Hi everyone,
I’m 35 and was recently diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve, and I’m still trying to process it.
We only recently started trying to conceive, so this wasn’t something I had tested earlier. I honestly didn’t have any reason to suspect an issue before this.
My numbers are:
My RE said I have a very poor prognosis with my own eggs and that donor eggs would give me the highest chance of live birth. He didn’t say zero chance — just very low.
I think what’s hitting me is that this isn’t something reversible. I knew DOR could mean fewer eggs, but I wasn’t emotionally prepared to hear that I may not realistically have a live birth with my own eggs.
I keep thinking, “Does this mean I can’t have my own biological child?” Even though technically there’s still a chance, it sounds like it’s very small.
Has anyone here had similar numbers and tried:
If you were in this situation, how did you decide when to stop trying with your own eggs?
I’m torn between:
I would really appreciate hearing from anyone who’s been in the severe DOR category and how you navigated it.
Thank you ❤️