I've been browsing some posts in a mostly white male community, and I kept seeing that ridiculous “3.8 inch North/South Korean average” graphic along with a bunch of comments mocking Asian men. Obviously, that number isn’t real, so I started looking into credible data myself to see what the actual statistics say. The real fact is that the so-called “3.8 inch study” came from a 1999 paper by Professor Sohn Hwan-Cheol, which measured stretched length in a non-erect state, not erect length. The misunderstanding started when users on the Japanese forum 2ch misquoted that number as if it were erect length, and the misinformation spread from there.

The real erect korean penis size: – 13.42 cm (5.28inch) (Chosun University, 1998) – 14.06 cm (5.53inch) (Seoul National University, 1998) – 13.56 cm (5.39inch) (Armed Forces Capital Hospital, 2016)

The real average of korean penis is about 5.3inch~5.5inch. Despite this, some people, whether certain Korean feminist communities, or a few Korean male YouTubers who exaggerate things for views continue repeating the outdated number without checking the context. Korean men, however, are completely indifferent to such ridicule, believing that actual statistics speak for themselves.

Skinny white guys are either massive or tiny, no in between

Asians ive noticed a whole the stereotype to be true

The difference between white guys and black guys when hard on average isnt much. Black guys are typically much bigger when limp, white guys grow.

Latino men are the definition of average, id say as a whole they fall right around average the most.

Ive seen more cocks under 5" than over 7" (by quite a sizeable margin)

Thicker boys (Dad bods) tend to have thicker cocks

I consider the worldwide average of 5.25" to be true.

Ive had "relations" with MANY men from many different backgrounds. So while my experience im sure isnt everyone elses, they are what ive come across.

Average penis size for an adult male in America is 5-5.5". If you're bigger than that, good for you--you're above average. If you're smaller than that, you may not have finished growing yet. No need to ask "am I big" or "am I small." There's your answer.

If you're 13-18 yo, no one knows if your penis is going to get bigger. It's a mystery. No one can say for certain when you will finish puberty. 17-21 yo is about right.

Unless you're at either end of the size spectrum (micro or monster), your penis size is fine and not very remarkable. You care about it way more than anyone else does or will.

The guys in porn and the guys who post amateur porn and pics of themselves have disproportionately above-average penises. People with big dicks like to show them off. They aren't the norm. Stop comparing yourself to them; it'll just make you insecure. If you take 100 random twenty year olds and measure their penises, the overwhelming majority will be 4-6" of varying thickness. A few will be bigger; a few will be smaller; however, it you take 100 twenty year olds who post dick pics all the time, nearly all will be 6"+. That is not a real representation of the population. That's just vain young men with big dicks seeking attention, which is neither good, nor bad. It's just the way it is.

Some of you, no matter your size, will always wish you were bigger. Okay, that's fine, but wish in one hand and shit in the other and see which one fills up first. Don't waste time and emotional energy fretting about the size of your dick. There's nothing you can realistically do about it. Instead, explore how your body and your penis works and what turns you on and what doesn't. Figure out how to use it well. Seriously, knowing how to use your dick is waaay more important than knowing how to take a good pic of it.

Oh, I almost forgot: to the questions of how big should a [insert age's] penis be, the answer is no one really knows. There aren't very good studies on it for obvious reasons as no one is going around measuring a teen's erection. And, more importantly, the size depends on how far along you are into puberty, but, unfortunately, no one can tell you when you will start puberty, the rate at which you will go through it, or when it will end.

I am recently divorced, my ex husband had a 6.5 inch dick, he was 6’2”. I recently started a FWB situationship with a man with a 4.5 inch dick, he is 5’2”.

Review of the 4.5in dick

-Blow jobs are so much fun, way easier

-I can actually deep throat now

-Penis never hits my cervix, less uncomfortable

-Really don’t have a lot of pain ever

-Sometimes don’t feel it as much, but certain positions are just as good or better

Other Considerations

-He makes me come with oral sex which my ex husband could never do

-He constantly offers oral sex and makes sure I come every time

-Because he isn’t way taller than me, sex is just way more comfortable in general

-He genuinely cares about my pleasure and comfort, which my ex husband also never did

Final Conclusion: Will continue to fuck him

Final Decisions:

- penis size is not important to me

- height is also not important to me

- oral sex skills are important to me

- quality of the man is the most important factor for good sex

Since there are multiple posts a day asking if their 6-8 inch penis is big I figured id just say it here for them to read.

This is an educational post in which I will explain why you probably feel much smaller than you should.

Be warned that it will contain NSFW images, but for educational purposes only.

• Introduction

Everone knows that pornstars have footlong cocks, right? And everyone also knows that according to the Guiness Book of World Records Jonah Falcon has the longest certified dick in the world at 13.5 inches.

Well none of these things have any basis in reality, and in this post I'm gonna conclusively prove why.

• Girl inches

Cis Women don't have a penis, and they don't care about size as much as men do. They probably have never measured a penis, and if they did their boyfriend showed them how to measure from below the balls.

If their partner is 6.5 inch, but tells her he's 8 she has no reason to distrust him. He knows that she thinks it's big, so he should have no reason to lie and he's bigger than her previous partner who told her that he was 6 despite being 5. Then a guy with a 7 inch dick comes along, and he's clearly bigger than the 8 inch guy so why would she think he's lying if he claims that he's 9.

Whenever a woman online claims that she had several 10-12 inch cocks you can safely discard any such claims, as there's no single piece of evidence to suggest that such penises do exist.

• Jonah Falcon is a fraud

I'll start with him, as the mainstream belief that he has the biggest dick in the world is one of the reasons why most people also believe that it's plausible that pornstars are 12 inches or that many girls have slept with several 11 inchers.

There is no Guiness Book entry for him. He doesn't hold the World Record as there isn't even one. They never measured him, because they don't even do NSFW entries. He just made that up and mainstream media ate it up without ever fact-checking it.

You shouldn't just believe wild claims about his size. You should believe your own eyes.

There's this one nude of him comparing his cock to his forearm and even though the lines are deceiving (seriously the right white line is like a fifth longer than the left one) it's clear that he's far from 13.5 inches. I'm taller than him and the inner side of my forearm is 9 inch, and forearm length is strongly correlated to height so his is most likely smaller.

He's like 8 inch at most, but as you see that's enough for the whole world to just believe that he's got a 13.5 inch cock. There's also other nude scenes of him, and in none of these he looks bigger than 8.

• Porn lies and perspective distortion

Are you into photography as a hobby or profession? Have you ever watched skateboarding videos or Go-Pro scenes? Or have you ever played around with the FOV slider in video games?

Well then perspective distortion doesn't require any introduction for you, but for all others it's about how much of the world you want to squeeze into one image.

Depending on your lense it will change how big objects that are closer to the camera look like. Faces and the background are always a good indicator what kind was used.

If you know what to look for you will notice that it is heavily used in porn or on r/MassiveCock. To the untrained eye both of these look like 10-12 inches, but in reality both are a bit over 8 inch.

If you head over to /r/measuredpornstars you will see that even in porn 7 inch is big, 8 is huge and 9 is basically non-existent. There's no actual 10 inch cock in porn, even though most people think that it's average for a porn star.

• Conclusion

All your life you've been trained to have wrong expectations about how common big dicks are and how big they can grow.

If you see Criss Strokes on screen he might make you feel insecure because he looks easily twice as large as you, but in reality that's all just camera tricks and he's probably only a little bit longer.

Even in porn 7 inch is big so you can imagine how rare anything bigger is, and there's no evidence to suggest that 10+ inch dicks exist.

Global Average: 5.16" / 13.1 cm

There are tons of exaggerated claims online about penis size, especially the famous “12-inch” claims and the idea that every adult performer is exceptionally large.

This list compares 28 well-known adult performers using BP (bone-pressed) measurements based on pixel analysis by experts.

Measurements — Smallest to Biggest

1. Mike Adriano — 7" / 17.8 cm

2. Billy Glide — 7.25" / 18.4 cm

3. Jordi El Nino Polla — 7.25" / 18.4 cm

4. Preston Parker — 7.25" / 18.4 cm

5. Jason Luv — 7.5" / 19.1 cm

6. JMac — 7.5" / 19.1 cm

7. Johnny Sins — 7.5" / 19.1 cm

8. Shorty Mac — 7.5" / 19.1 cm

9. Chris Charming — 7.75" / 19.7 cm

10. Ricky Johnson — 7.75" / 19.7 cm

11. Bruce Venture — 8" / 20.3 cm

12. Castro Supreme — 8" / 20.3 cm

13. Chris Strokes — 8" / 20.3 cm

14. Isiah Maxwell — 8" / 20.3 cm

15. Ramon Cuban — 8" / 20.3 cm

16. Sean Michaels — 8" / 20.3 cm

17. Shane Diesel — 8" / 20.3 cm

18. Charlie Mac — 8.25" / 21 cm

19. Damion Dayski — 8.25" / 21 cm

20. Jax Slayher — 8.25" / 21 cm

21. Danny D — 8.5" / 21.6 cm

22. Eduardo Picasso — 8.5" / 21.6 cm

23. Jack Napier — 8.5" / 21.6 cm

24. Lexington Steele — 8.5" / 21.6 cm

25. Dredd — 9" / 22.9 cm

26. John Holmes — 9" / 22.9 cm

27. Julio Gomez — 9.25" / 23.5 cm

28. Mandingo — 9.5" / 24.1 cm

The goal is to put online size claims into perspective. There are plenty of exaggerated claims online, especially around the “12-inch” and “BBC” myths, which can create unrealistic expectations and make normal measurements seem smaller than they really are.

Note: Pixel-based measurements can be affected by perspective, camera angle, lens distortion, distance, and image quality, so they should be viewed as estimates rather than independently verified physical measurements.

Why am I sharing this story?

Because most of us (including me) are way too obsessed and insecure with our dick size.

I am an average sized dude and in the beginning stages of dating me and my girlfriend were still seeing other people: She was seeing this financially stable, handsome tall guy who was above 1,90 tall and was super into him on the first date. As it turned out, he also had a massive cock and she had it inside of her.

He was taller than me, he had more money than me, he had an attractive face and a huge dick. From what she described it sounded like 7-8 inches.

But she still chose me.

I am taking care of my hygiene, I have a job, I have a normal dick and a normal height. She still chose me over the man who had materially more to offer.

Why? Because of the emotional connection we've built.

She is now super happy with me and tells me that a lot! She feels respected and appreciated.

I have an average dick and she still believes I am the best partner she ever had in bed. She told me that without me having to ask or anything. She even showed me a chat from when she texted a friend after we slept together for the first time.

Yes of course women sometimes react strongly to penises, either in a negative or a positive way. But it's not about being materially the best or having the best number of all. It's about making sure you got the basics right: Interesting Conversations, listening to each other's feelings, having a stable income, being confident (also in bed), caring about the other person's pleasure and so on. These are things that most men can get right with practice, patience and a bit of discipline. You don't have to be the best, you just have to try to be a good version of yourself.

It's important to not be too obsessed with penis size. I say that as someone who is still a bit insecure about their manhood, but I am working on it.

And for all the micro friends out there: Lesbians have fantastic sex and statistically more orgasms than hetero couples - Care about the other person's pleasure and own the cards that life has dealt you. Maybe even be honest in the dating phase and say with confidence: I have a small dick and I am okay with it.

Sorry for the “clickbaity” title I just needed to gain attention to help some of you out.

I noticed that a lot of people here post with insecurities with their sizes. I promise you that the amount of “big dicks” aren’t accurate. Most of them do not post proof of their size by measuring and posting. For example 7inx6in is in the 98th and 99th percentile. That is VERY rare. There is even a sticky I think that shows how some dude faked his size.

I’ve been rejected for having too thick of a dick. On a survey women prefer 4.8in for long term. That’s most of you here. You are enough. Get your tongue and finger game up and you’ll be unstoppable.

This probably won’t affect much people but if it helps a couple of guy ls that’s enough for me.

If your an average sized male or any male looking at this sub reading all these men saying they have 8 inch cocks on brand new throw away accounts. They are almost 100% lying. And If you think you have been robbed not having an 8 inch cock, 1 in 100,000 men have an 8 inch cock. It's almost impossible. The fact so many women claim they have slept with an 8 inch cock is crazy to me. Clearly shows if you want to you can tell a women you are bigger then you are and they will think your telling the truth as that is what 99% of men who claim 8 inches to women do.

Since there are numerous posts every day questioning if their 6-8 inches penis is large, I figured I'd just mention it here for them to read.

https://unravelingsize.wordpress.com/

check this out

5.3 inch gang where you at?

I decided to keep you all updated on my experiences with different penis sizes since I am currently in my promiscuous era.

For recap:

my ex husband has 6.5” dick, 4.5” girth

my (now ex) FWB has 4.5” dick, 4” girth

I decided the sex was better with my FWB because he cared more about my pleasure and I didn’t really see a difference in terms of feeling. I broke up with my FWB simply because I don’t want a relationship right now and he was catching feelings.

New Penis: 8” long, 6” girth

I have a new friend. He was not chosen based on penis size, however, he is packing. We have hooked up once. I could not deep throat and my mouth was raw afterwards. For actual sex, length wise, I’m not sure how much it made a difference, though it slipped out less and girth wise I did feel it more, but not necessarily in a good or bad way, more in a factual way lol. I did not orgasm or ever come close in any capacity. Definitely overhyped.

FINAL CONCLUSION:

I am still convinced that penis size does not matter, it is really more about your partner caring about your pleasure.

I will keep you updated if I hook up with him again and as I continue to increase my body count.

So i wanted to get better in the bedroom for my lady and i wasnt necessarily thinking about size because i am a pretty good size i have the luxury of being able to get the job done when my boner is at about 60-70%. But whenever im at 100% she literally ascends to heaven when im inside. But when i researched the exercise i was thinking more about stamina and a good way to increase my stamina in my mind is to be STRONGER. So i focused on KEGEL so i can pump harder and for longer bc i can have sex for a long time but keeping the rhythm until she finishes always feels like a marathon for me. So i started doing this one exercise and ill tell you o my god

I never knew kegel exersizes help with your blood flow to your penis. (Pelvic floor training is what its also called)Everytime i get hard its like a ROCK like so hard the veins come out im at full length and i swear my girth for my whole adult life has been 4.75 now i measure and its 5.1. And the sex? Dont get me started.

I dont expect anyone to do this but If you look at my page youll notice the difference over the past few months for sure the size, the veins, the thickness all of it. Its helped out my confidence so much AND it made my dick lighter(less heavy) so even that helps its just a win win win to do pelvic floor exercises.

Now the excersizes im not sure the names one maybe some sort of sitting butterfly and the other your on your back trying to hump the ceiling with ur feet flat on the floor thats the best i can explain it.

Would love to hear if anyone else does exercises and the results

It's not just a fat pad. Like, those are generally some quite long and thick penises. And it seems more common among these men than others. Yeah, you can say that's a sample bias but it is more common to find such guys having a big penis on Reddit than some other men. Also, many people tend to say such men are packing. Genuinely, what's your take?

Buckle in, this may be a long post.

I've struggled with insecurity about my size most of my adult life. I'm 48 and have had around 40 sexual partners since giving away my virginity at 14.

I have read sub after sub, study after study, talked to some of my sexual partners in depth about it and damn near sent myself into a full blown depression because of it.

I'm slightly below avg at 5.25 length, 4.75 circumference. Some of the women I've been with were long term relationships and some were short flings. The funny thing is, the one that fucked me up the most mentally was the one that really put things into perspective for me, albeit it was a couple of years later that I realized it.

She was a self admitted size queen with a roster of about 5 guys and the random 1 nighter. Maybe it's because I'm masochist or maybe it's because I'm a pervert, I asked to see pics and vids of her with the other guys. They were significantly bigger than me and that fueled my insecurity. BUT... Every week, she spent her hard earned money on a hotel room to meet me. We both have teenaged kids at home and wanted a place we could let loose and not worry about being loud. The other guys in her rotation did not have kids at home.

I asked her one day, why, when she clearly admitted to me that she prefers well endowed men, did she keep meeting me. She told me that aside from being the best she's ever had orally, that none of the other guys made her feel as sexy and desired as I did. She said sex was "fun" with me, I made her feel sexy and I clearly was driven by pleasing her. In return, I had some of the best sex of my life.

That relationship ended because I couldn't get out of my own head and kept comparing myself to the other men she was sleeping with.

Years later It hit me that she was spending her hard earned money on a hotel once a week for over 6 month for ME. She had "free" sex at the homes of men with larger dicks and yet she was more than willing to rent a room weekly to spend a few hours with me.

This got me thinking of the other women I had been with in my life. All of the positive things they told me, two said I was addictive, a few said I had excellent oral skills, some said they liked the fact I was okay using toys, some said I made them feel like the sexiest woman on the planet...I buried all of these compliments under my own insecurities and only focused on the "fact" that they wanted or were getting bigger and better than me.

It's as if I wanted it to be true so bad that I ignored the compliments and switched their wording to fit my own narrative. I wasted so much time in self pity.

It took me a very long time to understand that to most women, confidence, a desire to please, and just being yourself is far more desirable than the size of your dick.

I guess I'm just hoping to maybe help someone who's struggling with insecurity. Yes there are some women who need bigger dicks to be satisfied but most women don't need that if you're a good lover and dick size is also not synonymous with being a good lover.

Be proud and confident of who you are and what can do, not insecure about what you don't have.

I will say that they tend to be more showers than growers (also in my experiences). But as a whole their average is the same as everyone elses.

Taller guys, doesnt mean bigger cocks.

For that being said shorter guys doesnt mean smaller cocks.

Limp size means nothing when it comes to hard sizes. Some guts grow ALOT (like my bf) and some guys barely grow (I had an x that barely grew).

A 6"+ dick is rare, 7" very rare and over 8"...almost non existent (in everyday life).

I've been with more guys below 5 than over .

So the other day, I was getting it on with this girl I know. Im 5'9 and she's 4'10. Now I'm only 6 inches, and I'm not sure if her size has much influence, but I could feel her pulling away from me the deeper I went. First I ate her out and made her cum and then after a quick blow job we fucked for like 8 minutes. The further I went the more she gasped in pain, which happened twice. So assuming I rammed against her cervix, I used half of my penis instead which made her moan like crazy, and she would have had a second orgasm but I finished before it came🫠.

All this to say, 1....as someone who didn't think 6 inches was much, I can confidently say that she enjoyed it because I listened to what her body responded to. And 2... even though she was small compared to me, there's probably a fat chance that even if you're packing less than 6, your size in the long run won't matter as much as you really think.

Peace✌🏾Love❤️‍🔥Unity🗿

If you're average or on the smaller side and spend a lot of time comparing yourself to porn stars & guys on Reddit, I have some good news: you're essentially comparing yourself to a plethora of exaggerated bullshit.

[Context first: I'm “well-endowed” (7.5"L x 5.8"G), and my partner is even bigger (8"L x 6.2"G). I don't say this to brag or suggest my experience somehow makes me an authority on everyone else's anatomy, but because I've noticed a pretty significant disconnect between what people online claim life with a big dick is like and what it's actually like for many of us.

To be clear, I'm not basing any of this solely on my own experiences. I'm drawing from conversations with other men, personal observations, basic anatomy, and a healthy dose of common sense. I'm also not suggesting EVERY "hung" guy has the same experiences or that EVERY story you read is a lie.

But after spending enough time browsing some of these subreddits, it's hard not to notice how many exaggerated claims get repeated until people start treating them like universal truths.]

So, for the guys who've convinced themselves they're inadequate because of what they see online, let's clear up a few things...

1. No, our dicks are not swimming in the toilet.

The number of men on Reddit claiming their penis regularly touches the toilet water is ridiculous.

I've actually tested this one myself using both my own penis (obviously) along with objects of different lengths. Through this, I’ve confirmed you'd have to be exceptionally long while SOFT to even reach the water.

Could it happen? Sure. But you'd think half the "big dick" population needs a life jacket just to take a shit. I promise you, the handful of men who genuinely have this problem aren't all conveniently hanging out in the same subreddit. Come on now. 😂

2. Most guys don't have noticeable bulges, and bulges can be faked.

Look around in public. How many men do you actually see walking around with an enormous, unmistakable package? Probably very few, if any.

A big dick doesn't automatically mean a big bulge. Underwear, positioning, fabric, and being a grower or show-er make a huge difference. The man with the biggest dick I’ve ever seen in real life had no bulge/print in clothing at all.

Also, bulges can be faked. There are companies that specialize in bulge-enhancing underwear and "innerwear," (which I fully support if it helps someone feel confident).

I also personally know influencers who use cups, padding, and other random tricks to make their packages look bigger for engagement. Just because someone's "packing" on Instagram doesn't mean they're packing in real life.

3. Nobody is constantly staring at our crotches.

I'm muscular/broad, conventionally attractive, and have a natural bulge. I honestly can't remember a single time I've ever caught someone blatantly checking out my junk. If anything, they check out my physique or might notice my scent.

Does that mean nobody ever looks? Probably not. But reading some of these stories, you'd think being hung means you can't walk through Costco without getting sexually objectified by half the store.

Most people are too busy living their own lives to study what's happening between your legs.

4. We don't need an entirely different wardrobe for everyday life.

I wear regular underwear (jocks/trunks), regular pants, regular swimsuits, and regular gym shorts.

I can cross my legs, sit down, work out, sleep on my stomach, and get out of a car without conducting a five-point safety inspection of my dick.

Sure, certain clothes or situations can be uncomfortable. But that happens to average-sized guys, too.

5. Big when hard ≠ big when soft.

Growers exist. Show-ers exist. Temperature, stress, physical activity, and anatomy all affect flaccid appearance. A guy who looks average in the locker room could be enormous when erect. And the guy swinging around half his thigh might not grow much at all.

6. Not every partner wants a huge dick (seriously).

Porn has convinced an entire generation of men that bigger = better. It doesn't. Larger penises require more patience, preparation, communication, and adjustments to avoid discomfort.

Some sexual positions become more difficult, not easier. And some partners simply prefer average or smaller sizes. There's no universally perfect penis size.

7. A big dick doesn't make you good at sex.

You can have 9 inches and still be absolutely terrible in bed. Size doesn't teach you technique, attentiveness, communication, or how to satisfy your partner.

I've had amazing sex with average-sized guys and underwhelming experiences with bigger ones. Knowing what you're doing beats knowing your measurements.

8. Condoms aren't some logistical nightmare.

My partner and I don't use condoms with each other, but when we include a 3rd, we use regular Trojan Magnums.

He's particularly big and has never had an issue with them. And guess what? Magnums can fit plenty of average-sized men, too. Yes, some men genuinely need specialty sizes, but being bigger doesn't automatically require custom-made equipment.

9. Being hung doesn't mean you're constantly getting attention.

Some Reddit stories read like a man can't take his pants off without someone gasping, applauding, and/or proposing.

Reality check: some partners are impressed, some are indifferent, and some are more worried about whether it's going to hurt.

Strangers have no clue what's in your pants and a large penis isn't an automatic VIP pass to unlimited sex.

10. Taking care of yourself matters more than having a huge dick.

If you take anything away from this post, it should be this.

I've been with my partner for years, and he just happens to be hung. But I've never been a "size queen."

I've had fantastic experiences with guys in the average range because they were attractive to me, took care of themselves, had great chemistry with me, and knew how to use what they had.

Being fit, having good hygiene, grooming yourself, smelling good, and carrying yourself confidently will do far more for your overall attractiveness than a couple of extra inches.

And no, being muscular isn't a requirement either. The point is that attraction involves the whole person, not just what's between their legs. You don't need a big dick to have big dick energy.

11. Having a big dick doesn't magically give you confidence.

Well-endowed men can be just as insecure as anyone else. Maybe it's their weight, height, face, hairline, sexual performance, or something completely unrelated. Everybody has insecurities.

Having a large penis doesn't make you immune to rejection, self-doubt, or feeling inadequate. And obsessively comparing yourself to other men's bodies isn't going to fix those feelings.

12. Porn might actually be showing you how rare exceptionally big dicks are.

Hear me out, because this is something I don't think enough guys realize. If you watch porn regularly, how often do you recognize the same male performers? You might watch 50 different videos featuring enormous dicks, but how many of those videos feature the same 10-15 guys?

You're not necessarily seeing 50 random men who all happen to be exceptionally hung. You're repeatedly seeing a small, highly selected group of actors whose anatomy is part of why they're cast.

That doesn't scientifically establish how rare any particular size is, but it does explain how repeated exposure can distort your perception. And that's BEFORE factoring in camera angles, editing, perspectives, and inflated measurements.

Reddit creates the same illusion. Larger guys are more likely to post in communities dedicated to showing off their size. Some exaggerate their measurements. Some manipulate their photos. Some are completely full of shit. It's selection bias on steroids.

You're not seeing how "common" enormous dicks are. You're seeing how frequently a relatively small, self-selected group of men gets displayed. There's a HUGE difference.

13. Being average isn't a disadvantage you need to compensate for.

This is probably the most important point. Having a big dick doesn't guarantee better sex, better relationships, more confidence, more attention, or a happier life. And being average doesn't mean you're settling for less.

There are plenty of BD guys who struggle with dating, relationships, body image, and compatibility. A couple of extra inches won't magically fix those things.

- - -

So here's what I want you to take away from this... I understand some men genuinely struggle with their size. I'm not dismissing that or pretending everybody can just switch off their insecurities.

Yes, cosmetic enhancement procedures exist, although they're expensive, carry risks, and aren't some guaranteed solution to feeling inadequate.

But you need to stop treating your perfectly normal body like it's defective because some anonymous Reddit account claims to be carrying around a third leg. Exceptionally large penises are uncommon. That's part of what makes them exceptional.

Most men aren't walking around with porn star anatomy. Most people aren't inspecting every bulge they encounter. And most potential partners care about a hell of a lot more than your dick size.

You're comparing your everyday reality to someone else's carefully curated fantasy. And some of you are letting that fantasy convince you you're inadequate before you've even given yourselves a chance to enjoy what you've got.

Put down the measuring tape. Stop doomscrolling size-related subreddits. Take care of yourself. Build your confidence around things that actually matter. You don't need a bigger dick to have a better life. ❤️

I don’t consider myself gay or anything, I don’t have any romantic attraction to men, but for whatever reason, I find myself really appreciating a big penis. Something about a big size just fascinates me.

I’m not trying to brag about my own size, I’m fairly modest, but I just found it interesting. Does anyone else feel the same?

Im so insecure about my dick and not having a big one.

Ans the issue is that i completely understand why a big dick is nicer and better.

Its more fun for the woman, there is simply more to work with, when you just have 5 inches, there is barely anything to work with really.

A big dick just looks a million times better and i hate it. Ofc a woman will be way more excited when you have a big heavy masculine dick, rather than a small looking thing. Especially because an average dick on an average man looks simply small.

If you look at all the posts and comments of women saying that they prefer average or small, its always tied to how good the guy is with his hands and mouth, its actually never about how good his dick felt.

But when they like a big dick, its always about how good that big dick made them feel and not about how the big dick guy was also coping for his life wirh his hands and mouth.

Thats just proof.

And like, i absolutely understand it and it makes sense.

But its so insanely depressing and i just dont know how to get over it.

Just doesn't add up

Guys, please be soooo fucking proud of your penis. Please stop worrying about its size. They truly come in all imaginable shapes, sizes, colors, and varieties! Your penis is magnificent and a work of art! Your penis is beautiful! Your penis is the essence of your manhood and a gift for you and your partner! Your penis shoots forth your seed! Your penis is fucking powerful! Your penis is perfect! Don't you get it? You have a fucking beautiful, fucking perfect penis! Be soooo soooo fucking proud of your penis and use it skillfully for your pleasure and your partner's pleasure! It's designed for pleasure, not size comparison. And it's incredibly good at giving and receiving pleasure.

I saw a post recently asking about what is the biggest and smallest penis you've seen in person. The contrast for me is extraordinary. Every penis I've seen is unique. Just like the person who it proudly belongs to is unique.

I've seen hundreds of penises in real life (flaccid and erect). The biggest and smallest I've seen were both shocking.

The smallest was a micropenis, probably between 1 and 2 inches erect and very thin. He was super hard, which was hot. He was thirsty to experience my dick in every way possible. Also very hot. He was especially fascinated to touch, hold, and pleasure my erection. He was super sexyy! His penis was beautiful!

The biggest penis I've seen was just hard to comprehend. He was so thick I could not wrap my entire hand around his girth. Just his head alone was enormous. And his shaft. Fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuck! It had to be at least a foot long, no exaggeration. It was just unbelievable. And he was very hard, although it did not stand up, more out and slightly down. Just too big and heavy to point up on its own. Ironically, his focus was entirely on my cock and sucking me, which is what brought him pleasure. Me touching him was more of an after-the-fact novelty and not really part of our sexual experience together. There is absolutely no way I could have sucked him or taken him in any way. I could have masturbated him, but he wasn't interested in that. I could have fit part of his head in my mouth. Part. The girth and size of his head would have prevented anything else. Penetration with me would have been beyond impossible. It is hard for me to imagine him penetrating any vagina or any ass or any mouth to the base of his shaft because of his sheer enormity. Although, fisting is a thing and I can't really comprehend that either. So maybe. He was super sexyy! His penis was beautiful!

Guys, no matter your size, please be soooo soooo fucking proud of your penis and use it skillfully for your pleasure and your partner's pleasure! Your penis is fucking beautiful and fucking perfect! (Yes, I know I said it again! Just trying to give it a chance to sink in!) Love you guys and love your beautiful penises! Every single one!

So after reading a ton of questions and posts on penis size, I thought I would sit down and go through some of them with my wife. Quick context: I'm average (5x5). My wife has been with guys much bigger than me, including her last two exes. We have great sex and talk openly about everything, so I ran some of the most common questions from this sub past her directly. Sharing in case it helps anyone else stuck in their head about this. I also struggled with anxiety in the past!

So, let's start with the basic questions:

1. I am X inches by Y inches. Is my penis big enough? Wife: If it's not a micropenis, it's big enough.

2. Are bigger penis more pleasurable? Wife: Nope. It's more work and effort for largely the same outcome.

3. Can I satisfy my partner with my size? Wife: Yes. Sex is much more than just a penis going into a vagina. It involves all senses and begins far earlier than most men think. Kissing, touching, affection, etc. all matter a lot and are part of foreplay. A great lover is much more than a penis.

4. Will I get rejected for my size? Wife: I am sure there are some women out there but I know of none in my friends group who would. Honestly, if she does reject you, you dodged a bullet.

5. What about size queens? Wife: They are out there but why would you focus on them when the vast majority of women are perfectly fine with your penis?

6. How do I get over my penis size anxiety? Wife: Get out there and get laid instead of moping about it on reddit.

Her message to all: I'll be honest, reading through some of these posts made me a little sad. So many of you are missing out on connection, confidence, and honestly just fun, because you're stuck comparing yourselves to a number or to porn. I've been with men of every size, and I can tell you the ones I remember fondly weren't the biggest — they were the ones who paid attention, who were present, who actually enjoyed themselves and made sure I did too. Confidence is attractive. Anxiety and constant self-checking is not, and it has nothing to do with what you're working with. Put the ruler down, stop doom-scrolling reddit, and go be a good partner. That's what actually matters.

Edit: bonus question answered

Should I warn women that I have a small penis? Wife: This a huge turn off. Definitely don‘t do that. Women like confident men.