r/askdfw • u/sheemsters • Jan 19 '22
Relocating/housing Trans child and schools
Hello everyone. I’ve been doing research on the Dallas area for a move there from the Chicago suburbs. We like the weather, the taxes are lower, the houses are a lot more affordable, etc.
So we wanted to move to the Dallas suburbs, specifically the Plano or Richardson area. I’ve read a lot about the diversity there. My question is, will my 11 year old trans child have issues growing up in those areas? Are the school districts of Dallas and its suburbs tolerant/respectful of the LGBTQ community? We have friends in the area that have friends in the LGBTQ community and they say that schools, students, and the faculties in the Dallas area are supportive of LGBTQ individuals.
We haven’t had any issues in the Chicago area, but it’s getting too expensive to live here. I’m sad that we’re leaving a community that is very supportive of LGBTQ individuals. My daughter’s school has also been very helpful and accepting of her transition. I’m hoping to find similar conditions in the Dallas area, but things I’ve read in the news about Texas (not Dallas, read positive things about Dallas and LGBTQ) has me doubting that we will find as much tolerance and acceptance for trans people.
Dallas seems to be very gay friendly as I’ve seen many LGBTQ people there and they are comfortable being themselves in public. I know the state of Texas is busy making anti trans legislation, but I get the feeling that the Dallas area might be a safe haven from all that (I’ve been to Dallas many times and have stayed for a week each time).
What would you guys say about this situation? Should we make the move to the Dallas area or Texas at all? Will my trans child have problems in the school system and the area in general?