Everyone talks about the wedding day...but how did you feel the next day? The next month? Were you relieved? Happy? Did anyone experience the storied "post-wedding depression"? What did you do with all the new free time? ;)

I've been married for 2.5 weeks now (!) and it's had its highs and lows. I'd love to hear other people's experiences.

My wedding was absolutely amazing two days ago, but I already have the post wedding blues and I am so sad because my family lives all the way across the country and they are leaving today and tomorrow and I live an hour and a half from where they are staying and today is my last day of work after being laid off and I’m alone right now because my husband is at work, but I’m trying not to be so sad and live off the high of the excitement and how amazing it was on Saturday, but I am so sad at the same time

We got married in the Botanical Gardens San Francisco in front of a handful of friends. It was rushed at parts and not all the guests made it but for me and my wife, our part of it went great. We have stuff to laugh about but nothing to grip about. We should of stayed in SF longer but we missed our dog too much and got him out of his boarding early and went home. We resolved to travel with our dog from here out.

Hi All! I got married in late September 2020. I did decide to change my name so in late October I mailed my application form and necessary docs to my local SSA office. They didn’t process the application until mid to late December, which is when they mailed my paperwork back.

Now it’s the end of January (process started late October) ans I still don’t have my new SS card. How long did it take for you to get your new card during COVID?

I am going to Social Security office tomorrow to update/change the last name on my Social Security card because I got married three weeks ago. But I was just wondering, do they take your picture during that process? I mean, do they take your picture at all? I’m just asking because I’d want to look more presentable of course if that’s the case 😅

I've re-enabled user flair! So you can add when your special day was, same as the pre-wedding subs.

I'm not putting any formatting restrictions on there, but as a UK groom with a US bride, I'm all in favour of the "DD Month YYYY" date format.

Hi! I (we) just got married. F and M wedding. I know she has to change her name and such with the SSN. But, after that how does the process go to change our address going forward? Does he have to change his address with the DMV right away with his driver's license? It seems she has a lot more to do than he does. We've been using this link below for what to do first and when.

https://www.alliantcreditunion.org/money-mentor/faq-what-documents-accounts-do-you-need-to-update-after-marriage

I just got married on April 19th to a man that truly swept me off my feet. If there is anyone out there that can bless us with a wedding present we would be grateful. I am in DIRE need of clothes, we also need household items like bleach, toilet paper, etc.

No one to turn to and I’m miserable two months in…. Is this normal!? I’m 34 and we dated since March 2020.

Hi all. I was recently married and my wedding reception a few days ago. I'm pretty new to the western culture (American) and still trying to learn the customs here.It came as a surprise to me that after my wedding I was supposed to go through each one of our gifts and write a Thank You card for every person. Just the thought of handwriting hundreds of cards with personalized messages seems daunting to me. I didn't wanna leave my wife to do all the hard work so I chipped in to help. After a certain point of time, I just gave up and thought to myself that there had to be a better way.That's when it clicked me and I decided to streamline the process of making thank you cards as fast as possible. I built a system that would generate personalized messeges and handwritten notes all by itself. Now all I have to do is just fill out a bunch of fields as shown below and the system does an incredible job crafting and writing the message.

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Here is a quick example:To: Erica Gift: Crystal wine set Relationship: Friend

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