tell me i got the job? but i digress. she told me i should be receiving an update by tomorrow night, which by that point in time was monday night, yet iāve gotten absolutely nothing .
same with a penn station interview i went to a week before the chipotle interview. after the interview was done, i was told iād be given an update soon. itās been two weeks. still nothing
iām 16 looking for my first job, applied literally everywhere, been to like 6 interviews at this point, and i know interviewing and reviewing applicants takes time but iām desperate š«
should i call them to get updates on my applications?
r/recruitinghell • u/VarietyNo9200 • 1d ago
Workday outage LMAO!!!! Can we make this permanent?
r/recruitinghell • u/Single-Clothes-4426 • 3h ago
Syndicatebleu recruiter stopped responding to me
Hello,
I was contacted by a recruiter at Syndicatebleu late last month through LinkedIn about a job position. I sent my resume, and we had a phone call about the position, and she scheduled an interview with the company. Did the interview, went well, and I sent her my "Thank you" email to send to the interviewer.
A week later, I sent a short email to the recruiter asking if there were any updates; no response. A couple of days later, I sent another short email asking for an update, and still no response.
It's been nearly three weeks since my interview, and this job would be such a win for me, especially since I've been looking for employment for two years now with little success because I keep on getting ghosted.
r/recruitinghell • u/LateGood8460 • 4h ago
Am I Ungrateful?
I was laid off in September shortly and like many here Iāve been working my ass off on applications/interviews. A friend at an old company has a spot open 4hrs from my home that supplies lodging and the shifts are 12hrs so you work 3-4 of them each week.
The lodging is a condo where we each get our own room with a lock. Iām the only female on the team/living there but Iāve lived in dorms before in the military. My take home pay would be about $75 more than unemployment currently. I am having such a hard time finding the grit that I know I use to have to just go do the job. My husband and I have a plan of attack but the anxiety of being away from home and living with people I donāt know is intense. Iām also, nervous about returning to this old company (at a much lower ranking position) after my experience with the toxic C-Suite. Granted, Iām much lower and the intent is for this to be temporary.
I keep thinking of turning down the job but it will put unemployment at risk to either pause or stop entirely. It could also keep going for another 5months if they feel that my rejection was sound and not me being lazy. But itās also only 5 months of benefits vs getting paid consistently. Iām not looking for advice on what to do. Just trying to get my head right before I drive out there today.
Is anyone else struggling with finding their old grit/ability to just dig in?
r/recruitinghell • u/East-Contract-9378 • 5h ago
Checkr Background Check "Consider " Status
So I'm kinda stupid and didn't realize in the employment dates you could enter the day of the month too, so I put the correct month/year but the days are the default (the 1st) instead of the correct ones so now my employment part is under "consider". Anyone have experience with this and is it fine?
r/recruitinghell • u/Fast_Performer_1126 • 5h ago
National Grid Hirevue not working?
Got the National Grid Hirevue email for the Graduate Development Program but when I click on the Hirevue link, it says error. Is this happening to anyone else?