So I've been working towards walking a marathon. I am grievously overweight, but i've been going on walks around my block late at night when everyone is asleep for a few months. I do it before bed, and i do about 5km every night. It means so much to me that i'm being healthier and making progress towards this goal. I do not want to lose this!
The dog part: My neighbor's dog (young pitbull. female.) hangs out around their open door up the stairs that i have to ascend to get to my home. She has taken to growling at me and barking at me when i try to get home. If i get closer she gets more intense and stands up. I think she is trying to defend her home from me.
I ask the neighbor to help and he derides me. "She's just a puppy" "It's your vibe" "Oh come on, she won't bite""big guy, you'll be fine". He's probably right that its my vibe, i'm scared, anxious, and annoyed that i can't walk into my own home.
I don't know what to do. Telling the manager is a no-go (I'd rather not go into why), I have zero interest in hurting her. I don't want to make things worse with my neighbor... I just want to walk to my door in peace.