I've had a few "mommies" reach out after I posted an ad and they all inevitably ask where I live, favorite color, animal, name, all that junk.

They all have little to no karma with very few posts. They're bots, don't give them any info.

So, first of all, I’m a little buzzed.

I’ve never done this whole diaper baby thing in person even though everyone tells me, I’d name the best mom.

This post isn’t about that. I can’t tell my friends this because they don’t know I’m secretly curious to have a baby living in my house. Even with my 2 sons here but nobody in this group is local.

Anyways, I was at a bar tonight celebrating my friend’s birthday. I was talking to this guy. Must have been maybe 22. We were talking blah blah blah when he said he was gonna show me something on his phone. He swiped a little too far and showed me a picture of him dressed like a baby. I was like hold on, go back. He tried telling me it was a joke and he lost a bet. I asked him “are you a diaper baby?” But he didn’t know what to say. He kept insisting it was a joke or a prank and he said please don’t tell my friends.

I told him not to worry. He was literally shaking.

I told him I’ve been trying to be a mommy. He smiled and showed me pictures of him dressed like a baby. He was adorable.

We exchanged numbers. I doubt I’ll ever hear from him again but I can’t believe I met a diaper baby at the bar.

Just wanted to share lol

In 2013 I was 23 had been alone for years and years. I thought no one would ever love me or understand me because of my fetish. I doubted I would ever be able to open up to someone about the way I am and was ashamed of myself. Im an abdl boy and I wanted a mommy soooo bad. To be honest I was in a pretty dark and depressed place far as mental health is concerned. But then I found this sub and decided to start searching. Every once in a while I'd find myself scrolling through post to see if anything match what I was looking for and location. Didn't find anything at all for months. But on the day after Thanksgiving I find a post from an abdl girl who was my age, and live 1.5 hours away from me. Not exactly close but doable. And she was looking for a daddy, not a baby boy, but what the heck, let's message her and see what happens anyway! We ended up chatting for a few weeks, then skyping for a few more weeks, then finally agreeing to meet in person. I agreed to be daddy for a play session at her college dorm. Not exactly my cup of tea, but abdl girls are sexy as hell and I'll try anything once so why not! Omg guys, we hit it off so well! I'd never connected so quickly with someone before. We spent all day together, and when we finally did do some abdl play I had a lot of fun as daddy! Plus she thought it would be a fun idea to switch!!! 😍 She agreed to baby me the next time we played. Well long story short, I drove down there every weekend for a year, then we moved in together, and after a few more years we got married. We just celebrated our second anniversary. We are still just as abdl as ever and switch all the time. Sometimes I'm Daddy and she's cupcake, and sometimes she's mommy and I'm little one. We're hoping to have our first kid soon. I guess I just wanted to come back to the subreddit that changed my life and introduced me to the love of my life. Thank you so much r/abdlpersonals! I legitimately how no idea how my life would have turned out if it weren't for this sub. And to anyone who was like me, alone for years and about to lose hope and maybe in a dark place like I was, please don't give up. There's always hope.

Do you have this urge to just let everything go and be free of responsibilities? Do you wish there was someone who would take care of everything you did, what you eat, where you sleep, when you use bathroom, when you take a bath, when you get to cum? Do you wish mommy would powder your little ass and put you in diaper and then make you lay on her tummy and latch on her nipples? Do you wish to have food from a sippy cup? Do you crave pacifiers? Do you want to let go of all worries and just play with all the toys mommy got you? Do you wish you had a mommy to bath with? The one who would make you the prettiest boy? If you answered yes then you're at the right place. And you know I think I'd definitely start with replacing all solid food with liquid one, then telling you to latch on my nipples if you get hungry, I would make you crawl, have you sleep on my tummy, hold you on my hip and roam around with you, train you to pee in your diaper, cook dinner while you play, cuddle with you, when you get too pissy then I'd give you your paci, dress you up in girls clothes, give you bath and put your diaper on

If you're interested in idea of being regressed and being totally dependent on mommy then drop me a message. Mommy will be waiting for you.

Kinks : Edging, regression, pegging, abdl, lactation, chastity, yadda yadda

Limits : UNDERAGE, beastality and scat

A little bit about me:

I’m a 31F who is extremely hypersexual - so expect nautiness most of the time. I love diapers, anal, female chastity & orgasm control. I play video games and just found one that I think could help me regress! Ive never fully regressed & I want to sooo bad 🫠

What I’m looking for:

Friends who can keep up with me, match my kinks, and want to stay around!

I look forward to hearing from you!

Hello littles, middles, bigs, DLs and anyone else! Welcome to 2025! Below, you’ll find answers to common questions and tips to help you stay safe and meet wonderful people!

What is Reddit Karma, and How Do I Get It?

Karma is a measure of your contributions to Reddit. It’s earned when your posts or comments are upvoted by other users. On r/ABDLPersonals, having a certain amount of karma is a requirement to post, as it helps ensure that users are engaged members of the Reddit community and not bots or scammers. The threshold is very low (I won't type the exact number, but anyone should be able to get it very quickly. A single good comment will do.)

Here are some quick ways to earn karma:

• Participate in discussions: Join conversations in your favorite subreddits. Leave thoughtful comments and engage respectfully.

• Post quality content: Share interesting, relevant, or helpful posts in communities that align with your interests.

• Upvote and interact: Be active by voting and responding to others’ content.

Avoid trying to game the system. Posting spam or low-effort content can hurt your reputation and even lead to bans.

What is R4R, and Why is It Required?

R4R stands for "Redditor for Redditor." It’s a shorthand for subreddits designed for personal ads, like finding friends, relationships, or specific connections. Requiring posts to follow an R4R format ensures clarity, safety, and consistency within our community.

You are required to put your age and the gender you identify as in your title. It must be in the format AGE [R4R]. For me, as a 36-year-old, I would put 36 [NB4A] to indicate I am non-binary and looking for anyone. Your title should also include something about what you're looking for or witty humor or something.

To use myself as example again: 36 [NB4A] Let's build Legos and watch Bluey in the PNW!

Otherwise, an effective personals post includes:

• Your general location (like a city, state, region, major metro, whatever)

• What you’re looking for (e.g., friends, relationships, or specific dynamics)

• A bit about you (interests, personality traits, or hobbies)

• Details you’re comfortable sharing that might be pertinent to any potential partners.

Remember, R4R is about creating connections. This means your post should not only describe yourself but also clearly outline the kind of person you are hoping to attract. By being specific and considerate, you’re more likely to find meaningful and compatible matches. Don't forget the human on the other side. If you want a mommy to change your diaper for you, you need to explain what they're getting out of it. Relationships will are two ways.

How to Spot and Avoid Scams

Unfortunately, scammers are prevalent in personals communities. They often pose as caregivers, mommies, or daddies offering services, but their real goal is to take advantage of others. Here are red flags to watch for:

• Demanding money upfront: Real connections don’t come with a price tag. Be wary of anyone asking for payment via gift cards, PayPal, or other platforms before building trust.

• Too good to be true: If someone’s offering a perfect fantasy without effort, it’s probably a scam.

• Rushed interactions: Scammers often push for quick decisions, emotional appeals, or private chats outside Reddit.

• Poor grammar or copy-paste messages: These can be signs of low-effort scams.

If you suspect someone is a scammer, report their account immediately to the moderators. Never share sensitive personal information with strangers and always prioritize your safety. If it sounds to good to be true, it probably is. Do not pay money for any services or anyone who reaches out as a result of a post here.

We’re Here to Help!

If you have any questions or concerns, feel free to reach out to the mod team. We're volunteers so it might take a bit for us to respond. Don't be discouraged. We get a lot of mails that we have to sort through.

This subreddit is designed to be a safe, supportive, and enjoyable space for connecting with others in the ABDL community. Thank you for helping us maintain that standard!

Stay safe and happy posting!

I saw his post here one day and thought he sounded like a nice fit, even though the age difference was a concern. Turns out, it was more a concern for me than him or even his family! We built a beautiful relationship over the following months, falling effortlessly into our roles of mama and baby. There was no reason for us to wait any longer, we wanted to get married. We got married with his father as the witness and went on a magical honeymoon. Our life has been bliss ever since. Even the most difficult problems feel like nothing to us.

You aren’t wasting your time here. We both looked and looked for so long. Both ready to give up. Sometimes all it takes is a little faith, trust, and a little something else. Something magic.

DM me if you have questions or want to know more.

hi! looking for some abdl friends! i’m a life long abdl and would love to find some friends who can relate! bonus points if you’re a gamer too! i prefer people around my age, but a little older isn’t a problem! also, please don’t be weird or rude! you’ll def not get a reply that way 🥴

So recently I've seen an influx of fake caregivers on here. So here are some tips to weed these scammers out.

1. Check their post history. Is there only posts saying they are looking for someone with no comments or messages that say message me I am a mommy or daddy etc. That is a red flag

2. There account brand new created only minutes ago red flag. This shows they have probably tried before and failed.

3. They start asking to switch messengers especially to ones that they can see your real phone number. This is for blackmailing if they have your phone number they can look you up. Reddit messenger or kik is good.

4. If they claim they are from somewhere and then say something that counters that previous statement it means they can't keep up with their own lies.

5. Their English is grammatically incorrect. I'm not saying English just isn't there first language but I mean the type of English in spam emails.

6. And last but not least, money. They start asking for money just run block and report and move on.

I know it's hard being a little I am one too and we are all searching for love but downfall prey to the predators let's look out for one another.

Sorry for formatting I am on my phone.

My names Lydia. I’m 23f switch and bisexual.

I am mainly interested in a baby that will let me be completely obsessive with them. I am looking for short term online, open to longer conversation but not a relationship

I am not a 100% sweet pampering mommy but not a black leather mommy with a whip, I like to embarrass and control but I will take care of you. I fall somewhere in the middle. I love you but can get a little aggressive in a fair way.

My main kinks: abdl, diapers, ageplay, forced regression, feminization, breastfeeding, humiliations, taboo, I liked to be called mommy.

Turn offs: messing (sorry) copy and pasted messages, trying to switch your dynamic role to impress other people, and small talk.

:)

hey, nice to meet you all! i’m in search of a Mommy, Daddy, or a couple to be their baby girl. diapers are a huge part of what i like, so i’m mainly looking for someone else to enjoy them with. whether it’s in the bedroom, or just casually hanging out, i’m looking for someone to keep me in my diaper. my ideal relationship would be with someone i can connect with on a vanilla level, i value getting to know others as a person rather than just their kinky selves. i'm looking for a mommy that’s older than me, but my ideal daddy must be 20-35.

kink wise diapers come first, but i love bondage. i love the idea of being forced into submission, so the more restraints, the better. i’m looking for someone who can enforce strict rules, but i also wouldn’t mind a loving and caring CG. i love the idea of doing chores in thick diapers and restraints all day in return of love and support from a caregiver. i also just love the idea of going on padded adventures with another DL. i’m honestly up for a lot as long as i’m padded 😂

regarding my vanilla self i’m a very busy and independent girl. i recently moved to Florida to follow my own path and my job keeps me focused on what i want in a future career. i would consider myself unique, the more you get to know me the more you’ll discover a lot about my personality! i love movies and shows and hanging out with friends, as i got a couple of friend groups that i love to hang with everyday. i always see the good in everyone first, and i love getting to know others. that being said, i would love to hear from you, especially if you are local! due to work it may take me longer than i would like to get back to you but i would appreciate your patience :)

Hey there!

I’m a 24 year old girl from Germany and a switch who’s been missing letting her Mommy side shine again. I want to live out both my loving, caring side and my strict, guiding Mommy energy. I’m looking for a fit, cute boy or femboy (18+) who would enjoy being spoiled, cared for, and gently or not so gently put in his place.

I have a variety of kinks I’m happy to discuss openly in chat. I’m very open minded and nearly everything is on the table. We can start by getting to know each other a bit and chatting, or jump straight into it if the vibe feels right. Your pace and comfort always come first.

Everything can stay completely private and in confidence. That said, I would personally love it if you could send me pictures of your diapers/outfits for checks (head and face don’t have to be visible at all, privacy is important) but if sending pictures is a no-go for you, that’s totally fine and not a problem at all.

If this sounds like something for you, send me a message and tell me a little about yourself and what you’re looking for.

All of that online at first!

Helloowww ABDL friends! I'm looking for gaming padded friends!

About myself: I'm a 5'5" girl, 125lbs who absolutely loves diapers! My MBTI (personality test for those who know) is ENFP and my little age is 0-2 and I do use my diapers both ways hehe Always been into diapers and such as long as I can remember, never knew why though haha I have a tendency to always chew on my pacis and chewing toys so you might hear me do that if we end up gaming together lol

My hobbies: I like to write, Draw and read, gaming (ofc), Collecting plushies (I got a huge collection!), I loveeee hearing about conspiracy theories, though I do take them with a grain of salt hahaha. Also a big horror fan! Really into lost medias atm :3

Games I play: I play League Of Legends the most so bonus points for ya if you do play that game as well! I also play: Pokemon, Osu, Minecraft, Dead By Daylight and more! Just bought a gaming pc, so I'm very open to try new games! :3

I'm looking mostly for friends, but maybeeeee more if we get along well (pleaseeee don't be a creep!)

Ta daaaa! I hope some of yall would like to be friends with me! :3

If you wanna get my attention over text, be interesting! Ask me questions, talk about your interests, your life goals or even show me a picture of your pet! I love animals hehe :3

For the past three months I have been chatting with a AB/DL from Texas. Very well mannered for him being 2 years old, wanting and needing a Daddy.

I flew to Texas this past week and spent the most wonderful week with him. There was plenty of kissing, huggs, cuddles, diaper changes all interspersed between an excursion to the zoo, NASA, the aquarium, the boardwalk, and a nice stroll in the park.

I can hardly wait to meet up with my boi again!

While he was driving us, he could tell that I was daydreaming a bit and asked what I was thinking of. And I told him I was trying to envision what life would look like two years from now with him, some dogs, a back yard with a nice vegetable garden.

So the moral of the story is, look for someone who will meet not just your sexual needs, but your emotional and intellectual needs as well. Don't be picky in that they have to tick each and every box on your requirements list.

Hi there~

I've been looking to chat with people that share similar interests to mine (namely, diapers!) because it's fun and I love meeting new people.

I joined a kink-oriented Discord server but it seems like not many ABDLs are on there, so I figured I'd try here instead :) I don't like chatting on Reddit because I end up accidentally ghosting people due to not checking it as often as Discord, so if possible just message me there directly!

Babies, diaper lovers, caregivers, bullies, all welcome 💕

@eepy_._sleepy

hiii!! thanks for reading!

getting this out of the way first: i am monogamous and childfree seeking the same. cause i’m the only baby we need 😇 hehe please be in or near NC, or at least able to travel often/within a few hours time-wise as i’m needy for lots of attention! also not seeking online only so IRL is the goal, either me relocating to you or vice versa.

sooo i’ve been in denial for quite some time, but I definitely think i’m an ABDL little, aged 0-4ish

by day, i am a Supervisor who is always in control.

by night, i tend to fall into being baby and wanting onesies, paci, etc… it’s my dream to find a Daddy who will make me be a baby (forced/restrained abdl is the best). i crave to be little as much as possible. i love teddy bears/stuffies. carebears and hello kitty. anything colorful/pastel/rainbow.

i want a Daddy sooo bad but i am not wanting to rush, and am trusting that my future Daddy will know how to grab my attention appropriately.

sadists are my favorite - i absolutely love being reminded how dumb and helpless i am without a daddy to do and think for me. <3 i also super duper loveeeee praise! happy to discuss other kinks once we talk further.

looking for someone 32+. please be mean to me daddy 🥰 i’m only a teeny bit bratty!!

(bearded/alt daddies to the front of the line!! hehe)

Hiii! I’m Bella, your friendly neighborhood neuroscience girl who spends half her time studying brains and the other half trying to recharge mine. I love working out, reading spooky books, and curling up with comfort shows when I want to feel small and safe.

I’m mostly a DL, that’s where I feel the most comfortable. I have not really tried diapers yet, but I have used Goodnites and I have only tried a small sample from Little for Big. I really want a daddy who will be patient, caring, and actually there to help me explore everything at my own pace. I am naturally cuddly, a little bratty in a cute way, and very affectionate once I feel safe.

I am hoping to connect with someone who is emotionally steady, nurturing, and protective in a calm, grounded way. If you like sweet energy, playful banter, and soft intimacy, say hiiii.

And please do not message me if you plan to waste my time.

I’m a Trans Mommy who is looking for my little. I do like to wear and could be open to switching roles. But mainly play the Mommy role :) I want a baby whom I could control , fuck him wherever and whenever you want, and use him for my pleasure :)

Specific kink interests include ABDL (obviously), diapers, light BDSM, rewards / punishments, etc. I find the nurturing / intimate dynamic with a little really fulfilling, and while I definitely default to the more gentle, uplifting, and supportive style of play, I'm also well-equipped to handle bratty behaviour with discipline and punishments that are appropriate to the little's age and behaviour. :)

I appreciate your time in reading this, Connect with me if your interested. hope you have a wonderful night/day 💜

We are a bisexual couple looking for a baby prince. We are looking for someone who understand the difference between scene and out of scene situations. Who doesnt mind mild humiliation. Understands the importance of safe words and consent. We would like to bond with you as a human and an adult for a little bit before we bond as mommy and baby. We want to know you. This is important. Now mommy works swing shift so her schedule is a little late nights later mornings. That type of thing. Please dm me and we shall chat more. Please be in the King county Snohomish county area of Washington state.

Something really strange happened to me... I pooped in my pampers on the train🤭🎀

A woman in the 4 seat opposite looked at her son and asked if he needed a new diaper 😅 Oops...

As the title says, I’m a mommy who really wants to have a diaper boy. I LOVE humiliating rules and will require photos of your diaper. Please don’t message me if you’re not willing to do so.

I walk into your nursery, unsurprised that you’re still sleeping. We keep the blackout curtains pulled for many reasons, but one of them is that the sun wakes you up, and that makes you a fussy baby. You much prefer Mommy to wake you up, so you can greet her like the sweet baby you are.

I lower the rails of your crib and kneel down beside you. You’re on your tummy, little diapered bum up in the air, legs and arms neatly tucked beneath your onesied torso. A soft little snore escapes your lips, and I start to stroke your hair.

”Good morning, little one,” I say softly. “Mr. Sun is up, so it’s time for Baby to wake up.”

You whimper, instinctively fisting around the crib sheet, finally finding a stuffie. You cover your eyes with the bunny’s ears, though the only source of light is your nightlight. It’s a dramatic reaction, but it pales to the moment when you realize that your paci isn’t in your mouth. Your whimpers become cries in earnest, but instead of searching for your paci, you reach for me with both hands, fingers fisting at my nursing gown.

”Okay, Baby, Mommy’s here,” I assure you, climbing into your crib next to you and unhooking the strap of my nursing gown. I grasp my bared breast and guide my nipple into your whining mouth, and it’s greeted with the silence of concentration as you hungrily suckle at my breast. “There’s my hungry baby,” I whisper, cradling you close in my arms. “Mommy’s always got milky for her baby.”

I feel the familiar sensation of my milk letting down, and think over the past few years of our marriage. I’d always been the motivated one, the ambitious one. I’d made VP at my company before you became store manager at your little retail outlet. You’d always been a bit submissive, more in need of a maternal love that could guide you than a wifely love that would submit you.

You admitted to your love for diapers first. Of course, I always loved to have my breasts sucked, so once I was changing you, it didn’t take long for you to convince me to lactate for you.

And now here we are. Our lives revolve around keeping you diapered by my hands and fed by my breasts. Now I work from home—hey, being CEO has its perks—and you get to be Mommy’s little baby all the time. Sometimes I wonder how much further we can take it—it’s pretty extreme already. I rarely indulge you in enjoying my pussy, and we only sleep in the same bed when you’re sick and need Mommy.

You gently bite my swollen nipple, a ploy to get my attention since I’ve gotten lost in thought and thus stopped giving you sufficient attention. I respond by kissing your forehead and ruffling your hair, gently playing with your hair and massaging your scalp while you breastfeed. “Mommy’s baby is so hungry,” I coo, kissing your little nose. My hand travels to your back to rub it soothingly. You coo back, your lips spreading into a smile around my breast, your fingers gently twirling in my long hair like you’re fascinated by it. “That doesn’t mean you should bite Mommy, though,” I continue, giving your hair a patient kiss. “You gotta be a good baby for Mommy.”

You’ll never wake up at this pace, so I use my phone’s home app to slowly open the curtains, letting the light into the nursery. You fuss a little and try to burrow your face into my breast, but I shush you and cuddle you close, speaking to you in a baby voice. “It’s just Mr. Sun,” I soothe you, still rubbing your back. “Mr. Sun is so excited to see you. Don’t you want to wave hello at Mr. Sun?”

You give a half hearted wave at the window as you nurse, but it only distracts me by focusing my attention on your onesie. It’s a familiar sight, of course—a wet, swollen, soggy diaper is no unusual happening in our house.

But you’ve never ever woken up wet before, and I know it’s not fresh—otherwise I would have heard the soft hissing of urine in your diaper.

I gently place my hand on your squishy diaper as you nurse, pressing it so you can feel the heavy wetness. “Baby? Did you have an accident while you were night-night?”

Don’t message me if you don’t think you can match this level of writing. My limits are rape, abuse, violence, blood, and vomit.

Im not new to ABDL but am new to interacting with the community online! I want some people to talk to who understand what im going through and to chat with about both diapers and regular stuff. I’m almost entirely a DL but enjoy a few AB things. Feel free to reach out!

Please can all the desperate horny idiots stop responding to all the VERY obvious bot posts.

I know this kink is often very sexualised by both individuals and the community, but COME ON ITS NOT HARD TO SPOT THE FAKE PROFILES!!

Understandably it’s just the guys who want to get off, and not people who actually want connections and friendships, but it’s getting embarrassing now.