I still ship rue x mytho but I feel like rue x autor really had some potential. I love Rue x Mytho cuz I love the fairy tale vibes they have, I love how despite their conflicts, they still got their happily ever after, especially considering how deeply rue loves mytho. But I have also felt that their relationship is a bit flawed.
The most obvious flaw in their relationship is their age gap. It's hard to look past this since Mytho canonically knew Rue when she was a child while he was a teen (even as a kid it was weird to me how she kissed him on the lips back then. I don't judge her for it cuz she was a kid, and I guess it makes sense why Mytho wouldn't judge cuz 1. He was injured so he prolly wasn't even paying attention, and 2. He had no emotions, so he couldn't have possibly had any ulterior motives. But idk, it still rubbed me the wrong way. I feel like even if he has no personal boundaries, he should still know right from wrong and at least be a bit protective of baby rue. But I'm just gonna assume he didn't know any better for my own sake of mind).
Most people complain that Rue was very toxic throughout her relationship with Mytho but I feel like I can excuse this because she never wanted to hurt him, she only wanted to prevent him from seeking out Tutu, not JUST because of her own jealousy, but because she knew that if the story moved forward, Mytho would be forced to face the Raven again and would most likely die. She was protecting him. Sure she may not have had her memories of being Kraehe for a while, but she still knew Mytho was the emotionless prince and wanted to keep him that way for his own sake because she didn't have the power to protect him herself and ofc she wouldn't trust Tutu to protect him because in The Prince and The Raven, Tutu only exists for a few sentences before vanishing. None of her actions were malicious. They were wrong, but they can be easily forgiven because they were well intended (plus she makes up for her actions in the end when she began to trust Tutu).
MY main issue with their relationship (besides the age gap) is that it seemed as though Mytho viewed Rue as a rebound. Since he couldn't get with Tutu, he then turned to Rue. Obviously this isn't entirely true, and we see that Mytho DOES care for Rue, he always has, he's always shown it. But he's always been more deeply infatuated with Tutu. The few times we see him willingly affectionate towards Rue (without her or the Raven controlling him) are completely overshadowed by the abundance of times he is affectionate with Tutu. If we had gotten more intimate moments with them, I probably wouldn't even be thinking of shipping her with anyone else!
My final critique is the nature of Rues love for Mytho. In short she loves him because she's been traumatically conditioned to love him. She's been convinced from a young age that she is disgusting, ugly, and unlovable, and that the only person who could possibly love her in spite of her repulsiveness is the prince because he is pure hearted and loves everyone. She was convinced that only he could love her, and if she fails at winning him as her prince, she'll be alone forever because no one else could possibly love her. It really does bring into question if she would still have loved him if this weren't her experience. We don't really see Rue overcome these insecurities of hers throughout the show, so it's hard to say if she truly loves him or if he is simply an ideology for her.
BUT THEN THERE'S AUTOR!!!
we don't see him and Rue interact much, but their interactions are so good!!!! I would've loved to see more of them. They're very different from each other and yet somehow they work. Their dynamic is very hit or miss, so I love it but I'm sure others would hate it and that's fine. But he is genuinely attracted to her even when she becomes Kraehe, he quickly falls for her (I'm sure this is the influence of the Raven somehow, or maybe the influence of the story itself, but im sure he would've still been interested in her if circumstances were different). And she knew she very well could've taken advantage of him for the sake of Mytho and her father, but she didn't. Sure she had her own reasons, but this was the beginning of her development as a character. I think this is where she started to shift away from her role as a villain.
I really like the chemistry these two had together even if it was just for a short time. And if they ever had a relationship going on, I think their dynamics would work well and it would be better because there's no large age gap, and the two would genuinely like each other for who they are and not because they feel like they have to.
Ofc I'm biased tho and I like a LOT of ships from the show. I personally hc majority of the cast as bisexual/pansexual, so it's very easy for me to see the chemistry between most character interactions. But lmk what you guys think!!!