r/ForeverAloneDating • • Oct 07 '19

Success Story 18 [F4M] Success Story šŸ’™šŸ’œ

1.3k Upvotes

I posted a few months ago looking for someone, I got a lot of responses, but one caught my eye. After talking with this one guy, I deleted the post and stopped replying to those who responded out of respect for my current interest and desire to pursue one guy.

Everyday we texted, called, video chatted, etc. We were hooked. Not soon later, we met IRL and went to the zoo. Best. Date. Ever. I knew he was the one. Today we celebrate 3 months of our relationship and let me tell you it's amazing.

We are an interracial couple, I'm black and female, he's white/guatemalan and Male. We did get a lot of stares and glances at first, and we only held hands in public. Now we give no shits and we just mind our own business (with moderation, we just hug and a little smooch)

He is such an amazing boyfriend. He is kind, sweet, caring, loving, affectionate, smart, nerdy, cute, determined, and much much more. He reassures me when I'm doubtful. He is my world. I am so grateful for reddit and this subreddit for bringing us together.

Happiness is there. There is someone for everyone. There is a great reward in making yourself happy and learning how to communicate. I hope everyone has an amazing day. Best of luck to everyone in their many trials of life.

1 Year Update: Yesterday, the 7th of July, was our anniversary. I had surgery to fix a breathing problem that had been majorly affecting me for 2, almost 3, years. He was the one by my side through it. Its 3 am and I cant sleep (not complaining I'd rather suffer for the next week if it means a life time of better breathing) I've been in and out of sleep. Hes been right there, every 3 hours waking up so I can take my medication.

I'm so happy to have him in my life. We've gotten along amazingly well. We havent even had an argument. We treat each other nice, and with respect. We trust one another and are so very open about everything. I am truly lucky to have him.

I will post updates every so often. Hopefully this doesnt get booted to the top of the feed. I'm only updating for myself. So I can look back on this and see what I wrote. I hope everyone has an amazing day. You are all wonderful. Spread positivity, not negativity.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jun 20 '20

24[F4M] Blind girl looking (or feeling around) for love

1.2k Upvotes

Hello! I'm a 24 year old girl from New England and yes I am blind. I have software on my laptop that reads messages and pages aloud and I type using text-to-speech. For more complicated actions I generally have somebody help me out. I even asked my brother to type out the title for me. I'm a very outgoing and sociable person who loves to listen to music and go on walks. I have mastered using my new cane and I have started going to some areas on my own without assistance! I'm looking for a guy that can eventually come and see me because I obviously can't drive to you without crashing instantly. Every relationship I've had in the past has ended due to guys leaving because they felt my disability wasn't worth it. Even though I can't see I would love to meet someone that doesn't think of it as an inconvenience and will love me for who I am on the inside. I don't have any requirements, just that you preferably live in the United States. Reddit's messaging system is a pain for me to use on my own so if you message me I will send you my Discord name and we can chat there. Hope to chat with someone very soon!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 03 '20

[Meta] Just PM them already, no need to comment "DM sent" or worse, "PM me"

Thumbnail old.reddit.com
827 Upvotes

r/ForeverAloneDating • • Mar 19 '20

22YO [F4M] me a shy type trying sales pitch

792 Upvotes

Good day to our valued customers!

This is the actual photo of the product.

Key Specifications:

  • Brand: Filipino

  • Color: Tan

  • Size: 5 ft x 47 kg

  • Version: Licensed Pharmacist

The product developers are working on its version update, Physician.

This product is made in the Philippines. Shipping costs may apply. All rights reserved. 1997

Product reviews: "Crazy!" -Friends "You are so lazy!" -Mama "You're so beautiful." -Uncles and Aunts

For direct inquiries, please don't hesitate to message our Customer Support with your photo attached for assessment purposes.

We can't believe we have reached so many upvotes! We are overwhelmed and deeply humbled. However, the company is looking for a specific buyer. To be honest, we'd have to say, it's the looks that attracts us initially but the personality that makes us stay. Thank you and please continue supporting us!

Sincerely, The Marketing Team


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Nov 27 '20

Success Story 20 [F4M] cute story

769 Upvotes

Just coming back to say that it is possible to actually find someone on this subreddit. I made a post 6 months ago and one month later I had a date with a guy and it’s been 5 months since we’re together. We get along so well, we spend our time playing video games together, watch movies and cuddle in bed o(////ā–½////)q

-well... it’s not like have the choice since we’re in lockdown together ( Ģ€āŒ„ ́)-

I’m a very introverted person and it has always been hard for me to meet people and stick with them, that’s why I ended up here. But I’ve been very lucky to meet him idk... I luv him a lot... BUT I guess that it’s getting too cheesy so I’ll stop here.

Also it’s my cake day so upvote or u’ll stay single 4ever (ąø‡'Ģ€-'́)ąø‡

jk have a great day


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Sep 08 '19

64 [M4F] Anywhere - Looking for a travel/adventure partner.

718 Upvotes

I may be in my 60s, but I still love to stay active and travel. I don't believe you're ever too old to continue adventuring, explore new places and learn about the world as well as yourself. I've done a lot of traveling in my six decades on this earth, but there are several places I have yet to go, or locations I haven't been to in quite some time but would love to return to. It doesn't have to be somewhere grand or expensive or far away. It could be a cozy little village not more than a hour drive away. But I just want to find someone who loves to explore as much as I do.

Aside from traveling, my hobbies and interests including spending time in the great outdoors, hiking, biking, swimming, watching sports, politics, science, philosophy, video games (yes, I play video games) and films. So feel free to send a message my way. Take care.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Apr 16 '25

F4M 23/F4M Black haired goth girl to ruin your life #Anywhere

655 Upvotes

And ruin it I will! Ruin that comforting loneliness, the nights sleeping alone (we can fall asleep on call), the lack of messages (I’ll send you 100), the feeling of invisibility (I’ll ensure you feel seen). I’ll ruin that comforting longing that we’re so used to, and replace it with a heated yearning straight from the heart and connected by the soul.

Tell me, do you believe in fate? Soul connections? Finding your person amongst the billions of people on earth? Crossing paths in, or on, a place like this, completely unexpected, yet your breath hitches when you read that special post that strikes your heart. I hope that’s what mine does to you.

Who am I? I’m a 23 year old traveler taking a gap year to discover the world and possibly, if fate allows it, find the love of my forever. Reddit seems like a good reach as any, especially considering my adoration for those who know words hold the most power. With our word. Write your words like you’re writing a song. Cast your spells with no inclinations of doubt, but sheer confidence over love in abundance. So gravitating to the soul that I’m well aware of your intent. And that intent would be to trance me. And I to you.

Skin to skin, breath to breath. The taste of your name on my tongue. I want us to get lost in words from one another, fuelling our need to know more about each other. Mind over body I would say, though I’ve been told I’m attractive. To give you a short description, as I know some people greatly put importance over looks (this post may not be for you); I’m a short blasian woman with play-with-able wavy black hair (I’m looking into dying it a wild colour soon), a nose piercing, expressive black eyes that venture through yours, and holdable hands for every occasion. I’m fit since I take a lot of walks and am generally a very active bouncy person.

As someone who loves highly emotionally, I want a strong passionate love full of everything we could ever imagine. Like keeping plants alive, or finding little intricacies in each other… either or is cool.

If I pique your interest and you’d like to dig into more of my lore, I have a past account that holds much of who I am.

(I have an age limit of 36)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jun 28 '20

Do not send your information to /u/dreamyyyyyyyyy or anyone else trying to lure in sugar babies.

652 Upvotes

/u/dreamyyyyyyyyy has been PMing people from this subreddit asking very intrusive questions under the guise of becoming their "sugar baby". Do not respond to them or anyone asking for photos of your identification or other personal information. Always make sure to take proper precautions with your doxx when meeting people online.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jan 19 '20

Success Story 18 [F4M] Success Story! ā¤ļø

632 Upvotes

Dennis and I

Half a year ago I posted on this subreddit in hopes of finding, quite predictably, some sort of connection. I don’t know exactly why—as I recently had gotten out of an abusive online relationship that ultimately became traumatic when we met in person last spring. So, obviously, I had a strange idea to make myself vulnerable again.

However, the night I posted, I met someone who I am so lucky to call my boyfriend and best bud. We talked on discord everyday—majority of the time spent laughing and wheezing, but also opening up to each other more and more as the days went on. We were constantly learning about each other—communicating and sharing the good and the bad.

As I live in the US and he lives in the Netherlands, distance became tough at times. Indeed, it often made our relationship stronger, but we still wanted to meet up ASAP.

Two weeks ago, he traveled all the way to the US and we met in person. My love for him grew and grew, and I couldn’t have been happier.

It broke my heart to see him go the other day, but I’m currently planning a trip there to see him and the tulips blooming.

I’m forever grateful to this subreddit for helping me find this lovely person.

Much love and luck to all!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jun 23 '19

72 [M4F] Pennsylvania/Anywhere - Older man hoping it's not too late to find love.

617 Upvotes

I realize it may be foolish to try to find love at my age, but here I am. I'm still quite active for my age and I'd love to think I'm in good shape. Some of my hobbies include hiking, camping, traveling, fishing and a bit of gardening, though I'm not the best at the last one. I do also enjoy relaxing indoors with the occasional video game.

If anyone would like to chat and get to know each other, feel free to send me a message. Take care.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Mar 10 '25

F4M 23F4M A goth woman, two cats, and so much love to give (#Anywhere)

585 Upvotes

POV: you’ve finally found the girl you’ve been looking for, and she comes with two lovely orange cats, who may, at first, not be too convinced.

If you, dear sir, pine for my hand, you may have to defeat my several (two) evil cats (not evil, but lovable), and gain their righteous blessing (treats).

And the only way to get passed is for a kind, knowledgable man (such as yourself) to bribe them with only the best of kitty cuisine (ham bits). They really are easily won over. I am much harder to win over though, but legend says ā€œpspspspsā€ also works on goths too.

All jokes aside. Hi! I’m a self proclaimed adventurer with a penchant for big cats and the color black. My obsession with exotic felines extends to my current study— An everlasting love for felinology focusing on exotic animals such as tigers, lions, cheetahs, etcetera. Something I can talk about with the right person for a while. But I digress:

What am I looking for? Same as you, silly: Love. I’m looking for someone to do the mundane and not so mundane with. From adventuring new hiking trails, feeding deers in Japan, to slicing up mangos and sitting on the porch talking about stuff that doesn’t even matter. And for the time that we are apart; I want to think about you when I go to bed, when I wake up, when I’m at work— basically all moments of the day. A cloud of thoughts that consist of you preoccupying my mind. I think it’s only natural when you like someone so much.

I can admittedly be a bit clingy, but I am aware of my actions and try to be thoughtful and considerate of both of our time. My strong suit is being emotionally present. That, and understanding mental conditions very well.

My hobbies are all out of whack since the year started. But I’ve always had a deep interest for studying and reading. A big part of my personal library are textbooks that have been exhaustively inked through. It’s the Asian in my blasian that does that, I think. Hahaha.

I know how to play the keyboard, speak simplified Japanese (ę—„ęœ¬ć«č”ŒććŸć„(恧恙), and cook a few healthy and not so healthy east-asian meals. I also dabble in video games. Stalker 2 has been very enjoyable! But my more active and preferred hobbies include: adoring you, hiking, and running. You’d be surprised what a small woman can do with enough sugar intake!

Deep rooted culture permeates in my soul, and I can truly talk about my family history for a long time. I’m Japanese/black and I’m very fond of my heritage. I’d say I’m attractive; black eyes, a cute smile, curvy but slim and fit, caramel skin, and I know how to take care of myself. I wear glasses regularly (black ones, of course), and have waist length black hair. I must mention I also have a nose piercing (as well as my ears), and I love it! But don’t plan on getting anything more.

So, where does your future girlfriend live? I reside in the beautiful city of Berlin, where pastries are addictive and museums are plentiful. I typically stay three-four months in a country max before fleeing to someplace new. New city, new pastry shop to run dry. Long distance is something we’d have to do for the time being. Buuut I am always serious in my romantic pursuits, and won’t let you forget that we’re together. Long messages, playlists, voice notes, photos, video calls, and my undivided attention are all on the table. Sounds like a good deal, right? Straightforwardness is very attractive in a man. That, wit, and don’t shame me for this one, but I adore accents. It compensates for my lack thereof.

I’d like to fall in love with your personality first before sharing photos. I hope you feel the same way. If you’re looking for an affectionate studious woman who looks suspiciously like a vampire (I promise I’m not), message me and let’s talk!

No NSFW accounts, no garlic, and my preferred age range is 24-34. Thanks :)


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jun 22 '19

Success Story Our Success Story!! ā¤ļø 21 [F4M]

564 Upvotes

Hi guys! šŸ˜€

I met my boyfriend here last November 2018, I didn't really expect something big or special that time. And then he messaged me and we instantly clicked! We're nearly 8 months now, long distance since day 1.. 10000+km away from each other. But we finally met for the first time last month and everything went perfectly!! I'm the happiest with him, I love him so much. Currently planning for 2nd meeting. It's hard but it's worth it. 😊

Posting here was actually his idea but I was hesitant at first because I feel shy. We decided to post our story here to let you know how this sub helped us to find each other and that success story happens here! 😊

Hope you guys find this inspiring and i hope that you also find your someone special here!!! šŸ’–


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Nov 29 '21

[F4M] 20. my last attempt.

544 Upvotes

hi. my name is elara (ee•lar•a). i was named after a moon of jupiter which is fitting because i am very intrigued by the cosmos and it’s one of my many passions.

i am 20 years old and from the USA. i am an indie game developer & a college student.

politically, i am a conservative. i can’t see myself being with someone who doesn’t share similar values as i believe it’s important.

a little bit about me, i am logical but also creative, i love to write, talk about the cosmos and other various subjects. history is very interesting to me.

i look for someone ā€œnerdyā€ smart, logical, likes to have deep conversations and plays video games. sense of humor is so important. i’d love someone sarcastic and likes to joke around.

i love concept art. space, ocean, etc. i’m very interested in gothic/dark romanticism and i absolutely love castles.

i play a lot of video games. my favorite games are halo, bioshock, and skyrim. there’s more to know but id encourage you to message me if you’re interested.

if you want to know what i look like here

photos


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jan 27 '20

[Meta] This is a dating sub, not a porn sub nor a looking-for-friends sub

512 Upvotes

New rule added to the sidebar: the focus of this sub is to find dates.

and thanks everyone for flagging inappropriate threads/comments, keep it up!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • May 20 '21

Success Story [F4M] now never alone [F23/M35]

507 Upvotes

Finally... I posted on here a while ago and I found someone who gets me :) After like 2 weeks of talking and learning about each other we made plans to meet!

I’m so happy! It’s like we knew each other for years, there was no nervousness, I never felt so comfortable with another person this quickly!

We met in person today and he completes me :)

https://imgur.com/a/cky5fqb Here’s some pics!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Oct 23 '19

Success Story [F4M] [20] Update!

493 Upvotes

Almost a month ago I had posted on this sub a little bit about myself with the hopes of finding a boyfriend who lives near me. I was honestly really surprised when I got a lot of messages, but after a few days I decided to reply to one from a guy who lives a couple states away from me. His wholesome username (dinosaursrule27) made me giggle. I almost immediately developed a crush. Finally, a genuinely amazing guy who had wholesome intentions for a relationship with me and more in common than I thought was possible. We messaged back and forth on Instagram for a while and I was giddy every time I got a text from him. Eventually we started FaceTiming almost every night before bed, and I was falling fast. Next thing you know, he asked me to be his girlfriend one night. I'll admit I teared up and cried, I was so happy and excited. He's honestly the best thing that's ever happened to me. We're planning on meeting in December and I've never been as excited for something in my life haha. I wanna thank this sub for bringing us together, because without it I don't think we would have ever met. To my sweet guy: I love you and can't wait for the future with you!

EDIT: Please stop sending me passive-aggressive messages if I ended up not being interested in you. I'm happy and some of you are being extremely hurtful.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 23 '23

Success Story [29F] The love of life died this morning, we met on this subreddit.

488 Upvotes

"Success story". I consider it one in the end. See, finding people who wanted to date me was never difficult for me. I'm female, mother nature was kind to me as well when my genes got picked from the pool. Yet I've never been interested in anyone. Intimacy felt awkward and strange to me. I'd often wonder if people were even real, since most relationships around me were this strange agreement of "don't step on my tail and I won't step on yours". Everyone would tell me my standards were just too high, so I stopped explaining anyone what I was actually looking for.

I was 27 when I started scrolling through posts here. A few trial and errors till one day I was at work on break, in the locker room, hating my life and feeling hopeless. I came across his post that was 1-2 days old. It was different. He wrote a story. His story grabbed me by the heart and kept me there till today. I was sligly shaking as I finished reading it, not knowing how to message him because I wanted this person to reply to me so badly. I messaged him and a few hours later his reply came. I didn't know how this person looked like. I didn't know anything about him yet, but that one message back was worded in a way I knew he was going to be THAT man that I've been waiting for my entire life.

We shared a lot together. I'd smile as I'd slip peacefully into his arms. A strong rock I could always come and lay myself down on to escape from the demands of the material world. Never demanding from each other aspirations that were far beyond us/we held no interest in. For a while, we forgot about how cruel this reality is.

I woke up from that beautiful dream today, after a long battle with an infection/sepsis paired with his rare condition that made his body give up. I'm 29, and an immigrant who never found her place in the world till 2021. I don't know where I'm going to go from here. I never thought I needed a plan for my life again.


I think this subreddit is unique to any other platform out there. Words have always been my thing, the mind would be forever imprisoned without them. The fact that people don't show their face often here, the fact that people can try and bond without seeing how they look like initially. "Physical attraction is important" some might say. I think it's more of a bonus. Like shopping for a laptop for how it looks on the outside.

I wanted to make this post to leave a trace where the most beautiful part of my life began.

And to tell you all that even if you're struggling to find your person now, they will come one day. And it'll be worth all those years of waiting and trying.


Rest in peace my handsome writer N.C.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • May 27 '23

Success Story 22 [F4M] Success Story

484 Upvotes

https://imgur.com/a/ZxS5hVs

Our story began in 2020, when I was a 19 year old college student living in Ohio, and he was a 26 year old living 2,000 miles away in Washington.

Depressed and isolated in my college dorm during the pandemic, I desperately needed to talk to someone. I found myself scrolling through ForeverAloneDating, a subreddit I didn’t visit often.

That same night my now SO made a post on here. I was not one to usually reach out, but his pictures caught my interest right away. Looking more at his lengthy post, I noticed we liked a lot of the same bands, and so I decided to reach out.

At the time, I had been listening to Jawbreaker nonstop, which oddly enough he mentioned in his post. So I titled my first ever message to him ā€œDear youā€ after the band’s hit 1995 album.

We had an instant connection and ended up talking every single day for a year.

About a year later, he bought a plane ticket from Washington to Ohio to see me. At the time he was entirely a secret, I didn’t tell any family or many friends about him, worried it may not work out. For everyone who’s eyes just widened at the thought of a 19 year old girl secretly going to meet a strange man she met online… my mom did find out about a month before we met. And hey! Im still alive!

I can still see myself anxiously fidgeting on the cold metal bench in the empty airport waiting for his plane to arrive.

People were coming down this escalator behind a pair of glass doors in a way that the people at the top were cut off from my view. My heart would tense up as the escalator slowly revealed each person’s face, wondering if the next one would be him.

Finally I see a nervous boy smile and wave. He walks towards me, both with masks on not being able to fully see each other yet. His hug was so tight I thought he’d cut me in half!

We spent a glorious Ten days together. It was magical. He was my first real boyfriend and many other firsts as well.

Ending that trip was gut wrenching. His flight home left at 4 am. We drove mostly silently to the airport. My tear drenched face was luckily shrouded by the darkness. The hug goodbye in the empty airport was possibly the most painful thing I had experienced at that point in my life. I didn’t feel I could get back in my car, go back to the same bed, without him there.

Three months later, Christmas day. I’m hugging my family goodbye as I am excitedly about to begin the 3 hour trek to the airport to see him again. Finally, I got to see him and we drove to my apartment and had our own Christmas together.

Of course, that trip had to come to end as well. After 15 days, he was back In Washington. And once again we were heartbroken. After this trip, we realized we could no longer live without each other in our lives physically. We started planning for him to make the move to Ohio.

Three months later, I pick him up from the airport, hoping it’s the last time I’ll ever leave him alone at one.

And now we’re going on three years this next September.

So Dear you, Know that love is possible. And often it appears when you least expect it.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Aug 22 '20

29[F4M] WHERE ON EARTH ARE YOU?

477 Upvotes

Are you Phil?

I've been here before and I've spoken to someone named Phil. And I thought he ghosted me so I stopped logging-in here.

That was June.

I checked back just now, and to my horror he did reply back a day after I've sent my last message! And Reddit did not prompt me. I feel so bad! 😭

I got caught up with work these past few months and forgot about Reddit. 😢

Phil, if you're reading this, I just want to let you know that it was never my intention to ghost you. I thought you just stopped talking to me. :/

I don't know of you'll see this [nor my chats], but please open your Chats, I've sent you messages!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Oct 31 '20

Success Story! 18[M4F]

466 Upvotes

Delete if not allowed, but I thought maybe our success story would give some of you some hope, especially since it started with a male poster, not a female! My (18F) boyfriend (19M) posted on this subreddit about 8 months ago, and I was one of two girls who responded. I guess I was the more interesting suitor, because we made it official after a couple weeks of us starting to talk. Yesterday was our 7th month anniversary and we will be moving in together early next year! Luckily, we live one state away, so we get to see each other a couple times a month. To you guys and girls looking for someone on here, don’t give up! You’ll find someone who loves you for you one day, no matter how you feel about yourself or how unlovable you think you might be. I can’t tell you how worth it that it is to find the right person for you. ā¤ļø

Pic of me and my boyfriend


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jan 19 '18

Success Story 27 [r4r] Not a looking for post, but a success story post.

454 Upvotes

here's my original post https://www.reddit.com/r/ForeverAloneDating/comments/6ufqj6/27_m4f_utah_are_you_out_there/

Met a girl on here shortly after i posted that, and we started talking and playing games together. We enjoyed each others company a lot and continued to talk everyday and watch movies on skype together. It's long distance we are probably like a 24 hour drive from each other. We had feelings for each other and started a long distance relationship, it's great and i'm very happy. She's actually flying into my city to see me in about 5 days! So i know the forever alone feels, but dont let it get you down. Keep trying and don't give up there's someone out there for everyone :).

EDIT: we met for the first time yesterday and it was slow and a little awkward at first but we warmed up to each other pretty quick. I'm really happy right now :) thanks all for the nice comments :)

EDIT 2: If anyone wants an update I don't mind, we're still together! Thx Reddit :)

Z and j https://imgur.com/gallery/M0k71 Here's a picture if you guys were curious if my


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jul 17 '20

Success Story 27 [M4F] Success Story! I found my Soulmate!

440 Upvotes

It feels like a dream but it’s not. I was able to find someone here on FAD and have now met her in person. So here is my story.

Back in late January, the last person I had talked to on a standard dating app had rejected me and I was feeling really down. I was beginning to think I would never find love. I asked my friend ā€œIs it better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all?ā€ But in one final attempt to find someone, I started posting on this subreddit again. My first post didn’t get anyone interested (or it just wasn’t seen due to the high amount of posts by men on this sub). But then on February 2nd, everything changed.

Someone had commented on my post. Her username is u/Shy_FaMushu and she commented ā€œStarfox is a good game.ā€ Now my post didn’t mention Starfox but it did mention my interest in Nintendo games. After replying to her, we started talking on Reddit’s chat feature. We would talk on Reddit chat every day and we were so interested in each other that we would post very long messages. I am a man of many words so some of my messages would be like essays that she ended up writing down her response on paper before typing it out lol. After nearly a week of talking, we finally decided to send each other pictures of ourselves. We were both worried that the other would think we didn’t look good but I thought she was gorgeous and she said I was handsome. I cried tears of joy that night. I was so happy that she thought I was handsome. Soon after, with a face to put our words to, we began to develop romantic feelings for each other.

I was worried about things about me that may be considered deal breakers or red flags so I let her know those things early on and none of them were. She liked me just the way I am. It made me so happy that there was a woman out there who understood me and my fears even if not all of them were rational fears.

In early March, we made ourselves an official couple after doing some video chats with each other. We planned to meet in person in mid-July and while the pandemic did bring some uncertainty, we both live in the United States so international lockdowns did not affect us. While waiting for our meeting day to arrive, we continued to talk on the phone and FaceTime every day. We feel like we’ve known each other for years now and now that I have her in my life, I don’t want to go back to living a life without her in it. We both just feel so much happier now that we are in each other’s life.

And now here we are in mid-July. She flew out to visit me and we are staying at an Airbnb. We’ve had so much fun so far and will continue to have fun for the remainder of the time that she is here. We hope to close the distance and start living together by the end of 2021. (Edit: A few weeks after posting this success story, we have decided to close the gap and live together in February 2021 instead of the end of the year!)

We’re both so happy to have each other. I can’t thank this subreddit enough!


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Jan 24 '21

20 [M4F] Look imma be honest

430 Upvotes

I'm not attractive, I'm overweight, I have stretch marks. I'm mentally unstable, have attempted suicide, and have self harm scars. I'm not your price charming or your knight in shining armor, but I am me. My personality isn't perfect either but it's the one thing I believe is up to par. I will show as much care as I can, whether anything develops or not, and will try my best to treat you well. I'm looking for someone I can grow to care for, and who can grow to care for me despite my many flaws.

Anyway, my name is John. I don't have many super unique hobbies but I write, play games, watch movies, and listen to music. I'm happy to share my short stories and happy to do any of those with you. I play mostly rpg games on PC, nothing super popular. I love love love horror movies, as well as 3d animated movies. As for music, I listen to a large variety depending on what mood I'm in, from rap to songs from cartoons to pop.

https://imgur.com/a/fbUPBUD

There is me.

If anyone wants to talk, I'm happy to. Looks and location matter very little to me. Feel free to message, we can talk wherever you prefer.

Edit: Thank you so much for all the well wishes and upvotes! It means a lot. I'll try to respond to every one of you now that I'm actually not super groggy.


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Mar 30 '20

21 [M4F] Men of this subreddit, can you stop downvoting other men?

409 Upvotes

We are all here to find love, and there is 114.000 people on this subreddit, don't worry you will find love on here but STOP downvoting other men. You are making it harder for us to find our Significant other....

Anyways since I'm also in search for my future significant other, here is 10 facts about me.

1.) I am 21 years old 6 feet tall, and weigh around 170 pounds (80kg) and live in germany. I am lebanese though.
2.) I love animals. I had 3 cats myself as a child and want to get one in the future. I love going to the zoo/petting zoo.
3.) I was studying law for 3 semesters and switch to management and economics. I have to wait for covid-19 to go away, so my college opens again.
4.) I am a funny/goofy person. I enjoy making others laugh and happy. I got stuck in a chair once, so I will tell you that story if I enjoy talking to you.
5.) I started working out a few months ago and LOVE it. I always loved exercising or do sports. I used to play football (soccer) for 11 years and handball for 3. Again hopefully covid-19 goes by fast, so I can do those things again.
6.) I am a romantic person. I love going out, having picnics, watching the sun set, doing special things for valentines day. If we go on a date, I will make sure it will be unforgetable.
7.) I love being creative. No I don't mean drawing unless you like mediocre Stickmen. I like writing poems and rewriting songs for my SO. Basically find many ways over and over again, to show you how much I like you.
8.) I'm loyal. In my opinion, sadly that has to be mentioned these days. If I am in a relationship, I make sure that my girlfriend, won't get jealous, so I keep the conversations to girls that make her jealous to a minimum.
9.) I love to cook. I'm no Gordon Ramsay, but I'm trying to learn how to cook, without burning down the kitchen with his videos/recipes. I only burned down 5 kitchens yet so I think I'm doing a pretty good job.
10.) Last but not least, I'm honest, open and upfront. I hate lying, simply cause it just brings more harm than benefit and is not fair towards anyone. Also I will tell you my opinion on things. I won't sugarcoat them.

Honorable mentions: I like playing games, watching movies/animes as well so if you are nerdy don't worry we can build a minecraft house together.

Who am I looking for?

Someone that can relate, has things in common and wants a man like me in their life. Don't be older than 22 as well please. I don't mind long distance, so location and timezones are no issue for me.

Hope to hear from you soon :D

EDIT: Still searching. Feel free to add me on discord: Ahmad#1975


r/ForeverAloneDating • • Mar 07 '20

26 [F4M] USA- Cat looking for a a human man for my human

403 Upvotes

My human is obviously incapable of finding a man herself. She’s been single for waaaay too long. She can’t find a man at church. She can’t find a man at school. I need a man to sweep her off her feet. I need someone to be my cat dad. Then I will have someone to give me more treats.

From what I can see, my human enjoys:

  • Talking to me (sometimes she sings horribly to me)

  • Leaving me to go on what she calls ā€œtripsā€ (how rude)

  • She lays in bed and watches something on the box of pictures.

  • She takes naps with me (we have room for one more).

My human must be patient. She doesn’t yell at me when I poop on the floor or when I bring in dead animals. Although, she does throw out the gifts I bring to her! How will she survive if she can’t hunt? If she does...who will feed me? This is where you come in. You feed me if she dies.