This is my first post on reddit :) my encounters haven't been as creepy as they have just been... strange? So here it goes (apologies, I'm not a native English speaker).
I'm a woman living in Beijing, China. Certainly a big city, with lots of things going on, but not necessarily a dangerous place.
I was coming back home after meeting a friend for dinner, and the subway system is rather extensive. I was bound for a 45 min. ride through 17 stations when I got in. This Chinese man - impossible to guess his age, but I would say somewhere in his early - mid thirties - stares at me. Since I am a foreigner, I am used to people sometimes looking at me, smiling at me and even snatching pictures when I go clubbing with my friends. So I thought nothing of it. Except that through the entire ride he was just looking at me, sometimes he smiled. If someone stood on the way, he'd move his head to unblock his sight. I guessed he must have been trying to figure out where I came from or something similar, so paid no mind. 2 stops before my final destination, he finally gathers enough courage to walk to me and ask me if he could talk to me. I replied with a single "NO". He looked a bit baffled and said "ok". And got off at the next stop. I doubt that was his stop, because that would have been perfect timing: get rejected, get off the train. So I wondered if perhaps he missed his stop so he could approach me...
On another occasion, not long ago, I was on a bus. Same thing, a Chinese man kept staring at me. This time, we both got off at the same stop, and without missing a heartbeat he asked me if I was a foreigner and if I was friendly. All the while I'm searching for something inside my purse, asking in Chinese "what do you want??". He even stopped some random dude to ask him if he could speak English so he could translate for me. But I kept asking what do you want, what do you want, what do you want. He then got his phone out and asked me for my number. I told him I didn't know him, so I wasn't giving it to him. He immediately ran away.
While on a trip to Bangkok, I was walking on a sidewalk on broad daylight, when I hear someone "ssshhhhh" at me, it caught my attention immediately and when I looked, I was greeted by this guy who had his junk out and was jerking off. He wanted me to watch him do so, but I just got grossed out and walked away.
I am originally from Mexico, a mid size city, and one summer afternoon I was walking back home from college, when someone pulls over, and says something I didn't understand. I was way too distracted, and thought that this guy was talking to some people that were standing by the sidewalk. I kept walking, and I hadn't taken more than a few steps, when the guy pretty much blocks the sidewalk with his car - yes, he actually drove the car on the sidewalk, almost hitting me - and asks me in an angry voice if I needed a ride. I shook my head, and squeezed in the little space between his car and the wall, and walked slowly to see what his next move was (there were some small alleys I could take), but he screeched his wheels as he sped off.
To close this post, I was once drinking with one of my best male friends. He got drunk, but I didn't drink more than two beers, so I was fine, but a little bit dizzy. We head to sleep, but he grabs me and tries to touch me in an inappropriately manner. I am crazy about martial arts, and figured that if someone was to get "humiliated" that wasn't going to be me. Enter Brazilian Jiu Jitsu to solve the problem. I'm only 1.57 (5 2), but have a bit of an attitude. A few days later, he shows me he's got a torn lip, and multiple bruises and scratches from my submission. Travelling is kind of dangerous for a woman, but I guess knowing martial arts and coming from a violent country, have helped me be aware of my surroundings?.
Sadly, the person who is currently harassing me is a former 4 time national Muay Thai champion. Not so easy as just slap him or back talk to him to scare him away.
I have also lived in the US, but the craziness of my long time encounter deserve an entire post...
Thank you for your time, and I hope you enjoyed reading :)