r/hardofhearing • • Dec 03 '18

Got chastised yesterday by someone for taking out my aids because their child was screaming...

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I'd say the title pretty much covers it. I was left completely shell shocked yesterday afternoon after being publicly berated by a mother who was having trouble with their little son. We were in a cafe and the wee man obviously wasn't getting his own way, so he decided to scream the place down with bells on.

Because my hearing loss is at the treble end of the spectrum, this is what my aids amplify and enhance - and this child screaming went through my head like a power drill. I immediately reached up and pulled my aids out - and mum saw me do this. She got out of her chair, came over to me and began to have a right shot at me.

Apparently, I'm lucky I can turn my hearing off when I want to, and I should try spending a day in her shoes and see how I like dealing with her son. I can't possibly comment on how I would deal with him, but I did tell her to try wearing my hearing aids for an hour and see how fast she'd remove them. Two or three people applauded me and she flounced off without finishing her coffee.

It's not often someone pisses me off, but there's a limit, and she reached it.

Apologies for the vent.


r/hardofhearing • • Jun 19 '26 Heartwarming

I don’t think most hearing people realize how exhausting Deaf can be. Thoughts?

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r/hardofhearing • • Dec 23 '24

This is my life…

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Even with my hearing aids on full blast…


r/hardofhearing • • Nov 04 '24

New ink

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I have meneres disease and I'm extremely (severe hearing loss) hard of hearing in my L ear. I got this tattoo today because my L ear quit working 20 years ago.


r/hardofhearing • • Mar 19 '22

lol feels

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r/hardofhearing • • Mar 21 '25

Ten Commandments for Communicating with the Hearing Impaired

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From my son’s audiologist’s office. We’re a family of hereditary hearing loss. If only…


r/hardofhearing • • Jan 23 '21

So true

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r/hardofhearing • • Oct 28 '21

Can anyone else relate? 😂

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r/hardofhearing • • Jul 04 '26

that’s about the time when i’m like “yup. not meant to be. i’ll go humiliate myself elsewhere now, k thanks bye”

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r/hardofhearing • • Aug 28 '26 Heartwarming

I made a quilt about my hearing loss

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This quilt almost broke me but it is finally - almost six months later - finished! A meditation on my hearing loss, each block is the pattern of a Chladni plate (google it - it’s magic!) at a frequency I can no longer hear without my hearing aids for support (I have cookie bite hearing loss). The embroidered text (“I can’t hear you” - a several-times-a-day thought for me) breaks up as you read downwards, much like the missing pieces of sound that I experience every day.


r/hardofhearing • • Jan 13 '20

Solidarity shout out to everyone who finds battery stickers everywhere! lol

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r/hardofhearing • • Aug 03 '20

I did a thing! New hearing aids!

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r/hardofhearing • • Feb 26 '21

Mod Approved 😎

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r/hardofhearing • • Nov 04 '21

My favorite response - meme’d.

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r/hardofhearing • • Jan 04 '25

Being hard of hearing really sucks sometimes. Disabled but not considered disabled.

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Having hearing loss that will only get worse, but still expected to work even though I can't use the phone at all and jobs wouldn't hire me if they knew, but yet I wouldn't qualify for disability. I'm so tired of life being so unnecessarily difficult. It's really bad when you are "young" and people don't expect it.


r/hardofhearing • • Jul 18 '20

You guys, this is amazing! Have you seen this?!

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r/hardofhearing • • Apr 04 '25

as i lose my hearing i feel like i’m seeing who my “friends” really are

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i’ve also told her it’s rude to refuse to repeat yourself when talking to someone hard of hearing, and her reply was, “well i think it’s rude to make me have to repeat myself” because it’s her “pet peeve” to repeat herself. i just needed to rant to people who understand.


r/hardofhearing • • Feb 29 '24

Is this ableist?

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I try not to take things like this to heart but the original tweet is kind of insulting, if I listen to the tv at my own hearing abilities it literally shakes the whole house. Subtitles help me so much!


r/hardofhearing • • Jan 24 '21

Just had to share this

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r/hardofhearing • • Jan 21 '20

So true. Smile and nod and walk away

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r/hardofhearing • • Jan 01 '24

Had to make sure my HA’s matched the party vibe

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r/hardofhearing • • May 13 '21

Just a happy person with their first ever pair of hearing aids finally in her ears!❤️

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r/hardofhearing • • Jun 19 '26

I finally got my tattoo

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I have also posted this in a couple other subreddits.

I've waited YEARS for this. I've always wanted a hearing loss awareness tattoo, but never liked the common ones we see. So, I came up with this one, which a FANTASTIC artist brought to life.

Left side - black and white with empty riverbed, no animals, and bare trees to symbolize how the world is quiet and not alive (not dead, just not alive) to me without my HAs.

The hearing aid is from the first pair I ever got (at 7 yrs old). It is technically the left HA, but the image was flipped so the placement and symbolism worked on my right arm.

Right side - color with water in the river, birds in the sky, and leaves on the trees to symbolize how much sound I miss without my HAs. How the world "comes to life," so to speak.


r/hardofhearing • • May 31 '22

I made this as a joke for my office.

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r/hardofhearing • • Oct 10 '24

Vent! Doing yoga and being deaf

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I just need to emote. Fuck, it's just so hard to actually focus on doing yoga when I only hear every seventh word. When there's music, or the teacher moves around, or they speak quietly, it's just stressful. I know I have to find a way to be ok in this situation and find ways of adapting. But bleughhhhhhhhghgh I WISH I COULD HEAR WHAT THE FUCK SHE IS SAYING SO I CAN JUST FOCUS ON DOING THE RELAXING THING I CAME TO DO. Ffs.