Spanking as a punishment is problematic if it's also a sexual kink because discipline should be something the recipient doesn't enjoy and somewhat fears. If spanking becomes pleasurable, it loses its effectiveness as a deterrent for misbehavior. Mixing punishment and pleasure is a mistake because it sends mixed messages, obscuring the fact that the behavior being punished is wrong. This undermines the purpose of discipline, which aims to discourage undesirable behavior and promote positive actions.

Moreover, even if the spanking is painful, if it's a kink, the disciplinée receiving it may still derive some level of enjoyment from it. This enjoyment can blur the lines between punishment and gratification making it difficult for the disciplinée to fully grasp the seriousness of their actions and the need for behavioral correction.

For spanking to truly serve its purpose as a punishment, it must be reserved for individuals who genuinely dislike it but consent to it as a means of disciplinary correction. Those with a sexual kink for spanking should not be subjected to it for disciplinary purposes; alternative forms of punishment should be employed instead.

Some pictures of my self spankings. I used a wooden paddle, leather strap and a wooden bat

On July 25, 2026, I received a punishment from my Master. Because I failed to read his instructions properly and therefore didn't execute them correctly, I had to strike my testicles 10 times with a kitchen utensil. I used a spatula

Does anyone have this video?

http://www.spankinglibrary.com/clipdetails.php?id=9071

If he is a good boy, he may earn the privilege of seeing some of the comments. What do you think? What should I let him do to earn that right? http://imgur.com/aWkGOrK

I came up with this game years ago and love it. Very simple and blends torment and pleasure very well. Your partner must perform a kegel which signifies that they are ready to receive a series of hard swats (usually diaper position), then you perform a few seconds of oral (or alternate reward for a few seconds) then stop and wait for another kegel. To get the pleasure, you must get the pain. Harder swats and more vigorous reward as the game goes on. Maybe request multiple fast kegels and only provide pain if kegels are too weak or w/e. Lot's of room for modification here. The frustrated begging moans after oral stops and you remind them them to "ask" for it with kegels again is soooooo satisfying. >:}