r/rantgrumps • u/[deleted] • Mar 22 '21
- UNBRIDLED RAGE - Not a Pedo/Groomer; Just a Scumbag
After reviewing and researching everything that went down yesterday, I came to the conclusion that Dan Avidan is not a pedo/groomer. From what I've seen, most of the girls he slept with were in their early 20's, including the woman who went viral. HOWEVER, that does not mean that what Dan does to coax these women to sleep with him is okay. It is so fucking shitty.
Openly saying that you are open to having one night stands with fans is one thing. Yes, that is taboo as it was back in the days of groupies and also a power imbalance, which many people have pointed out and I agree with. What I'm saying is that if Dan had said that moving forward, there is at least some honesty on his end. Instead, Dan is using a system to trick girls into believing that his feelings for them are only romantic, then completely cuts them off after they sleep with him. The extra effort to not only lie to a young woman, not only lie to a young woman who is your fan, but to lie to so many young women who are your fans and doing this for years is absolutely disgusting. Illegal? No. But that shouldn't excuse this douchebag behavior.
I am heartbroken on both sides. I am heartbroken for all these women who went through with this and were taken advantage by this man. I am heartbroken for myself, a gay woman who joked that Dan Avidan was the only man who had the closest chance of turning me straight. To all those who came forward, to those planning to come forward because of this, and to those that are still too afraid to share their trauma, please know that I believe you. Please take care of yourselves during these times because as I type this Dan/ Game Grumps have yet to release any kind of acknowledgement of this issue and whatever comes next regarding this will be hard and bitter. Sending love and respect to everyone.