I don’t know who needs to hear this, but I’m about to say it anyway: You are an absolute catch. Like, if the world was a dating app, you’d be the top profile everyone’s swiping right on. 🥰 But here’s the kicker—you’ve already got everything it takes to be amazing, even without the swipe. Seriously, you’re a whole vibe.

You. Are. Enough. Don’t let anyone (including that annoying voice in your head) tell you otherwise. Whether you're slaying your goals or just making it through the day in style, you’re doing so much better than you give yourself credit for. And even if you stumbled a little along the way? Don’t worry, you’re still looking flawless doing it. 😏

Just so you know, confidence looks good on you. I mean, really, good. Like “I’m about to take over the world and look cute doing it” kind of good. Life may throw curveballs, but you’ve got the kind of charm that can turn any obstacle into a fun little detour on the way to greatness.

So, don’t stress. Keep being the charming, talented, irresistible human you are. The universe? Yeah, it’s already crushing on you. 💖

Now go show ‘em how it’s done. You’ve got this... and a lot of people are very lucky to know it. 😉

I'm lonely and need friends. I also love horror and want to post in r/TwoSentenceHorror but xant because I dont have post karma so up votes would be very appreciated!!!

Or have a terrible secret that consumes your waking hours....

Message me if you want to be bored together!

How do you know if an individual is banned?

You tell them to leave a comment on your post, if they give any excuse or can't, they are most likely banned from here.

Alternatively, you can also comment "Check theirusernamehere" to manually trigger an account ban/sfw check. ^{(This is not always guaranteed, always be careful in chats.})

We have received several modmail messages about banned individuals who are still causing trouble for our community members.

Us mods here try our best to keep this a ✨clean✨ chatting and friend making subreddit for all. Sadly, there are zero mod tools to help protect members (especially minors) from indecent chats & private messages.

Please be suspicious of anyone trying to make you feel special with attention, this is called love bombing and it is highly manipulative.

When an older adult does this to a minor, this is called grooming:

Grooming is when an adult (18+) befriends and establishes an emotional connection with a minor, especially via an internet chat room, to lower their guard with the intention of committing a sexual offense. Wikipedia

This is why you have to be careful online; some are not looking for friends or innocent chats.

If someone messages you, always double check their comment/post history and do not add them on any social media outside of reddit; vet and screen their account and do not reply to anyone if you think an account looks suspicious. You do not owe them a reason, if you feel uncomfortable end the conversation immediately, and report them to the mods.

r/chat also has a feature that will quickly scan and notify you if a person's account has interacted in any sexual subreddits in the past. You can ask someone to leave an easy comment on your post, and it will trigger our bot u/NoNSFW-ActivityBot. Plus, it prevents banned individuals from commenting.

Stay safe and have a nice time chatting!

Hey all I am looking for people to chat with. I recently ended a 9.5 year relationship and just get bored and would love to fill my time.

I am the typical elder millennial in my love of music, movies and shows. I also do a lot of cooking and baking from scratch. I tend to listen to audio books because I keep busy with my dogs and trying to start a garden when I’m not working.

I work from home and have two dogs but only one coming with me when I move out.

Open to talk about anything feel free to send me a message.

edit to add I appreciate all the messages* I still have 298 unread but I’m doing my best to start some chats. 🥰

edit to add I am located in Washington State, USA

Words can't express how disgusted I am with the grown ass men and women trying to hit up MINORS on this app. I've made posts venting about how pathetic these groomers and pedophiles are, but it really sucks to see so many kids advertising themselves on social media, more specifically this subreddit. Minors, people under the age of 18, hell even people under the age of 21: DO NOT TALK TO THESE SAD ASS ADULTS POPPING UP IN YOUR INBOX!!! There's a very specific and unsettling reason why someone in their 20's, 30's, 40's, and so on is trying to talk to a teenager instead of someone their own fucking age. No, these adults aren't talking to you because you're just so "mature". I swear to god "You're so mature/ mature for your age" IS A PREDATOR'S FAVORITE FUCKING LINE, DO NOT FALL FOR THAT! As someone who was groomed by multiple pathetic men in the past, I know it gets lonely sometimes and you convince yourself that no one your age understands you but I promise you that's not true. You don't have to seek validation from pedophiles, or from anyone. Sometimes it just takes time to find your tribe, wait until college or college age to reach out to people on the internet because it is a very dangerous game you're playing. Again minors, please don't accept any dms from creepy losers who can't be bothered to find people their own age to talk to. And for the pathetic groomers and pedophiles, even the dumb ones in denial, just know there's a special place in hell just for you and you need to stop trying to talk to literal children on the internet. Get your sad ass off of social media and go check yourselves into a correctional facility.

I am happily married so I am looking for friends only. Horror is my biggest passion but I also love anime. I crochet while listening black metal and cook while listening murder documentaries. I play games from Bloodborne to Hello Kitty. I do make up and skincare but my skin doesn't care. I am atheist who doesn't drink or smoke but drinks too much coffee. I am from Finland so I suck at small talk

I often find myself dm'ing you guys warning about this so I thought I might make a post.

Please be careful on here. There are a LOT of creeps and weirdos on here, including people that seem normal at first. It's better not to use DM's on here, but if you do, be careful what you share and don't hesitate to block if something feels off. You don't know who's on the other side.

If you do want to talk to people online, I recommend Tumblr and Pinterest. Those places are much nicer and also female dominated. That said they still aren't 100 percent safe so stay viligant of harmful people and ideas

I'm here if you need anything f(23) but ofc remember you don't know me either lol. Don't trust anyone!

1st off I'm not telling this cos I wanna be told I'm a hero, just shaken up and need to unload. I got off the tram and across the road i see a young girl, 17 or 18, climbing over the wall on the other side of the road. It took a second or two to realise what was going on and when it registered what was happening i ran over to her, grabbing her sleeve and begging her to stop and think. I was actually begging her to stop and think. I was on my own and her coat was open and I had visions of her jumping and me left holding her coat. Anyway, another guy appeared on her other side and grabbed her other arm. It was a 40foot drop onto the lines so I said just grab her and fucking pull her down. She fought us both as we wrestled her back over the wall. She was gonna jump, no doubt about it. So we restrained her as some women who were passing called the emergency services. When the police arrived everyone began saying me an the other guy were heroes and we'd definitely saved this girls life. I'm shaking and can't stop crying. Why? Can anyone help?

I’d love to have some random conversations! 32F I prefer around my age or older! I have more info on my profile! Happy hunting🫡

before you downvote lemme explain. every time a "female" posts here every male replies pretending to be interested and when guys post here he is either asking for a female or just for a chat, and those who are asking for chat get barely recognized. last time I posted in this subreddit I was looking for chat cuz I was bored. nobody replied except a horny bisexual 30 yo guy who wants to share pics. I really had high hopes for this subreddit :/

a user called pmurcpcks (38m) was in my DMs, aware that I'm a child, asking me if a guy I was with was making me cum, and asking if I like my guys rough or not. Then when I confronted him about it, he laughed it off, unable to see what he'd done wrong. So just a fair warning to any other people in r/chat. Ik he hardly stands out among the massive wave of pedophiles in the subreddit but still. Avoid him

I love you. The way you think. The way you look. The way you're trying to be better. The way you're doing things. I love you. When someone says this words, I feel good. I want you to feel good, I love you.

I swear girls will only have (f20 let’s chat) and trend like it’s nothing. Meanwhile (not on this account but my main yes) I will have whole deep thought out paragraphs and get 1 upvote if I’m lucky. I want to make friends too

Hey! 26M, from England 🇬🇧

I wanna start chatting with some new people from all over! A little about me: I’m really into music, photography, philosophy, gaming (mostly Pokémon!), and movies. I love a good conversation—whether it’s deep chats or just casual back-and-forth.

Looking forward to chatting with you!

Edit: These comments are getting out of hand 😅 bare with i’m trying to get back to everyone!

Hey there everyone! Have some time to kill and was wondering if anyone wanted to chat?

What shows are you obsessed with atm? What’s going on in your life? Need someone to vent to, I got you ☺️. Or perhaps we can distract each other with good conversation… either way, come say hi and see if we vibe.

Have a wonderful evening

This year tho :(

hii im bored and i have rlly bad cramps rn and im trying not to cry :( does anyone wanna vc and talk abt literally anything?

pls introduce urself like a polite human being if u message me!!! don’t just say like “hey” IT’S RUDE.

ALSO NO PERVS I AM NOT IN THE MOOD TO DEAL WITH PERVS RN.

Just a friendly FYI, if you are looking for somebody to chat with, chat with them. Don't ask for a chat and then expect the other person to be like a clown and entertain you while you just sit there and give one word answers. You know, it's a dialogue, not a monologue.

so i started talking to two people from this sub as strictly friends and genuinely both turned out to be incels. constantly complaining abt women, abt how none want to sleep with them, degrading their appearance of women who are interested in them… idk just beware 😭 they’ll start out talking normally and seem really sweet and emotionally intelligent then after a few weeks a switch goes off and their mask starts slipping… very gross!! b careful. that being said im f26 if any girls want to chat my dms are open (: