Do you guys have any romance recommendations for those pairings? I'm very curious, and INTPs rarely exists in romance overall, and if they do, it's usually as an "Intellectual husband being handled by his ExFJ wife".

Preferably, with a female INTP but something tells me it's borderline non existent lol. And yes, I'm already watching The Apothecary Diaries.

I love old memes, animes, bloggers, artists’ animation memes, movies, youtube videos, tumblr aesthetics, anime rpg horror, vocaloid, anime amv, listening to openings, rhythm games like Deemo, fan arts, anime visual novels, indie horror games

And yes, I was a weird kid in school years lol

Feel free to share what you feel nostalgic about !

I've never done this before, venting about personal feels and stuff to anyone irl nor to peeps on the internet. For some reason, today I felt like wanting to talk to someone, problem is I've pushed away all those that could.

I've been experiencing social identity crises on and off for years now. I've been frustrated with how I'm supposed to act around others, I wanted(maybe still do?) to get better..I think? efforts were made and things changed. I became more social, I could handle eye contact, I could kinda start conversations and keep things going for a bit. Peeps were more comfy with me now, but things feel awkward around my old friends, I couldn't talk to them the same way as I did before.

Halfway through typing this I forgot what I was trying to say :/

So I guess I'm just wondering if anyone have had similar experiences.

Hola a todos. Quería preguntarles qué tan sentimentales pueden ser en su día a día. Siempre existe este estereotipo de que los INTP son casi robots sin emociones, pero me da la impresión de que la realidad es mucho más compleja por dentro. ¿Cómo lo viven ustedes?

Because of the wild popularity of relationship posts as well as neurodivergent/autism-centered posts, we have created two subs to cater directly to these subsets:

r/INTPrelationshipLab

If you are an INTP with relationship questions, or another type that has relationship questions about INTPs, head over there and join today - it's active and growing. You know you want to.

r/neurodivergentINTP

If you are a neurodivergent or autistic INTP and want to discuss the unique trials and tribulations that neurodivergent INTPs face, this is the place for you. And MEMES ARE ALLOWED!

On a scale of 1-10, 10 being the highest, and 1 being the lowest. For the purpose of this discussion lets assume the average adult human is a 3/10. Anyone over a 8.5 would probably institutionalized.

I'll start I would say I am a 5/10 these days. But 10 years ago it was noticeably higher. Probably a 6 or 7.

I am slowly learning we suffer way more from thinking about things happening or not happening, then the actual things themselves. This is kinda a trip and kinda liberating at the same time.

Title

Sooooo
I retook my test for fun
And I’ve been an INTP-A for years
Well guess what?
I tested 100% introverted today! I literally thought that might be almost impossible but apparently not lol

Personally i think i would. Prior survival, wilderness and army experience plays a part but im curious about you

I think this goes for INFP too I think, but in theirs it is well defined, outlined and categorized into two, they like you or they don't like you. But for me intp I liked you disliked you does not have will defined should I say meaning? Or something else?

What it have is the direction where we moving. It's kind of confusing depends on How you're looking at this, in ​inner feeling or outer feeling perspective. Fi I don't like you but we can journey together, Fe I like you but we can't journey together because our destination are not the same.

Correcting my my spelling makes me lose my inner voice. I will finish it when my inner voice comes back

The White Album is an absolute banger

It’s well known for intps to have potential but not achieving anything due to lazyness or procrastination. May I ask, have you ever pushed yourself enough to achieve something important? Like giving you no other option but to work hard.

I just did some changes in my life so I can stop wasting my possibilities and potential but since then, I’ve been evading my future, just procrastinating every day heh, it’s now concerning me, soooo I’d like to know if someone has donde something like that. I just wanted to feel that I can fight for something in my life and test how capable I am, but from the other side, life isn’t that interesting ig… I just wanted to feel I have a purpose

it something not be a cliche one, but ig some had interested for that kind of plot. im talking about a unique story with a twist of romance that made you feel soft and giddy inside involuntarily lol or just a pure romance. not to dislike romance but i dislike the common patterns of how two characters get together as couple, it cringes me out

i just prefer the gradual slow burn. what about you? i rarely heard any intp's inclined to share topic like this

I noticed after spending most of my days by myself, I've forgotten how to talk normally and sometimes go non verbal in social settings which comes off as weird. The worst part is I can get away with it without having to face any real consequences, so I end up chosing to be silent even when there's no particular reason. It has become a default response now.

But the thing is, I do crave connection, I enjoy discussing ideas, sharing experiences, but I also seem to have forgotten that connecting with people requires putting myself out there and well, talking.

I understand that socialising is an important part of life, and I don't want to keep retreating into my own bubble. But sometimes it feels like I've become so comfortable being alone that interacting with people takes more effort than it should.

Is this an intp thing or have i just gotten too comfortable with isolation? How do you get out of this?

could be the dynamic of your friends, circumstances, environment or even your routine etc.

I would choose to be a family doctor. Even if I didn't end up earning money as a family doctor, I could use my knowledge to help my family and friends, including myself.

Someone said if you want to be SP9 INTP, you need to specify it’s TiSi. I don’t get it

When physical automation becomes widespread, how does money function?

I've had a terrible writing block here for the past couple of months, and unfortunately, I feel like I've lost a lot of my spark. What is my work supposed to accomplish FOR me and FOR others?

But here we are! Back at it, at least making the attempt, at least getting the gears grinding inside my prefrontal knob. We shall explore such questions together.

The world is constantly watching, waiting for you to fail. That's what it was designed for; that's what its main intention is. Behind every rock there lies a snake ready to fuck your day up. Its venom, a lullaby that consumes your whole psyche, makes you complacent and crumbles apart any dreams you have or will have. It is a persistent and ruthless thing. Mainly, it's your phone, it's social media, it's the news. All the terrible dopamine-seeking behaviors that wish to hypnotize you and prevent you from accomplishing your goals. It is the little evil thing that holds the hourglass and seeks to take away all of your time, until you look back and realize that you weren't living your own life, at all. You are what you consume, you are what you eat.

It's even those around you who pretend to be your friends, or your father who told you you'd never amount to anything, your surrounding circle who congratulate you with an open hand that hides a knife intended for your back. In this world, the only one you can trust is yourself. Trusting yourself is the act of looking inward, away from all the evils and depravities of this world that seek to control you and your future outcomes. Break from those chains and evils that exist within this world. Develop the mentality that… "I'm not trapped here with you, you're trapped here with me." I will be the tiger that stalks my prey, every single moment patiently waiting to pounce and sink my teeth in.

Now, symbolism is important, no? I found myself taking on this image of someone who I want to be, this visionary that makes the largest ripple that the world has ever seen. The mind is a powerful tool, perhaps not perfect in its design, but something you truly have the capability of wielding in a way that benefits you.

It's simply getting out of the hypnosis and conquering your domain. Understanding that your passion is something worth cultivating and holding closest to your heart. It's up to you who you decide to give it to, who is worthy of such energy. Your body is a vessel capable of so many incredible things, your brain the mechanism with which to prompt creation. Align the two and you become unstoppable.

your family is also important to you, do you just choose 50/50? 50% of time inhabit their existential space and 50% of time your own?

I don't care about anyone genuinely or more like maybe not enough to feel too much,I do stuff out of obligation rather than care,like say parents, family or friends etc...i don't really care about them, really heck if something happened to them i'd probably go oh that happened and go sit in my room and do what I want if not for the obligation and....kinda hurting them maybe...,and all of that is cuz I hate dealing with the changes in my environment....if well I ended up hurting someone....is prefer not to deal with the discomfort.

So are there some of you like this,or do you guys actually feel love for others,and would most of youreact way differently in these situations.

Is this common enough or am I abnirmal

I've been forced to confront my own biases so much more than I care to admit, but the thing that routinely cracks me up when I'm having my weekly typing crisis is that I always manage to convince myself that I'm not the type I so clearly am.

Me: Man I'm such an F type. I'm just a huge pool of emotions.

Also me: *literally can't make a decision unless things make sense to me. Routinely disregards the feelings of others when it comes to understanding how and why **they** make decisions.*

Me: I'm so intuitive and sure of myself! Surely I'm an Ni user.

Also me (answering literally any question): "idk" "it depends" "well really anything is possible"

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Like the lack of self awareness I have sometimes is actually embarrassing 💀 I'm my own biggest gaslighter 😭😂

I'm an INTP and I am a teenager. I want to find a job that fits me, so might as well ask to people with the same personality as me and see what jobs you all have chosen. Thanks in advance!
Sorry for the flair, I didn't see any that fit.

Edit: I don't want to base my choice by copying someone but I just want to see ideas and explore different fields that could interest me, I have zero idea for now.

I know a shy, insecure INTP who’s struggling. Life is just starting for them… but I’m wondering if any of you were ever like that and experienced a transformation? Not into an extrovert. Just a bravery and confidence transformation.

Keep in mind this isn’t a lack of reasons to feel brave of confident. It’s a generosity of spirit, lack of entitlement, and refusal to make themselves the lead character in everything. Very valuable, noble traits.

I’m a very different personality type and my tips fail to speak their language. Wondering what the path looks like for someone like them? If any of you may have already walked it. Thx in advance.

LOL - Y’all have an anxious ENFP with questions flair. And I am, indeed, an ENFP feeling anxious about this person, here asking a question. Not a romantic person in my life however.