r/Mindfulness • u/SinisterAF • Oct 23 '20
r/Mindfulness • u/januaryashes • Jan 15 '21
′′The Weight of Thought′′ - sculpture by Thomas Lerooy.
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u/Shawn_SoberShift
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3d ago
Insight My morning is how I start winning the day 1yr 42dys alcohol free and 5yrs drug free
My morning is how I start winning the day 1yr 41dys alcohol free and 5yrs drug free
Good morning, family.
I've been thinking about how much my mornings decide the rest of my day. When I was drinking and drugging, my mornings were about recovering from the night before, and everything after that was just damage control. Now I get to build them on purpose.
I'm learning that a better life isn't one big change. It's a lot of small ones stacked up. Getting out of bed when I said I would. Making my bed. Drinking water before anything else. A few minutes of quiet before the world starts asking things of me. None of it looks like much, but it's me proving that I keep my word to myself.
The old habits don't disappear just because I'm sober. They show up at the same times they always did, and the quiet moments are the dangerous ones. So I'm replacing them instead of just fighting them. Every time I choose a better habit in the spot where the old one lived, the old one gets a little weaker.
I'm not perfect at it. Some mornings are slow, and some days I fall short of the plan. I don't throw the whole thing out when that happens. I pick it back up the next morning, because showing up again is the habit that matters most.
For the moments when a craving hits, I built a small tool with breathing and a 20-minute timer, since most cravings peak and fade inside that window. I only have to outlast 20 minutes, not the whole day. Happy to tell you more if you're curious.
Build the morning you want, and the rest of the day gets easier to handle.
What's one small thing you do in the morning that sets you up for a good day?
One day forward, one day behind.
Shawn
r/Mindfulness • u/[deleted] • May 04 '21
Why are you scrolling? Are you aware of your intentions of being on Reddit right now, or are you on autopilot?
Just your daily checkpoint to take a breather if you need it. If you chose the latter, just bring your awareness back to your surroundings
Have a great day 🌞
r/Mindfulness • u/meanbean005 • Mar 27 '20
Gotta relax that jaw and the skin on your forehead
r/Mindfulness • u/Omega_Neelay • Apr 12 '23
If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change
r/Mindfulness • u/Im30percntKettlecorn • Apr 12 '20
When I catch myself in the self-abuse loop, compassion is the escape hatch.
r/Mindfulness • u/Dovahkiin9101 • Apr 13 '20
A friendly reminder to not be too hard on yourself for thinking in certain ways :)
r/Mindfulness • u/[deleted] • May 19 '20