Does anyone else feel that leaning and knowing how to cook destroys wanting to go to a restaurant? There are things we make at home where I cringe having at any restaurant even high end!
Wow, woke up to over 1,000 unread replies! Thank you to everyone who joined the discussion, shared their perspectives, and threw in their two cents.
Reading through the comments, I want to clarify a major point that keeps coming up: This was never about high-end or Michelin-starred restaurants.
Comparing a solid home-cooked meal to a Michelin-star establishment completely misses the point. Those places are a totally different thing—it's like Disney or Las Vegas. You go for the spectacle, the theater, and the massive production value. Just like Vegas, the magic would completely vanish (and you'd be broke) if you treated that level of dining like everyday fast food.
My post was about the everyday reality of dining out: the casual, mid-tier restaurants, neighborhood spots, and generic chains where prices have skyrocketed while quality has plummeted. Once a home cook masters basic techniques—like proper heat control, building a pan sauce, or hitting exact internal cooking temperatures—the illusion of paying $30 to $50 for a mediocre restaurant entrée completely shatters.
I'm not trying to compete with a team of twenty chefs preparing a sixteen-hour tasting menu. I'm just pointing out that with a little skill and effort, you can easily outclass the vast majority of standard commercial kitchens on any given weeknight.
Thanks again for the incredible discussion!
And one more thing:
Since some of the "Reddit geniuses" in the comments keep complaining that home cooking fails when it comes to "labor-intensive" meals, let’s clear that up too.
You don't need to babysit a dish for 10 to 12 hours straight. If you actually understand kitchen logistics and basic project management, you just split the prep into manageable steps over a series of days.
For example, when making something like a seafood marinara or drunken noodles:
Day 1: Steam the seafood and freeze it.
Day 2: Prepare the sauce from scratch and prep the remaining fresh ingredients.
Day 3: Assemble and cook.
By breaking it down, no single step ever takes more than a couple of hours. It strips the chaos out of high-effort meals and makes them completely attainable. If you're trying to do a massive, multi-component dish all at once on a Tuesday night, you're just creating your own nightmare. Work smarter, not harder.