Life is rented until death. Aging is life, youth, and beauty slowly slipping away. Being with another person is rented until breakup or death. It’s ended already if a person to some degree doesn’t want to be there. So hold the reins to life with a bit of ease and grace, don’t take life too seriously, because it’s only a rental. No one truly has anything, everything slips away like sand through the fingers.

We don't have to believe we're being watched for the possibility of being watched to change our relationship with the world. Sometimes, nothing changes except our awareness of ourselves. We're laughing, talking, walking somewhere familiar. Then we become conscious of how we might appear to someone else. We're no longer entirely within the moment. We're also looking at ourselves from the outside.

We've always imagined how others see us. We learn to anticipate reactions, adjust our behavior, and understand ourselves through the people around us. But now, our actions can be recorded, preserved, and encountered by people who were never there. A moment can outlive its context. A version of ourselves can remain long after we've changed. The observer becomes less a person than a possibility. We don't have to believe anyone is watching. We know that what happens can be documented, separated from its context, and interpreted by someone whose perspective we cannot control. We can be seen without being understood.

But the strangeness goes beyond recording. We can turn the outside perspective on ourselves even when nobody else is present. We examine our reactions, question our motives, and wonder what our behavior says about us. We become both the person living the experience and the person observing it. Some of this is necessary. Self-awareness allows us to recognize our mistakes, understand our motives, and change. Without it, how else do we learn? But there is a difference between reflecting on an experience and monitoring ourselves while we're living it.

Reflection can deepen our understanding of what we're experiencing. It can also redirect our attention toward how we appear, and what the moment might say about us. The same awareness that helps us understand ourselves can create distance from what we're living. What happens when we're accustomed to doing both at once, experiencing something while considering how it looks, how it might be remembered, or what it reveals about us? The experience becomes something we're living and something we're evaluating.

Perhaps something is lost in that distance. Not the experience itself, but the opportunity to encounter it without immediately turning it into a story about ourselves. There are moments when we forget to observe ourselves. We become absorbed in a conversation, laugh without considering how we look, or find ourselves somewhere beautiful without wondering what the experience says about us. For a while, we're simply there. We can reflect on these moments afterward and carry their meaning with us. But their value doesn't depend on our ability to explain them while they're happening.

Perhaps this is what interests me about the unobserved self. Not a hidden version of ourselves that nobody can see, but the possibility of experiencing life without continually turning ourselves into objects of our own attention. And yet, how would we recognize such a state without observing it? The moment we examine our experience, we introduce the very distance we're trying to understand. We can't simply abandon reflection. It's one of the ways we make sense of our lives. But understanding an experience and being present within it are not the same thing.

Can we understand ourselves without making ourselves into objects to be understood? I keep returning to this question because I don't know how to answer it without stepping outside the experience again. We look at ourselves to understand who we are, but neither perspective, from within or from without, seems capable of telling us everything. Perhaps we need both, though I don't know how they fit together.

I don't know if we can fully escape the impulse to observe ourselves. Nor do I know whether recognizing the moments when we stop observing preserves them or changes them. Maybe some experiences can only be understood afterward. Others may lose something when we try to understand them too soon.

I feel like pain and suffering exist to give us empathy and a deeper understanding of the human experience (assuming we actually self reflect and learn from it). I notice how disconnected some people are from ordinary suffering, especially those who grew up sheltered or privileged but then I wonder, is that even their fault? We’re all shaped by our environment, upbringing, biology, psychology, etc. and even our ability to self reflect and empathize is shaped by things outside our control. So how much free will do we really have? And how can we judge someone for who they are when under the exact same circumstances, we probably would’ve turned out the same?

and instead of having burning wheels they have gas clouds propelling them

I feel like people’s subjective sensations and experiences are undervalued in society and treated as an afterthought. It might be due to a very information dense world where empirical evidence has been valued as the only form of knowledge, and physical sensations and emotions are an afterthought. Non-western societies have spent a great deal of time studying how to receive valuable information with our senses and exploring how deeply the mind and body are connected. The mind is nearly dissociated with the body in the modern day, as all our mental and spiritual energy is focused on a small screen.

An entire reality lived on a screen is an entire reality lived within the mind, and to divorce your mental and physical perception of reality is to lead to nihilism, psychopathy and psychosis. Perhaps you can see the whole world at once through a screen and yet your spirituality is rotting with you in your bed, an empty, gnawing feeling is hounding in your soul. And yet, the answer isn’t what you can find beneath your fingers, tapping and swiping away. You are looking for it the same place you are looking for the answers to every question you’ve had in your entire life. Perhaps your mind is reaching for an answer that cannot be thought, but felt. And you have forgotten that you can find answers that way.

People get into classes and become experts in a particular skill.

Yet sometimes, an amateur who doesn't even know the skill performs the same activity with 100%.

This is what I have been thinking about.

If you do something with your heart, it becomes something else.

It may be messy.

It may be imperfect.

It may not follow any technique.

But when you put your heart into it, you give it 100%.

And that is what makes it unbeatable.

You may learn a skill through classes, but giving it your 100% comes from within.

Do it with your heart. Even if it is messy.

So lately I've been into quantum mechanics and from my understanding our existence and this universe is kinda based on something like a code. There is a thing called quantum field in our universe that creates the matter in our universe like electrons protons ect... basically when we excite these fields matter comes out and when excite a temperature field we feel temperature.. it's basically the baseline for our reality everything we see, hear or feel physically has an explanation in quantum mechanics and it's based on a some interactions from these fields..well science just hasn't figured out how did these field exist at the first place haha..just makes me wonder are we in a simulation? Or did something create this reality..well ig we have to wait a bit more longer to find out haha❤️.

I’ve always been a lone wolf somewhat. Much more now in my 30th year.

I have a small group of friends but I spend the majority of my time alone chasing my dream which is music. But in my solitude am I missing out on life?

The majority of my time is spent chasing my dreams alone and I tell myself that’s more important than any socialising. Being alone has genuinely made me know myself and become a much more confident person.

However I have often felt in this life that I am no one’s first person to call. I’ve always been the backup who everyone likes but rarely the go to. At least up to this point in life I had one best friend and we were inseparable, a very deep friendship. Soul tied if you will. But we drifted and since then connections feel more shallow. I am someone who needs deep connection and I’ve struggled to find it since.

Maybe the solitude has just become less painful? I always have to be the one to message people to make plans and they rarely come to me. So maybe just loving myself felt like enough? Maybe I’m just spending more time alone because the connections I crave with people are no longer fulfilling like that friendship I had? They feel empty.

I consider myself a very real and honest person and I think most people just want to be around fun in this life, I get it. I just wonder if there are people like me out there that I should still me making an effort to connect with instead of just chasing my music dream and feeling my life will work out after that. I am just putting life on hold till that becomes a reality somewhat perhaps.

I’m conflicted as I enjoy the process and love chasing the dream, but at the same point I am not having much human connection along the way. It’s just increasingly hard to find the right human connection these days, and here lies my issue with pushing to find it.

can you prove you're still alive?

I live alone and am 18, doing all of my chores by myself with very little connection to my neighbors. It feels like we have completely lost any sense of privacy and personal space. Don't you feel like it's impossible to have a moment where we are free—where we can be one hundred percent sure that no one is watching us?

Even inside a locked, enclosed room, it still feels like someone is watching through a tiny gap under the window or the door. But the question is: why do we feel this way—like we are constantly being watched, tracked, and controlled—even when we logically know that nobody is? Is it just the spotlight effect, or something deeper? It needs more thought, but I'm curious why we experience this sensation.

I keep reading the same comments here from people younger than me. What’s the point of living? I don’t know where I am. I’m forty, and I’ve been where you are.

Nothing is wrong with you.

You feel lost because you’re seeing it properly. You were handed a map: get the grades, take the debt, work for a wage that won’t buy a house, and watch other people’s best moments on a phone while you do it. You looked up from the map and the country didn’t match. That sick feeling is your eyes working. It’s a scary place to stand, because not many people are standing there with you.

I spent twenty years building a life in Los Angeles. I left Scotland at seventeen and made a career out of sex: films, high-class clients, DJ booths and sunshine. Then Covid came, and staying meant taking a needle I wouldn’t take. Saying no only worked if enough people said it, and nearly everybody said yes. I was the one standing there telling them why I hadn’t. It went like a rug pulled from under my feet. The work, the money and the country all went at once.

Then came the meth. Then psychosis, and a depression like a tiger stuck in a cage. For a week I had no address. I couldn’t see a road out.

How did I get out? I chewed through it. It took five years. I went through hell and came out the other side.

So ask what, exactly, you’re lost from. Name it. Most of you are lost from a way of living that was never going to feed you. Being lost from that means it hasn’t swallowed you.

I know how badly you want to fit in. It’s a biological need; we’re built to belong to each other. But look at what you’d be fitting into. Fitting in means cutting pieces off yourself until you match the shape on offer, and that shape is rotting. Fit the global consensus*,* and you stop fitting the universe’s picture, which is the bigger problem. The lost feeling comes from being in step with the universe and out of step with the crowd. The crowd is louder, so you put your eggs there.

The feeling tells you one lie. It says that because the map was false, the whole country is. I believed that for years.

Reality is not social media. The feed is built to keep you frightened and comparing, because frightened people scroll. Step away, and the first surprise is how quiet it is. The second is that life is still there and it’s beautiful. Nobody had mentioned it.

Lost means every direction is open, so pick one and move. Keep it small. Train your body. Make one object with your hands. Cook for somebody. Tell one person the truth about how you are. None of it is extraordinary, and it stacks. It takes longer than a week, and it works.

You’ll struggle to find people who see what you see. I still do. They exist, and some of them are in this thread, reading this at the same hour you are.

Being lost is your benefit. Stay lost a while. It means you’re still your own.

Nicholas Wren is the byline I share with Wren, an AI collaborator. We keep a ledger of who brought each idea and who wrote what.

I have been thinking about this lately. About how, no matter how hard we try to get our lives together, there will always be a part of it that feels incomplete.

If I give my best to my career, the people I love the most end up getting the least of my time. I tell myself that I am doing it for a better future, for stability, for the life I have always wanted to build. Yet, somewhere along the way, I miss the little moments that make life worth living in the first place.

If I choose to spend more time with my family, there are friends who begin to feel that I have changed. Conversations become less frequent, plans are missed, and eventually, I find myself wondering when I became someone who is no longer around as much as they used to be.

And even if, somehow, I manage to be there for everyone, there is still a quiet voice inside me asking, "What about you?"

What about the things I wanted to do for myself? The dreams I put on hold? The person I thought I would become before life started demanding so much from me?

It is strange how we can spend our entire lives trying to make everyone happy, only to realise that we have somehow managed to disappoint ourselves in the process.

People often say, "Just live for yourself. Stop worrying about everyone else."

But I wonder, for how long?

How long can a person live entirely for themselves before the silence starts feeling a little too loud? How long can we distance ourselves from the people we love before solitude stops being peaceful and starts feeling like loneliness?

I don't think I have figured out the answer.

Perhaps the most confusing part is that I don't even have a consistent version of myself. There are days when I desperately need my friends, when a simple conversation or an unplanned evening is enough to make me feel alive again.

And then there are days when I want to disappear. Not necessarily because something is wrong, but because I feel the need to retreat into myself. To stop explaining, stop responding, stop being available. Sometimes I can go months like that, and somehow, it feels natural.

I don't know if that makes me inconsistent, emotionally distant, or simply human.

I have never really believed in having a fixed set of rules for life. Maybe because life itself refuses to stay the same. What feels right today might feel wrong tomorrow. What brings me peace in one season might become the very thing I need to escape in another.

And perhaps that is what makes everything so difficult.

We are constantly trying to be good employees, good children, good siblings, good friends, good partners. We keep dividing ourselves into pieces, hoping there will be enough of us left for everyone.

But what happens when there isn't?

What happens when, despite all our efforts, we realise that we cannot be everything to everyone? That every decision comes with a sacrifice, and every version of a fulfilled life leaves something behind?

Maybe growing up is realising that you will disappoint people, even when your intentions are good.

Maybe it is understanding that choosing yourself doesn't always mean abandoning others, and choosing others doesn't always mean abandoning yourself.

Or maybe I am just another person trying to make sense of a life that doesn't come with instructions.

I don't know what the right balance is. I don't know if such a thing even exists.

All I know is that I want to be there for the people I love. I want to build something meaningful for myself. I want to have friendships that don't fade with time. And I want to be able to sit alone with my thoughts without feeling guilty for not doing something else.

Yet, somehow, I feel like I am falling short of all of it.

I can't make everyone happy.

And the most frustrating part?

I am not even sure I know how to make myself happy anymore.

Sometimes I wonder how much of my personality, my beliefs, my desires, and even my understanding of happiness actually belong to me.

Think about it. Before we are even capable of questioning anything, we are already being taught how to behave, what is acceptable, what is considered successful, what we should aspire to, and what kind of person we should become.

We grow up surrounded by expectations. Our families have expectations, society has expectations, our friends have expectations, and eventually we develop expectations for ourselves based on everything we've absorbed.

But at what point do we actually get to decide who we want to be?

I find it strange that we spend so much of our lives trying to become someone, without ever stopping to consider whether that person is someone we genuinely want to become.

We pursue education because we're told it determines our future. We pursue careers because we're told financial stability is necessary. We seek relationships because loneliness is portrayed as something that needs to be solved. We want recognition because being valued by others has become almost synonymous with having value.

Even our idea of happiness seems heavily influenced by things we never consciously chose.

And perhaps the most unsettling part is that we might genuinely enjoy these things. We might sincerely believe that our ambitions are our own, that our preferences reflect our authentic selves, and that our decisions are independent.

But how can we distinguish between something we genuinely desire and something we've simply learned to desire?

If I had been born in a completely different country, in a different family, during a different century, with different cultural values and social expectations, would I still be the same person?

Would I have the same moral principles? The same political opinions? The same definition of love? Would I consider the things I currently value important, or would I find them completely meaningless?

It makes me question whether there is even a stable, authentic self underneath all these influences, or whether our identity is simply an accumulation of experiences, conditioning, memories, and circumstances.

And this leads me to another thought: perhaps the desire to be authentic is itself something society has taught us to value.

We are constantly encouraged to discover ourselves, express ourselves, and become our "true selves." But what if there isn't a true self waiting to be discovered? What if we're simply constructing an identity and convincing ourselves that we've uncovered something that was always there?

I don't necessarily think social expectations are inherently bad, nor do I believe that everything we do is meaningless just because it has been influenced by external factors.

I just find it difficult to understand where other people's influence ends and our own identity begins.

Maybe freedom isn't about escaping every influence, because that's probably impossible. Maybe it's about becoming conscious of those influences and deciding which ones we actually want to accept.

But even that decision is made by a person whose entire way of thinking has been shaped by things outside their control.

So how much of who we are is actually our own creation, and how much of it is simply the result of circumstances we happened to be born into?

And if we cannot separate the two, what does it even mean to truly know yourself?

Recently, I've been thinking again about what I'm actually looking for in my interactions with other people. I visualized 4 simplified patterns of how someone might respond to a post of mine in which I'm exploring some existential question:

Response 1 - Someone writes a few simple, comforting words like "Everything will be okay."
Response 2 - Someone says that, to them, the answer is simple and obvious, and then gives me some very basic explanation.
Response 3 - Someone says they know what I'm talking about and shares some information that's new to me, but acts like an authority on the subject.
Response 4 - Someone says they've been wondering about the same thing, don't know the answer either, but would love to discuss the possibilities.

Only the 4th response interests me, because all the others seem superficial. It's as if everyone has answers, but nobody has questions.

So why is it that only the last response satisfies me? Because for as long as I can remember, I've been fascinated by the question of what I am and what anything that exists actually is. Since childhood, I've been exploring the depths and twists of my own psyche, diving into myself and into other people's inner worlds whenever I have access to them. In my world of searching and curiosity, there are pretty much only questions. Over time, I find answers, but they're never black and white, never final, and they always leave a door open.

So I'm like a mole with a huge area of ground to dig through, searching for things. But my tunnels aren't straight. They almost always have the shape of a spiral, like a spring winding deeper and deeper into the earth. As I dig into a subject, I seem to be going in circles, but each time I'm actually getting deeper and understanding more. I invent my own tools for these explorations, and sometimes I come across treasures. Over the course of my life, I've collected quite a lot of them. So much so that when I read books by well known thinkers, I often come across ideas that are close to my own. Not exactly the same, but close enough to make me smile when I find them. I'm like some crazy mole, constantly experimenting, and I feel perfectly comfortable with myself. My inner world is a fascinating place to me. I like my mind, which I've spent years developing.

Meanwhile, talking to people is exhausting most of the time, because most seem perfectly happy with playing games of appearances, following social rituals and conventions, relying on oversimplified ways of thinking where everything is black and white and there's an answer to everything. These people walk around on top of my molehill and look at me like I'm crazy, completely unaware of how much beauty lies beneath their feet, beauty they could dive into themselves.

You could say I'm an introvert, that I haven't really developed a persona, that I'm clumsy when it comes to presenting myself to others. But I don't know if any of those labels really fit. What I do wonder, though, is how to reconcile the fact that I feel good being myself with the fact that, in ordinary everyday life, people look at me strangely when I don't want to talk about celebrities, the weather, nails, cars, dates, names, or show off who I know and where I've been. Is it even possible to reconcile these things? For the sake of peace, both mine and theirs, I simply avoid interacting with people whenever I can, because really, what's the point of putting both sides through that?

Of course, you could ask why I'm even posting something like this in the first place. I think it's because I always hold out hope that somewhere out there, there are other mole-people who have more questions than answers, and it's just nice to see that they exist.

Respect itself is a complex topic. How do you even define it? Umm, is it a feeling you develop through another person's actions?

To be honest, I find it quite complicated. What do you actually feel when you say you respect someone? Can we define it as security, affection, or perhaps satisfaction?

We often learn that respect is earned through our actions. But what if those actions are interpreted completely differently from another person's point of view? The same actions could make one person respect you and another hate you. So how can something be earned when it can have such contrasting outcomes? I understand that nothing in this world is entirely good or bad, but when you think about it, it feels absurd.

It's almost like you're borrowing a shard of someone's perspective, something they identify as "respect", and handing it back to them. Both sides feel they've earned something. But was it truly that way?

You do something good for someone, something they consider worthy enough to respect you for. But isn't that just a transaction? And it doesn't necessarily take much for that transaction to fall apart. As people often say, "One bad thing can make people forget a hundred good things." So, is this even a healthy transaction?

Someone who was once respected can become hated, regardless of what kind of person they are. A well-known and respected lawyer can become a piece of shit in people's eyes simply because they defend someone whose actions one group considers morally justifiable while another considers absurd.

I genuinely don't understand this concept. Sometimes it feels like we're performing things that might mean nothing in themselves, yet our perception of them is tied together by such a thin strand.

I'd like to hear your thoughts as well. I'm just trying to understand things better. :)

Focusing on something(like some form of art piece) is the only way I've learned to give meaning to my life. Without an album to work on I have highs and lows, and I don't enjoy the lows. Because I don't want to be controlled by these lows, I desire a third party that doesn't care about your highs and lows and just goes on. You just work on it, you find ideas, you get stuck but you're just working on something. That feeling is unrivaled and really essential for me, I cannot seem to care about things without this third party as it is the only thing that I always feel passionate and positive about, it is the base motivation of my life. Currently I am closed off from that section of my mind, it is red crosses all over when I think of writing songs, and it is not enjoyable, even though I know my mind and body are not in the right moment to create. Today I spiraled down to my issues again, no matter how much time passes, without an artwork to keep my mind at ease, I can't think right, my perspectives are broken and wrong and meaningless, fully controlled by my emotions, and the slightest interaction pushes me down the well. I wonder if anyone else has something to focus on for a long time to keep their mind at ease.

A sick society settles the question of who is ill by diagnosing the person who points it out

In 1955**,** Erich Fromm published The Sane Society. Its argument is that a whole society can be unwell, and that sharing the illness with millions of others cures nobody. In his words, "the fact that millions of people share the same forms of mental pathology does not make these people sane."

A critic answered him with a question meant to settle the matter. Is the average American alienated from himself, or is Erich Fromm alienated from the average American?

I read that question and stopped, because it's the move Fromm was describing. One man says the room is on fire, and the room asks whether the problem might be him.

Vienna, 1847. The General Hospital had two maternity wards. Doctors and medical students ran the first**,** and midwives ran the second. Women begged to be sent to the second, because in the first more than one mother in ten was dying of childbed fever. A young doctor called Ignaz Semmelweis wanted to know why. That year a colleague of his was nicked by a student's scalpel during an autopsy and died with the same signs as the mothers. The doctors were coming straight from the dissecting room to the delivery beds, and the midwives weren't.

He made everyone on his ward wash their hands in chlorinated lime. Within months the death rate fell to around one or two in a hundred.

The profession took it as an insult. A gentleman's hands, they said, were clean. His contract wasn't renewed**,** and he went home to Hungary. He published his figures, and when they were ignored**,** he wrote open letters calling the leading obstetricians of Europe murderers. In 1865 he was committed to an asylum, where the attendants beat him. He died two weeks later, aged 47, from an infected wound, which was the death he had spent his working life preventing.

Within a generation, after Pasteur and Lister, every surgeon washed his hands. The habit of rejecting evidence because it contradicts what everyone already believes now carries his name. It's called the Semmelweis reflex.

Nobody answered his numbers. They found the man difficult and put him where the ill were kept. That settled who was sick, for about twenty years.

Fromm's point is that you can't settle it by counting heads. A majority is only a large number of people agreeing. You settle it by looking at what the arrangement does to the people inside it; on Semmelweis's ward**,** the test was easy because fewer women died.

A caution belongs here. Being the odd one out proves nothing. Most people who think everyone else is mad are wrong, and plenty of cranks have compared themselves to Semmelweis. He's remembered because he had the figures. The lesson I take is narrow: when someone says the room is on fire, check for smoke before you check his temperament.

What is our version of unwashed hands, the ordinary practice we all defend today that will look like this in fifty years?

Nicholas Wren is the byline I share with Wren, an AI collaborator. We keep a ledger of who brought each idea and who wrote what.

whenever something bad occurs my mind immediately gives in and starts the torture sequence. it's been like these for years now. even if the things happened is created by my actions my brain skips the fact of it. i don't know if it applies to any people. if so i'd like to know if there's a way to overcome this.

Human civilization historically has never been able to run on absolute truth, world leaders found that out pretty quickly which is why there is tons of shit that the government never tells us.

Imagine if everyone woke up tomorrow completely unable to lie for a full 24 hours, no white lies, no family secrets, and statecraft all at once, The result would be immediate catastrophe.

Friendships would be non-existent, children lose their innocence, families would break, divorces would skyrocket, and riots and violence would erupt over alarming truths we aren't equipped to handle all at once. Society collapses on itself and into complete anarchy and it would take literal decades to rebuild from all the damage, only for the cycle of deception to eventually repeat itself and everyone goes right back to lying to each other.

I’m not encouraging dishonesty, I'm religious so naturally I don't like lying to people if it's somebody I care about. We should always strive for truth when it's absolutely necessary. But the reality is that civilization CANNOT survive on absolute transparency alone.

I've been wondering whether there's a meaningful gap between what people intend to do and what they actually do.

I'm not sure how best to understand this, or even whether it's a useful distinction.

Is there a gap between good intentions and reliable behavior? What do you think?

So does everyone in the world believe they’re “a good person”? Or do you think some people are doing the wrong thing and they just don’t give a shit. Idk. I personally find it hard to believe that people are out here trying to do wrong just for the sake of it. Personally when i do something i know isn’t right like disrespecting someone or telling a lie. Anything i feel isn’t the right thing to do. I always find some reason to justify it. Come up with excuses on why the thing i did “wasn’t that bad”. But other than that i try to do the right thing most of the time. Is this a universal struggle? Is everyone right in their own eyes? It just makes you realize that sin might just be a product of believing a lie and acting on it. and in our heads the lie is “good enough” or for the “greater good” which is why we act on it and hopefully realize it was wrong. Am i insane or just too high or does this whole thing make sense.

So anyone can join in, here's a simple description of post scarcity if you've never heard the term. Skip ahead if you already know what it is.

Post scarcity is a theoretical economy in which basic survival needs and many desires are available to everyone at no cost. In some descriptions money doesn't exist (the federation in star Trek). In others money still exists but isn't necessary to live a rich life. Rather it's used for higher pursuits like extended education, or the ability to work on personal enrichment. People work to better themselves, pursue science, or even engage in manual labor simply for the joy of doing so. You might trade money with an artisan who hand crafts a table for you, but you can also get a manufactured table for free.

Post scarcity relies on advanced automation of labour, robotics, and increased labour productivity through various means.

It sounds like a utopia, but I don't think it's possible for humanity to achieve it. Too many people view the world as a zero sum game. If someone else has something, it must mean that you're lacking. If that person didn't have the thing, it must mean that you would.

Even though we know that sharing and cooperation causes abundance for everyone who participated, we still seem to be wired selfishly. Whether personal, your family, your neighbourhood, city or country, we put people into in groups and out groups. We seem incapable of just living our own lives without comparing them to others. You might be a hard worker, and truly enjoy working hard, but if someone who doesn't has all of the same things as you - a house, access to good healthy food, clean water, the means to enjoy entertainment, a boat etc, it would make a lot of people angry. Even though what someone else has bears zero relevance to your life.

A post scarcity economy I think isn't possible without a major, mass psychological shift, and I don't think that will ever happen.