r/hardofhearing • u/Mouthtrap • Dec 03 '18
Got chastised yesterday by someone for taking out my aids because their child was screaming...
I'd say the title pretty much covers it. I was left completely shell shocked yesterday afternoon after being publicly berated by a mother who was having trouble with their little son. We were in a cafe and the wee man obviously wasn't getting his own way, so he decided to scream the place down with bells on.
Because my hearing loss is at the treble end of the spectrum, this is what my aids amplify and enhance - and this child screaming went through my head like a power drill. I immediately reached up and pulled my aids out - and mum saw me do this. She got out of her chair, came over to me and began to have a right shot at me.
Apparently, I'm lucky I can turn my hearing off when I want to, and I should try spending a day in her shoes and see how I like dealing with her son. I can't possibly comment on how I would deal with him, but I did tell her to try wearing my hearing aids for an hour and see how fast she'd remove them. Two or three people applauded me and she flounced off without finishing her coffee.
It's not often someone pisses me off, but there's a limit, and she reached it.
Apologies for the vent.